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Why do somali men like to go after girls that are already taken?

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): General Discusions: Archive (Feb. 2000 - May 2000): Why do somali men like to go after girls that are already taken?
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SisterAct

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I've seen and witnessed that some somalian guys love to date girls after they see them being with another guys(another somali guy). I mean no one want to date her when she is alone and is ready to be approached.
However, it's that coz somali men think these girls are imperfect in relatioships or it's that coz they are jealous of their qualification of being with another guys.

Let me hear your comments and plz be a more rational

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Michigan

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for da compatition, what alse sista?

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khadar m

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sister act. what a interesting topic you got there the reason that l may came with is may be there think that she is married or not and that makes the guy think he got approach her in his own crazy ways.


khadar m

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DACAY

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TO: I THINK THAT WAS YOU

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hebel

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why women always chase married men

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marqaan

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this is "reer waqooyi" style

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Haruun

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What a topic sis!

I suppose it is down to the fact that, most men have this irrational view, which says, the girls who go out with guys before marraige are soft-touchs (no offence).Competition has nothing to do with it. However, most men haven't got the gutts to approach their sisters and therefore,they get jealous when they see them dating other men.

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SisterAct

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Michigan: That isn't a competition to contrary it's a contest between rivals

Khadar: Good point too. Brother, why do you assume that she's married when she's alone and now you think that she's a single when she's with another guy. Isn't that obvious?

Dacar: No, it's not me. This problem had been raised awhile ago among Somalis and yet I didn't find an adequate answer. I guess the best answer is yet to come

Hebel: Women don't chase married men, vise-versa married men chase them and these men lie about their status

Marqaan: I dont what you are talking about.

Harun: You right on there. The question is why do they get jealous???``(!_!)`` thinking

peace

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mOwLiD-mAcAaNe

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Sisteract
Married or dating another guys,waadba isu kay sheegtay, yacnii waad isqarxisay "my style" Walee kaama hadho,bal xagaad geli meel aad ku dhuumatona ma jirtee.

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analyzer

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yeah!!! i, personally, don't give a rats' ass the status of any woman i find attractive enough...so sisters, beleive me most guys would not mind messing around as long as it is ok with the girls or should i say women....hymm!!! by the way, any MESSING AROUND NEEDED...

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Alwatan

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Because they are cheap.What else?

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hebel

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Sister-act think again.....I think U need to.
See?
It’s always appreciative not to be defensive.
What IM saying here is the fact not an act.
Women chase married men cause they feel safe with them and enjoy the rush daring it.
C?

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xil kas

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Sisteract

sisteract.. ihave never experieced wtat u r talking about... means never dated with girl or should i say women taken.. but there si somali saying that.... naagi kuna way kowisaa kowna way kala baxdaa... which means girls are up for grabs till they get married... our old culture.On the other hand it is not a case of men or women it isjust human natute that some people get buz dating with girls while they are in a relationship or should i dare say taken
In my experiece i find that girls always like attention whether they are in relationship or not that is what makes a lot men go after.

Any way, i would like to hear what u think on this and wanna know if you experienced it.

c ya by xil kas

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Shahid

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SisterAct


Let me talk about my own exprience why boys go after when girls have another man.

first

Most of the girls do not dress attractively when they don't have mr right.

girls attituds and behaviour declines.

Never listen to new proposals, because she refers "I already heard you story" simply you are no good to me.


When she has mr right

She dresses nicely and the guy foots the bill.

Talks like diplomatic and PA girl.

Listen most of time and make unecessary
to attention from guy friends.

They make more friend in case mr right leaves.

This is when problem comes. When mr right gets good job and secures to foot most of the house holds bills. That is when most girls says "Why most somalian guy don't want to give a chance to follow somalian. But the point is did you spare mr right any dignity when you distributed you business cards to all his friends.

If your attitues and behaviour seem to be like that, you don't have to worry who lift up your leg at the main time.

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hebel

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OK OK OK SHAHID slow down don't forget to breathe man.
Sit-down and here have glass of water.
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Sheesh ya die on us man.
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C?

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JUBEGIRL

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MACALINKA RESPECT MACALINKA

NOT ALL SOMALI MAN
...................................................MAY BE IT IS ONLY U BROOOOOO .COME, ON COME. ON

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T-girl

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MEN DO THAT COZ IT IS IN THEIR JEANS....( GENES),,LOL......A man will do anything to get what he wants.....Why do U think men like Sports more than women....?
Men love things that are forbidden/taken/not theirs....etc......That is the beauty of a man.. I love a man who is PERSISTANT, knows what he wants and gets it NO MATTER what...... Men love to HUNT......Which reminds me of PREDATOR

And lets face it....Single or married...WOMEN love to be the centre of attraction....They love to be HUNTED...It's all in our GENES.....

PEACE
TROUBLE

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