     DADDY | Sunday, June 25, 2000 - 11:56 am
AT THE MOMENT AM GOING OUT WITH THIS GIRL WHO'S MIXRACE HER FATHER IS FROM ETHIOPIA AND HER MOTHER IS FROM YEMAN.
AM ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT IF I SHOULD MARRY HER OR NOT, AND SHE'S CONSTANTLY ASKING ME TO MARRY HER.
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
I LIVE IN LONDON AND I LIVE BY MYSELF WHICH MEANS I DON'T LIVE NEAR MY FAMILY...
I ALWAYS WANTED TO MARRY SOMALI GIRL BUT I NEVER MET THE RIGHT SOMALI GIRL WICH I SAID OH YES SHE WILL BE MY WIFE ETC (NO DESRESPECT TO SOMALI GIRLS).
AM REALLY SCARD OF HAVING KIDS WITH A GIRL WHO'S NOT SOMALI...
PLEASE HELP!!! |
| Anonymous | Sunday, June 25, 2000 - 01:03 pm
hmmmmm...
follow ur heart |
| Anonymous | Sunday, June 25, 2000 - 01:52 pm
If you love her ..
then you will marry her no matter what.
If you dont ..
then dont play with the girl's heart. |
| DADDY | Sunday, June 25, 2000 - 02:26 pm
To: Anonymous
WHAT AM SAYING HERE IS ABOUT WHAT EFFECT CAN I OR MY KIDS HAVE WHEN THEY GROW UP???
NOTHING TO DO WITH LOVE...
WILL THEY BE DISCRIMINATED FROM THE OTHER PEOPLE, i.g SOMALIAN KIDS MIGHT CALL HIM/HER HE FULL SOMALI ETC...
KNOW WHERE MY QUESTION IS COMING FROM.......... |
| Sheikh Shariif | Sunday, June 25, 2000 - 04:33 pm
DADDY
Don't marry Axmaar pple, an ugly somali girl is much better than Amxaar girl or non-somali girl.
brother u and her r young now but when u get old it will good to be around an old and hooyo somali not Habar Amxaar ah.
Your children will also suffer specially if u ever go back to Somalia. |
| Warta suuqa | Monday, June 26, 2000 - 06:02 am
"Sharif Bilaa Sheikh" as they said before,
If you don't have sensible advice to your brother, don't come with sick ideas.. I hate racist.
Don't you know that AMXAARADA are human being like you. And Allah SWT allowed first generation (Sahabah) to immigrate to XABASHA where was well known (King of Abyssinia) lived there.. and gave them shelter and food.
Dear DADDY,
My brother, if I were you I would carefully bear in mind the Religion matter. Everything else is minor and it depends on your attitudes and handle things. Indeed there will be a discrimination no doubt since Sharif's type exist |
| DADDY | Monday, June 26, 2000 - 06:17 am
To: Warta suuqa
Thanx bro i am carefully planing what step to take next, thats why i am here asking my somalian brothers and sistas any advice they can give me.
thanx 4 ya time any way and hope to hear from u soon.
To: Sheikh
whatsup with you man, when i saw ur name i thought u was gonna say something interest but what you said there man was good thing to say at all..
this question is to bro "HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE OR DID SOMEONE OTHER THAN SOMALI FEL IN LOVE WITH YOU?" To: Sheikh
Love & Peace!!! |
| DADDY | Monday, June 26, 2000 - 06:19 am
To: Warta suuqa
Thanx bro i am carefully planing what step to take next, thats why i am here asking my somalian brothers and sistas any advice they can give me.
thanx 4 ya time any way and hope to hear from u soon.
To: Sheikh
whatsup with you man, when i saw ur name i thought u was gonna say something interest but what you said there man wasn't good thing to say at all..
this question is to bro "HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE OR DID SOMEONE OTHER THAN SOMALI FEL IN LOVE WITH YOU?" To: Sheikh
Love & Peace!!! |
| Anonymous | Monday, June 26, 2000 - 05:19 pm
Sheikh sharif ..
Stop this bloody rascism you're indulged in.
I dont think you are even married to one woman.
What axmar people and an ugly somali woman .. for your info ..you are colour blind and a lost soul.
Daddy:
You really need to understand one thing .
Never let people shape up your life.especially somalies .Fear God only ..for he will judge you one day.
If you are marrying someone with similar religious backgroud ... then i dont think your children will be lost.
But also the race matters, not because of people whom you are scared they will discriminate them ... no .. its your children themselves.
Because nowadays i see children being lost between two different cultures and they simply cant stick to one.They are confused ..and become lost and end up following the culture that seems more appealing to them . It might be based on the country your living in.
Many become pyscologically disturbed ...but it depends on the parents.
I personally would either stick to a somali, so i wont confuse my kids....but if a non-somali came my way ..and he is a muslim ? Then its naseeb i guess .
Its destiny.
I hope you see the light .
Ask Allah for guidance.
He only guides you to the right path.
Salaam ya somaal. |
| hebel | Monday, June 26, 2000 - 07:43 pm
hey dady how she looks like? |
| DADDY | Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 12:06 am
To: Anonymous
GOOD POINT U MADE THERE SISTA THANX...
To: hebel
SHE LOOKS FIND BRO... I'LL PUT UP HER PIC ON MY SIDE SOON SO Y'ALL CAN SEE HER...
LOVE & PEACE!!! |
| cade | Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 03:20 am
shiek shariif
shut up you stinky little thingy, you either say something usefull or stay silent!
DADDy
Don't be one of those softies! if the woman likes you & you like her, go for it. Don't even think what others might say or think in the future. you are not responsible for dictating their opinion in the future so that they will say the right thing. man! that is hard job. you can please everyone.
you get married to please yourself, not to please other people. so ignore the doubters. stop going down the "IF LANE" cus there is no end to it. one minute you could be worried whether somali girl is right for you. next minute you could be thinking which particular clan, than which subclan and so on.
there is no point in that stuff. take it from me mate. nationality is totally superficial stuff.
when thinking about marriage, what matter is how you two understand each other, Not where you two geographically come from.
About the children point you raised, firstly there is no garuantee that you will have children. there are loads of people who are married and never have any children, not because they don't like it but becuase they can't due to circumstance beyond their control. now I'm not saying that is what is going to happened to you but I'm telling you, just to show you that there are other possibilities.
with regard to what others might say given that you have children in the future. well, i think its your responsibility to stand up to those people. That is what father are for.
You got to make sure they get no hassle from any body when they are young and when they grew up,let them sort it out, that is there problem not yours.
As for the religious aspect which many people raised. firstly I'm not a religious man, but personally i think that shouldn't be any problem, why? cuz if the almighty dislikes such union, I guess he shouldn't allow people to fall in love in the first place. right!
respect........ i hope that helps |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 06:37 am
sshit happens man...... where in London are you at? |
| DADDY | Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 08:51 am
To: cade
DAMN DAMN DAMN BROTHA THAT REALLY HELPED AND OPENED MY EYES A BIT THANX VERY MUCH.
To: Anonymous
WEST LONDON SHEPHERD BUSH.... AND YOU? |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 10:41 am
Hey:Don't stop & hit the h/way. |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 03:09 pm
BY FARTUUN C/O USA
TO A DADDY
WALAALKIIS HADA WAXAAD KU TAAGAN TAHAY TALA FIICAN MAADAN WAAYIN HADAA RAADISO GABAR SOOMAALIYEED WAXAADNA OGAATAA HADAAD AMXAARO GUURSATO XATAA ILMAHA WAA KAA XADAYSAA HADII WAX IDIN DHAXMARAAN ANIGA WALAASHAY BAY KU DHACDAY ARINTAAS MAXAA YEELAY CAADO AYAY U LEEYIHIIN MIDA KALE GABAR SOOMALI WAA DHEEMAN WAA DHIIGAAGI MEELNA KAAMA JIRTO HADAAD IS QABTAAN IYO HADII KALABA QURUXNA DEE ADAABA OG TAAS SU AAL MALEH HADAAN AQRIYAY DADKA TALADA KU SIINAYANA DEE WAA IN YAR INTA KAANAXAYSA DEE ABOOWE KAFIIRSO ARINTAAN IN TAAD DHAWAANTA SHALAYN LAHAY AAD AYAAN UGA NAXAY SIDAAD GABAR SAXSAN SOOMAALIDA UGA WAYDAY CALAA IYO KU XAAL WIXII KUU QORAN KUNSANO AYAY KAA WAYN YIHIIN WAXAAN SOOMAALIGA UGU QORAY WAA DADKOO DHAN FAHMAAN
ANYWAY IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME/ |
| hebel | Tuesday, June 27, 2000 - 06:30 pm
Good Daddy I was running out of pictures Bro.
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I'll be waiting. |
| Gacameey | Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 08:35 am
DADDY
wax la guursadaa badan ee Amxaarad aan xaarka iska dhaqin maxaa ku daba dhigay, doqon baa tahay ee shaqo yeelo koleyba aniga Amxaar guurso cidna kulama taliyeen laakiin adigu dadkii talada fiican ku siiyey waad caayday kuwii amxaarta guurso ku dhahayna waad amaantay oo waxaa tiri GOOD ADVICE baad isiiseen.
don't u know Amaar pple ineey Tuungi ku xaaraan sidii ciyaalka, kaadida iyo xaarkana iskama dhaqaan oo waxeey usoo urayaan sidii bakhti dhintay, wax dhintay baa tahay oo ur ku nool ah ee mar dambe Xabashiyad baan guursanayaa halkan hala imaan...habar amxaar ah ilmaheeda hadaad somaliya keento walee dhibka ciyaalkaas qabsan doono ayaan la yaabsanahay. |
| DADDY | Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 08:37 am
To: FARTUUN
WALAAL AAD IYO AAD BAAD U MAHADSAN TAHAY.
LOL TEEDA KALE WAANKA XUMAHAY IN WALAASHAA LAGA XADAY CARUURTEDII....
U MALEY MAAYO MIDAANI IN AY XADEYSO CARUURTEYDA... HADII AAN KALA TAGNO HADII AY RABTO CARUURTA WEY QAADAN KARTAA.
LAAKINSE OGOW WALAAL DADKA OO DHAN ISKU MID MAAHAN FARTUUN.
SOOMAALIDA OO DHANI MA FIICNA...INKASTOOY DADKEENA YIHIIN...
AAD IYO AAD AYAAD U MAHADSAN TAHAY WALAASHIIS....
THANX 4 SHOWING HOW MUCH U CARE... I LET U KNOW WHEN I NEED HELP SISTA.... |
| Jeego | Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 09:50 am
HEBEL Pass it to me brother
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will you
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| hebel | Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 07:41 pm
I haven't got anything yet Jeego..
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sheeeee take it easy man I give them to ya as soon as he posts them. |
| fofo | Thursday, June 29, 2000 - 03:58 am
LOOK!!! IT'S SIMPLE I'VE BEING OUT WITH MIXTURE OF PEOPLE BUT NO WAAAAAYY I'M GONA SETTLE DOWN WITH SOME ONE WHO'S NOT SOMALI. IT'S TOOO HARD OF A WORK FOR ME,, BUT IF SHE MUSLIM MAYBE THAN YES
OKK!!! U GET ME BRO!! |
| Anonymous | Wednesday, July 05, 2000 - 06:04 pm
What's the big deal about a Somalian man marrying a non-Somalian women? I am a blonde haired, blue eyed 21yo white women who has been dating a Somalian man for nearly 2years. Race has never been an issue (only religion really). Apparrently I have to become a Muslim of we are to marry. How can you force a religion onto someone else?
Being in love is all that matters. Colour should play no part in chosing your partner! |
| DADDY | Thursday, July 06, 2000 - 08:22 am
To: Anonymous
AAAAAW AAAAW THIS IS DADDY AIGHT FIRST OF ALL.
WE/I DID NOT MENTION ABOUT COLOUR YOU MIS RED THE WHOLE DAMN SENTENCE....
WE TALKING ABOUT, WHERE THE PERSON IS FROM ETC. (NOT THE CALOUR OF THE SKIN).
WHERE YOU FROM BY THE WAY @ANONYMOUS? |
