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rahma

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 06:02 pm
to every person who experience this

iam somaligirl and iam 20yrs old living mn usa
and i just got married with 24yrs loved man
who is realy sweet and cares alot about me
we r marry now about two month and we can not have good time couse of verginity and my husband does not
want to hurt me and he does not want me to go to hosptal so i can get cut it and since we got marry every time when he try us have good time
iam going to scream at him he just going to forgot everything and just say we going take care
some other time
and i dont real know what to do and i even think
now iam start hating him couse of that,

so please be honest and help your sis who is sick of her loved one who is too muct for her
and please no rudness couse i dont realy like those
rude people just be nice or leave

peace and love
sis rahma

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Anonymous

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 06:17 pm
rahma

take a gun and shoot the facking hole - bitch! i dont like stupid motherslackers.

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Suleqo

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 06:33 pm
Rahma sis the only thing you can do is
to go to Hospital so they can open the hole
or ales tell him to do hard.

Sis the only thing I don't understand is
how come U are married for two months
and U are still virgin?.
I thing it doesn't take 2 month to lose ur virgin. Maybe ur husband is not traying his best.
Dose ur husband chew 2 much QAAD? If he dose
then that why he can't do anything sis.

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Anonymous

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 02:02 am
RAHMA SIS, HOSPITAL OR NOTHING, TAKE YOUR PICK. WHAT'S WRONG WITH THE MAN, WHY DOESN'T HE WANT YOU TO GO TO HOSPITAL?

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Aflow

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 02:50 am
War midkaan doqonka ah ee gabadha qabo ayaa wax walba iigu daran,war muu hal mar ka dhigo waamaxay waa hal mar iyo hal qeeylo oo weeyn arintuna meesha ayeey ku dhamaatay.

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Anonymous

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 02:57 am
Sxb maad beenta naga dhaaftid hadii aad naagtaadii furan kariwaysay

if your dick has't got inough power to open use your finger

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Anonymous

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 02:58 am
Sxb maad beenta naga dhaaftid hadii aad naagtaadii furan kariwaysay

if your dick has't got enough power to open use your finger

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Awosmanka

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 03:21 am
Waxaa jirta,Careem lagu iibiyo farmasiga, oo xanuunka kaa yareenaayo, isagana u sahlaayo, in uu tunalka orad ku dhaafo. HAVE A NICE TIME.

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what?

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 03:55 am
i think anonymous is right.

This is not a girl talking its the girl's husband who cannot perform his natural unpaid job.Woosy skunk! Open up the thing fool or go get your ass opened up.Sissy!

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Caraweelo

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 06:30 pm
Rahma sis,

One question !
Is there any doctors the place that you live?
Ask them for some help.....Two month is too much.
No sence at all.

Waryaa Anonymous#3,Acuudu billahi.

What you talking about?

Use your finger!

Acuudu billahi...Iga tag haisoo marinee.


Caraweelo.

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xilkas

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 09:16 pm
What in the world is she talking about........acyaasu bilaah.........Abaayo this is not the place to seek for advice.........U could ask your doctor or a pharmacist instead of putting your disgusting.....nasty question in public.........and one more thing........why didnt u use some other nick names,,,,,,,,,,,leave alone my beautiful.........nice and articulate name...........Ma xishooto yaheey....Shame on u........and u know what ..............whatever..........Ceeb caleek.

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wiil soomaaliyeed

Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 11:21 am
Aad ayaan uga xumahay in aad tala waydiisatay dad ubadan wax magarato ayna ka midyihiin niman akhlaaq xumo awgeed markii laga hadlo nin iyo naag intaa un wax ka dhiganaya iyo naago meesha keenaya su'aal aan loobaahneyn sida 'ninku ma qaad buu cunaa'iyo laba bilood way badantahay. Iska daa warkooda waa shaydaan iyo dad uu ku shaqaysanayee, waxaadna ogaataa in laba bilood aysan badneyn waana wax aad ku faanikarto inuu ninkaagu ku helo adigoo bikro ah. Hadaba waxaad ku dadaashaan in arintaani aysan wax udhimin dhismaha gurigiina iyo jiritaanka reerka, ciladuna waxaan dhihkaraa ma'ahan bikradaada ee waxaa aad ubadan sida uu kuugu naxariisanayo ninkaagu, taasina waxay keentay in markii aad cabato uu kuu naxo kuuna turo arintaasina mafiicna haddii ay xadkeedi dhaafto. Waa inaad adkeysataa saaxiibkayna uu kudadaalaa inuu hawshiisa qabsado waqtina siiya arinta, iskana ilaali oo talo ha udoonan naago lagayaabo iney bikradoodi dhumiyeen guurkoodi kahor oo adiga kuu sheegaya in ay laba bilood badantahay.

by wiil soomaaliyeed

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ASAD

Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 12:52 pm
TO RAXMO
ABAAYO NIKAAGA GUSKIISA MADAXA MIYUU KAWAYN YAHAY?????????????????????????????????????????

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Hammer

Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 01:46 pm
People my intention is no to look like a
Pono-star,But Rahma needs help .I will try to avoid foul words

Some of you think that Rahma is actually the Husband.But i dont blame him if that is the case.I would say he is smart,he is trying to find solution for his problem.

Now lets get back to Rahma.You said your husband was trying to knock down you door for two months,and couldn't get in.That is unusual.

Intercourse is not the only way to have fun,so dont get pre-occupied with it.In due time you will loose you virginity .Do take part in the action and be a pono-star if you have to,to bring back confidence to your husband.

Dont be afraid of the "baldy".Hold it whole heartedly.Try it in diferent angles.Monkey, flamingo,doggy,Karma Sutra etc.

Both of you will produce fluid.And that will soften you after some time.And inch by inch a day, will open you up for sure.And it will take you to the moon too, each time you do it... But it requires endurance from your side...Whatever you do, dont cry,this might give your husband excuse to relax.

Iam not gonna advice you to go to a doctor.remember millions of somali women went through this process, but mostly, not as long as you do.

Final thought...Sit on Baldy every hour and ride your husband like horse.EeeeeeeeeeeHaaaaaa!

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RAHMA

Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 06:04 pm
THANKS YOU GUYS

BUT FOR THOSE WHO THOUGHT THAT I WAS MY HUSBAND
BELIEVE MY HUSBAND IS VERY SHY AND NEVER SAY IT
WHATEVER HAPPENS
YOU CAN CALL ME AF ADAG BUT IAM NOT EXCALY WHAT SOME OF YOU THINKS IAM SINCE I HAD HURD TIME AND IT'S REALY SHAME THING TO ASK SAMEONE FACE TO FACE EVEN MY MOTHER YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS!
AND THOSE THINKS THAT I SHOULD GO TO HOSPITAL THINKS WHEN YOU DONE BY DR YOU GOING COMEBACK HOME YOU ARE DHAWAC HOW THINGS WILL HAPPEN
AND MY HUSBAND THINKS I CAN GET EFECFTION FOR IT THAT WHY HE DIDN'T LIKE IT,
BUT ANY I KNOW IAM GOING TO DEAL WITH SO WHAREVER IT WILL TAKES IT WILL GET DONE SOMEDAY
AND FOR THOSE WHO THINKS MY HUSBAND IS MASKIN
WELL HE IS NOT BUT HE JUST DONT HAVE CHOICE
HE WANT ME HE GOT GO SLOW AND PPL LET ME TELL
THE FANNIEST PART OF THE STORY EVERY FRIDAY WHEN HIS FATHER COMES FROM MASJIDKA HE WILL COME HOME WISPER TO HIM TO FINDOUT IF I GOT PREGNENT YET AND HE COMES TO ME YELLS AT IS THAT MY FOULT
PS YOU PPL AND THANX
RAHMA

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SISIN

Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 11:08 pm
Hi girl!!
Look a can't say that
feel what you are talking about coz i ain't marreid.
But if i was you sis i would go to the hospitial and tell them what is going on .
Coz the guy doesn't care as long as he is having a good time .
It is for your own good .
If he doesn't understand it then he doesn't love you or care about u.
How can u say he cares about u when he is doing this to you ..
Anyway gir i am sorry that u have to go through this but my best advise is go to the doctors and help your self , coz if u don't no one will .
if u feel lonly girl i will give u my e-mail
ok so u can write and talk more ok ..
SISN52@HOTMAIL.COM
OK SIS BYEEEEEEEE

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Anonymous

Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 08:36 am
I am agree with Sii because if he care about you he wound not let you to go through this painful saturation. so you have to go to the hospital so they could do something about this. Takecare about your self girl
bye

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QOOSADE

Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 09:17 am
ASAD, HAVE YOU LOST YOUR BRAIN?

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HONEST

Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 11:40 pm
PLEASE THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVE THE EXPERIENCE MEN AND WOMEN TELL THE SISTER YOUR EXPERIENCE HONESTLY AND FRANKLY.

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911

Sunday, November 19, 2000 - 02:03 pm
rahma damn you must be dump what and what the •••• is wrong with your man, the brother can't even penetrate get your self a plastic dick and sit on it thats my advice to u.

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dilaacshe

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 03:09 am
rahma


leave your email here,we got expert on blow jobs right where you live, they would be more than happy to do it for in just under an hour, what is more they will do it for free.......just leave an email and send that useless husband of yours to the shops.....

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SOUTHBOY

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 05:00 am
Dear Rahma,

Girl I think your husband is a punk or gay. I never heard thinkg like this before and what kind of excuse is dat that he is afraid that he might hurt you that is some bullshit maybe he is a gay and he is not interested in you, did you ever look at it that way huh think about it ma. You better drop that loser and get with a hero ma ya heard, peace.

ONE.

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Waleed

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 11:38 am
I'm speachless at this point. Indeed, my people have lost every reason to be SOMALI.

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HonestGirl

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 12:48 pm
Rahma............sistah ignore the advices of most of fools in here...............the only reason i think ur man did not get through yet is cuz he loves u and doesnt wanna hurt u............cuz a lot of my friends who r married told me it hurts like no body's business.............when u scream and show him that it hurts........what do u expect him to do............he's gonna stop.................u either take the pain.............and be strong for dayz........and believe me u gonna cry a lot................they say its even more painful than having a baby..........or.........talke to ur husband about going to a doctor to get opened...............its ez...........and faster..............both of u wont suffer for another 2 months...........and u wont feel like u hate the guy u wanna spend the rest of ur life with...................pls sis talk to ur husband................cuz communication is the key to a successful relationship................
I have never and will never experience something liek this but i know if i would.........i would talk to him!!!!!

i wish u all the luck in the world............

Waleed.............i agree with u bro!!!!

ur sistah
Honest Girl

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curious

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 10:45 pm
Honest girl thanx for your advice to our sister.Do you have practical experience or is theory what you are telling to her.I like to hear men and women who have the real experience.

Please let's share with you your expeience me and other virgins

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shocked sis

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 12:19 am
oh my god, i never knew such things existed!!! are people really that badly circumstised?

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HonestGirl

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 10:09 am
Curios................nah sistah...........my advice was not based on experience..............but i know a lot of pple who got married...........and they tell me stuff like that...............i'm a v-girl just like u and thanx to my allah and my mother i dont think i'll be going through that pain.......

Shocked girl..............yah girl..............and worse than that sometimes.................time is diff. right now........and the pain could be gotten rid of..............but think of the old dayz..........my mom told me some ladies used to bleed to death.............

And can u believe it...............i know some pple who say in the present day they will circumsize thier daughters the way thier grandma circumsized them........which is really stupid and selfish!!!!

adios sistaz

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Hilaac

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 11:21 am
Dear
blame U are parents and who circumcised U
like that, because the suffer U going thruogh
they coused to U I never knew people are
circumcise that bad, and it is to stop

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S. Gurl

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 03:04 pm
Most of you people crack me up in here, Hammer, loooooooooooool. doggy style eh? And we got some ignorant people in here calling this young sweet gurl's husband some imperative words, come-on people now that's the same as a needle going through her heart, she loves this man, and I pesonally don't think she would appreciate name-calling especially if it's addressed to her husband. Now personally sis I read everyone's comments and I imminatively think that "Honestgirl", gave some deepfully thinking to this situation and stated the best way to deal with it. I personally don't have anything to say, except for to waite a while and don't over take it , let nature take it's courses.


salam

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DuH

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 03:27 pm
S Gurl

do you know the meaning of the word imperative?The way you used it was BAD.I'm not angry at rahma,but you.

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Somali sis

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 08:47 pm
God help us!
Do we have to go through this?
Sis & bro who got an idea about, Plz help her.
Sis Rahma; I hope that you got some help by now.

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somaliman

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 10:01 pm
Dear sisters:

All I can say is may allah help you

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shocked sis

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 11:30 pm
HONEST GIRL, YEAH ME TOO,MY PARENTS ARE DEEPLY RELIGIOUS, AND NOTHING LIKE THAT WILL EVER FACE ME, THANK GOD. I CAN'T HONESTLY COMPREHEND WHAT IT WAS INTENDED TO DO?

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SOMALIBOY

Wednesday, November 22, 2000 - 12:29 am
GIRLS SHOCKED SIS AND OTHERS AREN'T YOU CIRCUMSIZED OR IS YOURS LITTLE EASY THAN HER.I THINK THE PROPLEM ISN'T THE CIRCUMSIZE BUT IS THE QODOB AND THE STICHING.

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reality check

Wednesday, November 22, 2000 - 02:47 am
Salaam bros and sisters


Do you all know that circumcision for the girls is not religious...but traditional? Did you also know where the idea of circumcision came form?
Well this is because the pharaoh of Egypt at the time like to have a virgin every time he slept with her, just to hear them scream. He used to get a virgin girl every night until the idea of circumcision came along...which has also found it's way to the Somali people. Well this was only done to please and pleasure the men with no regard towards the women.

Circumcision causes a lot of pain for women not just sexually but also during the menstrual cycle as well as birth.

To those people that do this to their children ask yourselves...is it worth risking their lives, putting them through so much pain for the rest of their life????

Cause over 2 million females die due to circumcision each year.

However this is a requirement for the males due to cleanliness. It has also been founded that men who are circumcised have a less chance of getting AIDS, even if they had sex with someone who carries the virus.

people we all need to face reality.


Dear sis Rahma...I suggest you go to the hospital as this can also cause complications during birth.

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HonestGirl

Wednesday, November 22, 2000 - 07:42 am
Reality Check..........thanx for da info bro/sis.........
I heard it was sunnah to circumsize female the day they were born..........and that was by just pinching some where in her private parts to make it bleed............it was done by Ummu Salama one of the Prophet's wives............(correct me if i am wrong)
And alxamdulilaah...............many parents r understanding that and stopped the nasty circumsicion in the early 80's.............thanx god

Shocked sistah............girl i know huh...........i thank Allah and my mom everyday for that...........

SomaliBoy...............u figure it ur self dear!!!

Hilaac.............yeah it is the parents to blame........but wouldnt u rather forgive ur parents for one mistake they've done to when u were little cuz of something they were ignorant about........

Adios

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reality check

Wednesday, November 22, 2000 - 09:51 am
Salaam again ppl

Honest your right it is only sunnah...it is only supposed to be piched and made bleed.

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Hilaac

Wednesday, November 22, 2000 - 12:18 pm
TO honest girl;
it is to blame parents of what they did to
theirs kids, it is not issue of ignorance it is
why they did it, if some thing is sunah it
means forgettable, having U are kid go thruogh
this kind of pain, I rather know what I do
than not knowing and I am to be accounted for
copy girl, once I appreciate U coments
I am angry the suffer she has to go through
enjoy there / see U

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CoolPoison

Thursday, November 23, 2000 - 04:17 am
Poison can help himself and help you at the same time. Willing to pay for own travel to USA. Just leave your email and quickly sister. You are missing on a lot of fun.

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somboy

Thursday, November 23, 2000 - 09:14 am
Asalaamu calaykum sis Honestgirl you r right when you wrote that to circumsize female is sunnah but I'm not quite sure if you understand that because the term of sunnah doesn't mean in the islamictermonology something which you have choice to do or not to do but it has many meanings and it dependant how it comes in the hadith.So Finally as most prominent scholars confirm that gudniin to female some times is waajib and some times is not waajib it depend the climate which the female liv and how big is that piece which require to cut it because it is diferent from race to race as we all know.So it needs to consult the islamic scholars.But please notice that islam isn't allowing to cut off whole neither to qodob the girls.
Thanx all of you.and I figure it.

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Pointer

Thursday, November 23, 2000 - 10:05 am
that's some sick ••••.....DAMN, aint nothing private anymore?????????S.H.I.T

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rahmacadey

Friday, December 01, 2000 - 06:08 pm
"oh my goodness, walalaha somalida"

VERY FUNNY STORY HUH, SOME OF YA IGNORANT OH PLEASE BE NICE
SOME ARE NICE SWEET AND HELPFUL THANKS VERY MUCH/ WELL THIS IS
ME SWEETGIRL BUT PEOPLE I JUST WANT IT
CHARGE YOUR MINDS AND JUST SEE WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT THAT IDEA AND I THINK I GOT IT SO THANKS,
AND YOU GUYS MAY THINK IAM STUPID BUT IAM NOT
AND CONTINUE THRU RESPECTING SOMALI SIS OF YOURS
THANKS TO ALL THE SWEETNESS PEOPLE IN HERE, YOU OWN ME ONE
SEEEEE YA
hahhashahahahahah just loughting

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Haatuf

Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 07:25 pm
ASALLAMU CALAYKUM......

SHAME ON YOU PEOPLE.....

Ain't you Moslems, ain't you Somalis. Your sis asked you for advice but it seems to me that you're too ignorant too unmoslem to give her an advice.

To Raxma....

It doesn't matter whether you're the husband or wife. What matters is that this problem is solved. My advice to you is go to the pharmacy, you can buy there liquids that will ease things and take the tension away. If that doesn't work, ask your friends for advice.

This is your brother Haatuf wishing you pleasant marriage......

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farhanyare

Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 10:59 pm
rahmo: candawaynee waan ku garan waxaad iska dhigi naag •••• yar sidaan siilkaaga kugu mayaraanoooyo. ha ina iskakaydihigin. okey. waynu ku naqaan. Naag tiraah canadhaday wayyartahay waxay ila muuqataa inay candon wayntahay. that is the stragtegic

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Mercutio-

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 08:02 am
I CAN'T BELIEVE I HAVE BEEN IGNORING THIS TOPIC ALL THIS TIME.

RAHMA I AM SO SORRY SIS, I WISH THERE WAS SOMETHING I COULD SAY BUT I AM GOBSMACKED, I WISH THERE WAS SOMETHING ANY OF US COULD DO BUT WE CAN ONLY OFFER YOU EMPTY WORDS. I UNDERSTAND IT IS A BIT OF AN EMBARRESMENT TO ASK FAMILY ABOUT THESE TYPES OF ISSUES BUT WALAALO PLZ GET SOME HELP FROM A PROFFESIONAL IT WILL NOT HURT AS MUCH AS YOU THINK- NOW A DAYS THERE ARE A LOT PAIN KILLERS THAT CAN NUMP THE WOUND, ANETHSTETIC WILL BE USED BEFORE THE OPERATION.


RAHMA PLZ WALAALO DON'T LET THIS BREAK UP YOUR MARRIAGE LIKE YOU SAID HE IS A LOVING AND CARING MAN AND HE COULD BE SCARED OF THE WHOLE SITUATION HIMSELF IT IS NOT SOMETHING HE FACED HIMSELF IN THE PAST SO HE IS PROBABLY MORE SCARED THAN YOU ARE, HE PROBABLY FEELS HELPLESS THAT HE CANT HELP YOU MORE.

I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST I REALLY DO!
BYE RAHMA.

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Mercutio-

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 08:04 am
I CAN'T BELIEVE I HAVE BEEN IGNORING THIS TOPIC ALL THIS TIME.

RAHMA I AM SO SORRY SIS, I WISH THERE WAS SOMETHING I COULD SAY BUT I AM GOBSMACKED, I WISH THERE WAS SOMETHING ANY OF US COULD DO BUT WE CAN ONLY OFFER YOU EMPTY WORDS. I UNDERSTAND IT IS A BIT OF AN EMBARRESMENT TO ASK FAMILY ABOUT THESE TYPES OF ISSUES BUT WALAALO PLZ GET SOME HELP FROM A PROFFESIONAL IT WILL NOT HURT AS MUCH AS YOU THINK- NOW A DAYS THERE ARE A LOT PAIN KILLERS THAT CAN NUMP THE WOUND, ANETHSTETIC WILL BE USED BEFORE THE OPERATION.


RAHMA PLZ WALAALO DON'T LET THIS BREAK UP YOUR MARRIAGE LIKE YOU SAID HE IS A LOVING AND CARING MAN AND HE COULD BE SCARED OF THE WHOLE SITUATION HIMSELF IT IS NOT SOMETHING HE FACED HIMSELF IN THE PAST SO HE IS PROBABLY MORE SCARED THAN YOU ARE, HE PROBABLY FEELS HELPLESS THAT HE CANT HELP YOU MORE.

I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST I REALLY DO!
BYE RAHMA.

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Ilahaan

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 05:42 pm
Salaam alaykum

This days the real people who really want help and the one who r faking become same so even if i want to help u ,,,U might just acting ,,Rahma sis u r actually askin wrong person ,,,,cuz some of those people u r asking this advise are underage sis ,,,,,My best advise is,,,,girl ,,,,have some patient and talk to ur Man with ur problem and if u think he can't help u with I suggest u to go to Doctor,,,,cuz He probably not the one who's having the problem and I am really sure if he really in love with u he'll do somethin about it that's the only advice I can help u with since I don't have experience about it,,and I am not married yet I wish that will Help u ,,,(Ku samir ilaah ayaa kuugu danbi dhaafi toonee)
It's ur sister
Ramadaan Kariim

salaam alaykum

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Anonymous

Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 01:57 am
i don't know what to say.
i don't understand why and how and what the hell????
how can your parents make you go through that?

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ceeblaaa

Wednesday, December 13, 2000 - 01:05 pm
RAHAMA.....WE ARE REALLY SO SORRY 4 U...BUT GET RID OF THE FUCKER, OOOOPPPPPS HOLD THAT THOUGHT HE IS NOT,GIRL IF I WAS MARRIED 4 2 MONTHS,FORGET IT I MEAN 2 WEEEKS AND THAT BROTHER DIDNT TAKE ME TO EXTESIY HIS BLACK ASS IS SO OUT IN A MATTER OF HOURS...I DONT KNOW HOW DID U TAKE THAT ???

SIS... THE ONLY THING U CAN DO IS................................................. GET A VIBRATOR !!!!!!

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