     NIN | Unrecorded Date
Hi every body:
Thou this is a man's job to handle, but still sometimes you need others to share, I am 28 years and my mysterious girl is 18 years now, we met as a best friend, but I see my self falling in love with her, I finally told what I feel about her, but unexpected words she throw like she don't feel the same way I do, I tried to stay away from her, but one thing is bushing me towards her.....(I see love on her ayes), she respects me, she trays to make me happy when we together, and remind you, we had bad days and good days in our relation. She may be young but, she is intelligent, perfect in ideas when in need, she has all that qualities maturity, and beautiful too. But things are getting complicated and I am man in tough's now, but I love to have your ides, which I feel will make me relief.
Thank you. |
| ALEX | Unrecorded Date
BRO, FIRST OF ALL AGE IS JUST A NUMBER, ALWAYS REMEBER THAT.
TO TELL YOU SOME THING, I AM 23 AND DATING A 28YEAR OLD LADY, AND WE ARE HAPPY TOGETHER, SO DONT LOOK AT THE AGE, LOOK AT THE QUALITIES SHE HAS, IF SHE SATISFIES YOU GO FOR IT. |
| gurey1 | Unrecorded Date
Asalaamu Aleeykum
TO: NIN
IGA RAALI AHOOW MAHI DADKA HALKAAN U YIMAADA ISTIJAABIN LUUQADEED.ANOO HODAN KU AH AFKA HOOYO.
waxaa kamuuqda taladaada laba arimood oo kala duwan 1.dareen jaceel oo gabanta aad uheeyso.2.dada oo aad isleedahay waad ka ween tahay.waxan sxb kugula talin lahaa hadaabad heli karto yeeykudhaafin.daku ciisha oo gabadhu kaaga cararto kaama muuqato laakiin dookheedu adiga wuu kaajeed san karaa,oo nin foolxun baad u ekaan kartaa,ama balwad leh,ama doqn ah,ama midgaan ah,ama faqiir ah,marka loo eego rabida gabadha aad jeclaatay.waakabaxay |
| Taliso | Unrecorded Date
Hi Brother (Nin)
Soomaalida waxey ku maahmaahdaa "ku dhali karaa ku dhaqi kara!!!" ee gabadha soo xero gashaan ku leeyahay, nacnacda meesha ha ku heyninee.. hadaad garab u baahantahayna isoo war gili anaa kaaga soo dhameynayee
Taliso |
| MN man | Unrecorded Date
Man it doesn't matter. If u love her then go for
it. Older man can take care girls better than 18years old 19. I'll hook u up SHIIKH if u wanted too, if u is in Minnesota.
Good luck
If i offended any young bro, forgive me aight. |
| yasmiin M.g | Unrecorded Date
To NIN ..
I am a 19 year old somali woman.And i would like to comment on your problem if you dont mind.
I understand the girl very well,since we are in the same boat , she is just feeling insecure thats all, its your job to take her to a safe shore ..make her feel comfortable and nothing changed in your relationship, but you care about her and she knows it. Sometimes the eyes can fool you because you have soo much love for her , you might think she is too . I am not saying she isnt, ,maybe she is ..but she needs time to be confident about it bro. So dont rush her .
Cause for a young teen which might not be that experienced about relationships might not mean what she says when you shock her that way, she would regret it later ..so avoid that. Take her slow.
Step by step ... a million miles starts with a step doesnt it.
And let me tell you something .... when a girl builds a wall of friendship between a guy .. its hard to destroy that wall and build a love wall in a fortnight. Maybe she feels the same way ... but its different when your in love .. and when you think you are IN LOVE.
Treat her like normal , but show her that you are understanding .. and give her space ... trust me she will get use to it and feel more comfortable ..and one day tell you in your face she loves you too.
But one more thing .... you better not be playing bro ... be serious and things will go your way.
Dont do whatta a man gotta do .... do what a loving man gotta do with someone who cares about so much.
For me .. i dont mind going out with a 28 , 29 or 30 .. as long as he is as serious and not playing as i am . Age does matter sometimes .. but it never makes a difference.
I hope i helped in a minor way . Good luck |
| NIN | Unrecorded Date
Thanks guys for the wonderful ideas u shared and I am looking many more of it.
Well Alex I know age is just number, and the quality is what bushing me towards her, but anyway I won’t hesitate to go further.
Gurey1. waad ku mahadsantahay talada, umana malaynayo is tijaabin in forumskan loogu tala galay, laakiin ay tahay in wax leysweedaarsado, qofkuna sidii uu u arko inuu wax ku bixin karo uu ku gudbiyo, saaxiib balwad malihi, Umana malynmayo doqon nimo inay igu habsan tahay, laakiin ay I haysato galgacal dareen, aan u qabo gabadha aan jeclahay.
Saxiib waa maxay Midgaan, miyuusan somlai ahayn, miyuusan muslim aheyn, miyuusan wax jeclaankarin lana jeclaankarin?
Maan fahmin waxaad ulajeedo…please explain to me. Irsaaqadana waxaan filayaa in ilaah bixiyo leysku nicin,,,,,gabadha aan jeclahayna way ka maddax banaantahay waxaad soo sheegtoo idil.
Taliso. Nac nac qof wyn ra’yigiisa ma noqdo, and I am man enough to handle my matters, what I wanted is your idea thanks bay the way.
Mn Man …. I agree with you man, thanks for wishing me the best.
Yasmiin mq… I am happy to have here some one on the same boat as my sweetheart is, I know ayes sometimes can fool you but, not time, as a mention we had up’s and down, and I can charge the way she expresses, feels, and grants when something come up, beside I don’t think I rushed, I told her my feelings when i take as grantee for her, but the think is instead of going on, something interrupted between as, which I don’t really know, to do the best is somehow difficult form me now as recently shifted to another city, but thanks to the technology, wee keep in touch regularly, I think what brought me here is an example of how serious I am, GOD let me get this girl and it’s my duty to do what man in love has to do.
Waadmahasnatihiin |
| muxammad | Unrecorded Date
Aniga waxay ila tahay inkastoo gabadha aad jeceshahay farqi da'eed idiin dhexeeyo haddana ma'aha mid maanta kaa hor istaagi kara jeceylka aad gabadhaa u qabto, so hey don't worry about the age thing worry about the other things,there are more important things to worry about than age.
And go for the girl! Go get her tiger!!! she is just dying for you, at least I hope so!!
GOOD LUCK BRO<><
Yasmiin m.q it's always fun to read your comments, you're so smart for 19 yr old unless you're genious like me>!!!just kidding, |
| Xamardaye | Unrecorded Date
saaxib da'mushkilad maleh,mana aadan gaarin waqtigi da'da laga fikiraayay,waxaa muhiim ah
in aad si layaqaano aad wax u riixi karto,dumarku kadaloob beey u baahan yihiin,waa dad ilaah inoo jilciyay ee bal ku day kadaloob,u seex seexo,
inta ay ka soo galeeyso gacanta,ka dibna dhaqaaleey inanta dhinac kasto.
nabad iyo caano |
| Aay Ooto | Unrecorded Date
Walaalayaalow aniganna ila taliya, Waxaan aha gabar jirta 28 sano, waxaan isjeclenahay wiil 18 sano jiro, halkaan kore waaxaa lagu yiri NIN da'da waa only a lambar, lakiinse aniga dhowr qof oo aan arrintaa kale sheekeeystay waa ii canaanteen oo kamaan helin understanding ee sidee wax uu jiiraan? |
| NIN | Unrecorded Date
Aay Ooto:
Qolakan yar anaa furtay si problemkeyda xal ugu helo, fadalan xiro kale sameyso, Aniga ka kow waan ku caawin doonaa........Mahadsanid.... |
| Aay Ooto | Unrecorded Date
Ten-four brotha!! |
| Xamardaye | Unrecorded Date
Aay qoto,
armaad si qalad ah wax u fahamtay?
dadkana aad ugu sheegtay si qaldan?
ninka haddii naagta uu ka wayn yahay,oowse shaqada ay u dirsato oow u cabi si xiiso leh,da'du waa lambar,hasha' taasi hadal kama taagna.
naagti ayaase weeynaatay ninki ayaa yar,yeeysan kugu neefsanin ee ka KUD.
saa waxay ku gaarsii hee in ninka uu cumri deg-deg ku dhaco.
F.G,
qofki wax isku ogoow aniga adiga kuula ma jeedo,
dooda ayaa iga gashay mahaan.
nabad iyo caano |
| shangaani | Tuesday, June 20, 2000 - 02:35 pm
ar nin
qumayo aan kugu ogaayee qumayona mid aad toban sano ka weyn tehe ma u ekee sey wax kaa noqdeen.
aay oto
ar adi see camal ninkaan oo barooranaayo aa baroor kale ka dul keenti,,,lol,,,ka qalee hee.
xamardaye
adi jijo inteey ka baxdey maba u jeedee |
| xamardaye | Tuesday, June 20, 2000 - 08:55 pm
shengaani,
Jiijo dhar dhaqoow jamalada korkooda ay jirtaa,
sida la sheegay.
adi ma ii faaysaa?
waa lees waayay saaxib.
nawad iyo caano |
| Anonymous | Thursday, June 22, 2000 - 09:14 am
walaalayaal aniganna ila taliya, mar hadii aad da'da iyo jaceyl laga Hadlayo..
waxaan jira 38 sanno laakin waxaan u eekahay 30 jir, waxaan jeclahay gabdh yar oo da'deedu tahay 22 sanno wax barash hadda dhameyneysaa,gabadh wel da'deeyda uma sheegin, reerkoodan ma jeclaanayaan.
Maxaan yeela waa jeclahay walaahi, weligey ma guursan, mid tan oo kale ahna ma arag.
Mahadsanidin |
| mudaneh | Thursday, June 22, 2000 - 04:13 pm
Anon,
is dhib wax yar si laguula taliyo,
furo qol kuu gaar ah,si test ay kaaga qaadaan,
la taliyayaasha forumska.
ilmo towfiiq midkood |
| Maxamuud | Monday, June 26, 2000 - 07:23 am
Uma arko dadu wax la sii raaco sidey wallaalahey horeba kuugu sheegeen. Laakiin aniga waxey igu noqotey mid na kala kaxeysey gabar. Waxan ahey 24 labaaten jir lakiin gabarta aan jeclaa waxey iga wayney 6 sanadood. Sidaan maalin u wada hadlayney waxey ku maah maahdey nin yari intuu geed ka boodo ayuu talo ka boodaa. Markey taas didhi waxaa ii cadaatey iney kalsooni ku gabin iney guursato nin ka yar. Sidaa darteed waxey ila noqotey marka danbe inaan la xiriiro dad aan isku da dow nahey. Ma ku lihi adiga dadu waa mihiim laakiin waqtiga qaarkii dadku ma muujiyaan marka hore waxeyna hadeystaa mar danbe; markaa waydii how does she feel about getting involve with an older man. Isticmaal waxyaabo kale isii aad u hubsen laheyd iney dibaato ku aheyn dadu. |
| ThreTruth | Monday, July 10, 2000 - 02:13 pm
You! The brainwashed pussy! Let me tell you something, When it comes to you and what you want, don't go around trying to satisfy some cultural rules that do not belong to you. I am talking about the white culture that beleives this age ••••. Even if it was your culture, your needs should superseed what the people or the culture thinks of you. 18 years old female is old enough age to be a woman. So please just do what ever you wanna do with her but don't try to act as some cloned white wanna be nigga. Did you know your forefathers had no problem in marrying a girl that is 30 or 40 years younger. Just to let you know where you came from.
Peace! |
| Back attack | Saturday, July 15, 2000 - 01:32 pm
yo Thre Truth.
Damn, you are just the girl I am looking for.
Just as sarcastic as I am.
Damn girl, if ya cute too.
You gonna be mine.
See ya.... |
| cimilo | Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 02:16 pm
anigana talaan rabaaa
lol
wadna kud kud aad igu rideen kuligiin walaahi..
NIN waraa ma aragtaybo meehaan naageesyaal aa ka buuxo...mugoo aniga tayda waan iska laqaa ..okay okay waxaan dhihi lahaa aniga ninkoo 41 jiro aas jeclaaday anigana 21 lees jiraa..see wax u wadaa.. |
| The Truth | Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 02:42 pm
I am a man bro- A man who is not ashamed to set some records straight.
If you are telling the truth, like i am, do me one favor- Take care of that woman in need and quit living for others.
Peace! |
| The Truth | Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 07:02 am
My sis Cimilo
Listen girl, you don't need TALO. You need to go out with the guy and have fun with him. Nobody is realy affected by your relationship except you and your partner. If you think it is right and it feels right then it must be right since what you are doing is not harming others.
yours The Truth( Alway setting some records straight)
Peace! |
| SH.SH.SH | Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 10:51 am
marka hore salaamu alaykum
my dear bro and sis...
firstable, ya are old than her with 10 years which we call anyway "pedophile"..
second.. in our diin, we did ya get to date with strange sis another religion than islam...?
Love: what got to do with love bro
the way i understand ya dont' even know what "love" is bro ...
i think ya are trying to follow kuff'ar pple bro
if ya want answer ask the scholars, they would tell ya what is right or wrong with that lady
callin' love isn't the one most young somelian today married and recently divorcing again
what gotta do with love bro tell me abut it ....?
tell me another word but not love cause love is not exactly word for that issue bro....
how many pple i know who said they love heblaaya very much, then after couple days here we go, he is divorcing..... is that what ya call "love" ..?
say just simly is that ya want to pretend like kuff'ar ...
we understand that if ya real serious ya should ask her parents 4 her hand then ya two would talk abut what ever ya want bro ....
i will hear from couple years that ya will not be together anymore .....
bye see ya
don't be mad at me bro
i am ur bro
have fun .... |
| cimilo | Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 02:50 pm
the truth
mahadsanid aboow...u truly nice person...but ninkaan ka hadlaayiy hada waan kala tagnay..inaan ka dabo ooyo marabi ani... |
