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MrRight

Tuesday, August 15, 2000 - 03:40 pm
Dear People.

I have read a message after message coming in to this Forum. people being let down, dumped, hear broken and initmitated. So I said to my slen why not share my story with these people too.

Sheekadeyda waxaa waaye in aan decision suubiyo between my 2 "sweet hearts".

Hal waa soomali midna waa Hindi. labadoodaba waxaan wada soconaa mudo 2 years ah. These past 2 years were just kicking back and having fan time bassically but now things get too tight. Midda hindida ah waxay rabtaa in ey waalidkeed isoo barta so she is already thinking about Long term future. Tan soomalida ahna waalidkeed ma i barayso as we all know but she is also thiking about Aroos and long term future, Aniga iskuul leey hooyadiis la nool aan ahay who's on wake up call. Iam really confused, If one of them realise this Iam gon for good speciallt the somali 1. Pleas HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP.

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Cracker

Tuesday, August 15, 2000 - 03:47 pm
MAN mr right you have a battle in your hand. I will advice to go 4 the Indian 1, coz we know what our ladies are like. Already u see how fear full you are of her, it hasn't even started yet man.

Pleas "DON'T FOLLOW YOUR HEAR". Follow my Idea.

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Dunya

Tuesday, August 15, 2000 - 04:05 pm
Follow your heart .And dont generalise as mr cracker head is doing.
Relax , life is choice , no one is forcing to do anything.Choose and face the consequences brother.
Cause you are facing the consequences of playin around already.

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Mariah

Tuesday, August 15, 2000 - 05:35 pm
Cracker......why don't you explain how our ladies are........bro............? God maxaa ugu tuuree wiilka..........


Mr right............no answer for you at the moment.....but I'll be back.....

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Cracker

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 03:50 pm
DUNYA you see the brother is already AFRAID of the Somalia one why? coz you guys claim to be " 2 hot to handle". as I said before if I was in his posisition there will be NO doupt who I will go for, yup u guessed it right the "Hemamalina" grl.

MARIAH what I mentioned above is my explanation towards "our grls" or should I say the maryooley sisters, since our grls is too kind to call them.

But hey what the hell, having said my dearest grl in this world is Somali nothing but pure somali and Iam loving every second of it.

How is that LADIES
P.S MR RIGHT try to hang in there and play with them as long as u can coz as u said "it's cool" and I beleive so.

Cracker

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Dunya

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 04:31 pm
What goes around , Comes around .
hmmmmm.

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Xoogsade

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 05:17 pm
Dunya why don't you tell this guy to go and never come around...

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Mariah

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 05:48 pm
Cracker...................I feel for you......But what can I say you deserve everthing you got............who ever broke up with you did the right thinglol.........remind me to congraduate them.................


peace

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hebel

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 06:11 pm
Well Mr. Right ya can keep one of them and please leave the other here in the Forum she won't be lonely I promise U that.

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Dunya

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 07:42 pm
Xoogsade ..... i wish i can .
By the way ,I forgot to thank you for the debate site ... it was good.

I see Hebel knows alot about hospitality.

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Madaxey

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 09:08 pm
lol @ cracker good idea but I wonder who's gonna defend you from Somali ladies. Hot water.

I would say don't follow your heart! Just follow your brain and finish school before you start thinking about long term relationships. Help your mother before any other woman comes to your mind.

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hebel

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 12:13 pm
Maya abaa Dunya laakiin waxaa qabtid lee ay kula qabee....maa caleesh.

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MrRight

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 02:21 pm
It seems we are all agreed to kick with me to the INDIAN 1. right, well with in next 40 to 50 minute is " D DAY" 4 ME coz Iam gonna meet her and Iam scared to death that her father is gonna be with her. Can u imagine what's like to have a "Kalasinga man" as your "Sodogaa" lol, it's amazing. on the other hand my own kind sister is sensing something too but she ain't quite there yet.

as "Hebel" said 1 of them will be a "forums girl" but who will that be, only time will tell.

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Dunya

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 05:18 pm
If the indian father finds that your cheating on his daughter, you better be ready to be in the next curry basmati rice dish, i heard they are cold-blooded and kill with no mercy then throw you to the nearest lake unattached...... ;-)

Be careful...................
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Saddam-Hussein

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 06:35 pm
Hi dunya you right same story happened to me in Mombassa Kenya and hopefully MrRight will choose your advise rather then facing Bismati rice dish.

Never trust Indians specially "SINGH" they are cold blooded killers. But when they need something
from you,they just like a cat.

Hi MrRight choose your own people and notINDIAN 1.
That is my advise.Have good one.

Thanks

Regards

Sadaam-Hussein

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Mariah

Friday, August 18, 2000 - 12:25 pm
Why you guys holding him back..........mr right..........marry whoever is suitable for you bro..............


Don't marry anybody...cause you are in the same race...............or not...........


You are the one who knows wich one is best for you not us......


Peace

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MrRight

Wednesday, August 23, 2000 - 07:41 pm
Hi all again

My fellow friends I can see my self in a place called "CulCulta" lol in the next few years, only these who know about India can tell where it is. But what happen last meeting was predictable results, mean Iam still uncovered and I hope it stays that way till I make my mind up. Besides the I think the Somalian has nothing to lose but everything to gain, since she believes she is the MAN as alot of our grls do.

Whether they Hindus are "cold plooded" as Mr Hussein and Dunya said or not, only time will tell, and there is no reason that could happen anyway. How could 70+ fathere and Disapled mother could murder? are you guys crazy. I thin that is impossible. But it rang an alarm though.

It seems DUNYA knows Hindus food too "Basmati rice dhish" lol. i didn't the Somali Gs knew about that type of food. But hey I love the rice seriously, I had few times it's quite testy. Afcourse she cooked, you see that is a comparison u can make between the 2 race unlike the white grls the Hindus cook and they take role of normal woman ( the ones we knew, not the 90's)like the somalians do which fasinates me, Iam really impressed with that. Baarinimo and kindness comes with it too as they the somalian guys say her name is "Caano madadiso" lol. it shows how baari she is.

On the other my fellow sister is quite nice too bariyad too, but not as much as you know.

Iam reslly interested hearing from brother HUSSEIN. My brother tell me more if you have this experience I mean MOREEEEE.

Mariah you quite right the choice is mind and my action will plow or settle things down. But why do I have the feeling that you are ON with none S.Man or about. just curious no offenece.

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Cracker

Wednesday, August 23, 2000 - 07:54 pm
Iam back MrRiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight man u are on the right track. I can see the Indian is taking toll on you . keep it up and be ware to be cooked. haha. may be Dunya will cook you too since she knows about it. But tell me did you met with bid KALASINGA DADY?. Man you lukcky you will take over their $$$ soon b/c she will inherit it. Crup the S. one aight. Don't listen DUNYA and Mariah what they say coz they don't know what they r talking about but I do. NO 1 I mean NO 1 is goona cook you. Goooo 4 it man. GOOD LUCK.

Grls pleas encourage the brother coz we need multi racial in the future. He migh have an actor son in the future, son you can............ later u know.

Peac

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SOMALI

Wednesday, August 23, 2000 - 09:07 pm
RUNTII WAA MID LOO BAAHNAA INAAN BARANO DHAQAMO KALA GEDDISAN,AFTERALL THE CIVIL WAR WUXUU NA BARAY DAD AANAN HORE U AQOON,LIKE WHITE PPL,BLACK PPL,ASIAN,AND SO FORTH,WAXAAN ULA JEEDAA HADALKA
MARKAAN SOMALIA JOOGNAY WAXAAD MOODAA IN NINKA CAD U YAHAY QOF AAN XAN,IYO BEEN,ETC AAN AQQON
OO HADAAD IS AF DHAAFTAAN BOLISKA ADIGU KU XIRAYO
HEERKA AAN GAAL XUSHMEYN KA QABNAY....LAAKIIN HADDA MAXAA U MALEYNEE MARKAAN LAABANO...WHAT DO U SAY...I KNOW THERE WILL BE ALOT FORIEGN INVESTMENT OPPORTUNTIES WILL COME,CUZ IT IS THE PERFECT PLACE,SUNNY AND WHITE SANDY BEACHES,VIRGIN
LAND FOR AGRICULTURE,RIVERS,CLEAN ENVIROMENT,DESERT,AND FOREST,WHEREVER YOU LIKED...
IT'S THE WHITE MAN'S DREAMLAND...HADDABA WAXAA IGA SU'AAL AH HOW SHALL WE TREAT THEM........THE WAY WE USE TO OR DIFFERENTLY..

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Mariah

Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 06:47 am
You kidding.........I want somali guy all the way baby.........................I am just suprise with some of our brothers and sisters,,,,,,,,,,wanting anything alse other than their own........But then again like I said don't marry a person cause you are in the same race or not.............You should marry who ever your in love with........don't sattle..........cause remember this is your life..............and you should choose it carefully...........there is no turning back...............


Peace

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hebel

Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 07:44 am
Gosh! and I always thought ya wanted a rubber guy.

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Mariah

Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 12:07 pm
Shut up hebel...................remember adigaan kuu dhaafay rubber........markaad i tuugtayLol

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shangaani

Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 04:31 pm
ar yaa mr right tan hindida qoorta intaa qabitid banaanka banaankiis ku soo tuur hindi aa waaba layga shidaa ar taas wax makuu heysee curry lee ku walaaqee while tan soomalida ODKAC kuu karineeso the choice is yours buddy but take ma advice and kick that indian and her curry spices OUT!need more advice isoo xariiq lee

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hebel

Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 05:42 pm
Sorry Ma'am.

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Sweetgirl

Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 07:20 pm
Hey Mr. Right I think you should go with the sweet one.

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Saddam-Hussein

Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 08:20 pm
Hi MrRight I can't write or copy all the story which I have been thorough back in Mombassa, Kenya.

However, I have had an Indian girl friend who was in my class in Ambadayare High school and belong to SINGH COMMUNITY. This Singh Community they did everything they could in order to kicked me out of that high school to another high school.

Finale, I did managed to complete my high school then moved to Dara-salaam University, Tanzania.

To be honest with you,I can not write the whole story. And if you want take my advise, find good one in your own community simple.

Imagine, when Singh community fought to another Indian community which is Indian Muslims for marriage affairs. Now think twice if you are black and belong to another ethnic communities which is from Africa what you think?

The above story happened between Vancouver, Canada and small town outside New Delhi, India. A Young women from Canada who belong to SINGH COMMUNITY marriage to an Indian man who was a Muslim in New Delhi. Now both the man and the woman are dead.

Presently, the government of Canada are still investigating this matter and parents of the lady who lives in Vancouver are denied anything that involved in this matter. Now, it's your choice, take the Indian lady or the Somali lady no one will force you either one. Make up your mind please. I hope this will be enough advise for you brother. Have good night and good luck.

Thanks

Regards,

Sadaam-Hussein

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Dunya

Friday, August 25, 2000 - 08:08 am
Hey mr. Wrong ..or was that mr. right .. anyway . :-)
..
I wasnt talking about their dishes, i was talking about YOU being in the recipe... but i do agree with you , i love their tasty food .. i couldnt resist going to indian resturants before.

If you imagine yourself in calcuta .. i really imagine you in the slums of Bombay ..having 4 wives...and its obvious why you will marry 4 , specially from india , which is to collect the dowry they give you .. hmmmmmmm .. am i right ?
And will you be having more boyz than girls ?.. since your beloved grand parents( indians) will elliminate them for mysterious reasons .. lol...

But listen cracker ... i dont think its anything to do with the COOKING .. but its the money.
Everyone knows how to cook, and i guess you do too, since i find 90% of the somali guyz are single ..and when it comes to good food .... every culture has its own unique dishes.
And i wont cook to anyone cracker ...even if you and mr right starve before my eyes .. lol.
LOL ... you said an actor son ... are you talking about a multi racial indian somali actor .. plzzzz i think you use to watch alot of indian movies back home bro ... snap out of it .

And indians are known as being very down to earth ... but now ..indians are no longer like that .,..sri lankans still are though .
Anyway .. we somali woman dont act like men ..but we have strong personalities and high self-esteem .. is that a negative thing ? .. naaah ..why dont you develop such characteristics for a change.

Sadaam hussein ( cool name by the way ..it reminds me of the gulf war ) , i agree with you , they are cold blooded ,.. but i have a theory about sikhs bro .. and for the sake of confirmation.. why do sikhs wair such turbins and have long hair ?
And do they still kill their girls back there for the sake of not paying dowry ?

Salaam all ..
and mr. right .. if you obtain that name, you wouldnt be asking us for help ...lol....but we are ao glad to give it to you.
Good luck with the dowry .. oops i mean the girl ..Salaam Again

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Guilty

Friday, August 25, 2000 - 08:22 am
MR:Right

Go for the indian bro because she knows what she wants.

Also somalian girls are not up to date for what i seen so lately.

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Mariah

Friday, August 25, 2000 - 05:25 pm
Guilty...............waxaa kuu gaysanay wax yar ma aha bee...........warka keenba adi..........

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MrRight

Sunday, August 27, 2000 - 08:02 pm
Hi all Saaibyal.

waxaa i siseen ADVICE oo qatar ah oon loo kala harin and I thak you all 4 that.

Iam still in the same position muscling my way through because I have no choice but to do dat.

To my friend CRACKER. I think in the case of "Giving birht to an actor" is NOT the ideal solution 4 mr. Infact any woman way dhali kartaa atoore and the choice of him becoming midbaadiye or magalo is his. But the matter concering WEALTH is strong factor and I wouldn't mind but it has no influence on me at moment, this means that I don't fever her just coz she is from a wealth family NOT at all.

MisS SWEETGRL you damn right but tell me How do u detect the "sweet 1" when both are TESTY. May be you have a grl techniques that works on boys lol.

My brother SADAM I realy appreciate your advice since you are the only experienced person that could have some sort of sense about my night mares which has no 1 to blame 4 but ME. But sxb the difference is that she ain't a SINGH, I mean these we call KALASINGA oo madaxa xirta and I have seeing her mother she aint' bad at all even though I haven't met her personnally, but DADY looks cruel walahi by just looking at him. Well sxb wish me good luck and I wll be oright INSHA ALLAH.

bro GUILTY walahi when read what you wrote I laughed not because I enjoyed it but that is what comes in to my mind when I meet with S. Sister, she seems to be ......... u know, I realy get confused sometimes. By the way iam NOT saying all S. sisters are the same.

My sister DUNYA seriously you seem to have a bit EXP, I mean the way you know their stories and that. why don't you tell me truth if there was an Idian man being around your life. (No OFFENCE MEANT WHAT SO EVER, IF SO PLEASE 4 GIVE ME)But I just sense something in the air and I don't know what it is. " killing dauthers" is out of the Q's coz Iam the dad.

well it's class time now I will be back next time.

by all.

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Sweetgirl

Monday, August 28, 2000 - 05:17 pm
I don't appreciate what you said, I don't go around tasting boys. Any ways you seem to like this Indian girl, I think you like her more than the Somali one, you always keep on defending her and her family. Go with your heart man.

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Saddam-Hussein

Monday, August 28, 2000 - 05:36 pm
To:Dunya,in regards your question" why Singh wear Turbines and have a long hair and also are they still killing their girl because of not paying dowry?

Well,the reason that Singh wearing Turbines are respecting their GURU(PROPHET) as they were told by their [GURU NANIK].

Secondly, the reason for hiding their hairs are gifts from their (GURU NANIK) and not to show to the people,Devil and Evil.

Yes, some of them are still killing their girls if they don't pay dowry money on time.

Again and again this is based on I was told by one of my co-worker and I don't know whether it's true or not.

Thanks

Sincere regards

Sadaam-Hussein

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Dunya

Monday, August 28, 2000 - 06:04 pm
Mr Right ..
You want to hear my story with an indian man ..sure .. i will tell you since your very intersted and eager to learn from other people's mistakes. Well ... my story is ..hmmmMMMMMM.. hold on ..i dont remember .. maybe because it never happened. Sheesh ofCourse it didnt. :)
Okay ... I know alot about the indian culture .BECAUSE INDIANS ARE EVERYWHERE ...and i pretty much know alot about every culture .. you know the ones that crossed my path.
I interact alot with other cultures .. many somalies dont and find any human who is not a somali some kind of an inferior. Too bad .. i DONT.
Uniqueness is ones own treasure .

Sadaam .. thanx alot .. although i heard another moth about their hair .. which i hardly believe, it said that the wont be cutting their hair until all religions on earth disappear and theirs live forever... aahahah now that makes me choke of laughter.

If you need to know anything else ..about india or any country ( if your wishing to marry a chinese i have loads of stories for ya ..ahaha)...
JUST ASK....
Alright .... Salaaam .

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Warda

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 08:47 am
R u kidding ....
indians are everywhere, For god's sake they "literally" own silicon valley!!

why can't we get there for a change?
hmmm,
sometimes i wonder...
viva somalis
:)

Mr. right, u know what i think..finish ur education ..
and breathe..breathe..

salaam

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Cracker

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 01:38 pm
SALAM ALL

Cracker here

is my boy mright going on with his 2 mistresess, man get over it and do I as told you. TAKE THE DAMN INDIAN 1, simple as that. Aren't you already fade up with the somali girl(s). Learn from man coz I did, they are na'thing but heart ache and break.

SWEETGRL and DUNYA no hard feeling sisters but it's true I do feel this way about my own grls and IAM NOT GENERALISING, since iam giving my brother somthing to think about befor he's being captured.

Thanks all.

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MrRight

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 02:02 pm
Iam back.

Hey sweet sister I apologise if I offended you somehow since I don't see I don't see any offencive action that I have done nor said. having said that I don't defend the Indian 1 nor her family but it seems we are focused on her more than the S.1 coz she is FOREIGNER.

I do like my Somali sister almost I will say L...
she does mean alot to me and if there was no this Indian around surely she will be the 1 who will complete my life and the mother of children. I remember the last time we met she said quotes "I can't imagine me being your wife". My heart was melting, was it fear or passion I don't know. She has somekind of superiarism over me when ever we meet. HOW COULD I OVER COME THAT?, I should have the superiorism. my friends tell me get rid of her and also some say keep her, they show me the dark side of her + the shining side of her's.Iam delighted & greatfull to call her my grl at the moment and hopefully will stay that 4 long time to come.

DUNYA there you go again building a house with no foundation lol. I mean u started a story leavt it unfinshed, why?. May be I should ask you to tell us about your cross cultural confilict or let me put you on the spot and ask that, what will you do if u were in my spot?. pleas justify your answer.

Cracker word up my brother, as you can see Iam still here "LIVE & KICKING". but some drama is still runing and it's still "TOO HOT TO HANDLE" but seems to come low level violance attitude, so KEEP AN EYE MAN.

WARDA "YEAH BABY" Education is my prioraty but at the same time WOMEN is another education to start learning too, I mean 4 furture survival. AGREE WITH ME OR WHAT? Iam sure u do.

MrRight

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Sweetgirl

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 06:22 pm
Ok Mr. Right I think I can help you, just list the three most important things you like about each one. Think hard. We'll see which ones are important and god willing we'll make the right choice. By the way is this Indian girl muslim???

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Dunya

Wednesday, August 30, 2000 - 05:43 am
Cracker cracker cracker cracker.. are you married to an indian too ? :)

Mr right ...i love building those houses with no foundation in people's minds , but how come smart ones dont develop such building ? no offence
I told you bro, straight ahead .... no indians in my life and as far as i am know ..NO CULTURAL CONFLICTS .. :) ..and i know them so well , to stay away from them.
But muslims are another case ..... good question sweet girl ... answer bro ...

OKay okay ..
Let me tell you what i will do, if i had an indian man and a somali man to choose from.
I would perform what you call " psycological tests" , not like the written ones in school , but different ones.
Sit for while, and think of questions you can ask both .. questions about life ..religon( if the indian has one ) .... future , love .., family.. about anything .. you can twist and turn it just the way you want it and trust me .. you will be surprised at what that will bring .

Listen , dont make it sound obvious that your testing them... you know .. shooting one question after the other .. be smart ..put it into conversations. Dont look suspicious..ahahhaah
It helps you to know that person well, and builds a picture in your mind .
Thats what i would do.

Salaam.

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MrRight

Thursday, August 31, 2000 - 03:40 pm
Hi all again

it's good to be back again, I mean writting my usual ESSAYS since I have to gain knowledge and meet the EXPERTISEE on line.

My sister SWEETY 1 st thanks 4 accepting the apology, 2nd you absouletly asked me that was a "BALTER" as we say here regarding her religion. afcourse she ain't muslim, I wish she was but having said she is willing to become a muslim and I willn't even think about married till she becomes, it will not take me a day to take her to the shikh believe. Yeah I know you probably saying to your self, take the 1 who is already "Muslimah" but I understand and you right, every 1 will say that but it seems I HAVE BEING CAPTURED ALREADY AND IN TO THE CAGE.

As Iam writting this latter it's friday morning about 11: 15 am and about 3 hours it's time 4 the Indian 1 to come around, then tommorow some where in the evening is the sister I mean the S.1, so there is gonna be heavy schedule coming up.

well SWEETY what can I say I wish I can choose 3 things about them per eahc, but the thing is that they all have GOODIES.

4 the sister
Out going + nice attitude
beauty is another afcourse and
most of all
her character kills me, I mean so fine.

4 the Indian ( all most the same) but

she is more open than the sister
always in a good mood and
shows me love and care more than the sister do even Iam sure she does.


well 1 big advantage the Indian 1 has is that she available more than the sister, since the Somalian 1 is only available on the weekends not even every weekend coz of family commitment and I understand that ( you know what somalis are like) but that doesn't bother me at all but the indian is taking advantahe of that. soemthing inside sometimes tell me that why can't I see her like the Indian 1 then I say to my self hold on man it will come 1 day.


DUNYA DUNYA DUNYA Have I sensed an aggressive writting or it was my low level perception? lol.

who you refering as a "smart people" me? afcourse Iam not smart, but seeking help doesn't mean you an old fou too, or is it sis? and pleas exclude me these folks who you belt a "house with no foundation" since you like to biuld them lol, coz Iam poor a guy who will struggle to recover.

my sister OK I beleive you "no indian in your life" but the procedure you will take if there wa is fascinating. My god are you real psychologist are u fancy to become 1. You made your point but I don't think I can test them at that level sis coz they will the shock of their life, they never get to use me asking them a question, they will think Iam kind of conducting a survey on them.

well that is all 4 me at the moment hope to hear from you guys soon. or by the way are there MEN in your life sister. ( it's optional you can be excused 4 not answering).

Mr rihgt

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Dunya

Thursday, August 31, 2000 - 08:12 pm
YEAH I have a man.. he is chinese bro , :) ...haahah excuse my sense of humour. I prefare to be throne in the desert than to be eating chinese food all my life .

OKay okay ..
yeah , i am thinking of becoming a phycologist one day , you wanna book an appointment before you set your heart for one of the 2 women ? lol..I wont be free later ..trust me..lol..
Let me comment on what you just said.
Goodness me , if you dont discuss about life ...or hear eachother's point of view about different issues .. what do you do all the time your together?
Sit in the park watch birds and wisper romantic words on eachothers ears day in day out,... or dance in the rain like indian movies... :)

Come on bro ... its you life here .
You have to know and discuss about serious issues here , it might be too late when you marry either of them.
If you can handle the consequesnces ... then go for it . If not... then think again.

SO .....????????????????

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Sweetgirl

Saturday, September 02, 2000 - 10:27 am
So the sister won't give you time, I think you should give it to her straight, tell her that she should spend more time with you or else......

The Indian one is not a muslim, so she is either Kalasinga or Hindu, anyway with her not being a somali and all I think you guys would have serious issues, I'm not talking about honeymoon in Calcutta but a huge cultural clash. I'm not being pessimistic but real. Hope you make the right choice.

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Mrighr

Sunday, September 03, 2000 - 05:15 pm
hahahaha loooooool,you grls are extremly talented is the "shukaansi" field, soory the folks you get your hands on coz he will dominated by a grl.

I will be back with it's class time now

jaw

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MrRight

Sunday, September 03, 2000 - 07:52 pm
Gooday folks Iam back again.

did I say you 2 sister are an expert in the "shukaansi" field oooooooooops then I apologies if 1 may take as an offensive comment.

ok miss DUNYA me & my girls don't discuss what we think has no interest in our life at the moment, we talk about the current not the future( little bitof science fiction only)but we do talk about what we like/love about each other which I enjoy discussing it coz it's shows where to improve more to impresse. By the Iam not a demander man so I don't expect neither of them to be super woman to make me satisfy in situation, as long as she knows her duty as a wife/woman then it's cool with me.
In the future god knows what we gonna through and who I will call "dirling". By the the DUNYA pleas remember as your 2nd client when become psycholgist and gues who is gonna be the 1st client?????? lol you figure out if u can't ASK ME.

My sister SWEETY what can I say you are more like calm & collective, being calm and collective you make things simple and settle the surrounding areas. that is very good habbit to get use to, but all ways it doesn't work that way. You suggested that I should confront the sister with the Question of "should spend more time with me", u are right I should ask, but the timing is not right, I might kiss her good by if I say that, you know woman (NOT ALL) asa brother said to me 1 day "they have preset premmeters" lol I straight up agreed with him. So Iam afraid I might touch these preset premmeters. AFcourse she is HINDU but Iam sure I can take her out of it with the 1st time ask her. I can sure say SHE IS IN MY HANDS. Sister the "cultural shock" is managebale Iam sure it's much eazier to manage than to have a woman who is none muslim as the mother of your child and Iam sure you agree with me, or what?

looool you cracked me with "honeymoon in culculta" maxaa xaasidnimadaas sis, couldn't say som'ing like thr BAHAAMAS mmmm now that is my place.

hear you soon and pleas what ever you do DON'T STOP THESE SUGGESTIONS.

Cracker where ddo you go my man common man show up or the grls plew you a way lol.

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Sweetgirl

Monday, September 04, 2000 - 07:02 am
Mr. Right right now Calcutta is the place you seem to be heading to, anyways bro from whatever you said so far I believe you love the Indian one more. As long as she's becomes a muslim it's cool. I guess the reason you're confused is because the other girl is Somali, if she was like Chinese or something I don't think it would have been a matter of choosing between them, you'd go with the Indian. By the way what is her name(the Indian) and do you watch Hindi movies??

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Dunya

Monday, September 04, 2000 - 12:28 pm
Alright mr right ..
Let me give you my final opinion before i leave or quit your INDIAN VS SOMALI movie.

If you are planning to convert the hindu one , then i hope she converts for the sake of Allah and that she accepts islam because she chose it and she loved it than being forced to be a muslim for the sake of marrying you or being your wife.

I mean ....i really hope you convert her .. cause hindus dont believe in God ..but they worship idols for God's sake.... statues with 10 heads some are elephants and 20 arms ... hmmmmmmm...now that will be freaky. Prepare to live with shayateen and jin in your house ..lol..
you know what i mean....if she couldnt accept our glorious religion.
I remember once i went to my hindu friend's house and trust me ..i had goosepumps and the house was soo gloomy, creepy and dark eventhough a 100 light bulb was on.

I prefare the somali muslim one ...cause you got a ready made lovely lady ...you dont need to go threw many problems, conflicts or changes........if there is any with the indian one.

About the psycologist thing ...forgetta about it .. i wont be spending my life talking to crazy people ..lol.... no offence.


Good luck ..and choose wisely.
It can determine not only your life .. but the next generation of your family ...looool..

Salaam bro. :)

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MrRight

Monday, September 04, 2000 - 04:16 pm
gooday sisters good to hear from you's once again.

My sister SWEETY My destination is not CULCULTA Niether do I plane to reside there in the short term future but I may pay a quick visit ( that is if I relate with Hindus) if not then no reason to there, is there? unless I have the wildest dream of getting "Hemamalina" daughter" lol. But it seems u have thr wrong impression of me, why? coz you said that qoute " I believe you are in love with the Indian 1 more". god where did you get that from? Iam not WALAHI I said, it's unabsoulete 50/50 race, but I wonder what makes u think that?

I will be back with more soon

class time

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MrRight

Tuesday, September 05, 2000 - 02:15 pm
Iam back again grls.

aaaaaaaaaa where was I, I had to go back and read my letter to referesh my self, I think I was about to answer SWEETY'S question, was I? well magaceeda waxaa la dhahaa Michel magac hindi ma aha, but I always tell her to change her name "Foziya" coz that name just kills me.

Do I watch their movies? I uso to when I was in Kenya but since I have here or known her NO and I don't like it any more. You though we watch their films and act like ATOORE & ATARIISHO after the film loool, that is boring. why do I sense you love their hindu film SWEETY, or like to be ATARIISHO 1 day lol. just kidding.


DUNYA my dear sister it's sad to see you quite watching "my Indian vs Somalian movie" lol, but I though u were gonna until the "UULTIMO". Hold on sister coz the action is just beggining, but if you can't fair enough coz you have said enough already and regardless who I remain with, back in mind I ask my self Did DUNYA had any influence on my judgement? lol and Iam not ruling out a YES answer since hypnatised me with your "psycholgy" staff.

P.S Sisters which side on the earth are you's living ( once again OPTIONAL Q) since I know the sister like to hid their resident area even if in different continents, is that fear based or just 4 the sake of xishood? you tell me.

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Cracker

Wednesday, September 06, 2000 - 02:23 pm
loooooooooooooooooooooooool Mrright what's this all about man "trying to add the sisters with your collection lol, asking where they live, well 4 get let me tell u somthing son 4 get it you have no chance of a making it.

Dunya and Swetsister be warned this guy storks lol.

MR yeah brother kick with your Indian leav our grls alone aight lol, but beleive me you made the right choice, they frustrate me here.

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Sweetgirl

Friday, September 08, 2000 - 05:44 pm
Me sweetgirl luv hindi movies and would like to be Atarisho. How right mr. Right I always dreamed of becoming atariisho, you know singing in the rain like lalalala.....areare and you know running around trees it's just so facinating.

To answer your question where do I live?? well bro there is nothing to xishood about, I'll be moving out to live in Calcutta you know to pursue my life-long dream of being atariisho
so get a pencil and a paper here is my address:

Sweetgirl aka atariisho sweety
P.O BOX 999
Calcutta, India

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MRIRGHT

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 05:18 pm
hahahaha

very funny sweety, but u haven't being SERIOUUUUUUUUUUUUS. U know what Iam saying, and naing is wrong with being atariisho but what's wrong is who you make your ATOORE lol.

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