     Anonymous | Thursday, July 06, 2000 - 05:58 pm
This one's for the Sister who has recently posted "Big Problem". First of all, what you are doing is obviously not a positive thing and I know you are not the person everyone thinks you are. People are writing in BS about you when they don't even know who you are or if you've done it or not. It's really disrespectful the way they're cussin' at you and all. You came here 'cause you have a problem and perhaps you want to change your crazy ways and start out clean. I can just give you one advice and that is to stop seeing him. Y'all should just go to a Mosque teach yourselves what ISLAM is all about 'cause let me tell you one thing girl; A Muslim converter stay true to ISLAM, I have seen alot of people convert and stay keep in touch w/their new-found love - religion. And yet I know alot of them so-called African-American "Muslims" who call themselves muslims but it's all fake. If he considers himself as being a true Muslim, then why he is dating you? Didn't he experience these things in his wild days? If he was a true Muslim, then he shouldn't have dated you in the first place. If it's L-O-V-E then y'all should be patient and just wait for marriage or something. And in the case of Somali guys playa-hating you, just shrug it off and don't let it bother you. It's your life, you can stay friends w/this A-A man. He can still be your boo but not your LOVER.
And as for my fellow forumsers, just chill out and stop calin' her 'ho', b****, slut, etc... Y'all are just bunch of FOBs who bring the sh** that you learn from your friends to this forums. It's disrespectful and abusive and hurtful and this girl was already confused and hurtful and she asked y'all for your help and instead you just give her the slang. That is wack and a bunch of BS. Stop being so possesive of this situiation. It's as if you've never heard of these kind of probs in your life before. So what if she has a b/f; one day I know she'll regret what she did; she'll wake up, smell the cofee and come over to her senses 'bout what she's doing.
Meanwhile, I hope things work out for her and if she cries for help, I'll gladly help her. Just post your e-mail and I'll e-mail ya.
Take care,
- N/A
PS - To all the playa-haters, stop frontin' and pretendin' y'all know something. |
