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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): General Discusions: Archive (May 2000 - August 2000): BIG PROBLEM!!!
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TRUE_SISTA_2000

Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 06:26 am
SALAMUCALAYKUM BROTHERS AND SISTERS,

I HAVE BEEN SEEING THIS AFRICAN-AMERICAN MUSLIM GUY FOR ABOUT 6 MONTHS. I AM TRYING TO FOLLOW MY RELIGION AND BE RESPECTFUL TO MYSELF AND HE IS TRYING TO BE TOO, WHICH IS WHY I KIND OF LIKE HIM A LOT. BUT SOME OF THE SOMALI GUYS I KNOW THINK I AM DISRESPECTING THEM BECAUSE THEY THINK DAT I HATE ALL SOMALI BROTHERS AND DAT IS DEFINATELY NOT WHAT I AM TRYING TO DO. I LOVE! ALL MY SOMALI BROTHERS BUT HOW CAN I MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND DAT I AIN'T TRYIN' TO DISS THEM? IT'S JUST DAT I LIKE HIM AND HE LIKES ME AND DAT'S THE WAY IT'S SUPPOSED TO BE BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE NO MATTER WHAT RACE U ARE AND AS LONG AS U MUSLIM. SO WHAT CAN I DO?

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Muriidi

Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 07:09 am
WHO CARES< <<<<<FOR ALL I CARE YOU CAN SUCKKKK HIM>>>>>>>>><<<<LICK HIM UP && DOWN>>>>>>

see you are already talking like him, which means you already did him, so sista, no brotha would care about what you do with the thing between your legs. for all I care you can put it on fire!!!! xaaax kuleyl.........

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Michigan

Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 08:00 am
lol Muriidi.......Ya'bad girl

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warlord killer

Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 11:48 am
to so called true_sister_2000

Who care's about you and your negro boy friend, you are an out caste any ways, no somali brother will ever look at you, stupid sell out, trying to become someone else by disrecpecting her self and her own brother's. We don't want you
You are fucking sell out, no good at all,
this mother fucker negroe don't know himself, he don't know nothing about himself, nothing about islam, nothing about his ancester, he may not even know his own father, how can you be proud of this son of bitch? how can compare to us, we know who we are, we can go back for 1000 years by reciting like koran our fore fathers,
You don't what love is, you don't know who to love, for that is better to stick with negro people with na value and no culture whatsoever

until then bitch get fucked well with alot blow jobs

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Asha

Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 11:52 am
Salaama Caleykum

Sis My advice his don't play with a fire carefully he may have Aids so cool down, somali brother you can talk to your language or move together back home,i advice you don't lose yourself.

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colonel

Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 03:07 pm
COLONEL SANGAWI

To Maryooley!! cid baad cunsuriyad ku caayi doontaan yaa idinka cunsuriyadeysan! walaashen walaalen islaama haddeyn heshey maxaynu ku maagi?! ALLOW na toosi oo na hanuuni

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Mariah

Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 03:42 pm
Conel Sangawi......Don't you dare dis us. Cause we are the best of the best.


To the tru sister.....My regards are with you.


To all the others.
No one can control love....and where it takes you. If she is happy with him then you should be happy for her too.


Muriidi....You are sick. She said she loves him. Not slep with him. So please read before you write your comments.

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muxammad

Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 04:31 pm
Damn!!! who cares about who you like or don't like?

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Anonymous

Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 04:53 pm
Sis you seem little insecure, if you think you are doing what is the best interest for you, go ahead and make your day, don't worry what other people are thinking. this is your life, live the way you want....

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hebel

Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 06:46 pm
Now this is what I call a Girgin on 16 inches by 225 all weather redial tires.............so freaking fast.
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She just got here and already thinks she got it all figured out.
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Only in Somalis we can fit it just fine.... Take us over to Siberia and we'll become Eskimos almost over night.
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C?

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Biibto

Friday, June 16, 2000 - 01:15 am
ASALAAMU CALEYKUM DHAMAANTIIN
By TRUE_SISTA_2000
Sis my advice to u is think carefully about this issue love my drive u to paradise world but there is lots of issues connected to it.
*First of all don’t worry about what others say go with ur heart and don’t let them take advantage from u. Sis our ppl TALK is part of their life whether u date Somali guy or American guy, they’re the one’s who have to comment ur life. Don’t pay attention to them and have a high self steam.
*Watchout this guy he my not be the man u think he is, sis Black American Muslims are very different to us cuz they did not grow up in muslim environment, they not also fully connected with the religion cuz the environment they live in is not muslim environment which forces them to be different from other Muslims including (Somalis).

~~~I KNOW IS NOT MY BUSINESS BUT LET ME JUST WORNE U~~~~~~
Is very hard to live with a guy from different race for the rest of ur life, cuz simple fact is u not from same race which could bought up lots of promblems in the long run. just open ur eyes wider. My Allah direct u to the path way (Amin).

That is all from me sorry if I said something wrong.

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Hodan

Friday, June 16, 2000 - 05:38 am
Biibto is the only SANE one in this goddamn place!

I swear you people are full of SH*T, seriously, I mean what the hell do you care what race she dates. And those of you who are tryING be religous about this....Race shouldn't be the issue as long as he's MUSLIM.

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TRUE_SISTA_2000

Friday, June 16, 2000 - 06:49 am
SALAM ALL:

I WANNA THANK ALL YOU FOR GIVING UR ADVISE AND FOR THOSE WHO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKIN' ABOUT WITH RESPECT AND DIGNITY. FOR FURTHER MORE, SOME OF U (DON'T WANNA MENSION THEIR NAME HERE AND DISRESPECT ANYONE CAUSE I'M NOT LIKE THAT), HAVE NO CLUE WHAT MY PROBLEM IS AND WHAT THEY ARE SAYIN'. IT MAKES NO SENSE AT ALL AND U NEED TO READ MY PARAGRAPH CORRECTLY SO THAT WE DON'T HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING OF WHAT IS GOING ON. ANOTHER THING, I AM A PROUD 100% SOMALIAN SISTA AND CARRY MYSELF WITH 100% RESPECT BY ALWAYS HAVING MY TRADITION AND RELIGION. ANYHOW THANK U ALL AGAIN AND SOME OF U WATCH YOUR MOUTH AND STOP TALKING LIKE "DHOCILO".

TILL NEXT TIME TAKE CARE.
P.S I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR MORE OF UR ADVICES.

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Anonymous

Friday, June 16, 2000 - 07:50 am
True-Sister-2000
I don't know why you are asking for the advise of these Idiots. Its men like them, small minds, small ehhhhh...that send sisters away.
They say they are Muslims, but they are nothing but racist bigots that can't amount to nothing but name calling.

I don’t see what the problem is, If this man makes you happy then go for it. If this is a true dilemma, then ask your friends and colleagues for advise.

Until then
God bless-

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Muriidi

Friday, June 16, 2000 - 11:45 am
Mariah,

How qualified are you to judge people's sanity? or you just blurt out whatever words your mouth can breath.
I've seen you so many times poking your nose where it is not welcome, I am afraid one day someone will pull it out of your face.

Peace

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Sumaya

Friday, June 16, 2000 - 12:12 pm
Salaam Aleikum

Abaayo if you need personal advice email me, I have a Experience that issue insha Allaahu.

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Mariah

Friday, June 16, 2000 - 06:20 pm
Muriidi.....Why not you. Instead of people....


But then again I know why not......

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analyzer

Saturday, June 17, 2000 - 01:25 am
i wanna send shoutout to my man hebel, bigbang,kuusseey, ttttt-girl...N all my boys up west coast and my eastside niggaz
peace...this is your AZ signin out !!!!!!! 'till next time keep it real and tight

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ConfusedDueTo.......

Saturday, June 17, 2000 - 06:03 am
TRUE_SISTA_2G:
I know exactly what you are going through sistrin. I myself have created a topic very similar to yours. Many people who see you out with your man will automatically assume that you are a whore. Sad but thats a fact, been there done that. If your man if a TRUE muslim from the bottom of his heart, not just for the love of you then why not? Does the Qur'an state anywhere that it is haram to marry a person who does not share your culture, I think not.
Wishing you all the best in what you choose to do abaayo but if your relationship is at such a serious stage that marriage is the next step, i'd advise you to wait a while and REALLY think about it.
Well keep me posted on your situation sistrin and take care.
Salaama aleykum

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hebel

Saturday, June 17, 2000 - 02:36 pm
yeah I'll make yar ~!@#$^&* tight alright.
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freaking byes freak....never freakout though.

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jamaaal4

Monday, June 19, 2000 - 02:26 am
to those who call people nigger
what color you think you are???
and remember you are as nigger as the other black ppl at least in the eyes of the white man.
yet the whiteman restrains from calling ppl a nigger due to not wanting to hurt someones feeling
or afraid of persecution because this word is illegal to pronounce(i think).
imagine this...how you feel if a whiteman calls you nigger???..who gave u the right to abuse ppl with this dirty language...
I can only say IGNORANCE is your problem guys.
AAAAH if u only know how long it took the black ppl to struggle,protest,demonstrate just to ban
the white ppl from calling them niggers.

waaka baxay jamaaal4

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Sheikh Abdi

Monday, June 19, 2000 - 06:02 am
TRUE_SISTA_2000

U know nothing about Islam, in islam women r not allowed to have any contact whatsoever with any man except with those in her family. AND U HAVE BEEN SEEING WITH THIS AFRO-AMERICAN MAN..AHA..then that makes you a Whore.
Awal baad sharmuuto ahayd ee diinta islaamka haku mar marsiyoon.

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TRUE_SISTA_2000

Monday, June 19, 2000 - 07:02 am
SALAM ALL AGAIN.

THANKS FOR THE MATURE ADVISE THIS TIME, I APPRECIATE IT A LOT.

MURIDI SIS: YOU HAVE CERTAINLY BEEN TO A LOT OF PLACES WHERE U ARE NOT CERTAINLY WELCOME. IF U KNOW WHAT I MEAN. SO THINK BEFORE U TALK OR ACT OUT STUPID COMMENTS U DON'T EVEN HAVE A CLUE ABOUT.

CONFUSED: MARRIAGE IS DEFINATELY NOT MY NEXT STEP. I'M GOING TO COLLEGE AND I'M GONNA GET MARRIED WHEN I FINISH INSHA ALLAH. AND BY THE WAY MY MAN WAS A MUSLIM FROM THE BEGINING. HIS PARENTS CONVERTED BEFORE HE WAS BORN.

JAMAAL: TRUE WORDS BRO AND TOUCHING TOO. IT'S GOOD TO SEE SOMEONE ATLEAST IS THINKING LIKE DAT.

SHEIKH ABDI "WANNA BE": PLEASE DON'T EVEN CALL ME THE "B" WORD. FIRST, U DON'T EVEN KNOW ME. AND HOW IS DATING A MUSLIM GUY MAKE ME A WHORE. JUST BECAUSE HE'S AFRO DOESN'T MEAN I CAN'T GO OUT WITH HIM. AND IF U THINK U ARE A TRUE SHEIKH......HAHA....LOL....LOL. I COULD LAUGH FOREVER BUT I GOT NO TIME FOR A HYPERCRATE.

TILL NEXT TIME SALAM TO ALL AND TAKE CARE.

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Hana

Monday, June 19, 2000 - 09:30 am
To True Sister
Speaking from experience I also went out with an African American guy and he was so good to me, he treated me like a queen and kissed the ground I walked on. But everyone seemed so against our relationship, even my friends would ask me not to see him. A very good guy friend of mine who is Somalian would not talk to me after he saw me in the mall with him one day. I started doubting our relationship and broke with him. I know for a fact that he was my soul mate, he would do things for me that no other guy would do and he never asked for anything in return. I wish I had never listened to any of them I wish I was with him now but my pride will not let me beg him to come back to me . My advice to you is don't let others get in the way of love, if you know he is the right one don't let these ignorant fools ruin things for you.

best of luck

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Xamardaye

Monday, June 19, 2000 - 09:55 am
ha sha'

abuul gubtay,kama naxo abuul gubahaayo.


nabad iyo caano

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Muriidi

Monday, June 19, 2000 - 10:53 am
TRUESISTA,

Since when did the name Muriidi became a she? Secondly, You are absolutely right, that I poke my nose into where it is not welcome, reason: I shouldn't be degrading myself by talking to a hoe whose brain is being F***ed out by a nigger.

I said b4, and I'll say it again, I don't give a S*** who you spread your legs for.

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Shakur

Monday, June 19, 2000 - 11:00 am
Hana

did ur Ex neggro boy fucked u in the ass.....xaaaaax waa i xanuunaa ma tiri...
Siiil aan kintir lahayn baad meelaha la waregeysaan ee edeb yeesha gabdhayahoow maroorka weyn.

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Rosaparks

Monday, June 19, 2000 - 09:02 pm
whats up,

From my point of view and again this is just my point of view althought i thinking it should be a universal truth held by everyone....somali man are no more usefull then a frozen loaf of bread...need i say more....i know no one will have the intelligence capacity to actually reflect on my comment and put together a well structure phrase dissing me and everything that i stand for.....no no no i highly doubt that ....ignorance will reign once more.... and i will be cursed with thoughless baseless vulgarity!!!! u know what a lab rat would have offended me more had i insulted him!!!!!!!!:)

peace and much love ....seriously u guys are a bunch of idiots but i still love ya...

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TRUE_SISTA_2000

Tuesday, June 20, 2000 - 03:22 am
SALAM ALL,

HANA: I FEEL SO SORRY FOR YOU AND THANKS FOR WARNING ME. BUT HEY, IT WAS A MISTAKE BUT YOU ATLEAST LEARNED SOMETHING FROM IT RIGHT? NEVER LISTEN TO ANYONE BUT YOURSELF. BUT SOMETIME'S IT'S ALSO GOOD TO LISTEN TO PEOPLE BECAUSE YOU MAY NEVER KNOW WHEN THEY ARE TELLING THE TRUTH AND IT MAY SAVE YOU FROM A BAD DECISION.

MURIIDI:LOL...LOL...YOUR A GUY? WHY DO YOU TALK SO "LADY LIKE" THEN? PLEASE IF YOU ARE ATLEAST A MAN, TALK LIKE ONE. DON'T GO ON OUT LIKE A HOMO.....IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. ABOUT "SPREADING MY LEGS FOR SOME NIGGA", IT AIN'T HAPPENIN'. PLEASE ABOOWE, OR "ABAAYO" WHICH EVER IS COMFTORBLE FOR YOU, DON'T ACT LIKE YOU ARE A TRUE MUSLIM OR SOMEIN' IT DIDN'T SAY IN MY PARAGRAPH ABOVE DAT I WAS OPENIN' MY LEGS....IF YOU KNEW HOW TO READ THEN YOU WOULD HAVE KNOWN. SO DON'T PLAYA HATE..APPRECIATE....ABAAYO.

ROSAPARKS: BRO/SIS.....WHAT'S YOUR POINT?

PEACE OUT, TILL NEXT TIME TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER.

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hanna

Tuesday, June 20, 2000 - 03:49 am
boy where do i start damn these people are so f*** up in the head. see this is why we have so much f***ing farah in this world.
for one my girls boy must have better $h*it then you so called bro. and the other thing all you guys/girls you can not call yourself muslim for one you are the people that kill other just for there race i hate you all so much f***** dIcK head.
to you my girl "love it the best thing in the world and if GOD give you this guy to love then it was meant to be, don't hate any1, we are all people not like these dog"
iam happy to say iam all muslim and i never hate those who hate others iam true to myself and love every1 cos GODs childs in everyway. if this guy is muslim and make you feel wounderfull and never push you do something that you don't want then its up to you what you do?
i don't know you mate but i love you so much like a sisture and i hope you stay with him for ever and if you get marrie you know you have to call me up ok
laters sis

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girlInjeans

Tuesday, June 20, 2000 - 08:53 am
i personaly think black americans should not mix with somalis- white americans.thats adiferent story-.....thanx!!!!

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Loverboy

Tuesday, June 20, 2000 - 09:38 am
true_Sista

You say you like an african-american guy who you have been "seeing" for the past six months. As Sheikh Abdi said earlier that as a muslim girl you should avoid male contacts unless they are relations it would be appropriate for you to rethink you actions on that end. However as I would not like to sound Hypocritical, the same should apply to your male Somali friends. You say he is a Muslim but the question arises what you mean when you say that. Do you mean to say you are willing to go and have a relationship that lasts (marriage) or you just want to be friends.
If the former is the case then sis you should consider that when ppl are marrying it is not only the couple who are concerned but together with the families and future children. Are the two families ready to take each other in-laws? Culturally Somalis are known to be different from other and will your family be ready to take them considering the difference that exist and without having it to affect the relationship between you and you family. Have u yourself prepared yourself to adapt to another culture that is not yours by nature? Is he ready to go for someone who is not of his culture?
How would your future children adapt to the situation?
As has been illustrated by Hana above who says that many of her friends deserted her show that Somalis are not generally adaptive to such inter-cultural relations. So against this background all is in your hands and it is up to you to make your own decisions.
On the other hand if you are taking a him as being you “boyfriend” then I would not even waste my time to comment on it.

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RosaParks

Tuesday, June 20, 2000 - 07:22 pm
Whats up,

Listen true sis......i seriously believe that ur ass is lying.....i mean i dont think that u or anyone u know is dating an african american guy...but i think the idea fascinates u....it is something so obviously out of ur cultural content and as such provides great curiuosity.....listen u obviously arised a great conversation topic and for that thanx:)....but u and i both know that ur ass aint dating no african-american dude..as far as my last little remark is concerned i had no point:) just stating the obvious ..it was a blantant attempt to divert the discussion into something a little bit more prolific... i was not giving u an advice because #1 i dont believe u....and # 2 So what if ur dating an africa-american dude its not like uve discovered how they got the caramel into that the caramel bar:)....anyway im outty....

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Alyisa

Tuesday, June 20, 2000 - 07:41 pm
True Sista
If he's a good muslim and he has a great personality then go for it and don't let anyone get in your way.

I'm sorry to say this is one aspect of my culture I'm not proud of. It's one thing to be proud it's another to to be down right arrogant. "We can recite our fore fathers like the Quran" You think we'd be able to do this if our country was located on the West Coast rather than the East cost? When Allah spares you from horrible things such as slavery it's not because you're considered more worthy than the other people subjected to the crime, it's to see your reaction to it. Do u react by praising Allah and giving thanks back to him or do u react by sitting there and mocking the innocent victims?
Bottom line muslims are muslims regardless of colour or ethnic background. We don't hate other musilms because it's not in our nature Islamically. If you make race a critrea then you lose out on meeting many wonderful people.
I hope you don't end your relationship with the brother based on this issue.

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ericjam

Tuesday, June 20, 2000 - 10:18 pm
i love it we fuc*kedsomali women so bad that they left there men, ohohohoho we knew it!! whites too left it..........

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Soomaali

Tuesday, June 20, 2000 - 11:59 pm
ku: true-sister 2000
Waxaan kuugula talin lahaa in aad iska eegto in uu yahay qof ILLAAHAY ka cabsada oo tukada oo aan qamri iwm cabin. oo Sunada ku taagan. waxaan ku leeyahay haddii uu intaa oo dhan kasoo baxo.
Oo uu muslim ku taagan sunada yahay waad guursan kartaa.
adiga xataa shaqsigaaga dib ugu noqo oo inaad tukatid oo sunada ku taagan tahay fiiri. muslimiinta oo dhan waawalaalo, bini aadamkana waxay ka yimaadeen Aadan iyo Xaawo marka inaan Sinji(race)iyo midab ka hormarino Diinta Islaamka ma haboona.

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xamardaye

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 12:48 am
true-sis,

waxaan ku iri,adigu talada aad rabto maxay tahay?
waxa aad raadineeyso oo dhan diinta ayaa ka hadashay,haddii diinta ay kugu yar tahay aqoonteeda,diintu waxay ku fartay haddii uu muslim yahay oo uu ashahaadka qirayo,waa kuu banaan yahay in aad guursato.
somali baad weeydiineeysaa in nin jinsiyad kaleh ah in aad guur san karto iyo inkaleh,kii somaliga la ahaa ayeeyba qaar diidan yihiin oo muslimka ahaa,maxaa ku waalay ninka haddii uu ku jecel yahay oo aad adiguna jeceshahay muslin neh aad wada tihiin ku dhac aan ku iri oo yaan lagaaga hormarin,salkaada adi leh.

nabad iyo caano

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TRUE_SISTA_2000

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 03:29 am
SALAM ALL,

LOVERBOY: LOL......WHO TELLING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND ALL THAT CULTURE ••••! (EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE).
FIRST OF ALL I DON'T CARE ABOUT SOMALIAN CULTURE ALTHOUGH I AM 100% PROUD OF IT. I GO BY RELIGION THE MOST NOT CULTURE. RELIGION GET'S YOU SOMEWHERE WHEREAS CULTURE HAS A LOT OF UNMEANINGFUL AND USELESS THINGS, IF YOU GET WHAT I AM SAYING. AND I AM PLANNING TO GET MARRIED TO HIM MAYBE SOON SOMEDAY, LIKE I SAID WHEN I AM FINISHED COLLEGE.
AND BESIDES WHY IS IT SO BAD FOR HIM TO BE MY BOYFRIEND, DON'T SOMALIAN PEOPLE HAVE BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS? IF I WERE WITH A SOMALI GUY NO ONE WOULD GIVE A F*** IF HE WAS MY BOYFRIEND.

ROSA PARKS: BELIEVE WHAT YOU WANNA BELIEVE CAUSE I DON'T CARE FOR THE LIKES OF YOU. AND BESIDES IF YOU WEREN'T GIVING ME ADVICE WHY ARE YOU HERE? PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME AND DON'T DIRTY MY PAGE, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN.

ALYSIA: THANKS SIS, YOUR THE ONLY GOOD MINDED PERSON I SEE HERE OH YEAH AND HANA TOO.

SOOMAALI: SALAM, WAAD MAHADSANTAHAY WALAL. AAD IYO AAD AYAN KU FAHMAY. WAX SAX WAAYE, ANIGU WAAN KU DAQMA SUUNADA ASNA SIDO KALE. CALA KULI XAL WAAD KU MAHADSANTAHAY.

TILL NEXT TIME PEACE OUT AND TAKE CARE.

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Wiil

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 04:39 am
TRUE SISTA,

Horta anigu waxaan garan la'ahay waxa ay gabadhan
raadineyso, hadday jareer rabto may iska guursato
oo iska aamusto, maxaa keenay inay ka dhigto
"ISSUE" laga wada hadlo oo la isku af lagaadeeyo,
imisa qof ayaa iyada u gaftay oo imisa ayay
iyaduna u gaftay. Waxaas oo dhan ma dhici lahayn
hadday iska dhamaysato hawsheeda.

Oo kaalay haddii aad jareer rabtid, maxaad u
guursan weyday mid kula diin ah waliba kula dhaqan
ah, waxaan ka wadaa jareertii Somalia, kuwaas
ayaabad si fiican isu fahmi kartaane, maxaa mid
aan kula dhaqan ahayn ka doontay, mise af
ingiriiskuu ku hadlaa.

Nabadeey

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Sophia Loren

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 09:24 am
Honey you do what you want. cos it is your life and nobody else. All those somali guys ou there who are critising you, tell them to go to hell cos they are are jelous cos at least you have something in life that they don't. My advice for you sis is to get on with your life, respect your man after all he is Muslim which the most important thing when having a partner, and don't you dare post anymore nonsense in this forums.

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jack nickolson

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 10:21 am
sophia loren

ya know how old are ya?thats the oldest actres?shouldn't you be lying down somewhere in florida enjoying your retirement plan cash?

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Sumaya

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 11:47 am
Salaama Caleykum
True sis

I left you my email before if what you talking about is realy just email me, i have lot info for you before you play with the fire insha Allaahu.

sumaya24@yahoo.com


PS: Hana before you talk sister you should learn
Manners, your telling us someone kissed you
without marrying him shame on you, fear allaah

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Cineplex Usher

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 12:42 pm
Jack Nichlson, you can't handle the truth!!
You are as old as Sophie Loren.

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Gman

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 01:06 pm
I hope you guys listen to me well. First of all we may not share same nationality or culture but we certainly belong to a same race. So i dont understand why these people are refering this muslim brother as if he's belongs to UFO tribe.Once you are muslim then there should not be any restrictions at all period. Where's the pride we used to have as muslims??. Let me advice you sister, if you see a muslim guy and you like him then i say all the power to you. Please stop hating other people in order you get respect. thank you. By the way, i am somali guy and single. So single ladies i live in atlanta my email is gureey34@hotmail.com

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Anonymous

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 01:13 pm
Gurey,

They don't want you, they want a nigger

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Anonymous

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 05:07 pm
Assalaamu Calaikum all brothers and sisters in Islam "the only thing matter is the islam no other thing so every one must be broud of his religion "Islam" any way sis if u get a muslim man who ever he is VBGYOR(all the colors) go and get and marry and injoy for all your life and hearafter" so peace
this is your brother in Islam Liban "mpls, MN"

lhassan@marsden.com========this is my e-mail.liban

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RosaParks

Wednesday, June 21, 2000 - 06:29 pm
Whats up....

Dirty ur page huh!!! well then im sorry goodwoman very well then im outty!!!! let me just point out one very retarded remark u made " I GO BY RELIGION THE MOST NOT CULTURE. RELIGION GET'S YOU
SOMEWHERE WHEREAS CULTURE HAS A LOT OF UNMEANINGFUL AND USELESS THINGS, IF YOU GET WHAT I AM SAYING. AND I AM PLANNING TO GET MARRIED
TO HIM MAYBE SOON SOMEDAY" ok first of all i just wanna say that that sentence is retarted in so many different ways but anyway ....as a muslin ur ignorant little ass should know that men and women should not "date" so what the hell are u doing with this dude if ur not certain that u will retain this relationship very long....oh!another little oxy moron.... per se to pin point to u...."AND BESIDES WHY IS IT SO BAD FOR HIM TO BE MY BOYFRIEND, DON'T SOMALIAN PEOPLE HAVE BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS? now ill let u figure out that one alone!!! i seriously dont appreciated when people use our beautiful deen to protect their sorry asses....now i suggest u read the koran over again...also i suggest u stop saying "IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN" because i dont ur one big huge contradiction!.

im outty

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Mohammed

Thursday, June 22, 2000 - 03:31 am
Dear Sister,
If you are seeing that man for marriage I agree with you but if you with him for fun I think you are in great danger you are single muslim girl you have to be careful and know that the human being they life only once.
Yours Sincerely,
Mohammed

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fardosa

Thursday, June 22, 2000 - 06:43 am
true sister
i pity u for sharing ur dilema with the most racist race in the entire universe.
however u got some good advice there.
as a muslim i believe u can marry anybody as long as there are muslim.
why do you feel that u have to go with someone from another culture and if ur not thinking of marriage then u should know is haram.
if he
just be carefull as unlike u own kind u do not know himm very well take care of yourself and pray to go if his good for u to be with him if not to for get him.
asalam alikum

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Abdi Osman

Thursday, June 22, 2000 - 07:10 am
My personal comment on this issue of interrace relationshipe is that for all I know somalia guy's are those one who are pushing the sisters ever further away.

The way I see things is that the young generation have began mixing with others race due to the fact that the own they ahve either forgotten about their culture or beacause they are confused... like you sister

The society we all live (western), makes the ever core of our believe and ID confusing.... I myself sometimes say certain questions but all I can say sister is that who you falling love is who you choose to love and if you thing this guy is MR RIGHT then go for it?

peace & Love abdi, London.

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girlInjeans

Thursday, June 22, 2000 - 10:06 am
ABDI OSMAN

I think you are cool!Wayyyyyyy cool!

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Xalima Cali

Thursday, June 22, 2000 - 11:02 am
You pple are so weird!
The woman is dating a muslim guy.
What is wrong with that?
In somalia pple dated! It was NORMAL. Even in Baadiyo- men and women spent time together - getting to know each other.
This business of man and woman being spearated is something you learned in arabia and as immigrants. Don't forget your true culture. Somalis are moslims but we are also a culture that has strong women!

Listen to me true_sista, be smart. DO NOT SLEEP WITH THE MAN. DO NOT SLEEP WITH ANY MAN OTHER THAN YOUR HUSBAND. Date him and keep going after your education. Later, when you are older, if you want to marry the man- go for it. If you don't- so be it!
What others say is IRRELEVANT. Pple come and pple go- what stays is YOU! Be true to yourself and to your Creator.
Thats all.

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Concerned Brotha

Thursday, June 22, 2000 - 04:59 pm
Dear True_sista_2000

I see your having a serious in with your love life and your looking for the best possible solution. Personally I think the biggest mistake you made was sharing your problems with these ignorant morons (although you did recieve solid advice from a few resonable adults. It would be wise to consider the fact that most inter-racial or inter-cultural relationships end up in separation but if your happy with him for the time being and he is a genuine muslim there should be no problem with you seeing him. And to all those morons who were dissing you in a disgusting manner and claiming to be muslim. I would like to remind them that muslims do not verbally abuse one another (especially your fellow Somalian sister) in a crude and revolting manner. Nevertheless, if your looking for genuine advice I would recommend that you discuss this with your parents and convince your family to accept your boyfriend regardless of his race, culture and ethnic background. As long as your family accepts your relationship who gives a @#$% what everyone else thinks. I hope you consider my advice and my god help you overcome your problems. Allah knows best.

Salumu alykum

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S.A

Friday, June 23, 2000 - 05:28 am
SIS
I WOULD SAY LISTEN TO YOUR CONCERNED BROTHER HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH, IF THE GUY IS MUSLIM AND HE LUVS U AND U FEEL THE SAME WAY THENWHATS THE PROBLEM.

LET ME TELL U SOMETHING THAT I AM NOT HAPPY WITH BEING A SOMALI IS THAT THEY GET JELOUSE JUST COZ U ARE GOING OUT WITH A BLACK GUY COZ PLUS HE IS MUSLIM WHAT IS THERE PROBLEM. JUST LISTEN TO YOUR HEART DONT LISTEN TO NO ONE ITS NONE OF THERE BUSINESS, I HOPE YOUR PARENTS UNDERSTAND.

TAKE CARE SIS
AND DONT LISTEN TO THESE IGNORENT FOOLS

CONCERNED BRO U ARE RIGHT AND U GAVE SOME USEFUL ADVICE

S.A

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Anonymous

Monday, June 26, 2000 - 04:14 pm
Waxa ay ila tahay qof walaalkaa oo talo ku weydiistay inaan la aflagaadeynin, balse wiilasha soomalida ah ee gabadhan aflagaadeeyay anigaa "XAAL" siiyay, sababtoo iyaga naftooda ayaa LUSERS ah oo aan mudnayn in talo la weydiiyo, if he is a real muslim man what is wrong with that??????

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hebel

Monday, June 26, 2000 - 07:27 pm
xaal baanu siinay waa inaanu guur guursanaa.

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Anonymous

Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 05:24 am
Hi.. All I say is don't worry about others be secure with u'rself and worry only about the allmighty! .. follow your reasoning and surely u'll never go wrong. FOLLOW THE ROAD TO PURITY!!
signing out: Abdi

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simplymo

Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 06:21 am
Hi..... Well, Salaama Calaykum!

The publicity of our girls versus "ilma-dhagax" (black guys!) has become so big, it reached a point where Somali families permit their kids to discuss this issue with their kids.

Let me tall you something people, there is a very narrow definition behind this, and would not cover only this issue but other similar/related issues, its called "Lost". Simply alot of our sisters don't know the difference between: what's worth a dabte and what's not.... Getting involved with foreigners, in terms of relationship... I don't care if he is sweet, next door neighbour, your milk-man, there is a Somali code you should not break.... The code of HONOUR. Be familiar with this, especially to the sisters out there, it should click into your heads... I see now and then girls being big headed, sending messages to anyone who is younger than them or from their country who cross their path.... by having an image from their T.V. heroes or OK! magazines. I mean come-on!... would you rather sell your image to your religion or to "bida-boys" (black-boys) who would sell you the most un-healthiest corpses available in this world. I guess I said enough to refresh your memories for now.... Be keen to your faith for Allah, and for your culture.... or you will find yourself stuck in this life and the life after, which would judge your actions from now.


Ta`h, Ta'h Darlings!

SimplyMo

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tonibraxton

Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 06:50 am
code of HONOR???????

where are we...in military? oh brother oh brother! ya making me loose faith in this insitution of somali men!And ya go on and saying we be keen to our faith in allah!WE WILL!..by marrying a black (bida..in ya lousy defination)..whos muslim!...I thought as long as the guy is muslim its ok!
take ya code of hono..ya can discharge us!

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simplymo

Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 10:18 am
the perfect example of my previous comment is tonibraxton... i hope she is always on the menu for the monkeys... for life

simplyMo

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Kamaal

Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 11:10 am
simplymo,

Listening to you made me want to puke, damn, I am quite positive that you have no clue whatsoever on this subject. So do us a favor here stop giving your advice to these innocent ladies. If they listen to you I am pretty sure they will end up on the arms of what you call "Monkeys".

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RosaParks

Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 08:00 pm
O.K......

SimplyIgnorant i dont know what code of conduct u abide by but it aint the muslim one.....first of all ur little commentary is full of contraction and wrong on so many levels but we won't get into that...u claim that we somali women are lost for even considering an african american guy for a mate......well not only am i and so many of my girlfriends lost but we are dazed and confused as well for..... we cant get enough of our beautiful, buff, strong black brothers....u seem to be suffer from a common case of "playin hatin' on african-american brothers" because so many of your somalian sister have decided that they preferred the fine taste of soul food over canjeero and bananas and the only way that ur sorry and frustrated ass could do anything about is through the world wide web.....because as we both know ur sorry weaklin' little ass could not stand to confront an african american brother face to face.....i mean somali men are so freaken cocky considering their physique....i mean a man with a receeding hairline, chicken legs and an overbite is not excately the soul mate im looking for try that •••• with the poor baadyoo girls although im sure that even they would have it otherwise.

anyway im outty and remember simplymo ....milk does a body good!:)

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simplymo

Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 12:04 am
'Ello

So.... The problem has become more acute. Just because a girl and her feelings for a guy who didn't happen to be Somali. And what do I get when I try to guide them.... an ironic twist from people who are in the front line of Somali nation's distruction. Well.... I hope you keep up with this small trade of "Let the girls play in their circus".... and guys, don't chat nitty gritty about my comment, its only for the girls.

SimplyMo

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haji.

Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 02:05 am
when do lost girls learn to keep to themselves and stop campaigning for their sexual lust in the somali forumss?. who the hell cares if you slept with all guys in north america regardless of race?. your futo is yours do whatever you want do with it and see who gets infected and worn out. it is not me or cali or cumar.

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Abdi

Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 02:12 am
TO ROSAPARKS::

U THINK SOMALI MEN R WEAK SKINNY AND PRETTY MUCH USELESS CONSIDERING THEIR PHYSIQUE, OK LET ME TELL U SOMALI PEOPLE R THE ONLY PEOPLE WHO R NOT AFRAID OF DEATH TO STAND FOR THEIR HONOUR. U TELLING ME A SOMALI MAN WOULD STAND BY IF ''ANY PERSON , EVEN MIKE TYSON'' WERE TO OFFEND HIS MOTHER IN FRONT OF HIM, I BET U THE SKINNY SOMALI WOULD ''KILL HIM'' RATHER THEN LIVE WITH THAT, I HAVE SEEN WITH MY OWN EYES A SKINNY SOMALI, WHO CAN'T EVEN SPEAK ENGLISH BEAT THE •••• OUT OF 3 BIG BLACK MEN. THE ONLY WAY HE BET THEM WAS THE BELIVE IN HIMSELF. ANYWAY IAM NOT SAYING THE SOMALI LADIES SHOULD'NT SEE OTHER MUSLIM BROTHERS, BUT I CAN'T STAND WHAT U PRECIEVE OF SOMALI MEN.

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aisha

Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 03:35 am
nickles and dimes thoughts. well why not add my own. for the sister, no matter how good yo think he is, a black man is always going to be a black man. he might be good to you but at one point or another he will leave. as for him not asking you for nothing, maybe he is getting it somewhere else. his "needs" are being met by someone else. also with all these confusion in the world i think its better to have a common ground. with someone with the same culture there is a common ground for the kids.

for those microscopic minded somali men, this is not about you guys, its about the sister. dating does not mean she is sleeping with someone. let the sister live.

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simplymo

Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 03:58 am
Suddenly the weather changes.... thanks to aisha.
It would be quite wrong to force people to other things, but they should reconsider the situation they put themselves in. We all have the right to withhold our issues, but its not good to give up something you were ment to be, for something you want to be... that's what our culture is for, and our religion. And that means that, wether you feel stand corrected or not.

simplymo

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Jeego

Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 08:40 am
False-Sis Or whatever

When you posted this article I think you wanted trouble or your dump, likely we Somali Man become on this cyberworld fadhi kudirir, How can you accept us to apploud this wreched affair of yours.

Let me explain why we are hysterical about this stupid decision of yours. Somali say NIN DURBAAN TUNTAY CILAAQ DALBAY. you posted to us remember.

We invested in you girl and when we are about to harvest our hard won investment you give it easly to another man who has no stake in our Koolkoolin.
Tol'ay still have the nerve to tell us and accept to walk away with it and worse your not hiding in basement.

I if we date as many of you complain non-somali
Woman is not problem to You or to Us. because it is only extra help and lose other Mans to investment, so don't compare your blatant lose you cuased Us.

Go and tell your father or brothers or any somali man with DAMIIR (Exclude all the Dhiiglaawe somali man in this post) let us know their reaction every man in this world feels same when he sees his woman with different national. In this matter any woman who don't understand are plain dump.

Mis Rosebud
You can call us whatever you want as long as you keeping your bud for us ...lol...don't shoot me.

for the Dhiiglaawe.
Wake up.. how can you pretend ?
I never refer woman to a man let alone foreigner I like to keep to myself.

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kc

Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 02:04 pm
Dear sister, i know how hard love takes over people, i m not a racist but all i would like to say is that most of all african-american muslims have been in jail n that is the place where they became a muslim, i know a girl who married a african-american muslim and she really lives in a horrible live, because she has lost all her contacts with every somali and all she does is stay home,because that is the first reason he wanted to marry her. so please just think twice, you think u r making the right choice but it will not turn out to be the way it looks to u in the future.

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sami egal

Thursday, June 29, 2000 - 01:45 am
hi , sis i do respect ur personal feelings,
if u think he is da man ,than let it be ,
i guess u would be prepared to hear ur own
mom calling ur kids adoon ,i personally don't encouarge racism ,however i like to keep my somaliness ,pure n simple ,n i don't expect
a half creed to make his way into somalia
trying to be a part , we have enough terrible
keeping our own creed together ,so as long as
u r keeping them in their america , it is ok,
somali sis marrying non-somalis should keep their
kids in their homeland ,
p.s as for somali guys ur women needs emotional
support n alot of intimacy ,don't treat like
cooks or ur nite woman ,somali womem are much
better than white ass trash with no ass at all
n da nigga bithches with wigs n funny smelling
odor dat i can't stand ,da bottom line ,no one
matches their beauty n they should get da rite
treatment , peace

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Big Black Nigga

Thursday, June 29, 2000 - 02:47 am
True sista babe
you are so cute and coragous. I like your way of life. Just to let you know sweetlove I am a black and a muslim brother and single. My ambition is to get a lady like you who is coragous and not tainted with racism but true love. Take care babe and God bless

Here is my email
bigblacknigga14@hotmail.com
you are welcome anytime babe

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shoobto

Thursday, June 29, 2000 - 10:19 am
Warkii oo kooban abaayo macaaneey; DHILO weyn aa tahay,maxaa nin afrikan-mareekan kuu geeleyey???..gabar soomaali aabo ilaaheey kaa dhigey,nin dadkaaga oo ku qanciyo maa waasey?

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hebel

Thursday, June 29, 2000 - 05:25 pm
How much would a Big Black Nigger worth at the Flea Market these days guys?
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I guess the dummier he is, the more expensive huh?

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TGIRL

Friday, June 30, 2000 - 11:49 am
Naaa aaaaahhh naah....My somali niggas aa iga badan aniga mugoooooo....I will explore other nationalities after I finish exploring my Faraxs...After all I am a major supporter of equal opportunities...........Till then keep it together ppl...........

Real Deal....
U still dialling the wrong number to my heart bro...LOL....The access code changed Carbaco Faareey Qamiis kala haad kii.....LOL.....Keeep in touch gacalka....Missed ya loads....

PEACE
TROUBLE

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hebel

Friday, June 30, 2000 - 12:41 pm
tgirl

Bitch get ya self a life and a poppy!

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Mariah

Friday, June 30, 2000 - 05:50 pm
T-girl......Don't beleive this Hebel.....cause he isn't hebel.......


The so-called hebel.....You go first??????

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Anonymous

Friday, June 30, 2000 - 07:30 pm
mariah hehehehehhehe so u iz hebel, dat mean ya is a man dat mean u is a faggot!! bitch ass...weak nigga..how else ya know this is not hebel

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hebel

Friday, June 30, 2000 - 08:15 pm
Now this is what I call a character assassination Mariah.
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Can't be like me so they decided to kill me.
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T-G Sorry U know I never go that low.
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I might be goofy but I ain't never stupid.
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But I do got me two Niggers, and I do want to sale them.

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Mariah

Saturday, July 01, 2000 - 05:40 am
Anon.......I don't take peoples name......maybe it was you......


Hebel.........Why would i want to use your name.......

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hebel

Saturday, July 01, 2000 - 09:29 am
I never said U did Mariah.
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I was halfway talking about them Idiots over there, and the other half apologizing our Troubled-sister.
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Lord have mercy on us.

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She

Saturday, July 01, 2000 - 07:21 pm
Tonibraxton,

I believe the Code of honour means

"I like the way I look and I want my kids to look like me"

Right Simplymo?!

Aisha,

"a black man is always going to be a black man."

Are you black or white abay? just wondering!

Peace all

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Anonymous

Sunday, July 02, 2000 - 03:02 am
Now the story and the drama took a curve trun,coz flipfloppers got here....
Naaya dhilo.. you go and marry your Nigger(we didn't invent the word)it won't botter, only when we heard your suffering then we might feel sad..
you are not the 1st and won't be the last. Somali chicks are very well known now a days, there's a cheap open season for every Nigger, clean ass,cheap,free and screw from every point... that's the pry of the Nigger's.. since you said you were dating 4 six months , you didn't live up to your teachings and culture.....
some dhilooyin advice you to go head, they don't have to, coz u already, and why u are asking us.... when already decided....some said.(Dhilooyinka)to go ahead if he's a muslim...... well that's not enough.... we have calture strong as a Religion...
The chicks we see them every other day in the streets with a different strange PPl, it's not our concern.

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Somalistar

Sunday, July 02, 2000 - 06:57 am
What is this, yo i can beleive this
u people are dealing with hooooooooooooos
in my opinion, DONT TAKED PERSONAL PLEASE

is u choose sweatie but make sure u use gloves aight. Second thing dont limit u game.
if u know what i mean.

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simplymo

Monday, July 03, 2000 - 05:37 am
Iska Warama!

Naayaada, waqti la'aan baa idinka batay.... tiiniina dhididkeeda u urey, ha isu maleyn in aad tahay "THE NEXT BEST THING"... your issues will never stand in Somalia... or in our communities, so pack your bags, and head for the jungle for some "WORLD OF PAIN".... I'm sicka tired of these young Somali girls, all they do is come up with some annoying issues, So I am here to warn you... Dare you do what you say in a true Somali Man's face...

ToniBraxton: Please sista.... I ain't the type of guy who builds rail-road-stories for sisters like you.

SimplyMo

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somalistar

Monday, July 03, 2000 - 07:38 am
You the man simplymo.
I agree with u, take u problem to u family or
u friends. We here to discuss real problem

Not a lost girl aight.

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RosaParks

Tuesday, July 04, 2000 - 08:02 pm
Ok...

so um i presume every male who comes on this site has the same mental capacity as the second neantherthal on the line of evolution...i think im giving y'all too much credit even he knew how to make fire and reason...as usual this issue is becoming very male dominated...listen you guys claim that "black" men mistreat their women and abuse them and etc.....87% of household inhabited by somali families in north america are run by somali women...our kids are filling up the jails like sardines due to a lack male role models..Our country i wont even go their! ...its total destruction due somali men...and your list of highly noted good accomplishments goes on..you guys are a sad bunch of beings and only allah know where u struck up the nerves to dictate what this poor female should be doing with her life..its true that she needs advice but hell not from y'all...and whats this superioriy complex im sensing from y'all ...y'all do not remenber how u used to kiss the italian and british ass....slavery is long and over in western africa you fools...but poor somali girls are lured into foreign european countries where then they are practically sold to the highest bidder and make a living as maids.. second this forums was not set up to discuss any other issue except the one that the sista brought up...its here forums and u feel this is not a relevant issue...SCREW YOU get the hell outta here and create your own forums..


im Out

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simplymo

Wednesday, July 05, 2000 - 02:18 am
RosePark

The comment you just made gave a birth to hatriate from the girls to guys.... I don't know what you notice around you, but not all Somalis are your average friend. I find you very SOLID-MINDED... Chill!, Not everybody is like you, and wants to be like you.

SimplyMo

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TRUE_SISTA_2000

Wednesday, July 05, 2000 - 11:34 am
SALAM ALL,

SORRY IT TOOK ME A LONG TIME TO ANSWER YOUR REMARKS. BEEN SO BUSY WITH WORK AND SCHOOL JUST HAD NO TIME FOR COMPUTERS. WELL WHERE DO I BEGIN:

SUMAYA: ABAAYO, I APPRECIATE WHAT U ARE TRYING TO DO FOR ME BUT WHAT DID U MEAN "BEFORE YOU PLAY WITH FIRE"? I AM NOT PLAYING WITH FIRE BECAUSE I KNOW VERY WELL HOW TO PREVENT IT AND IF IT ARISES I KNOW HOW TO PUT IT OFF, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. SO BEFORE U MENTION FIRES THINK AND TALK, DON'T JUST TALK.

JEEGO: IF YOU DON'T WANT TO EXCEPT MY WHAT U CALL "AFFAIRS" PLEASE DON'T COMMENT. CAUSE I DON'T CARE. AND I DID NOT SAY THAT SOMALI BROTHERS ARE HORRIBLE AT ALL. IF U READ MY PARAGRAPH UP THERE THEN EVEN A DUMB MINDED IDIOT LIKE U WOULD KNOW WHAT I AM TALKIN' ABOUT.

ROSAPARKS: U STILL HERE?....ANYHOW I THINK THAT MEDICATION OF URS HAS WORN OUT. NOW BEFORE U GO CRAZY PUT URSELF IN A BATHTUB FULL OF ICE THEN MAYBE UR BRAIN WILL COOL DOWN FROM THE CRAZY NON-SENSE THAT IS CHATTERING IN UR HEAD. AND YES I STILL GO BY 50% RELIGION AND 50% CULTURE. THANK YOU.

KC: THANKS BRO. I WILL TAKE UR ADVICE AND USE IT BUT I AIN'T JUDGEMENTAL AND I DON'T THINK U ARE. THERE ARE CASES AS U SAID THAT DID HAPPEN. BUT SOME OF THEM WERE ALSO BORN MUSLIM TOO OR CONVERTED BECAUSE THEY KNEW A FRIEND WHO WAS MUSLIM. IT COULD BE ANYTHING NOT JUST AFTER OUT OF JAIL, BUT THAT IS MOSTLY IT.

SIMPLYMO: IF U HAVE A PROBLEM WITH US SOMALI CHICKS TELL IT TO THE JUDGE. WE HAVE A LIFE TOO AND SO DO YOU. TELL ME, HOW MANY SOMALI GUYS DO I SEE EVERYDAY THAT ARE WITH WHITE GIRLS? AND SUCH OTHER GIRLS FROM OTHER CULTURES? SO PLEASE ATLEAST MOST OF US GIRLS KNOW NOT TO SCREW AROUND WITH HIV POSITIVE'S. SO THINK BEFORE U TELL US TO PACK OUR BAGS TO THE SO CALLED "JUNGLE OF SOMALIA".

TILL NEXT TIME PEACE OUT.

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Real Deal

Saturday, July 08, 2000 - 11:05 am
True_sis....Don't listen to those idiots who reponded to your article with negativity and profanity. They are nothing but plain losers, so pay no attention to them. If the brother is a Muslim, then that's what matter sis, and from the bottom of my heart I wish both of you happy life.

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Alyisa

Saturday, July 08, 2000 - 04:10 pm
To Anonymous Sunday July 2

<<we have calture strong as a Religion... >>

Uhh nooo YOU have a culture that's as strong as religion not we, don't generalize all Somalis. I for one don't have a culture that's as strong as religion. Culture doesn't even come close to the respect I have for my creator and religion. AstaqfurAllah I can't believe a muslim person would say such thing!

To True_Sista

<<AND YES I STILL GO BY 50% RELIGION AND 50%CULTURE>>

In other words, you only live 50% of your life in accordance with Islam/Allah and the other 50% with culture? AstaqfurAllah!

This is amazing we're all so quick to jump at people when it comes to useless wordly things but when they make comments like this NO ONE seems to care.

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simplymo

Tuesday, July 11, 2000 - 06:24 am
OK... I GET IT!

True Sista 3000... or whateva!

Zip your issues around yourself. Why don't you look other places while you are in the streets, than "SPOT THE BORTHER WITH FOREIGN CHICS".... You tell us how it is, and we'll tell you how its like, capiche!?

SimplyMo

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Fine one

Tuesday, July 11, 2000 - 04:05 pm
Real Stupid deal. where in islam did you see " dating is Ok" did you read her claim. she has seen him for six months. Real stupid deal, tell me what seing means? True_freakn_sis take that nigga to the islamic center and get him hooked if you will?

Later

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hebel

Tuesday, July 11, 2000 - 05:30 pm
SimplyMo everytime U go with the CAPISHE! thang yar cover plows away.

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XaaaX

Thursday, July 13, 2000 - 01:18 am
one, 20,000 or 100,000 Somali women who married African-Americans doesn't mean anything to the real Somali men and women in back home. "SOO MA OGIDIIN HADII ILMO JAREER AH OO NAAG SOMALIYA LAGA DHALEY AANAN LA KEENIN KARIN HARGEYSA, BURCO AMA XAMAR AMA KISMAAYO?" The fact that Somalis in back home are more racist than any other Somalis are in the whole world means that Somali men and women married to foreigners will have to live the rest of their life outside Somalia. As long as they don't assimilate to the real Somali society in back home, those who enjoy there marriage to foreigners and those who suffer will consequently live abroad and just express their opinion in places like SomaliNet. Therefore, Somali culture will survive forever. On the other hand, we shouldn't forget the reality that Somalis are given asylum in western countries so that they assimilate to the society. There is one more issue I want to talk about: in any society in the history of mankind, men and women got married with basis that they have the same culture, tradition and religion background. If one of 3 is missing it's more likely that marriage will fall apart. For example, it's either not possible or rare to see a Muslim Pakistani woman married to African-American man, why? While you will probably see in every state in America one Somali woman with African-American man. The answer is simple, the deciding factor is not love or religion here its culture. It's clear. Love is great when it's combined with traditional and cultural background. Lack of culture and traditional values, do most Somali women fall for these African-Americans who probably doesn't have fathers for almost 95%.


P.S. if you ask any man from a nation with great cultural background (Not US or Canada), i mean for example, russia, finland, sweden, saudia, jordan, syria, israel, somalia,pakistan, india and alot more: what do you call a woman from your society married or dating other society? the answer you will get is probably: she is "DHILO". so maybe that is why so many men out here are calling that girl dhilo.

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Anonymous

Thursday, July 13, 2000 - 04:17 am
I AM TOTALLY WITH YOU BRO, THIS ASSIMILATED SOMALIS ARE NOT COUNTED, WE MUST PROTECT THOSE BACK HOME, THE REAL SOMALIS
PEACE

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hebel

Thursday, July 13, 2000 - 06:16 pm
And the Israils.

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da blessed1

Saturday, July 15, 2000 - 07:49 am
from experience i would advice you sister2000 not to go ahead with your shortterm romance if i may say love is more natural with someone from your enviorment most somali guys who have or had relationships with non somali women i.e the old somali seamens in england eventualy marry a somali women why?i had relationships with a blackwoman an african american she is the closest thing to a somali woman i got she tries to adapt to my somali culture converted her to islam but still i always felt that there were something missing especially when it comes to personal hygene somali women have a good reputation of being clean outside and inside too unfortunatly that is not the case with women from different cultures some of them smell of urine and **** cause they dont wipe there assess its .i think somali men when they go out with other women they dont have much to lose in your case ur virginity is on stake here u have to stop and ask yourself this question is it really woth it ,i understand the concept whitch most young women have about black men african americans in particular (a sex machine)well if thats what your looking for be careful he might use you and abuse you later like it happen to a somali lady i know of this afro-american guy was interested in her or her body and he said and did what it took for him to accomplish his gool once he did bomb he was out of the door banging other women she got upset the somali chick he even went a futher down and brought home some hookers home the guy made it clear that he got what he wanted from her and he wanted her to leave his house he even came to a somali cafe and told some somali men to come and take her evect her from his house even know they have a baby toghether .on the other hand you have us somali men who arent very good at sex because of our islamic ,xishood tradition aint no shame in it who are willing to accomodate themselves to be a lifetime partners (some r some arent)we have this family clan system where its harder for men not to be commeted to their wives -i dont know if u guys thought of this somali men dont cheat on their women unlike afro-americans .and it might be that he is different from the rest but hey we've all herd it b4 i have so many african american friends and whenever we talk about issues like family commetment to your children and how is a somali man is forced to marry a girl if he messess with her considering the missingrole of fathers in black america i say to my sself than god i was born a somali yes we have problems tell me who dont but when it comes to culture ours is unique and pure designed to help a healthy community
blessed 2 b somali

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Anonymous

Saturday, July 15, 2000 - 07:56 pm
she already tasted the dick of jareer so dont worry about her!

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simplymo

Sunday, July 16, 2000 - 06:25 pm
Dear da blessed1:

What on earth made u say that!, "GO AHEAD WITH YOUR SHORT TERM ROMANCE?"..... were you raised in the basement?.... Let me light the candle for you, keep you mouth shut, if ain't notin good coming out, now I'll leave you in the dark.... I am sure you can advice the rest of the sisters who chose to be exposed.

Please people, don't take this issue to a threshold.... that's if you are genuine.

simplymo

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Anonymous

Monday, July 17, 2000 - 03:54 am
forget the insecure, racist, druppy dick Somali brother and do what you want because if you spend your time pleasing them you will never win.

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da blessed!1

Monday, July 17, 2000 - 06:47 am
simplymo whats ur problem!!!!!!!!!!?at the begining i was trying to give the sister an advice not youuuuuuuu dump ass (moron)now i know what makes our sisters unpleased with us somalimen and seek love and understanding from other men its narrowminded racist jealous assholes like u and many others on this page nigger please get a life somaliwomen are not i repeat they're not slaves u dont own them boy they can do whatever the hell they feel like doing (get over it)and find yourself a woman desparatoo ohh my gosh how ignorant and inconsidarate insinsitive can u be guys 'and i see why ur women are runung away from u cause u want to enslave them just like ur grandfather did (like father like son i guess) why would u be any different ignorant the girl is asking for advise from bunch of idiots the likes of the last two stupid souls.

can we somalis stop prejudgments!!!!!!!!!?

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TRUE_SISTA_2000

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 04:23 am
SALAM ALL,


XAAX AND THE BLESSED ONE: THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE ADVISE. BUT ONE THING: ON THE DAY OF JUDGEMENT, IS ALLAH SUBXANA WATACAALA GONNA ASK YOU HOW WELL YOU SERVED YOUR RELIGION AND HIM, OR HOW WELL YOU SERVED YOUR CULTURE? THINK ABOUT IT PLEASE.ABOUT THE PEOPLE BACK HOME, WHY SHOULD YOU MAKE YOUR DECISIONS BASED UPON THEM? I HAVE A LIFE AND I BASE MY DESICION UPON MYSELF. AND WHY SHOULD SOME SOMALI MEN GET MAD BECAUSE A SOMALI WOMAN GOES WITH ANOTHER GUY FROM ANOTHER CULTURE BUT SAME RELIGION? AND IT'S OK FOR THEM TO SCREW AROUND WITH OTHER STD'S INFECTED CHICK? HEY, DON'T GET ME WRONG HERE ONLY SOME SOMALI MEN ARE LIKE THAT NOT ALL.

SIMPLYMO: OBVIOUSLY YOU HATIN' ON THE MATURE PEOPLE WITH GOOD ADVISE HERE. SO YOU NEED TO JUST CHILL AND ACT LIKE AN ADULT NOT LIKE A "DHOCILL" AIGHT.

ANONYMOUS: "SHE ALREADY TASTED THE DICK OF JAREER SO DON'T WORRY ABOUT HER". LISTEN YOU IGNORANT AND DISTURBED LITTLE CHILD, I DON'T NEED YOUR DUMB ASS COMMENTS. EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE. BUT WHO SAID ANYTHING ABOUT TASTING A JAREER'S DICK? YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO READ AND UNDERSTAND BRO/SIS. MAN JUST WHEN I THOUGHT I WAS TALKING TO NORMAL PEOPLE, I'M TALKING TO A BUNCH OF HYPERCRATES AND CHILDREN.

TILL NEXT TIME PEACE OUT.

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Anonymous

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 09:34 am
but sooner or later you will taste it right?.... that is what u want us accept.......right? u want us to allow you jareer dick for you.....that is why u r here...............no way somalis are agianst that..................forever.......only dhilooyin with bad family background fall for jareer in america...............what kind of muslim is he.............? yesterday he was christiand and tomorrow when he meets another pussy better than yours he will ofcoarse leave u.......that is jareer's way.....besides, no jareer dates girl no matter what original without making her taste the dick...........so the conclusion is that u tasted and we wont approve that to be normal in our culture.....so dhilo remember y r alone.....................oh thank god.....she can't bring those jareer kids back home as XAAAX said.............

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Mo

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 01:26 pm
True sista i am so sorry to find so many of our fellow brothers in sane and abnoxious.
But sista if it's true love and if the guy is muslim that is all that matters and we all wish you the very best.


caring bro

mo

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Mo

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 01:28 pm
True sista2000

I am so sorry to find so many of our brothers in sane and abnoxious.
But sista if it's true love and if the guy is muslim that is all that matters and we all wish you the very best.


caring bro

mo

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Anonymous

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 03:10 am
Dear brother get of this high horse leave others to get on with their lifes and do something more productive with your anger and enegry, like help build somalia.
And borthers you are all pissed because this sister is doing what you all have been thinking for years.


lol lol

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TRUE_SISTA_2000

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 04:15 am
1ST ANONYMOUS: SORRY BRO/SIS...HAVEN'T TASTED NO DICK YET..BUT SINCE YOU SEEM TO KNOW A LOT ABOUT TASTING IT MAYBE PROSTITUTION CAN BE YOUR NEXT STEP. RESPECT IS WHAT I HAVE FOR MYSELF AND OTHERS DO YOU? I GUESS NOT. THAT'S WHY YOU GOTTA PLAYA HATE ON ME. NEXT TIME TAKE YOUR SORRY LITTLE BUTT TO SOME OTHER SORRY B****..WHO WILL GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR "INNER CHILDNESS".

MO: THANKS FOR YOUR COMMENT, I APPRECIATE IT.

TILL NEXT TIME TAKE CARE.
PEACE.

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Amaal

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 05:38 am
well I have to say that there are some fasinating creatures leaving messages for a sister how asked for advice I really do not know whether to laugh at the likes of Murdiidi or wheter to pull aout my abnormal pysychology refernce manual and rate his narcissitic retared behaviors. Frist the sister asked for advice if u do not have any please do not post the stupidity that u have managed to create. Sis all a have to say to u is that u should focus on Allah if he as brought this man into your life then he intended for him to be there. If both of u are rightous people and living by Allah's word than I wish u luck in your relationship. And u are always going to experince poeple in this world that are self-absorbed, close minded negative forces simply disregard them.
nuff blessins and repect sis
Allah will quide u so put all your faith in him

To all u somali poeple out there that think they are not black , please get over it cause u are as balck as black gets straight from the motherland y'all should be ashamed of yourslefs cause y'all are phathtic humans that just do not get it !

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simplymo

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 06:48 am
OK!... I GIVE UP!!

I am sure I will hear loud cheers after I say this (from those of you who agree!). I honestly think, somali girls who have relationships with foreigners will absolutely have no room in their country or their families if they walk into one, and that is a fact. Those who are alredy in one, will start to realise what they have done wrong when they grow into their fantasy relationships. So I ask, what is wrong with being genuine somali?... Kab korka ii saara hadaad gabdhihiina soomaaliyeed aynan cudur iyo cuqdad aysan idin galin. Fooling around is one thing, but hookin up till the day I die sshit is completely giving your hopes away to the mushuunguli boys.... ask yourself?

!ater

simplymo

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Anonymous

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 07:08 am
ala dhilo dhan markuu jareer waso ayey tiraahdaa ilaah baa ii keeney. ilaah subxanu watacaala ka dhaafa nabsashada............ilaah somali buu idinka dhigey iney somali ku wasto ayuuna kuu sameeyey ee ........ilaah ha nabsanina.........amal ma dhilooyinka ayaa ku jirtaa adigana?

simplemo,
aleeleh hadaad rageedii tahay............naag jareer soo wasey waa ugu walee ineysan intey mudug, hargeysa, burco ama xamar dhex istaagto afkeeda ka oran karin jareer baa i fuuley ee ilmahana iga dhaley.............dayuusad najis najis dhaley weeyaan kuwaa dhilooyinka noqdey...

taada true-sosta isku sheegtey.........jareerka adoonka adoonka dhaley la aqoon meeshaad doonto la gal koley somali kuma aysan tirsaneeyn weligood.............dhilooyin badan oo sidaada oo kale...............dhadhamiyey........jareerna wey buuxaan mareekan ee ka doono............na daa anaga saqajaamada yahey.....somalinet somala leh ee mar danbe waz ha ku soo qorin quran-quran dhaley baa tahee........wasiiraatii hore baa xumeedee............gabdhaha somaliyeed ee sharafta leh maad ku dayadid intaad adoon lugaha u kala fureeso.............?

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khadija

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 11:16 am
im laughing at what u ppl wasted ur time and energy on debating-somaliwomen with foregieners
i simply dont give a damn if they go with whites other blacks chienese-or even alians from another planets...as if i care about it.no i dont so please stop buging us with ur little fantasy stories and come back to the real world and give us something we really care about to discuss
on the form. am sick and tierd of some stupid girls who all they wanna do is grab attention in every possible way.

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Sumaya

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 04:53 pm
Salaama Caleykum


To:TRUE_SISTA_2000

Abaayo fear Allaah, why you wasting your time, ppl are using bad words, where is respect and Islam,pls if you love the guy go with him, if not stop non-sense here.

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Xoogsade

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 04:54 pm
I am coming to the same conclusion.

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mohamed ibrahim

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 09:46 am
war horta waxaan kala garan waayey in meesha waxan wax ku soo qora ay yihiin ciyaal mise dad waa weyn? war nimanyahow isku xishooda waxan aad qoreysaan cid walaba ayaa aqrisa. xishoodkii iyo is tixgelintii xagee qabateyna? gabdhan walaasheyna war xataa hadey "MARS" nin ka keensato iska daaya oo idinka maxaa idinka kaleyna, walaashiin maaba mid walba tan asaga la dhalatey ha u taliyo ee wuxuu wax u arko ha u diido haduu doono laakin inaad dad kale arimahooda faraha la gashaan aqayaarta waa qalad.

true sista,

abaayo, adigana hadaan hadal iyo reero quuq aheen maad waxaada iska qarsatid waad og tahay waxyaabo qaar somali oo dhan isku si uma aragto! xaq waxaad u leedahay inaad waxaad doonto sameyso lakin adigana xishoo oo wax dhaqanka somaliyeed ka baxsan ahaad sameesay iska qarso. arintan ninba si buu u arkaa. ilaahna qeyr ha kaaga dhigo ninkaad raacdo.

P.S. war nimanyahow yaan la iloobin in lis tixgeliyo please somali weyn sidan si maaha.

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hebel

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 04:40 pm
What time is it?

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faisal...

Tuesday, July 25, 2000 - 10:54 pm
Sister go with u man...every Somali knows whores
so many yrs sharmuuto has no respect within the somali community ..when our girls become ISTIRAASHO[NAPKINS] they always go with foreiners.
It hard to regain respect..becouse you wested
feel sorry for you family

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cali

Wednesday, July 26, 2000 - 09:28 am
naa zaaniyad yahay diinta ha ku musabidan
ma negro baa diin yaqaan mise adiga diinta!
ngero zaaniyad baan u tagtaa markaa cancer uu baa tahay soomlinimadana waxba ha ka sheegi.
orad i

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Sranger

Saturday, July 29, 2000 - 02:15 am
Salam all...

First of all why do U all waist ur time on this nonsence issue? We'll know that somalians are the worse n biggest rasict in the intire world( sad but a hard n cold fact!!!)

Truesista : If you really needed advice, u shoulda ask your family or closest freinds( i think their point of view matters more then these morons here ( including me hehehe) )
Besides why live life the way other wants u to?--gurl it's ur life n u don have to answer it for no1 except God!

To the rest : ihave a quietion....DO u guys know that u have dobbel morals??
one minutt u say u should respect the somali sisters.Second u say she's a whore?

I figured out that U guys always come up with these law insultions cuz u really got dised by a respektfull somali sista....cuz of your childish/stupied/idotact behaver.Think bout it!

And to those wanna be Sheeks : First get rid of the dobbel morality and don get religious all ofsound when it's things u don have answers for. PLuss stopp mixing culture with religion!!
(They are 2 differnt things)


God Bless ya'll...peace

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simplymo

Friday, August 04, 2000 - 08:24 am
Hello!

Regarding the double morals. I think not. Its clear in all the individuals who made
comments in this forums, especially from those who were concerned and showed interest
in this topic, contributed their reactions for TRUE_SISTA's agenda in a single mannered
idea. I for one, think that its not necessary to judge others but to guide them (by all
means necessary), even if it lead to provoking them to be abusive.

I can only underline, for future posts, for us, to be part of the solution, but not in the
problem. I have clearly expressed my feelings for this issue in the past, and that had its
consequences. But I still stand with my original motive. Gabdho, aduun baa laguu jiraa,
you might be young and get carried away and bring issues like this to us when you find
no where to run, its OK!, its a transition state in your lifes. Laakiin, don't confront us with
your topics and say, "I have done something positive", when its clear to you that we will
not tolerate it. So, here is your piece of the action, keep the issues in brief, and show
you wouldn't let the same thing happen to someone you care about or love. Few of us
are actually are solid minded, now I come to think of it, that is an illness called "Cuqdad".

Odayaasha waa ka dhawaajiseen, meeshii xishood la muujiin lahaa, maanaboolyaa laga
dhigtay. Khayr alaha Soomaaliya ha siiyo, shacabkeeda ha noqdo mid lagu dayado uguna
hormarsan, in dulam-carab and the global markets.

Bigger Task is the Bigger Picture.

Waan ka baxay!

simplymo

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ALI

Friday, August 04, 2000 - 02:57 pm
Kadija:

May i say you are only sane sister up there!..

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LIBAAN

Tuesday, August 08, 2000 - 10:58 am
TRUE-SIS-2000

WAXAAN RABAA IN AAN KUU SHEEGO WIXII AAD KU QORTAY SHUKAASIGAAGII WANAAGSANAA OO KU SALEYSNAA AFRO-AMERICAN- MUSLIM BOY.

MARKA WAXAAN KA ARKEY QORAARLKAAGA SIDA WANAAGSAN EE UU KUU QANCIYEY OO AAD XITAA UU KUU SAHLEY WAXBARASHADAADII.

WAXAAN KUU SHEEGAYAA WAXA AY KU KALA DUWAN YIHIIN WIIL KU KOREY AMERICA IYO MID WATA DHAQANKA LAGA HANTEY SOOMALIDII HORE.


WAXA UU KU FIICAN YAHAY NINKA SOOMAALIYEED

IN A LONG - RUN DHIBAATANA KAAGAMA TAGAYO HADII CIDIINANA AY DHIBAATEYSANTAHAY WALIBA AYADOO U BAAHAN YIHIIN CIDIISA

WAXA AY KU XUN YIHIIN POOR PRESENTATION, LOCK OF KISS AND CODLING, NO FLOWER OR WINE NO CARDS NO IS-TUS-TUS NO TRAINING, SPORTS, GYM NOT ON THE TELLY, NO ON MORNING PAPERS.


WAXA UU KU FIICAN YAHAY AFRO-AMERICAN-

DOWN-TO EARTH WHEN YOU NEED HIM, GOOD LISNER WHEN WAITING REAL ACTION. CUT RELATIONSHIP ALL HIS X MISTRESSES. SANG ALL THE TIME YOU ARE ONLY ONE AND ALONE FOR MY LIVE 7DAYS.

WAXA UU KU XUN YAHAY

AVOIDS RESPONSIBILITY WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP GROWS

MARKA WE DON'T WANT OUR SISTER SUFFERING WHEN WE CAN GIVE THEM FULL SUPORT, MAXAA YEELEY RAGU WAXA AY KA ORDAAN MARKA NAAGATU DHAQAN NINKALE BARATO, MIDA UU DHAQANKAAS KU RAACANA MA AHAN JECEYL RUN AN EE WAA GALBATAYE MAGAC UUN HAKAA HARO.

MARKA DHAGEYSO SIDA LOO DABO KALUUNKII HORE IYO KAN DANBE

WAAGII HORE KALUUNKA LAMA AQOON IN UU HILIBKA CUNO, WAXAA KALIYA OO LOO HEYSTAY IN UU WAX CABO "WALIBA BIYAHA DHANAAN OO AAN AAD U QABOOBEYN.

DADKU WAXAA KU DABAN JIREEN XEELADA LOO YAQAAN SHABAQ DHIGID MARKAASNA AY ISKA SUGTAAN CADAD AAN LA QIYAASI KARIN MAR MARNA WAXBA KUMA DHACAAN MARKA DADKIINA WAXAY KU NOQDEEN IN AY KA SOO SAARTAAN NOLOL MAAL MEELKOODA SI AY U DHOWRTAAN SHARAFTOODA OO DADKA KALE AY U SII AMAAHIYAAN HADII AY WAX SHAQO KALE UGA DALBADAAN HADII UU MALAYGU YARAADO.

XEELADAAS WAA LAGA SOO BAXAY OO DADKII WAXAA LAGU YIRI WAXAAD LEEDAHAY WIXII AAD LA SOO BAXDID HADII AAD WAX LASOO BIXI WEYSIDNA BULSHADA AYAAD UGU HOOSEYNDOONTIIN.

MARKA DADKII WEY FAKAREEN OO WAXAY SOO QABTEEN MAALIN MALAAY NOOL MARKAASAY WAXAY ARKEEN MALAAYGII OO QANIINAYA LUGUHII DADKA. DADKII WAXAY OGAADEEN IN UU MALAAYGU UU SAN LAHAYN ILKO UU WAX ADAG KU GOOSTO.

MARKA WAXAY NOQOTAY IN MALAYGII LOO RAADIYO HILIB JILICSAN SI LOO BADIYO WAX SOO SAARKA MALAAYGA.
LAAKIIN MUHIIMADU MA AHAN IN LA DHARGIYO MALAYGA EE WAA IN LA DHARJIYO DADKA.

MARKA ADIGA HADA WAXAAD NOQOTAY MALAYGII ASAGANA WUXUU NOQDAY DADKII MAXAA YEELEY WUXUU KU NACSIIYEY YOUR OWN RACE........ WAXAANA U SHEEGTEY IN AADAN KA HELIN WIILASHA SOOMAALIYEED OO AYSAN WAX U OGOLEYN YOUR FAIRY-TALE.

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zakariye

Monday, August 14, 2000 - 11:03 am
to sis :abaayo macaan
i sympethise with you,and the fact that all these horible comments were made, to the muslim brother is amazing cos remember he is a muslim too but i guess(islaamka waan is ka sheeganaa ee kuma dhaqano).i would advice u to listen to your heart and not to those(selfish people,i don't even want go there),i mean if u love the guy and u know him well and treat u right and what is more he muslim i think you should go for him. you have to think this as a TEST for you so you need to be patient, and carefull.you have so much going for u,you have respect for your self,the fact u go to college means u want to do some thing with your life and i wish all the best with your studies.u may also need to listen to those who are close to u and c what they think about this issue.ILAAHEY TALADA SAARO N U WILL BE OK.

for the other pple,take it easy with the the sis, your comments may hurt her and the muslim brother too. i don't know why you r so angery with her just becouse she likes black muslim brother, and as for the race issue "get over it" cos we r black SIDA DIGSI GUBTAY DABADIIS OO KALE, weather we like it or not.

soo barya!!

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simplymo

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 04:49 am
Zakariye: is one of your parents' a foreigner?... or you just enjoy the campaign to welcome foreign people to our society?. Don't drag people to what you don't have knowledge for.

Later!

simplymo

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MAD MAC

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 05:04 am
Simplymo
Is there something wrong with "welcoming foreign people" to your society? Are the Somalis a closed society? Can't they enjoy the company and diverse views from non-Somalis? Or are you implying that Somalis are close minded and backwards?

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fatma

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 09:11 am
dear simply mo i think that u r the one who does not have knowledge about society, therefore we have to put up with people who r obnoxious and narrow minded like u.

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idriis

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 10:44 am
simly mo:why r so afraid of foreigners?oh and non my parents are foreign ok.where, sensitivity in the sense that u would welcome any view that might contribute to this subject.
peace
idriis

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Dunya

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 11:09 am
True sista ..
I would prefare an african american who acts and behaves like a muslim, than a somali guy who lost it.
People Wont judge you in your after life ,Allah will. If you marry him ,your doing nothing wrong and there is nothing better than doing the right thing.
Marry him and many people like myself will support you all the way and Allah will protect you from people like hmmmmm dont need to mention their names ....all the way.

Salaam.

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simplymo

Friday, August 18, 2000 - 12:48 am
Hi:

MAD MAC: I'm sorry if I sounded like someone who is setting up a party against foreigners. But there are panel of somali people out-there, including TRUE-STSITA-2000, who leaked herself to a foreigner, again, that is not my affairs, but she needs all opinions she can get, for her annual report.

Fatma: Stop worrying about me, the majority of somalis are willing to pull the plug for you and your views when it comes to our culture and tradition. So, as far as foreigners are concerned, they don't have no possession against us, especially for our somali women, unless sisters like SISTA-2K.

Idiriis: I am not a figure that would support this issue bro, and my contribution can only be seen as negative to the creator of this forums. Many somalis are becoming more and more interested in this elite club. So, I am trying to marginalise their views by attacking the false comments.

Later!

simplymo

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She

Friday, August 18, 2000 - 08:35 pm
Once again I think brotha simply mo is saying;
"Bilis doogoowdi boonaa iin nakadaasa, Boon dogoowdiina waraaabo in nakaadaasa"
ee walaley gacaliso iska ilow xabashka!

Judge judy says;
"Bilis bankaa laka uumee" = bilis aduunka lagu uuma ama sameeya not caloosha hooyada sidaa daradeed there is solution...We can make the bantu looking brotha look like Micheal Jackson eeh what ya think?
1.Nose job costs only $10.000 (soo xad ama soo xoog) no problemo. Hebel credit card u dir..
2. hair daawo jilciso.
3. skin colour use Diana and Dormavite.
Wala!

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fatma

Monday, August 21, 2000 - 03:12 pm
dear simplymo,
i hope that u know the quran to understand my coment.u c,u r attacking sister2k just because the guy is black,but if u think about god did not create colour in islam.although (horay ba loo yiri waxaa taqaanid aroos wax la yaqaano ha kuu dhalaanee.however it is very good to marry a some one u know eg(somali)but if u think about it people like would want to say something anyway even if it were somali man.........

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manaasha

Saturday, August 26, 2000 - 11:20 am
dear simplymo
get over the fact that sister2k is marring a black gye that is her life not yours remember always that, secon of all who is going to think about sharing a life with you not even a black sister. you live in the dark come to the light and the Allah will help you.

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Anonymous

Saturday, August 26, 2000 - 05:00 pm
manaasha = fatma = sumaya

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anonymous

Sunday, August 27, 2000 - 05:56 am
Anonymous, SUMAYA IS ALSO A MAN. BEWARE.

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hebel

Sunday, August 27, 2000 - 11:48 am
And hebel may sometimes be a Cow...Beware of the owner please.

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idil

Sunday, August 27, 2000 - 01:11 pm
anon too scared to show ur really identity????
fatma is my sis and manaasha
is my mother

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BRO-SAMIIR

Sunday, August 27, 2000 - 02:14 pm
GOD DAMNED ALL SOMALI WOMEN CAN MARRY BLACKS,.........,.........,AND WHOEVER THEY FEEL LIKE JUST DON'T GIVE ME THAT DIRTY LOOK WHEN U PASS ME BY ON THE STREET SAYING (IM WITH HIM WHAT U GONNA DO ABOUT IT NOW) I SIMPLY DON'T CARE LIKE BRO SIMPLY I THINK HE REFLECTS THE OPINIONS OF MANY SOMALIS INCLUDING MYSELF {{{{{{{{HEY GIRLS DUNYA,FAKE SISTA AND MANY MORE WHO POSTED SUPPORTING HER <<<<<<<WE KNOW U GUYS FANTASIES ABOUT BLACK MEN AND THEIR.....AND WHATS THE BEST WAY TO DO IT IS TO HIDE BEHIND RELIGION.

-I MUST ADMIT IT SADDENS ME WHEN I READ SUCH POSTS ESPECIALLY AT TIMES LIKE THIS WHERE WE NEED TO HOLD ON TIGHT TO OUR MORALS AND CULTURAL VALUES AND THE SOMALI IDENTITY.

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idil

Monday, August 28, 2000 - 05:56 am
To all brothers, if you really knew the quran, you would kno that there is no nationality in islam......first we are muslims then we are somalis......bro samiir i'm not hiding behind religion just simply stating the truth

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American woman

Monday, August 28, 2000 - 01:49 pm
DaBlessed.

Most times I do not write in forumss because they are of little interest to me, but I just had to write in this one describing how Black American man are. Where in the hell did you get such crap from? you said you dated a few of them and they screwed you over, and so that is how they are?!!
I would like to know that since when did cheating became a Black( American)thing? Another thing that you wrote that some people from other cultures smell like urine and **** maybe the dates you had did. You can't say we're dirty because of a few who choose not to wash themselves.

Mistreatment and is not exclusive to Black Americans, it belongs to people of any culture who think little of relationships.It seem that you can find the bad points about Black Americans, but I can find a lot of good in them and everybody else. I have met many Black American men who treat their women with respect, and many of them who stay with their wives( Even if they live in a single parent home you should not put then for their misfortune. We can't predict fate if a spouse may die ot may fall in love someone who may feel is better than them).

I'm a Black American. Nobody should feel bad about their culture and I'm proud of who Iam. I may not be Somali, but there are may Black Americans, including myself, who raised their children better than how you described them.

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DABLESSED

Monday, August 28, 2000 - 09:44 pm
DEAR SO CALLED AMERICAN WOMAN (I DOUBT UR):
FIRST OF ALL IM SORRY IF I'VE OFFENDED U OR UR FELLOW COUNTRYMEN,SECONDLY I STILL BELIEVE THAT BLACK AMERICANS R CULTURELESS (UNFORTUNATELY) BCUZ OF SLAVERY AND WHAT IT DID TO THEM PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY.

+ITS NOT MY FAULT THE REST OF THE FREAKING HUMANS ON THIS PLANET ARE NOT SOMALIS.

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SINNA

Thursday, September 14, 2000 - 10:22 am
YO TRUE IT IS YA LIFE DO YA THING GIRL AND B TRUE 2 ALLAH AT ALL TIMES!!

SOMALIAN ORE NOT SOMALIAN THEY ALL WANTS PEACE OF THE CAKE SO B CAREFUL AND WHATCH OUT.

REMEMBER ALLAH AT ALL TIMES AND U WILL NEVER GET LOST, U LIVE 4 YA SELF AND NOT SOMALIANS SO LIVE YA LIFE AND STAY TRUE.

MAY GOD PLESS ALL SOMALIAN SISTERS PEACE.

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