     SULEQO | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 06:18 pm
HI all of you people
Can someone tell me why most of
mans like to have Sex when they are not
Married. I mean I have boyfriend now
and he asked me if we can make love.
Not only him asked me all my other boyfriend 2.
For my opinion I think it's HARAM to have sex when
U are no Married also I think if U have sex with ur boyfriend that's it he will never respect you.
So Girls can you please tell me what you think about having sex with some 1 ur not married to? |
| Anonymous | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 06:24 pm
Sex before marriage is a sin.
S - say
I- i
N- no! |
| REAL GIRL | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 06:37 pm
I THINK SEX BEFORE MARRIAG IS FUN REALLY FUN SIS. |
| annoying | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 07:38 pm
waad qirsantahay inuu sex xaaraam yahay balse maxaad u qiri la'dahay in saaxiibkuna xaaraam yahay. Dambi weyn ayaad ku jirtaa ee ka towbad keen, tuug hal qalin xaday iyo mid boqol qalin la rooray wax badan ma is dhaamaan. |
| SALSA | Friday, November 10, 2000 - 01:58 am
WHY DO YOU POSTE QUESTIONS YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWERS TO?? WHAT DO YOU THINK GIRL, GOD GAVE YOU A BRAIN, USE IT!!
REAL GIRL, STOP CORRUPTING THE GIRL. |
| Fan | Friday, November 10, 2000 - 07:00 am
Suleqa Sis,
Don't listen to them , Sex is HARAM without marriage ( Nikaax or Maher).
They do that to see if you're going to give it up.
Who ever ask you that kind of thing, Remember they're not serious about you.
As they say it Hit & Run.
Be smart walaashiis.
Walaashaa,
Fan |
| Suldaanka | Friday, November 10, 2000 - 03:33 pm
To suleqo what an ironic question sister.
You mentioned you have a boyfriend and you want
to know why most of mans like to have Sex when.
My question to you as a muslim sister is
why do you have a boyfriend?
Do you really need a boyfriend? "if yes why?
The question will have being more appropriate
if you were just a normal sister with no boyfriend.
Ilaahay ha ku soo hadeeyo walaal.
May Allah guide you to the right path sister. |
| HonestGirl | Friday, November 10, 2000 - 04:31 pm
Suleqa...................sista pple always told me when a guy asks to have sex with u............he does not realy care about u..............all he wants is ur private parts and when he gets what he wants u r nothing but trash to him................and believe its true!!!!
I know its haram to have a boyfriend but how in da world r supposed to get married.................our parents expect us to find the man of our dreams..........its hardly ever that a good man knocks ur door nowadayz.................true?
Real Girl::::::: REALLY??!!
lol
Adios ya'll |
| suleqo | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 09:45 am
Salsa if you don't have any thing to
say. You should have shout your big mouth. |
| Ali PaPa | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 09:57 am
suleqo
Bitch you dont have a brain why dont you use your body to get ahead.Whore |
| The Equalizer | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 03:47 pm
Hi Suleqo,
Although this question is directed to sisters only; yet, I thought you had better hear the views of the opposite sex as well. In this way you will be able to get the whole picture.
I myself am a man. I do date women not because of their money or beauty, but just to see which one of them is worthy of becomig my wife. In other words, I test them to see if she'll give up. If she does, then she doesn't deserve me. Consequently, marriage will be out of the question.
So, please don't follow the footsteps of those women who ended up in bed with their so-called boyfriends and were trashed the following day.
In a nutshell, I urge you to safeguard and not to sacrifice your virginity over a dog. Just a brotherly advice. Make a goof use of it.
Good Luck!!! |
| Anonymous | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 05:51 pm
suleqa i will not ask for sex first day and definately not the second day,but surely the third day.
If you give me,i will thank you alot.and i will remember you for life.If you dont then you oviously know what iam gonna do.I will try the beauty next door.
So am i bad guy.NOT,if you could count how many guys like me in the world.The only difference is, that they act holy. |
| Suleqo | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 06:58 pm
Honest and Fan,The Equalize thank for the advise guys.
To suldanka my first Q for U is who make U king?
what U mean do U need to have boyfriend? That is the stubbed Q I ever heard.
Let me tell U something most of people have relationships. I don't know about U maybe U don't have.
My Question to U is how can U get married with some1 U don't know?
My second Q is tell me how do U get to know some1?
If U don't have this answers don't bother to write ok.
To Ali baba
First of all I am not the one who is bitch U are
ass hall San of bitch.Don't U dear call me bitch
Qaniis yahoo. |
| jamaaal4 | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 01:26 am
suleeqo ceeb caleek abaayo maxaa ku hadleesaa...
when u swear at someone u offending every1 who visit this room...I know inuu khalad kaa galay laakin trust me the best reply is to ignore him.
there are many of his type here. |
| hammer | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 06:10 am
SULEEQA,
let me tell you something and give peace of mind.
TWO THINGS: Either you are vagin or not.period.
If you are vagin,there is no point giving up your vaginity to a guy who is not gonna marry you.
If you are not vagin,there is no point denying a guy what he wants,if he is your boy friend.
If iam a thief who wanna break into a house.And another thief was there before me,and break the door.Do i have to go round and jump the fence.
The answer is no.I will go in through the open door.And when i come out....I will make sure i print my name right at the door.."HAMMER WAS HERE" |
| Time Magazine | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 06:38 am
Hammer
Your anology disturbs me.Tell me, are you a thief by profession?Cuz i'm sure the example you gave was not accidentally.STOP THE THIEF! |
| Anonymous | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 06:55 am
to : somali
yaa wax idiin weediisan jiray!!!!!!
gabadha waxeey idiin weediisatay inaad rayi
fiican aad sii saan , maxaa meesha keenay caayda iyo af lagaada da.
hadaadan wax aad sheegtid heey nin . iska aamus.
acuudu bilaahi. waa la yabay meel kasta qurun ayaad ka dhigteen, isku xishooda dad yahoow. |
| Hammer | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 06:17 pm
Time magazine,
I ain't no holyman and I ain't no hypocrate,
I ain't no hoodlum and I ain't no hooligan
Iam a humble man with a heart of a hassler. |
| Mr Cool | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 08:02 pm
WHAT A LOSER THAT YOU ARE HAMMER----> YOU NEED SOMEONE TO HIT A HAMMER IN YOUR HEAD----->TO WAKE YOU UP. |
| Mr Cool | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 02:33 am
Mr Cool
Get your own nick will ya!!! |
| QOONSADE | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 08:49 am
I ALWAYS BELIEVED THAT OUR LADIES ARE THE BEST. DO I HAVE A WRONG ASSUMPTIONS? DON,T LET ME DOWN SISTERS, SUBMIT TO THE WILL OF ALLAH.
REAL GIRL
ANYBODY WHO SUGGESTS THAT SINA IS OKAY, HAS DEPARTED THE FOLD OF ISLAM. DO YOU KOW THAT SISTER?
FURTHERMORE, INSULTING SOMALI WOMEN IS
INSULTING YOUR MOTHERS AND YOUR SISTERS GUYS!! |
| Hammer | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 01:57 pm
Mr cool 1st,
You are using some one else name.... So I dont think you deserve reply.
Such a damn.....What you gonna gain by hitting a hammer with another hammer. |
| PURE SOMALI | Monday, November 27, 2000 - 04:50 pm
SULEQO SISTER I AM UR BROTHER STOP THERE THEY WANT TO DRAG U IN THEIR POSSITION ALI PABA IS IGNORANT AND THE SO CALLED REAL GIRL I DOUBT IF SHE SAY NO TO ANYTHING. SO SISTER U HAVE TO KNOW U HAVE TO BE VERY CARFUL WITH MAN WHEN UR ARE NOT MARRIED HIM, IF U NEED AN ADVICE FROM ANY ONE LISTEN TO THE BEST ALLAH STAY AWAY FDROM MEN UNTILL U MARRY. IF U NEED MOOOOOOOOOOOORE DATAILS ASK U R MOTHER. THX SIS |
| Abshir | Monday, November 27, 2000 - 05:27 pm
Suleqo cadey abaayo waan ku latalina yaa sabatoo ay tahay ciwaan kaaga ayaa ah ilatali. abaayo boyfrienka aan isticmaalno mafiicno ama sida ay gaaladu u taqaan, haddii aad saxiibkaa ku layeesho sexy way kuu dhamaatey oo barina uu rabaa marka aad waydiiso in uu ku guursado waa uu kuu marmarsiyoonaa markaasa kadiba waa uu ku nacaa oo maxuu ku leyahay marka aad ka dhaqaaqdid (dhilo)waana adaga tahay in uu ku guur sado (why).....Haddii uu dan kugu heesto (yes) be carefull abaayo macaan talo wanaag san ilaah ha kuu sahalo nin wanaag san waa Ramadan waana maqrib waan kuu duceyay ilaah haku lakarbkalo Haram hasuubin. |
| Anonymous | Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 12:09 pm
helooooooooooooow |
| COOL POISON | Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 01:47 pm
TO :HAMMER, SULEKHA AND ALL THE ANONYMOUS PEOPLE
OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND LET ME F-UCK YOU IN YOUR ARSEHOLE DHILLO |
| Somali-Yankee | Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 04:05 pm
don't compramise your dignity.....few minutes of pleasure is not worth your reputation(self respect) and your faith....if ever yu chose to do it....the same guy yu chose to sleep with could trash yu tomorow
peace |
| CoolPoison | Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 08:32 pm
CoolPoison does not write in CAPITALS! FYI, there is no reason for me to post such a message.
Appologies Hammer, Sulekha and the Anonymous People. It is that whore T-Girl who is pretending to be me.
Poison in Buckingham Palace. |
| Ubax101 | Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 08:34 pm
Excuse Moi?
I am really surprised how people are acting towards Suleqo just because she said she has a boyfriend. Are you telling me that all of you who posted stuff around here dont have a boyfriend or a girlfriend or rather didnt have one at one point in your lives? If the answer is you didnt have one, well idont belief you period! Besides just because you have boyfriend doesnt mean you have to sleep with him, get it? Cut the pleasentaries and get on with the program! Capishe. |
| tg | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 01:37 am
Big time XARAAM |
| HANNA | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 07:43 am
TO SULEQO.
WELL I THINK IS HARAM BECAUSE HIS JUST YOUR B-FRIEND NOT YOUR HUSBAND. I THINK IS MUCH BETTER TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR HUSBAND BECAUSE WHEN YOU HAVE PROBLEM WITH YOUR B-FRIEND HE CAN JUST DUMP YOU AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO ••••...... BUT YOUR HUSBAND YOU CAN WORK IT OUT MUCH BETTER THEN THE B-FRIEND.
SO IF YOU ASK ME DON'T HAVE SEX WITH ANYBODY THAT IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND AND IF YOUR B-FRIEND LOVES YOU HE WILL WAIT FOR YOU SO DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM JUST WAIT FOR THE RIGHT ONE.
GOOD LUCK
HANNA |
| EASTENDER | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 01:47 pm
P.S It is long, boring story but worth reading all the way to end. I will be writing one of the awfull thing's i have done the past and the way i have realised that what i was doing was wrong, if you think it was wrong thing to do, i am the first to agree with you, so please keep ur abusive and bad ideas about me to urselfs.
I have changed a lot and still trying to change more, so please i need all your support not your abuse.
P.S.S I am writing this story to help many Somali beautiful girls to tell them it is not worth having a few minutes of "xarran"="sin" sex with a boy and don't get respect in return.
I hope you enjoy reading the following story and learn from it.
HI SULEQA
You have only directed to ur question to the Somalian sisters but feel that i should answer ur question. When you asked the sisters for advice you were expecting to get their opinion, which is good idea, but i believe you need the opinion of the guys as well.
The reason is that the girls can only tell you how they felt or would feel when the same situation happens to them but can't how the guys feel when they persuading the girls in order to feed their own needs.
I am no angel and can't deny that i am one those guys who used pressure girls to have sex with them, in order to feed their terrible desire which to have sex every girl they meet.
Personally, i have had sex with many Somalian girls,i used pressure them all the time to have sex with me by telling her all sort of thing's like that i will get married to her, that i love them and asking them to show me they love me by making love with me, etc.
Unfortunately, as soon as i get laid with her, then i used treat her a way that any Somalian girl shouldn't be treated or shall i say any decent girl. I used either dump her or keep her so i can get it next time i need to.
In the past, i have made many girls who loved me to do thing's they didn't want to do. I have blackmailed them using the feeling they had for me to get what i wanted and gave back nothing.
Many people don't think it is blackmailing when u say to someone show me you love me by having sex with me but it is really blackmailing.
I have realise myself recently that what i have done the past to many Somali girls is blackmailing, unwise, wrong and arrogant thing to do.
At the time, i was going out this girl and i have tried to the best of my ability to have sex with her but she wouldn't give in. Usually, when i feel that a girl is not going to give in, i used to RESPECT her and try on with next one. I have to say this, i had respect to one's i have sex with and the one's i don't have sex with, but i had greater respect those who don't have sex with me.
Going back to the story, for some reason, i have decided to stay with this particular girl even when she said no, hoping that she will give in one day.
After we been going out for a quite long period, we have growing closer and closer but still i haven't giving up my ambition to have sex with her.
One day, we were talking and then i said to her the usuall thing, when are we going to make love?
She turn around and said to me,
Do u love me?
I said yes.
Do u think i am the kind of the girl you want get married to?
I said yes.
How much do respect me?
I said if i didn't respect you, i wouldn't be so much in love with you.
She said You do respect me and love, and still you want me to have sex with you before marriage.
I siad yes, that will show me how much you love me.
She stop talking, and said let us go to the bed room now and do it now.
She led me to the bed room, i was happy that she gave in but in a way i was shocked that she finally gave in after all these time so easily.
She start blind folding her eyes and start crying. At that point, i was suprised to see her crying and tried to comfort her. She said, let us star doing it but promise me that you will never talk to me again and have anything to do with me and i may do something serious.
i asked her why and she replied, if we do what we about to do, i don't think there is no point of staying a live since i am about to do something which is "haram" and i am also about to lose the my self respect and the respect for the one's i love and respect so much.
From that point, i have realised that i was doing something terrible and really hurtfull....We didn't do anything that day and our relationship got stronger and stronger. Sadly, we broke up recently but still are great friends.
Dear suleeqa and the rest of the Somalian girl who about to read this article.
I am not telling you this story to show off ,and i am not also saying to you have sex or dont have sex with ur boyfried but to show you that by doing it, you will go against what Allah told you, you will also lose and destroy ur self respect, the respect of your parents whether they know or not.
I love you all
respect and peace.
P.S I have also want to thank her for everything and mostly her understanding when i have showing her this article before i have posted it. Thank you love |
| WESTENDER | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 02:06 pm
EASTENDER,
NOW I UNDERSTAND WHY MOST SOMALI GIRLS PLAYS HARD TO GET.THEY'VE SEEN SO MANY JACK-ASS AND ROTTEN EGGS LIKE YOU.ONE THING I CAN ASSURE YOU IS THAT,MOST SOMALI GUYS ARE NOT LIKE YOU.BUT IS A GOOD THING THAT YOU FINALLY REPENTED,AFTER SO MANY FAILURE. |
| T-GIRL | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 01:39 pm
COOL POison
Dream on Dork. I ain't that Low to degrade myself like you do. Keep on wishing and fantasizing about me...maybe I will consider you to wed my Goat |
| Suldaanka | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 02:39 pm
To suleqo
I was not trying to make you mad or anything
but as a muslim sister I dont think it is neither right nor appropriate to use the term boyfriend.
you mentioned you have a boyfriend which is your business but completely WRONG.
I am quoting this from your posted text
"To suldanka my first Q for U is who make U king?"
I am no king and I would not want anyone to make me king, but because I use the nick suldaanka does not really mean I am a KING.
quote #2 "what U mean do U need to have boyfriend? That is the stubbed Q I ever heard."
I suppose you mean stupid question but there is no such thing as stupid question. We are all human being and sure we have feelings and that is why we need partners, but in order to have a partner by all means get marry to someone you love.
quote #3 & #4 " My Question to U is how can U get married with some1 U don't know?...My second Q is tell me how do U get to know some1? "
you get a point there but we have to stick to our
religion sister and follow what allah want us to do. FOLLOW THE QURAN [your guidence]
No man has the right to be in the privacy with a woman who is not lawful for him. Satan is their third party unless there is a mahram". (Ahmad)
That is why Marriage in Islam is a recommended as a religious requirement.
Suleqo I hope you will understand where I am coming from sister.
Peace and Love |
| DuH | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 04:34 pm
I think what the hell am i doing here?DuH |
| Hibo | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 03:58 am
T-Girl:looooooooooooooooool... do men wed goats too? |
| T-GIRL | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 12:49 pm
HIBO
Guess what the Goat says? HELL NO. |
| CoolPoison | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 10:54 pm
Fact; Hibo = Basra = Midgaan. Anyone want proof? |
| COOLPOISON | Friday, December 08, 2000 - 11:08 pm
I 69 MY GHETTO AND HIBO EVERYNIGHT. THEY SUCK MY DECK AND SAY LIKE WHOAH.
HIBO
WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME I LICKED YOUR CLIT? I WANNA KNOW(JOE). GO WASH UP GIRL U STINK LIKE ONION ROLL |
| CoolPoison | Sunday, December 10, 2000 - 12:51 am
COOLPOISON = T-Girl-QueenOfHoes
CoolPoison = CoolPoison |
| True Tree folk | Tuesday, December 12, 2000 - 12:28 am
Damn, is that what your thinking.
Yo T-girl, I think you got a stalker on your hands. |
| T-GIRL-Queen-of-Hearts | Wednesday, December 13, 2000 - 12:00 pm
True Tree
U noticed that too. I tried to be nice to the Monkey but he's a bit under the influence of Dinasaur's milk. I have already informed the SBI( Somalian Bureau of Intelligence).....They gonna arrest him any time soon.....He has been following me since September.
POISON
Know U think I am U? How sinister and juvenile of you. Get a life and pack up your Diapers...Boy you going to Jail |
| Anonymous | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 03:29 pm
Hi there,
I'm a 25 year old University student, currently finishing my M.A. in psychotherapy. All I have to say is, if the people who have been posting messages on this board represent even a slice of the larger Somali community, I certainly won't have any problems finding clients whence I graduate. |
| Anonymous | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 03:38 pm
Hi there,
I'm a 25 year old University student, currently finishing my M.A. in psychotherapy. All I have to say is, if the people who have been posting messages on this board represent even a slice of the larger Somali community, I certainly won't have any problems finding clients once I graduate. |
| Natural hater | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 03:40 pm
Natural is the biggest idiot ever. This gut has issues with his mama. |
| NATURAL | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 03:43 pm
After some sreious deliberations I've come to one conclusion: You are absolutely right |
