     Yasmin mq | Sunday, July 23, 2000 - 08:54 pm
1. Start each day with a kiss.
2. Wear your wedding ring at all times.
3. Date once a week.
4. Accept differences.
5. Be polite.
6. Be gentle.
7. Give gifts.
8. Smile often.
9. Touch.
10. Talk about dreams.
11. Select a song that can be "our song".
12. Give back rubs.
13. Laugh together.
14. Send a card for no reason.
15. do what the other person wants before he or she asks.
16. Listen.
17. Encourage.
18. Do it his or her way.
19. Know his or her needs.
20. Fix the other person's breakfast.
21. Compliment twice a day.
22. Call during the day.
23. Slow down.
24. Hold hands.
25. Cuddle.
26. Ask for each other's opinion.
27. Show respect.
28. Welcome the other person home.
29. Look your best.
30. Wink at each other.
31. Celebrate birthdays in a big way.
32. Apologize.
33. Forgive.
34. Set up a romantic getaway.
35. Ask, "What can I do to make you happier?".
36. Be positive.
37. Be kind.
38. Be vulnerable.
39. Respond quickly to the other person's request.
40. Talk about your love.
41. Reminisce about your favorite times together.
42. Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy.
43. Send flowers every Valentine's day and anniversary.
44. Admit when wrong.
45. Be sensitive to each other's sexual desires.
46. Pray for each other daily.
47. Watch sunsets together.
48. Say "I love you" frequently.
49. End the day with a hug.
50. Seek outside help when needed. |
| cade | Monday, July 24, 2000 - 01:44 am
yasmin mg
nice list....very good.... but in somali environment number two in the list is out of context...
on personal level I am not sure about number 15. cuz only phsychics can workout that.
thanks for sharing with us btw |
| abdi_y | Monday, July 24, 2000 - 02:21 am
Yeh some are very good but other are not practical in real life.. these are 50 things people toootaly in love do,, and even they would be hard pressed to keep it going for a year.. sorry but life is very complex. the sooner u relise this the better, so that u won't be dissapointed too badly. somali marriage can last even when total strangers get married,.. |
| Mo | Monday, July 24, 2000 - 04:57 am
Yasmin that is a reasonable list but sis be a little bit more practicle with your advice.
i.e the bit about sending valentine cards, it pointless i will tell you.
Valentines day is just another way to boost consumer spending just like christmas and easter and so on.
mind you some of your other points are really simple and smart and as they say it's the little things that make the difference in any relationship
peace sis
Mohamed. |
| Xoogsade | Monday, July 24, 2000 - 03:54 pm
This sounds like a fulltime job. I have to quit either this one or the one that pays the bills. |
| hebel | Monday, July 24, 2000 - 08:15 pm
And when should I Seek Canbar? |
| Warta suuqa | Tuesday, July 25, 2000 - 11:57 am
AjaajA. |
| hebel | Tuesday, July 25, 2000 - 07:45 pm
Warka isii Warta ma laga heli su'aasha?
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Fiiri labo gacmo aan ku type-gareenooyaa. |
| tiibisho | Tuesday, July 25, 2000 - 08:53 pm
over time job waaye i will never west my job for hollywood stories any way thanks and be more practicle and realistic |
| xamardaye | Tuesday, July 25, 2000 - 09:55 pm
Warta,
is arag wanaagsan.
hebel,
marka aad daasho ama roob ma aragto kuu soo carafto gacmaha waad u baahanee ee lugaha u bedelo.
nabad iyo caano |
| Alla-aamiin | Wednesday, July 26, 2000 - 06:49 am
Salaamu alaikum
Waxaan filayaa inanta keentey topic waa gabadh ka dhacsan diinta islaamka iyo macaanideeda.
Walaaal, waxaan ku odhan lahaa inta aad raaceysid wax qof kula mid ahi qorey....dhagahaaga u fur Kitaabka barakeysan iyo Sunahha Nebiga(scw)...halkaas baad ka helaysaa cimli iyo xikmada iyo waxa aad ka raadineyso mmagazine ka ay qoraan kaaladu.
Diinteenu waa shay dhameystiran oo aad ka heli karto wax kasta, sidaas darteed walaal adiga iyo inta kugu raacsaniba waad halawsantihiin ee Rabi haydin soo hadeeyo.
Waar Rabi kala baqo, oo diinta yaan la dayicin laguna ciyaarin , xisaab baa danbeyseee |
| Anonymous | Wednesday, July 26, 2000 - 01:54 pm
WAKE UP SIS YOU ARE STILL DREAMING? |
| Amazon XX | Thursday, July 27, 2000 - 07:07 am
Yasmin-
Interesting list. Cosmo?
Realisticaly there are only 2 things that will make a marriage work-
1. Respect, and
2. Responsibility.
If a man and woman respect each other and they both fulfil their responsibility to each other, they will have a wonderful and LASTING marriage.
The rest, as they say, are simply Hollywood-inspired and Hallmark-encoaraged activities. |
| Yasmiin mq | Thursday, July 27, 2000 - 12:56 pm
Hey people ..
i dont agree with half of what i posted either .
I just copied and paste it from a magazine like amazon said...
just want to see how you react towards it, thats all.
to Alla-aamiin ...
I know about our diin ..alxamdulilah as much as you do, thats why i wont argue with you.
Salaam ... |
| Yasmiin | Friday, July 28, 2000 - 02:36 am
Asalmualykum
I just wanted to share this with everyone......
it was originally an email.
And its good.
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings,
but shorter tempers;
wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints;
we spend more, but have less;
we buy more, but enjoy it less.
We have bigger houses and smaller families;
more conveniences, but less time;
we have more degrees, but less sense;
more knowledge, but less judgement;
more experts, but more problems;
more medicine, but less wellness.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life;
We've added years to life, not life to years.
We've been all the way to the moon and back,
but have trouble crossing the street to meet the neighbors;
We have higher incomes, but lower morals;
We've become long on quantity, but short on quality.
These are the times of tall men, and short character;
steep profits and shallow relationships.
These are the times of world peace, but domestic warfare;
more leisure, but less fun;
more kinds of food, but less nutrition.
These are the days of two incomes, but more divorce;
of fancier houses, but broken homes.
It is a time when there is much in the show window and nothing in the
stockroom; a time when technology can bring this letter to you,
and a time when you can choose either to make a difference,
or to just hit delete...... |
| Xoogsade | Friday, July 28, 2000 - 01:03 pm
where does she get these things? |
| mubaraak | Friday, July 28, 2000 - 03:44 pm
that was good sister yasmiin,keep it coming.....conguratulations(finaly a somali sister with common senses)waaaaaw i must admit .....no offence please ppl.. ohhhhh baby baby its wild world its hard to get by just upon a smile. |
| hebel | Friday, July 28, 2000 - 07:33 pm
From the Junk-Mail Xoogsade. |
| Anonymous | Friday, July 28, 2000 - 07:59 pm
sheekadaan oo kale waxaa lagu fasiri jiray markay arintu waayo aragnimo gaarto.
sheeko aan ku soo qaatay markaa dhiganayey fasalka sadexaad muddo iminka laga joogo 22 sano.
"WAA DAWACADDII SOCODKEEDDA INTA KA TAGTAY SOCODKII NABIGANA GAARI WEYDAY"
SHIRKUNA MEESHAAS YUU KU XIRAN YAHAY. |
| Dhalfo | Saturday, July 29, 2000 - 11:18 am
Promise #3 Date 7days a week consecutive none stop will be better ............Uuulala do that do that believe that.....
Isii sisinta mase water pumpka maa ruujimeestay ??????
Dhalfo.... |
| Amazon XX | Tuesday, August 01, 2000 - 05:09 am
Great posting Yasmin! sad commentary on the times. |
| shangaani | Tuesday, August 01, 2000 - 06:28 pm
yasmiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiin
warka isiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiibo waxaaseey ma soconaayaan hee amaad na halaajisaaybo!
qararaf igu soo siibo
shaq-shaq wareejiyoow hurguf saa usii socoto sariirta lee s**r
wow!better not go that far aight |
| jiijo,jiib | Thursday, August 03, 2000 - 02:24 pm
to shangaani shurufle
adi hadii naag qabin aad ka nexeeynin maxaa kuu sameeyaa wadaayoow ,all i have to say is maskiin yaa dalas yaa saaxibul rooti,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
to yasmiin
go go girl woooooooooooooooooooow isha ka riday waxiin kudarilahaana waxaan ka baqaa in soomali maryo ween internetka iga soo baxaan,,,, by the way i liked full page...........keep giong girl
to wiilasha qolka soo kubeeyoow it good advice guys it not gonna kill yaaa!!!!!!!!!!!so get it got it good and do it for jiijo sakeeeeeeeeeee
waan qulqulay |
| Xumoow | Monday, August 07, 2000 - 12:57 am
TO:Yasmin
Abaay intee waxaan ka soo guurisay? |
| TAREEQ | Monday, August 07, 2000 - 05:14 am
MAN THE GIRL IS OK,I COULD DO SOMETHING IF I COULD HAVE BEEN WHERE SHE IS,AND THAT IS WHY I HATE TECH SOMETIMES.ANYWAY NICE OF YOU JASMIN.. |
| Diiq oo dhoor leh | Monday, August 07, 2000 - 07:39 am
yasmin
get your f*ckin head sor'ed....no one is gonna that sh*t all their life..... |
