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     | Friday, November 03, 2000 - 05:04 pm "Habo geesi dili kara...gobonimona hanan kara...hablo talada goyn kara....garashada iskaga mida...quruxdana ka wada goba...geeskeena mooyee...geyi kale ma joogaan" I like to take this opportunity to express my ideas and everybody is very welcome to comment this article in a positive constructive way. Salaama Calaykum All single women say they're looking for a "nice" guys while "nice" guys claim they can't get a date because women always go for "bad" guys and they get pushed aside and often ignored altogether. Fair enough, but some women will tell you that the only reason they go out with "bad" boys is because they're usually the only available alternative to someone with no life. Sure, these guys are nice, clean-cut, etc., but do they have any passions in life? Are they interested in anything except finding some mythical "other" who will adopt them and give them a life? The problem we facing here is the fact that More and more somali women are now judging us based on the standards set by all forms of media. And those standards keep rising and getting more complex... When we set standards....I think things go wrong between men and women because people set their standards too high and are unwilling to compromise on anything less than what they want. When a girl meets a guy, she starts to compare him to some model in her mind without giving him a chance to show what, and who, he is, or what he has to offer her. My advice to our women is be who you are and accept others as they are. Don't compare them. The reality is often so much better.For those sisters who carry around a "list" of requirements they want in a mate. Even though you have the right to do so, I think that Perhaps you should broaden your horizons!...look for character, integrity and honesty... these are the most important qualities. A person who has these will respect you and your opinions. All of these are essential for a lasting relationship. My advice to these guys is to find an interest, cultivate a passion, and when you're a real person with a real life, you'll probably find a match. For those brothers who love to swear and insult others..I will say have some self-respect ... You must value yourself and allow others to value you also. You guys should learn to see things backwards...inside out....and upside down. being open and attentive is more effective then being brutal judgemental characters. May Allah Shower you His Blessings Amiin!! peace and Love
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| | Friday, November 03, 2000 - 05:34 pm Suldaanka your words really made me think again about what i had in mind.
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| | Friday, November 03, 2000 - 06:39 pm SUULDANAKA YOU HIT THE NERVE BRO................ You know what I was thinking about this a little while ago,I posted the topics"what do U like about men"......also"what do U like about women"to find out what do our women need or require in their future partners,I MUST ADMIT THE RESPONSES SHOCKED ME IN A BIG WAY.I didn't expect our somali-sisters to have the same kind of a mentality of a western woman I expected them to be originals have their own agenda not be copy-cats(excuse me for using such a phrase). As if I was reading an american match-maker magazine!!! Why do you want to embrace other peoples culture way of thinking when you have your own??? Good sense of humor,good-looking guy,prince charming,loving,caring,passionate,romantic,treats me right!etc..........................an endless list of requirements which are almost impossible in the real world,get real women Mr;perfect don't exist and if you wait around for him you will be the looser,lower your standards and don't copy them faithless westerners after all we're somalis and we have our own culture our own way of doing things we don't need to steal other peoples imaginary dreams.
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 10:02 am very interesting but i take the fifth women are not all that anyhow good stuff suldaanka by the way [yaad suldaan u tahay]
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 10:38 am Suldaan u the man. that was well written.
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 05:16 pm waxay aniga ila tahay hadii ay hablihii soomaalidu sidaa noqdeen iyaga iyo nasiibkood. laakiin yaa u baahan. ama jamaykaan raaca ama cirka ka dhaca. idiinma baahnin.
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| | Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 04:46 pm what do somali women really want? you guys can make as many topics as you want but they will never get satisfied. too much [mukur]. I rather prefer to stay single then dealing with them
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| | Monday, November 06, 2000 - 02:28 pm you hit the nerve saaxiib bring it more maansadii goljano uunbaan doodaada kafahmay saaxiib adiga oo iga raali ah hadaad haysid maansadaa email me at xarbi_006@yahoo.com thanks
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| | Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 09:59 pm FARHAAN YOU THING SOMALIA WOMEN WANTS YOU. WETHER YOU WANT TO USE SOUP FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE OR WETHER YOU WANT TO STAY SINGLE. SOMALIA WOMEN WILL NEVER WANT YOU SO GO TO HELL,
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| | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 03:32 am Suldaanka wot u say make sense, but can't be generalised bro!! Easy brothers u got us all wrong walaahi!!! Not all of us got the western way of thinking. About girls not wanting good men, every woman needs a good man but they tend to be shy not approach the girls. So these (some) poor sistas have to make due with the dogz that tend to get in ur face. I don't think that any guy should change 4 a woman or vice -versa coz if the person don't love u 4 who u r , they never will. PS. What the hell does ROMANCE mean??????????? Laters
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| | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 04:06 am Suldaanka: Nice topic... But I can't really comment on this, you know why? well may be I'm lucky but to tell you honestly I have girl friend pretty one and if I want I can change women like I change my clothets, and all my buddies got woman, So I wonder where u guys from which you can't find nice woman, on Mars!!! I have to say where I live there is a lot of nice woman looking for nice guys like you. bye now
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| | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 05:59 am Wonderer Where do you live on mars??????????????
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| | Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 06:18 am lolanonymous Yeah wanderer...what planet do you live in?Is it Planet cyber or Planet Newspaper? You know the dating classified part where all the great dreamers like to read.Keep the good work! You deserve an A + for fake Hope delussions.
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| | Friday, November 10, 2000 - 02:52 pm I would like to say thank you ror all brothers and sisters who took the time to respond and post their comments about the above article. Let us express out opinions in a positive way, so that we can all benefit from each other. Lot of people have a very difficult time recognizing goodness, much less acknowledging or reciprocating it. Being polite and nice may not be in the dictionary of some of our brothers and sisters but it is the best thing a human being can possibly do.
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| | Friday, November 10, 2000 - 03:16 pm SULDAANKA Ha ha ha ha I like the part about List of Requirements that we carry Im a simple girl who seeks the simple things in life......I don't carry a list of requirements coz if we look around...the word called PERFECTION doesn't exist. We have to make-do with what Allah bestows on us......and no matter how hard we try .....your Calaf has been decided already. What U can afford to do is try to implement and accept the person as they are.. But we can hope and pray that the life partner that U get will be understanding/ mature/ honest and educated(religious & academic). My MOTTO in life is.......Don't complain, Never Explain.......coz that way U don't have to be accountable for your personal discrepancies and U haven't got the right to judge and complain about others.
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| | Friday, December 08, 2000 - 11:12 am Somali girls Nuh! Not worth it talking about them ismaldhiqis iyo maalaayacni I rather go out with the rest of Islam woman. Suldaanka I heard that before but guess what it is ok. they can set any standard they want but when i need them "peace of cake" Therefore do no waste your time to those girl who think they are all that. peace
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