     jamilia | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 12:16 pm
Hmm love huh?
Well i never experienced any in my entire life...not from my mother nor my father...i have been told your parents/family teach you the meaning of love, but i was never taught...i was taught to never depend on anyone except myself...that i'm all alone in this world...the thing is i wanna belive in love but how do i do that??? |
| Give me a break! | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 02:36 pm
Hop on the bus,and go to Mogadhishu.I hear they have lots of love there.It comes in AK47.Aint love sweet. |
| Reer-miyi from hawd | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:00 pm
let me be reason with you you maybe sincere about your post, don't look any where the "love" thing go somali chatrooms I am sure you will hear the word "LOVE" before you even great the chatters and you will experience different kind of loves OLD men telling they can't sleep at night with out you Teenager doing the same thing it willbe good experience for you then search your soul mate when you practice the chatroom and my point is not for you to meet someone online but learn what love is |
| qalanjo2000@hotmail.com | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 05:52 pm
THE WORD "LOVE" COMES FROM THE HEART NOT FROM THE MOUTH. |
| Mr. Me | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 01:00 am
Jamilia that is a good question. But There are two wayz to answer your question. But before i do it mainly is seems like u wana know what love is when it comes to a family or someone, or a friend. Well When it comes to a love in relative or family is where u are willing to die for them, do anything for them care for them for fullest. They are your number one in this world. Afcourse u are right when u say i been tought to be alone in this world because sometimes the once u love can heart u. There was say of "Is better to be Feared then To be Love". Which means a love one can heart u but a one who fears u will respect u. But The one love i really know is the love i have for my girl. I thought i knew what love means but as i grew it was nothing but drama and unlasting. Do u know when u ream a poem a love one, one u say or hear nice words like sweet one "Everytime i think of u I get Butterflies in my Stomach. People say that But i really have experienced when i met the soul mate of my life. All of the poems , love letters, sweet notice, feelings , they all came true when i met her and that was when i found out the meaning of love. Is something u experience every day but at the same time has its down days but the its strongness u make it right and work it because u dont want to let it die. Baby Am sorry if i confused u but take your time and Be just u and love should come and fall u for the rest of your life because its joy is the like the beautiful smile in your face.
Good luck! |
| reallady2000 | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 03:47 am
to jam
hi sis
love is something meant from the heart,
and this poem below is to show you what love really means,i wrote this poem for someone anyway i hope you enjoy it!!!!!
you're the world to me
there's no one quite like you
you're the one i love
the one i want to touch
i give my heart to you
and i need you so much
offer me your sweet caresses
fill me with your wonder ful light
soothe my aching heart
and hold me through the night
the sound of your voice summons deep emotion within
like an old famillar song
lke the comfort of a freind
when you're near to thoughts of love
as you touch me with a magic
that's as grand above the stars
i want to hold yoyr hand
i hunger for your kiss
offer me your sweet tidings
of true loves tender bliss
i promise our love shall soar
carried on the wings of dove
so give me your heart and bless me with your love.
sis that's
peace y'all |
| saynab | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 05:06 am
hi jamal I wiil try to love you give me your telephone numer and I wiil promess to love you this is saynab from southall |
| hebel | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 06:11 am
Hey Jamila if anyone tells U he/she (Specially she) is teaching U love, never trust him or her.
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He/she (Yeah, specially she) wants to get to yar Canbar.
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Love can't be taught love will come and hit U over the head when yar time comes.
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And love will never kick U same place in yar butt twice.
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Everyone each of them has it's own style.
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Some use right or left hooks
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Some uppercuts.
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Some will jab u to death.
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Some use straight shots.
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Some are lefties.
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Some are right handed.
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Some do use combination of all of the above.
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So sit tight and wait and let me know when ya loose yar Girginity (men are not included in this section)
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Yar money.
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Yar looks (Men not included)
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Yar job.
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Yar sleeps.
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And everything in between.
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And I will tell U how close U R at the grave and where we should find U. |
| jamilia | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 06:17 am
Give me a break...I'm not even going to waste my time on you
Reer...help me understand...how will me going to chat rooms help me in anyway?
Qalanjo..thanks for ur definition
MR Me
thanks you for explaining the different types of love...I'm glad you have found your soul mate 
Real lady
thanks for the poem sis...I hope I too one day experience what you wrote about
Saynab
I'm sorry to disappoint you but I'm not a Jamal nor a man I'm a woman...Jamilia is a woman's name |
| faris | Saturday, October 14, 2000 - 02:07 am
jamilia,
I don't understand when u r saying I am never told to be depand on somebody.
First of all love isn't to be depandent on some1, but exactly the opposite. I think u watch a lot of talk shows where those kind of topics are presented.
To love and believe your self is the first thing,cause without this you cannot love some1.
If you are looking for some1 I would say fill first of all your empty space ( to love your self)
then have full love with your parents, your bro/sis.
Girls with this kind of problem can later have the wrong partner choice. So you have now the time to work on yourself and I am sure you will win.
Why don't use your mother or your elder sister as a close friend. I know you girls do that. It works! |
| jamilia | Saturday, October 14, 2000 - 03:23 am
Faris
Thanx for taking the time to reply to my message.
What I'm basically trying to say is that I do not know what love is. People who say I love, what do they really mean? Is there such a thing as love at first life? Soulmates? I'm not only talking about that kind of love but that of your family too? What is that?
All in all I just want to know what love is and how can I believe in it. |
| hebel | Saturday, October 14, 2000 - 05:38 am
I see love as Philly Steak Cheese to go.
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When U bring it home it's all messy and cold.
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And I see the one I love as Minnesota...Cold and Flat.
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And I see yar time "Jamilia" as Timex watch Takes lots of LICKING! but keeps on TICKING!
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C? |
| Reer-Miyi from hawd | Saturday, October 14, 2000 - 07:16 am
To: Jamilia
Love has a different meaning to distinctive people family, partner friends, nature, even bet but your Question was how do you know if some one loves you?
Well people do experienced divers way
I will try to define Family love which is very Important all of us.
When your mother and father make a good decisions about your life you will notice is a pure love
Every Try time you are weak, sick or even stress your family will be there for you with no pre-conditions that's love too
No matter what you do or where you even if your life is not the way they want you to be still they will love you
At night when your mother asks you if you had a meal that's pure love too
Your family will sacrificed every thing in order for you to be healthy, Educated, and your well being as a their child
Last but not least your family are the one who shaped you in real life to be a polite a decent and well manner person that is love too
If your mother comes to your room and kiss your cheek at night its pure love I am talking about at a young age
but Somali culture we don't express like "I love you" its a culture barrier but if you experienced all those thing I mention Above definitely you had a good loving family.
I am sure other people can add more about family love because it never ends
Partner love I am little bit too Ingenuous because I am not married but its a mutual understanding between two people who care each other and compromise should be at the core of their relationship to gain something you should give some,
Other material that people give to each other is not love but extra to spice your feeling toward each other
A least I tried what I perceive is love in my opinion maybe others do have different version
Tanks
Tanks |
| Devils_love | Saturday, October 14, 2000 - 09:35 am
Dear Love Seeker:
Love is sacred feeling that is meant to be shared by two people. While i do hope that you find a love in your quest for love i would like to draw your attention that love could be very sweet yet we encounter a number of people whose heart were broken by the very one they chose.
As a word of caution i suggest you search love with a degree of caution. You never who might be lurking out there waiting to break innocent person's heart.
I as man do believe love is essentail any relationship you have. Be it parental or marital.
So keep on the hard work. And always be positive.
AND LOVE WILL COME CRAWLING........
Devils_Love |
| faiza | Monday, October 16, 2000 - 04:45 am
No-one can tell you what love means you have to experience it. and this whole butterflies and sweaty hands are not a sign. No-one can teach love. hope ya find your love. |
| funnygirl | Wednesday, October 18, 2000 - 06:56 am
Hi ya all
dear jamilia,
i could only tell you what love is about my experience. You said you wana believe in love, love does exist, there are different types of love, for families, freinds, and parthners. My parents never touch me about love, but love is not something that you need to have a teacher. i know my family love me as much as i love them, because they worry about me if i come home late and they didn't know were i was, they like to give me what i want, this is because they want me to be happy, they cook my favourite meal, they care about me and take a good care of me when i am sick, they do all these things because they love me.
The love that i have for them is to make them happy as much as are making me happy, to suprise them when they are not expecting- like cooking doing things that makes them happy, to worry with them when they are worried, like if they are worried you can not be all happy. to listen to them when they are talking to me. these are love, because you wouldn't talk to or make them happy, someone that you hate, so love exist as much as hate exist. you care about your friends and help them when they need help, that is the love that you have for them.
Caring, trying to make someone happy, not to do somthing that that they hate, all of these things are love.
But i din't know the love that you will have for a guy until it happened to me. this is all about inside, it comes from the heart and you will only believe it when it happens to you. i used to hear about it, with my friends and i wasn't sure if it was true or not. i mean if they get these feelings or not. But it happened to me, that love is exciting, happy, pain, and scary too. you could feel your heart is in pain but only you can feel it. i really cared about my man very much, i would do anything for him just to make him happy, i wanted to see him everyday, used to think about him all the time and all of that was happy feeling. He used to come in to my head the first thing in the morning when i wake up, and he used to be in my head the last think that i think about when i am going to bed. All i wanted to do was to be with him.
I hope you will see and feel love by sis and i hope i helped
bye and peace |
