     Sencerity | Friday, April 13, 2001 - 03:35 pm
This posting is in no way one of encouragement or instructive means of educating you in any way so be relaxed in you attitude towards the content.
There is so much talk of love, duty, right and wrong. There is never any address of the underlying cause of the problem as far as this subject is concerned!
1. There is an inbuilt human need to reproduce and this process of reproduction unfortunatly does not give anyone a choice. You reach a certain age and like a time bomb you start ticking away. we are not animals hence we are expected to behave differently and follow certain codes of conduct with respect to reproduction. Hmmm you say what has lust to do with reproductuction? well the sextual needs and subsequent reward one gets from intercourse are a part of the mechanism to inbuilt with in humans so as to ensure that reproduction continues.
2. If one did manage to over come the chemical enfluences from within their body, that is not the end of it for they also have to over come the external enfluences from the world around them, i.e. seeing members of the opposite sex, graphicaly in appropriate material constantly being forced on them from advertisements and movies and every thing else.
With so much pressure and so few means to deal with the problem it is surprising that many males have the courage to abstain from having sex where ever they can get it from.
There is defenately more pressure on the males then there is on the females.
Every one has different veiw of it and experiences differing levels of discomfort from this process, but the following is what it feels like at times!
Sometimes i wakeup and it is as if all the blood in my body has delibrately migrated to below my waste. It is very hard to piss in that state so you can stand over the toilet bowl for a length of time waiting for the swelling to go down a little. Reason being that the penis is designed so that when you have an errection it is impossible to urinate, i think this is to stop urination in the wrong places!
At time you could get an unexpected blood migration to the south while on a bus or on a train and irrespective of your company it happens without your consent. Your errection is most visible and can at time get a little emparassing. I sometimes think the trausures is more suited for women then it is for men. Some of us require a slight modification in design to place a third leg in between the existing two. I think if i was i a warn country i would wear a khamis or a macawuus and let myself expand without restrictions.
You could be in the middle of an important project, that requires your total attention, since your decision in a team work environment can have crutial consiquences on the outcome of the project and what happens, all of a sudden there is a sudden blood migration, may be you just remembered a pretty face you saw earlier on or the day before.
There are times when you feel there pain just near you blader most unbelievable as if something is about to burst. You whole appitiete is effected from day to day. I don't know how men have ruled the world for so long? but i am sure the rulers always have a female that tolerated their sextual drive. the more ambisious a man is the higher his sextual drive is(sometimes)!
When you are constantly repressing your feelings and not allowing a natural process to take place, you are most certaily causing harm to you internal and external organs. It is simple The sperm is produced and has to come out of a males body sooner or later and the production process is continous. If you do not have a partner it is possible to retain it for a maximum of 5-7weeks sometimes longer depending on your luck of not seeing anything that busts your production! Once the maximum tollerable time limit is reached your body's automated self clensing system will take the matter out of your hands and you will experience the phenomenon knon as WET DREAMS some how you subconsious mind will simulate a sextual scene in your dream and you will wakeup with a wet batch on your bed. Most emperassing when a grown man wets his bed isn't it...!
Well hope you found may be learn something you didn't know before! This is just an extract of the pains involved in abstaining!!! may be you can at least see why most giveup and take the quicest opportunity that offers it self to them. |
wetdreaming...bleesing or ego bruising?