     mooriyaan | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 07:15 am
hi u all doing my somalians, iam 24yrs old men and have 3 beautifull wifes is any wrong with that after all ain't we muslims still, please have positive feedback and don't answere about my name |
| faarah | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 07:48 am
SXb xamar aad kasoo biliqaysatay sadexda naagood
intee sadex gabdhoodh mar kawada heshey |
| Anonymous | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 07:53 am
are we guilty of our crimes in xamar? What is the meaning of Moryaan by the way? lol ,,,,if you catch my drift |
| mooriyaan | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 09:21 am
farah and anony they is nothing wrong with name mooriyaan it is just aname and for your sake it proud to be mooriyaan. but that is not the subject here it about three wives u foos |
| Miss | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 02:55 pm
Im stepping to one side and let the animals sort it out between them........ |
| brother | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 03:04 pm
in todays world one woman is more than you can handle let alone three. |
| SUHUUR | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 06:29 pm
HALF BAKED MORRON, ANYTHING WRONG WITH 3 HUSBANDS? I RECKON YOU THINK YOU ARE GODS GIFT TO WOMEN? |
| Anonymous | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 08:10 pm
dear sir s)
I am originally from South Sudan and my father used to have seven wives and even now.On top of that, you have right to have more if you can feed all of that my friend.
More over, I am planning to go to Africa and mary my first wife and come back to USA and then after my graduation , and I will go home again and mary another one too.
In addition to that, I will go to Mogadishu to somalia to see my son from Somalia girl.
God bless you my friend and as well as your wives
Raan Chuol Chol |
| Ice-Man | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 07:31 am
Three wives, You kidding One wife is too much for any guy, let a long Three wives, can you handle Three PMS at once? |
| hammer | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 07:57 am
Mooryan,
Iam as savage minded as you are.You are talking about three.If a i can manage i will have hundreds.Like the late king of Swaziland. |
| Hakima | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 08:09 am
Bro...
i believe that everything in life should be even...no place for odd...in other words,
i m available to be number 4 LoooooooooL
PS: that was for the sake of a smile |
| mooriyaan | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 10:57 am
thanks hakima but am full, what igreat respond u see for those of u who have been changed by the western ways of culture that's alright with me cause everybody is entitled to their opinion.but the question is for those of us who still follow our great religion they is nothing wrong with that |
| Waleed | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 07:35 pm
I'm soooooooooooo impressed. Three wives and you still have time to surf the net. |
| Anonymous | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 12:40 am
Waliid: You are not somali what are you doing in somaliforums?.
Please get out somaliforums, Yo've been warrned |
| SAMIA | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 01:44 am
If my hubby ever told me or asked me if he could have more than one wify,first i would ask him why? is it because i am not good enough? or did i not satisfiy your need in bed that i would have to share you. Then i'd anwser him NO if you want some next wife then i'll find me some next mens |
| SALSA | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 02:01 am
YOU MUST HAVE VERY PASSIVE WIFES, DON'T THEY HAVE ANY BLOOD IN THEIR STREAMS???LOL. ANYWAYS, ONE WIFE IS ENOUGH FOR ONE MAN, IT IS NOT ABOUT BEING ABLE TO FEED A WOMAN, YOU MUST BE ABLE TO LOVE THEM ALL EQUALLY IN YOUR HEART, WHICH IS IMPOSSIBLE. SO STICK TO ONE WIFE GUYS. |
| SALSA | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 02:02 am
I MEAN VEINS |
| SGS | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 03:39 am
huh
u have three wifes....i feel sorry for them.
so u say that u are muslim..then u should know that, u allowed to be married up to four wifes...and they all should be equal and should be treated equal....which it aint coz they can never be equal....u might treat on better then they other or some thing....so basicaly u are getting your self in to dembi!!!!
tell why did u marry three..??????? i would luv to know ..its not like we live in somalia....why
please do answer my questions i would luv to know why
peace out |
| reallady2000 | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 05:31 am
to mooroyaan,
wus up bro!!!!
bro having 3 wifes in this centuary-are you mad and how do you handle it.
anyway if you are managing ok and their are fine with you {your wifes} then bro you got nothing to worry about because in islam you can marry more then wife if you know that you can manage and provide their needs. don't listen to what otheres say just follow your heart and do whats right for you. and i wish you well and your 3 wifes. they really must be nice ladies if they don't mind you maring more then one-usually others ladies get jealous.
anyway take care of yourselfs and your 3 wifes. |
| Bardacad | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 08:46 am
i am planning to have my second wife...and i will try to treat them, love them, and care for them equally...
To those who say it is insane to marry more that one wife, are you guys smarter than God (SubxanaAllaah) Or you are pretending the West...We are Muslims and we will do what Allah allowed us to do...and we won't do what Allah forbade us to not do...like drinking, adultary..and so on
To those who beleive you can be a player and have more that one wife, i would say to you you can't play games with God...Alllah sees you in you hearts if you are trying to do it for fun, or if you are trying to marry more than one wife to play and ruin our young girls' heart...
I beleive it is XALAAL to have more than one wife, but you should fulfil the conditions...and you have to know the conditoins before you even try to have more than one...most of the marrieges will be ruined if you try to not fulfil the conditions..few people will fulfil the conditions and thus manage to have more than one with no problems....most of Somali brother will have the second one while they can't afford the first one....that is DEAD WRONG!!!!!! |
| Nadiah | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 09:56 am
"Anything Wrong with three Wifes?"
YES
THE SPELLING!! |
| Alex | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 10:08 am
Brother is there by any chance that you got these wives from Nigeria. A good friend of mind told me Nigeria is the place to go. If you got the wives from Nigeria, let us hook up I need some info from you.
Thank you.
Alex |
| Fowzia | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 04:41 pm
To Mooryaan:
What was your reason(s) for marrying the second wife? Was it the death of your first wife or did she became ill to perform her duties as a wife or mother? Try to answer these questions and see if you are fit to have three wives. Using the religion to satisfy your desire and ignoring the reasons and requirements for a husband to have second, third or fourth wife I believe is unacceptable. It is not matter of being right or wrong per se, but a matter of being just and fair to women or as in this case your wives.
Fowzia |
| mooriyaan | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 05:49 pm
sis and bro first and foremost i assume and will say that we are all muslims, so when allah said in his quran that we men can have four wives that is it cause allah has the final word. for those of u who ask that was there anything wrong with my first or second wives the answere in no and u know what they are alright with each other and i love them equally. u see women will never understand men, men are gready they never get enough of one women that's why our religion admits that we can have up to four wives with other reason due to the rise of islam but my point is that we for example live in awestern society were u can marry more than one wife,and if u look at the numbers they all commit adultary and we as muslims u can't do that so marrry another wife is the answere and fowzia it is a matter of being right or wrong till next time take care and peace may to all of u |
| mooriyaan | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 05:55 pm
o one more thing i meant u can't have more than one wife in western world and alex bro my wives are all from somalia |
| Poisonous | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 08:37 pm
I am a moderately educated fucker. MeEarns something in the region of $115000 p.a. Women are the least of MeProblems....one is always available to satisfy me in bed and for any other purpose....I expect this situation to continue for along as I mint the dosh...and...FYI...several times a month I am blessed with the PURE stuff...so....Why would I marry...and (God forbid) love even one girl??
Poison |
| Hani | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 03:39 am
Hi Mooryaan,
Ok , i wont say anything about your name.
You said that you have 3 wifes MarshaAllah.
Do they all all know about each other or are you one of them guys who goes to different countries and marries without the other wife or shall i say wifes finding out for a while anyway, coz you cant keep something like a secret for long. Or did you recently went to somalia and got all three from there?. I mean now days guys save some money and go to somali and they get any girl they want cos they have money.Since those families dont have a penny, they take the offer or that the girls in somalia love guys from Europe -if they only knew the truth. Let me tell you a story.
I watched this on a vidoe.
These people lived Somali.
There was a guy and he was in love with a girl but the girl woundnt give the guy the time of the day and when he tried everything to win her heart and he didnt not succeed. But one day he had an idea and the idea was to pretent to the girl that he came from the states and that he was a very rich man so he went to one of his frineds and borrowed clothes and other occersories which would make him look like a rich so he got everything together. All the girls in the neigbourhood told each that they was a guy who came from the states and is looking for a wife, so they all applied for the job and since he didnt want the other girls , he chose the girl he was in love with which was the girl who woundnt give me the time of the day and now she was all over him like a rash. The girl now really like the guy -she doesnt know its him but any way they spent time together and he made some promises such as ill take you the states but he said first we must get married , she agreed of course and they did. He told her the truth and she started crying and said she wanted a divorce and he said he woundnt give her that. He also said that naac been ayaa lagu so careeya runtana waa lagu daqa -i hope i got that right. I hope you the point i am trying to make.
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Peace |
| ahmed hamse | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 05:11 am
yo bro!!
there is nothing wrong with three wifes i am planing to have them for my self |
| kintir | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 06:04 am
well, if there ain't anything wrong with it why you asking the question? you only ask that sort of question when you say to yourself that can't be right. |
| SGS | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 07:24 am
U guys are realy sick u know that
brothers........have u guys forgoten that its twenty first centery.......we dont need none of that sh*t...
WHAT one woman aint enough for u??
well if u are sex maniac....then u need to sort out your little thing?? mr
peace out |
| Hammer | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 02:30 pm
Poisonous,
I read twice to understand your flight-13 English.
You have the cash and the women...Lucky dude.Why dont you share the know-how with the brothers.
Kintir,
Kintir,kintir, kintir....What can i possibly say to a talking kintir.
Kintir....read what the man said again,Perhaps,it could make sense to your gelly head.
Hani,
I wonder how the man you are talking about managed to decieve the woman.Did he performed somekind of Plastic surgery? |
| AMAL | Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 01:39 am
THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH IT, I WANT MY MAN NEXT TO ME EVRY NIGHT NOT EVERY TWO NIGHTS. |
| stop it. | Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 03:52 am
guys, guys, guys!!!!!
only someli men keep up with this ••••.
and the somali ladies let them.
i think is the somali ladies' problem for get marry when they know their man has anther wife, or wives. in some cases they don't know but when they find out about it, they should split up.
i think you guys should quit this •••• and marry one woman who you really love. and spend your rest of your life with her. |
| ms mandazi | Saturday, December 02, 2000 - 08:26 am
i can tell you are moryaan
but nothing is wrong with three wifes
couse that is massage from allah
and no woman need her husband to marry another
woman but we dont have choice sometimes
if you think doing something like that you have be
no living in westerns, and you better be good for every way makes woman happy means you need to have more money and better be good in bed couse no one needs your love" that is just my imaan"
ps |
| T-GIRL | Saturday, December 02, 2000 - 01:41 pm
Some Men can't handle ONE woman....U talking about 3. Men are permitted to have upto 4 wives.....IF.....(VERY BIG IF)---IF they can be non partial towards them. As long as he can provide all the necessities and at the same time be a man to all of them equally. U will be rewarded Jannat but if U are biased and love one of them more and provide her with all your time and energy....then xaqiiqan U will go to NAAR. But as a sister I advice you to stick with one wife coz no matter what if U treat her nice and kindly U will be rewarded in the end. So the ball is in your court.
PEACE |
| pink | Saturday, December 02, 2000 - 02:29 pm
to t-girl
sis you are so smart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| DR-TROUBLEBOY | Saturday, December 02, 2000 - 05:04 pm
there is nothing wrong with three wives,if you can take care of them as mohamed(s.c.w)did,if you can treat them equally there is nothing wrong with it.
go for it. |
| T-GIRL-QueenOfHearts | Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 06:46 am
Thanx Pink
LOL........THERE U GO..... |
| Anonymous | Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 09:36 am
POISON
YOU ARE RIGHT WOMEN ARE THE LEAST OF YOUR PROBLEM.DID YOU JUST REALIZE YOU ARE GAY? ME THINK THAT. |
| IO | Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 09:57 am
Salaam ppl and Ramadan kariim...
"Is there anything wrong with three wives?"
Well religion wise a man is permitted upto for wives...the rule was brought down by Allah when many women were left with no husbands because they ad died during the war with the Christians because they had no one to take care of them with and their children and in order to increase the a Muslim population a man was allowed to marry four wives...a woman was not allowed to marry four husbands because with a woman she can not know who the father of her baby is if she has four husbands but with a man he could tell as there is only one of him.
If you treat all your wives equally ei divide your time equally between them, if you buy one thing for one, you must do so for all them...you said you love them all equally...I do not believe that is possible...a person can not divide her/his heart into three...but if you give them all that they require equally then there is nothing wrong...good luck dear brother...if you can handle three women at one...you must be quite a man!
Your truly
IO |
| HonestGirl | Sunday, December 10, 2000 - 08:00 pm
Pink.........why dont u add 'masha allah' sistah!!!!
It's amazing how the western ideas have been copied and pasted on our brains.............but pls........b4 u save the final copy, read this article..........it really changed the way i thought i would react if my husband one day told me he was thinking about another wife!!!!
i got this article at www.islamzine.com/carlo
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Lamentations of a Muslim Wife
Shariffa Carlo
Allah Subhana wa Ta’ala has said, “... Marry of the women that please you; two, three or four, but if you fear you will not be able to deal justly, then only one...” (Quraan 4:3). I have looked to this statement many times. Some people point out to me the part that speaks of dealing justly, and they match it with, “And you have it not in your power to do justice between wives, even though you may wish (it), but be not disinclined (from one) with total disinclination, so that you leave her as it were in suspense; and if you effect a reconciliation and guard (against evil), then surely Allah is Forgiving, Merciful. “ (Quraan 4:129).
Here, they say, it is impossible for a person to be fair, therefore it is not allowed to marry more than one. This does not match what is written. The verse says to not desert them. How can this be a command to not marry more than one? Also, I find this theory hard to accept since I know that the prophet, the companions, the second generation, the third generation and so forth were all practicers of polygyny. If it were wrong, or even makru - as some state - then we would not find the majority among our best generations practicing it.
Then, we have others who claim that Polygyny is only in cases where war has taken the majority of the men, or in special circumstances - like when the woman can not bear children or when the woman is sick. However, once again, I do not find this the case when I look to the history of Islam. It was not less practiced by the wise knowledgable ones in Islamic history in times of peace, nor was it ever restricted to certain conditions. Actually, we don’t begin to see any problems with polygyny as a practice until the West began to exert influence over the Muslims.
Even as recently as the first World War, we see the bedouin Arabs proud of the fact that they have this practice as a part of their religion. What few problems we have are seen in the apologists who were trying to please the West by softening the image of Islam. These people even apologized for the practice of divorce which Islam allowed for centuries, while Christianity forbid it. Now, I wish I could see the faces of these same apologists if they could see the divorce rate of the West. Would they stop apologizing for it now that the West has not only accepted the practice, but embraced it wholeheartedly?
At any rate, when I look to this verse, I clearly see the if - then statement. As a computer lover, this immediately strikes me. If - then. This is a simple logic problem. Do A. If A is not possible, then do B giving precedence to A and using B as an exception to the rule. Therefore, when we apply it, we see that the man is commanded to marry two or three or four, but IF he can not be just, then he marries only one. The one, therefore becomes the exception to the rule. Now, if this is true, then why is it that today, not only is polygyny not the rule, it is the exception, and those who practice it are often criticized? Can it be that we have so many men who consider themselves unjust? I doubt it. I believe it lies in the attitudes of our women, may Allah guide us. We have been brainwashed by the Western ideal of one man-one wife. We need to listen to our scholars; so many of them have warned us to look to ourselves because this issue may be the one which makes us Kafir. May Allah prevent this from happening.
Whenever I discuss this subject with women, the first thing I normally hear, a statement which makes me cringe, is, “But it’s not fair...” Allah forgive the one who makes such a statement, for it is an utterance of shirk. For the one who made polygyny not only halal but also recommended was Allah, Himself. Therefore, whatever He, in his Great Fairness and Wisdom, has allowed and encouraged is fair by definition. And to say it is unfair is to say that He, Subhana wa Ta'ala, is unfair. May Allah guard our tongues from such blasphemy.
Muslim women have to take their minds out of the gutters of the West, and bring them up to the wisdom and purity of Islam's high ground. Polygyny is not an insult to women; it is a sign of respect. How many women would remain husbandless if it were haram? Sisters, I beg you. Look to your sisters in the Muslim countries. The number of single women has climbed so high that special laws are being created to try to fix the situation (While I know that many of these laws are misguided and based on fear of cultural intermixing, the fact the problem has reached epidemic proportions is undeniable even to them). In some countries, your sisters are having to resort to such misguided practices as temporary marriage, because polygyny is so looked down upon. May Allah forgive us for making this so.
Even, when a sister does choose to go into polygyny, her fellow sisters look to her as a traitor, and often treat her worse than an adultress. They akin it to stealing someone’s husband. Many of our sisters are ostracized and even humiliated, or worse cursed for practicing an act that our Loving Lord recommended to us. May Allah guide us. Wallahi, it pains me to see the treatment given to second, third and fourth wives. Sisters, we are so caught up in this idea that we possess our men, that even the second or third wife feels she has a right to prevent the inclusion of another into the relationship that benefitted her. Where are our minds? Where is our faith in Allah’s Wisdom? Where is our submission to the Will of Allah? Where is our love for each other? Where is the wanting for our sisters what we want for ourselves, namely family, love and happiness?
We were not placed on this earth to do anything but worship Allah, and we have to this as He commanded, not as our desires and jealousies guide us. We are allowed to be jealous. Aisha and the other Mothers of the Believers, may Allah have mercy on them, were jealous, but they did not allow their jealousy to destroy their deen, and I challenge anyone to show me an example where one of them, or one of the female companions, or even one of the second or third generation ever condemned a woman for becoming a second, third or fourth wife. It was accepted as a part of the deen. Sure, women tried to keep their husbands from taking the second, third or fourth wife. Sure they were jealous of each other. Sure, they even tried (until the prophet forbid it) to ask for the divorce of the other. But once they knew their limits, they submitted to the Will of Allah. So why is it so hard for us? Why can we not follow these great examples instead of the examples of the Western woman who has no respect for herself, much less her peers?
Sisters, I am not asking you to go and ask your husbands to take another wife, but I am asking you to accept this as a natural, acceptable, even preferable practice of Islam. If you are stronger in your faith, I see only blessings in asking your husband to help out a sister in need by marrying her. Imagine yourself a single mother, an unmarried woman past her prime, or a widow, alone without support.
Sisters, these are your sisters, and Allah forbid, it could be you one day. Have mercy on these women. And if they marry your husband or your friend’s husband, do not condemn them, curse them, ostracize them, boycott them or harass them. They have done the best. They have married rather that commit haram. They have followed the command of Allah in marrying. They have completed their religion, and the one who objects to it, even silently in her heart, has to reexamine her faith in Allah. She has to accept this as Allah’s religion and as the superior way, because and -- only because -- Allah said that it is so.
May Allah guide us all to accept His decree. May Allah make us all strong in following, practicing and accepting this great deen in its entirety, and may Allah give us the strength faith and support to fight our desires. Ameen.
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if my man eva told me he was getting another wife, i would cry till my eyes popped out!!!!!
adios |
| layleene | Monday, December 11, 2000 - 02:16 am
Bro absolutliy nothing i would actually advise you to marry the 4 one and after while dervoce one and get the 5 and continu from there who are we to tell you how many women to marry as long as they agree with you. |
| bafiye | Monday, December 11, 2000 - 02:45 am
HonestGirl
it depends not all women are the same if for example the women is greedy and selfish in nature then she won't share her husband, but if she is not she would. My friend is looking for that type of momen who are ready to share him with other wives. he says his aim is not to mary multiple wives but to find a woman with these fine qualities.
to the brother mooryaan
There are conditions to be fulfilled before you marry another wife as the bro/sis told you, can you fulfil them? if yes go a head. |
| True_Tree Folk | Monday, December 11, 2000 - 04:26 am
Damn Honest Girl.
What you just decided to write a few lines.
you have done a good job!! |
| T-GIRL-Queen-of-Hearts | Wednesday, December 13, 2000 - 12:10 pm
True Tree
I love the Sarcasm. Im dying to know.....R U male of female?????????
And thanx for stepping to my side. U know with the JERKS and all
PEACE |
