     Yahya | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 04:06 am
I happen to think that i am a reasonable and rational person.
Like any other human being I do have prejudices, but racist I am not. But whenever I see a Somali sister with non-Somali it pains and angers me, but then I have gone out with a non-Somali but why do I feel the way I do? |
| Shacni | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 05:35 am
Walaalo Yahya do u think that u r being a little bit of a hypocrite? |
| Marginalise | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 05:50 am
well you have fun and experiment a little bit with other races,but you see your women as being solely yours.let them experiment a bit too. they say once somali always a somali- i see the girls dat you see to date with non-somalis are joining back the community. |
| Anonymous | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 05:51 am
Yahye
Maybe its time you came to the real world.Not the somalia world. |
| Sheeqto | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 05:56 am
because you have been taught to believe that somali women who date outside of their race are sharamiit.....
At least that was the case in somalia. |
| Guilty | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 07:38 am
To:
That is the case still nothing has changed, somalis still think they are sharmuuto. |
| sis | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 07:38 am
Yahya
Thank god some one is sdmiting his double stander syndrome,which most of our man suffer.
Yahye, I do wonder many times the same question
why, why, why,.......Somali guys can do whatever they want, yet acuse the girls when they do the same.
Answer=U guys Contorol freaks, who are full of Insecurities.....when you see the girls enjoying their life whit out you....you can take it....cuz she is not under your Control any more.can u see Yahye
By the way I did not meant to attack you Yaxya....infact I think you are very Honest and Intelligent br,who dare to Question his feeling
so well done to you...
I am just traying to put my Views.,cuz I am going same pain u going throught.when I see Somali Br who insulting their sisters whit unfairness that makes me feel to Scream!..like CAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa |
| yahya | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 07:51 am
Am I been a hypocrite on this issue the answer is yes but I cant help the way I feel, belive me its not a calculated hypocrisy.
Once I met a very attractive Somali girl but once I found out one of her ex was non-Somali then I just was'nt interested anymore. I do not know why am I such a protectionist.
I do not think somali women dating non-somali are shrmuto i just do like the idea.
To
somali sis who date non-somali do u contemplate marrying non-somali?cos although i have dated non-somali i do not intent to marry one. |
| somalisister | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 01:32 pm
Again, just the results of our double standard society..nothing to understand, nothing complicating..just plain old double standrard.
Yahya-don't be hard on your self, you are just a child of somali society. Although i think you are brave in seeing how wrong you are, but we can't help the way we feel--we are not perfect! |
| Ukur | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 10:40 pm
yahya
there is nothing wrong about your feeling you stated here.I honestly have the same feelng when i see somali sister dating outside our community though i am happily married with a Somali sister.
It might be the double standard that sisters accuse us but ..hey we cannot help .we love you sisters that is why we are so protectionists |
| Sam | Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 02:58 am
As for somali girls who see non somali males they do indeed not only play with the idea of marrying them but accutually go through with the marriage (or co-habiting). As a somali female the 1 thing i fear most in this world is falling for a non somali male (as they say not only is love blind but it's also deaf and dumb).
I suppose yahya u can't help your feelings as you're a regular somali guy who was raised to believe in what u believe. So i suggest that u just put up with it like the rest of us and get on with your own life. |
| somalianlady | Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 09:40 am
hello yahye
u are not the first one and won't be the last somalianman that asked that question,anyway it is really silly for you to feel the way u feel coz like u said u went out with non somalianwomen,the question is was it wrong for you to go out with non somalian???? and the answer is simple they are doing just like what u did something called ''enjoying yourself''.so let them enjoy themself and if they are stupid let see them getting married to non somalian and have bustard or whatever.to tell u the truth i am somalian and proud of it and only,only,and only somalian are ''getting it'' got it what i mean,i don't see the reason for me to go non somalian coz i don't beleive that there is a dam thing that they could do for me (other black or white) beleive me or not.
love somalians and only somalians. |
| PROJEC_CHICK | Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 11:27 am
i have to ask apposite question...too...it is not opposite but more like opposite..any ways i hope u don't mind me sharing this page with u instead of me getting my own...any ways ...I LOVE SOMALIANS I DON'T SEE MY SELF IN OTHERS BUT THE THING IS WHEN EVER I SEE SOMALI PERSON SOMETHING COMES UP TO ME AND I GET ATTITUDE TOWARD THEM I DON'T KNOW WHY..I MEAN I SHOW THEM A HATE.....WHEN I LOVE THEM IN REAL LIFE......I DON'T GO TO PARTIES CAZ I DON'T THINK I WOULD GET ALONG WITH THEM...I DON'T DO ANY THING WITH THEM....I DIDN'T EVEN GO TO THE SALATUL EID ...CAZ OF SOMALIZ PLEASE HELP I DON'T WANA FEEL THIS WAY 4 EVER WHEN EVER IAM WITH MY MOM IF SHE SAYS HI TO THEM I GET PISS OFF AND I TELL HER NOT TO SAY HI TO THEM...I DON'T KNOW WHY I DO IT BUT I DO IT..MAYBE U CAN HELP AND TELL ME WHAT MY PROBLEM IS...U KNOW |
| SUMMERTIME | Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 07:14 pm
SO WHAT U GONA DO IF U DEPORTED BY ANY CHANCE.
TELL ME WHERE DO LIVE NOW?
ARE U SOMALI REFUGEE?
HOW LONG U HAVE BEEN THERE?
I MIGHT GIVE U SOME TIPS THEN |
