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     | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 03:43 pm Welcome all of you. THERE IS SOME THING I WANNA TELL YOU.SOMETHING I NEVER TOLD NOBODY.NOT EVEN MY CLOSEST FRIENDS.SOMETHING DEEP INSIDE MY MIND.SOMETHING THAT TROUBLED MY MIND AND MY SOUL FOR LONG TIME.SOMETHING THAT KEPT ME AWAKE MANY KNIGHTS,AND A DREAM IN THE DAY LIGHT.SOMETHING I CAN NOT GET RID OF MY HEART ,NO MATTER WHAT I DO.SOMETHING THAT CONSUMES MY BODY AND MAKE ME WEAK. THAT SOMETHING IS LOVE.AND I NEED YOUR HELP FOR REAL. I VISITED A SOMALI HOME ONE DAY IN THE PAST AND A GIRL BROUGHT ME DRINK.I DONT KNOW HOW LONG IT TOOK ME TO TAKE THE CUP FROM HER.I WAS STRUCK BY HER BEAUTY.I HAD NEVER SEEN ANTHING LIKE IT BEFORE.TO CUT THE STORY SHORT SHE WAS EVERY THINK I DREAM ABOUT A WOMAN.I COULD NOT TAKE MY EYE OF HER.I FELT SOMETHING STRANGE IN MY HEART.SOMETHING I NEVER FELT BEFORE.IT IS NOT EASY TO EXPLAIN.ONLY A PERSON WHOSE BEEN THERE WOULD KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE.THE FEELING OF LOVE.I WAS SCARED .SCARED OF FALLING IN LOVE.I HATED LOVE AND I DIDNT WANNA HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT.I USED TO CALL PEOPLE WHO FALLS IN LOVE,WINPS.I NEVER THOUGHT IN MY WILDEST DREAM THAT IT COULD HAPPEN TO ME.BUT IT DID. I FALL IN LOVE WITH MISS-X,{SORRY IF THIS NAME IS TAKEN BEFORE} AND I COULD NOT SHAKE OFF THE WEIGHT OF LOVE EVER SINCE. WHAT DID I DO? NOTHING.I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.AND I HAD NO IDEA HOW TO HANDLE LOVE.AND THE WORST OF ALL,I DIDNT WANNA ADMIT TO MYSELF THAT I LOVE MISS-X.TO ME IT WAS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS.I WISH I KNEW WHAT I NOW KNOW ABOUT LOVE . ME AND MISS-X HAD ALOT OF FUN.WE BEEN THROUGHT EVERYTHING AND EVERYWHERE BUT NO LOVE PRACTICED.WE FOUGHT MANY TIMES TOO.BUT EVERY TIME WE COME BACK TOGETHER AS IF NOTHING HAPPENED.I DONT KNOW IF IT IS BECAUSE OF HER CHARM OR MY PATIENCE AND EASY WAY OF LIFE THAT MAKE US FORGET ABOUT THE PAST. THOUGHT I DIDNT TELL HER ANYTHING,MISS-X KNEW FOR SURE THAT I HAD A STRONG FEELING FOR HER.SHE COULD READ THE SIGNS EASILY.IAM NOT GOOD AT FAKING.SOMETIMES I FIGHT HER IN ORDER TO HIDE MY FEELING TOWARDS HER.SHE NEVER HAD NO CLUE WHY I FIGHT HER OUT OF THE BLUES. EVERYTIME I TRY TO TELL HER I FAIL MISERABLY.I WAS GUTLESS.I WAS A WIMP.AND I BECAME WHAT I FEARED I WOULD BE IF I FALL IN LOVE. NO HELP AND ADVICE FROM FRIENDS,BECAUSE I COULDNT TELL NOBODY NOTHING.I WAS TRAPPED IN MY OWN MIND. IAM HANDSOME,INTELEGENT AND SUCCESSFUL,BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT MADE ME THINK THAT SHE WILL TURN ME DOWN IF I TELL HER.AND THAT IS EXCATLY WHAT SHE DID, WHEN I FINALLY TOLD HER, OUT OF NO WHERE.WHAT SURPRISED ME IS NOT THE NEGATIVE ANSWER,BUT HOW QUICK SHE GAVE IT TO ME.AS IF SHE WAS WAITING FOR IT ALL THOSE YEARS.THOUGH I WAS EXPECTING IT, IT SHATTERED ME TO PIECES.I WAS LIKE ZOMBIE FOR A WHILE. BUT THAT IS NOT THE END OF THE STORY WE CONTINUED AS USUAL,THOUGH NOW EVERYTHING IS OUT OF THE CLOSET.BUT WE TALKED ABOUT THE ISSUE SEVERAL TIMES.THE ANSWER WAS STILL NEGATIVE.EVERYTHING ELSE NORMAL.BOTH CLOSE TO EACH OTHER.AND BUSSINESS AS USUAL. HERE IS WHERE I NEED YOUR HELP LADIES.DONT WORRY GUYS I DID EVERY THING AND ANYTHING A GUY CAN EVER THINK OF. LADIES ACORDING TO MY UNDERSTANDING ,CORRECT ME IF IAM WRONG,WOMEN DONT SPEND TIME WITH A GUY WHO WANTS THEM,ESPECIALLY IF THEY DONT WANNA HIM. IF THE ABOVE STATEMENT IS WRONG THEN I APOLOGISE FOR WASTING YOUR TIME.BUT IF IAM RIGHT,PLEASE TELL ME WHAT MISS-X WANTS. MIND YOU I DATED COUNTLESS GIRLS,SOME MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN HER,BUT I COULD NOT GET HER OUT OF MY MIND AND MY SYSTEM AS WHOLE.TELL ME SOMETHING,AND PLEASE TELL ME SOMETHING.SOMETHING THAT CAN MAKE SENCE.ALL I NEED IS WHY SHE CAN NOT GET AWAY FROM ME.I KNOW FOR SURE WHY I CAN NOT GET AWAY FROM HER. THANK YOU.
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| | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 04:32 pm Remind me never to invite you to my yard..Dayuuum
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| | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 05:22 pm beautiful lie.lair lair!
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| | Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 05:22 pm brother come out of the closet first
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| | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 08:15 am lol@@@@@@@ There is a female singer whose song goes like this "Like a candle burning bright....love is glowing in your eyes..." very interesting story but i have quoted few contradictory lines from your story quote "I HAD NEVER SEEN ANTHING LIKE IT BEFORE" fair enough but in onother quote "MIND YOU I DATED COUNTLESS GIRLS,SOME MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN HER" so i am kind of lost which makes me to question the credibility of your story. One more thing you have to know neither beauty nor intelligence will buy you a love quote "IAM HANDSOME,INTELEGENT AND SUCCESSFUL,BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT MADE ME THINK THAT SHE WILL TURN ME DOWN IF I TELL HER" But i have to agree onething with you that beauty Is not superficial at all. Indeed, first impressions are always physical, no matter how sophisticated a person may think she is. It is basic human nature to draw conclusions, positive or negative, based on the appearance of a person we know nothing else about. It is also in our nature to adjust those opinions as we learn more about that person, eventually setting aside our initial impressions that were based purely on physical observations. In other words, many people wind up falling in love, and sustaining lasting successful relationships with people in whom they were not interested when they first met. So, you are not being shallow at all. In fact, there is a chance that this girl might mean more to you, as her "inner," and far more important self, continues to grow on you. Look at the bright side an intelligence-successful-handsome man will always have ways to deal with women. Use your knowledge to bring that girl home. Good Luck
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| | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 04:25 pm BRO I JUST WANT TO TELL U ONE THING SOMETIMES AS HUMAN WE WANT SOMETHING VERY BAD AND WE DON'T GET SO WE SAY WHY THIS APPEND. LAAKIN WAXAA LA DHAHAY SOMETIMES WAXA AAD RABRIR MAYBE IN AY SHAR KUU YIHIIN AYAA LAGAYAABA. SOMETIMIS WAXAA LAGA YAABA WAX AAD RABIN IN AY QAARKUU NOQOTO. SO BRO ALWAYS PRAY TO ALLAH AND SAY ILAA HOO HADII WAXAAN QAYR IGU JIRO ISII HADII KALE OO SHAR AY TAHAY IGA QABO. AMIN AMIN GOOD LUCK BRO. I HOP IN UU ILAHAY NIYADA KUU DAJIYO,
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| | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 06:21 pm are you sure when you saw miss x your heart moved?aare you sure it wasn't your third leg?Dont make decide from your heart.
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| | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 09:23 pm Bro Anonymous, This story happen to me for real. If you're the person I think, I want to tell you a few things. First of all I'm sorry deeply sorry,I always liked,respected you as a brother, You were friend of my family and I never wanted to hurt your feeling, I cherish that friendship. I know that I didn't give you a chance cause I couldn't trust you enough, The reason you already mention, That you been with other girls, I didn't wanted to be another one who you waste sometime with her and That's why I gave you the quick answer. I was able to pretend and lie to you like the other girls was doing but that's not who I'm. The other thing is that I wasn't ready for any relashenship. From time to time I remember old days and how things use to be sometimes it looks like a dream to me, Remember (Tubeec) This a "secret code". As you know we didn't talk for a long time and I think this way is better for both of us. PS:I think you're the nicest person I ever met I'm sure that you'll get a nice person like you. Ramadan is coming, So RAMADAN KARIIM  walaalkiis. Take care of your self. Walaashaa, NAsteexo
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| | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 08:42 am Brothers and sisters asalaamo caleekom waraxmatulaahi wabarakaato.I know how he feel this brother and I know how bad is to love someone how do now,you foolling with love.this is what happened to me, I used to be true player antil I meet this beautiful girl.first time i meet i was trying to blay her and she tolk my heard and i stared to lover.I never tall all the grils i meet,i used to beliave never tall girl your love but i do not know what happened to me.I told this girl that i love her so much.i want tall all the brothers do not scare to a girl that you love her. I am share 100% will treak you like really man.
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| | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 09:14 am Sxb Allaha kula garab galo haddii uu qoraalkaagii dhab kaa yahay...jacayl wuu dhib badan yahay...waxaana ugu dara gabadh la jeclaado...cirka ayeey isku tolaysaa...magaaladan aan joogo ayeey ka dhacday...wiil dhalin yaro ah oo ayaa wuxuu aad iyo aad (Haddee si aan caadi ahayn) u jeclaaday gabadh aadan la hadli lahayn fool xumadeeda... Gabdhii dhowr sano ayeey la wadday howsha ...oo waxay go'aansadeen inay is guursadaan.....all of the sudden, waa ayba ku boodday oo ay tiri agtayda dambe kuguma arki karo...wiilkii waa uu iska qaracmay, baryo dhan ayaan ka sabirsiinaynay oo aan lahayn mid ka xun iyo mid ka fiican ba adduunka waa ay buuxaan... Waxba yaan hadal idinku daalininee, wiilkii wuxuu soo guursaday gabadh ina adeertii ah haatanna waxa ay u haysaa 4 wiil oo aad u qurux badan...ayaduna meeshaasay marba mid u dhigataa...oo magaaladii oo idil lagu sheekaystaa... Marka saaxiib waligaa haddii aad jeceshahay gabadh looma sheego....waligaa ha u sheegin...maalinakaad u sheegto ayeey cirka isla aadaysaa...middaa waa mid la soo xaqiijiyay (Gabdho ama ooya ama aamusa middaa waa xaqiiqa) Waligaa lugna waa lagula jiraa midda kalena bannaanka ayaa la dhigtaa...marna qalbigaaga iyo shahwadaada yaysan kaa awood badin... GOD made you a man...use your brain, bro...don't be consumed by this poor lady.... untill next time...hope you recover soon/////
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| | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 03:16 pm saaxiib horaa loo yiri "jacayl aan luguula wadin waqtigaaga yuusan lumin" ee xarfaantan cirka isla maraysa caloosha yaysan kaa cariirin. Good lucck anywayz.
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| | Monday, November 13, 2000 - 05:58 pm to anon, Look and succeess dont always gurantee love.Intellegence might take you little bit further.But i dont blame you loving that girl. You declined the help of the guys,so i cant be much help to you neither do other guys.If you did asked for our help....by now we could have dissected her brain and vivisected her soul,and brought it to you in silver plate.....at the dinner table....for you to devour. So meanwhile...i would advice you to listen the Album of Habib Sharabi,namely Amow Idow...It might give you confort and settle your sorrow...This is how it goes. "Casissow adigaan Khalqigaaga ahee,Igacaawi cudurkaan iyo caajiskaan ihaayee.ceebtaan kacararaayee. Cunaha leyqabtee leycadaadiyee.Cabaadkeyga cirkas kudagee.maxaa leycadaadinaya.Isciil cunaye.Isciil cunayee.Maxaa leycadaadinaya.
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| | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 03:09 am waar waxakan yaa naga qabta naag baan jeclaaday umana sheegi karo see wax yeelaa.... waan caqli badnaha, waan quranahay xagga fulaan waar nimanyahow ma'anaa waalan mise dadkan waxbaa u dhiman? bal hada hadaan u sheegi leheyn waxuu ku ordhan lahaa yaa siinya wadnahii lagu oran lahaa waxa aanu u sheegi.? xaniinyaha alla ku qabay muxuu fuleynimo la weynaaday.
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| | Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 07:32 pm MR AANOUNOMOUS,LOVES MISS X. I LIKE HOW YOU WRITE YOUR SPEACH THAT IS GOOD ENGLISH MOST OF THEM I WAS ENJOYED ALL PHARESES YOU USED,I HOPE MOST OF ENGLISH LEARNS WRITE LIKE THAT. BY THE WAY THE IDEA IS POSSIBLE YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE LOVE MAY BE IT'S CRASH AND CRASH GOES AWAY EARLIER THEN LOVE BUT IF IT'S LOVE IAM SURE WILL FORCE YOU TO EXPOSE ONE DAY. SO TAKE CARE I HOPE YOU SUCESSES ALL YOUR NEEDS. BY YOURS,Marwo.
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| | Friday, November 17, 2000 - 02:02 am WAAR NIYO INAN TA UTAG OO RUNTA SHEEG HADAYI WAXANII KA RUNYIHIIN. LAAKIN ADIGU WAXAAD TAHAYI NIN NACASAH HADII AAD CID JECLAATID? Khairyad lama soo bandhigee reer kooda utagoo si sharafle u doono inanta. WASALAAMU CALAYIKUM WARAXMATULA HI WABARKAATU.
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| | Friday, November 17, 2000 - 02:05 am WAAR NIYO INAN TA UTAG OO RUNTA SHEEG HADAYI WAXANII KA RUNYIHIIN. LAAKIN ADIGU WAXAAD TAHAYI NIN NACASAH HADII AAD CID JECLAATID? Khairyad lama soo bandhigee reer kooda utagoo si sharafle u doono inanta. WASALAAMU CALAYIKUM WARAXMATULA HI WABARKAATU.
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| | Friday, November 17, 2000 - 02:24 am ANONYMOUS, LET ME TELL YOU THIS BROTHER: DID YOU FORGET THAT THE PERSON YOU GOT TO DO WITH IS A SOMALI LADY. THERE IS ANOTHER WAY TO TELL SOMALI GIRLS THAT YOU HAVE CRUSH ON THEM. YOU HAVE ALREADY MADE A MISTAKE. NEVER SAY TO SOMALI GIRL I LOVE YOU. HADDII KALE BUUR BAY KORAYSAA KAMANA SOO DAJIN KARTID. WAXAYNA BILAABAYSAA IN AY DHULKA KUGU JIIDO. IF I WERE YOU I WOULD SPENT TIME WITH HER BEFORE YOU SHOW HER THAT YOU ARE INTERESTING. OUR SOMALI SISTERS HAVE APART CHARACTER. GOOD LUCK AND DON'T BEHAVE LIKE YOU ARE ACTING A ROMANTIC FILM. WUXU WAA GABAR SOOMALIYEED. BE PREPARED.
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| | Friday, November 17, 2000 - 03:06 am Hi bro!!! well I'm truly sorry to hear a suck thing. Love is most diffcult thing in the world. so all i have to say, is someday you win and someday you lose. try to move on and you find some1 who loves you as much as you do well bro good luck
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| | Friday, November 17, 2000 - 03:40 am waxaad tahayi big lier ee hablah si wanagsan ula sheekayiso oo tell her how u feel about her don,t act waxaanad ahayin ......player.....
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| | Sunday, November 19, 2000 - 06:04 am I THANK,EVERY ONE OF YOU .I READ WHAT EVERY ONE SAID.SOME OF YOU HAVE BEEN HELPFUL TO ME.AND SOME OF YOU ROUGHED ME UP.BUT THANKS ALL THE SAME.AND I THANK THE LADY WHO ACTED MISS-X. NICE TRY,BUT THE DEFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND MISS-X IS ENORMOUS. YOU AMUSED ME TOO. I WAS ONLY TRYING TO KNOW ONE THING ABOUT WOMEN.NOBODY EXPLAINED SO FAR. SO I WILL CALL IT A DAY.AND THANK YOU AGAIN.
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| | Sunday, November 19, 2000 - 03:08 pm Salaama Calaykum Dear MR Anonymous I know you need a help and i noticety you need this question's answer "WOMEN DON'T SPEND TIME WITH A GUY WHO WANTS THEM ESPECIALLY IF THEY DON'T WANNA HIM"? that is true aboowe gabdhuhu waxa ay jecel yihiin bay ku dheereeyaan in ay helaan stead of waxa laga rabo oo kaleya laakiin in your story is different gabdhaani waxaan u malaynayaa waxa ay kaa rabtaa in ay ogaato in aad jeceshahay for real when i say for realna waa not for only in aad isla rabto which is now days obvious iska ah qofka marka uu ku rabo buu ku rabaa hadii uu ku waayona qulub xaaraana baad tahay oo kan ugu fiicani waba kumaba oranayo kan kalena waaba ku caayi marka walaali jacalku in uu jacay rasmi ah yahay bay firin mindhay. selfishmiyada raga baa waxa ay tahay in dhawaalaba qofka haday u boqaan in ay guur kula ordaan runtiina sida ay diintu sheegayso waa saa oo don't give me wrong ma ihi qof qof aaminsan in raga la, la saaxiibo laakiin waxa run ah o aan laga tagi karin baa indhawaalba soo baxay no matter how much aan iska dhaga tirnaba oo aan dhahno deenteena ma, ku jidhaan hadana someway qof baa ku dhaqmaya waana loo bahan yahay in la, underline=gareeyo factiga amaba la, analysgareeyo. Marka waxa jidha dumarka marka ay raga iyadu aad u rabto oo ay istidhaahdo isaga waxaad moodaa in uusan xiisihiisu aa u badnayn bay ku push garaysaa arinta guurka midina waaba filaysaa in uu ku dhaho oo ay ku raacdo laakiin tan kale amaba inta soo hadhaa waxa ay jecel yihiin in ay qofka saaxiib la, noqdaan isaga oo aan u tusin in uu isla rabo oo kaliya amaba waxa ay fiirisaa trough the friendship nimada ma, kuu rabaa dawaygii uu kuu rabi lahaa if you are his girlfiend hadii ay ka jawaabto su, aashaas oo aad u tahay sidaa oo aysan kaa arag wax jelasious ah oo ay haysato your support though thin and thick that is when you succeed YOU LOVE. Adigana waad prove garaysay in aad jeceshahay oo aad shaqsi ahaan u jeceshahay not only by sexual marka waad guulaysan laba gooraadba adiga oo jacalkaagii sheegay iyo iyada oo aan ku quuri karin every step she doesn't believe me way kaa fakari oo waxa ay is dhihi isaga chance see taa macneheedu ma, ahan in ay kuu jeceshahay as much as you do laakiin for the apprecialtionka baa halkaa gaynaya oo ay ku quri waysaa hadii aysan ku jeclaan baan ka hadlayaa marka dhan walba waad guulaysan beleive me and believe me when i say that WALAAHI. I have been there hadii ma, garanayo anigu in aan ahay dadka appreciationka ku dheereeya iyo in laga helayo qof walba oo sidaa oo kale loola dhaqmo sidaas e waa dhacday waana igu dhacday marka be with her in a different way hadii aadan maskaxdaadu ku siinayn taas laakiin that is another story aboowe. Dumarka hada joogaa kowaada intellegentiga ah dadka waa ay tijaabiyaan and most of all maskaxda baaba tijaabinaysa qofka iyada oo aan kuba tala galin maxaa yeelay she don't have to worry you love her kow iyo hoosba wayna ogtahay taa, waxa aadan dhaqaysan laakiin marna ha, u sheegin dumar looma sheegto e in la, jecel yahay e waa la, iska og yahay qofka wax jecel dadka hada joogana waxa ay u haystaa jacaylka wax la iska sheeg sheego qofka adiga ayaba quurayn aad jeceshahay oo adii uu kaa sii jeedo iyo hadii kaleba shaqsiyadisa qofka ad jeceshahay baa jacal la, dhahaa oo aad duntiisa quuri kalin qabtidna isaga ayaa waxyaabo badan oo naftaada ku soo kordhay u sabab ah. Aboowe ma, soo koobi karno laakiin muhiimadu waa waxa niyadada ku jidha follow you heart and your instant waxa uu ku sheego action karee wixi aad ka badan waydo samee. take easyna ok waxa aad samayso baa kugu soo laaban take care WABILAAHI TOWFIIQ
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| | Sunday, November 19, 2000 - 03:48 pm LET ME TELL YOU ONE THING NEVER SAY I LOVE YOU TO SOMALIAN GIRL BECAUSE ALL SHE IS GOING TO DO IS TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU
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| | Sunday, November 19, 2000 - 03:50 pm WHO IS THE HOTTEST GUY AND GIRL THAT EVERY WENT TO LHS NEED ANSWERS VERY FAST THANKS
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| | Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 03:51 pm "Love can play as an illusion dismissing you from reality". Once was quoted by an pathologist, and if you think about it, it quite frankly turns out to be true in some cases. "LOVE is a wonderful thing, when you meet the righ one", people imperative about, but how long will it take to meet the right one? A week? A Month? A Year? or even a Lifetime?" "Ladies according to my understand, correct me if i'm wrong, women don't spend time with a guy who wants them, especially if they don't wanna him." Not all of us are alike, your generallizing here, if i'm not mistaken. Look Miss X, wouldn't react the way you described her to react. Trust & honesty play a huge role, and much likely some people stopped loving, caring, sharing, and understanding, because their loved one's are not being faithfull, maybe if you showed her that your true then things would turn out the way you imagine it would. " MIND YOU I DATED COUNTLESS GIRLS, SOME MORE BEAUTIFUL THEN HER." Here's were I personally think the "friendship" went down the drains, I mean you YOURSELF, stated what the MAIN problem was. She feels as if she's not aristrocrate to your feelings, she maybe feels that she's not compatiable to be with you. How you ever think it that way maybe? salam
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| | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 09:21 pm Why you didn't believe me? Give one reason. I didn't lie to you and each word I said I meant it. Nasteeso
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| | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 03:30 am Never trust a player...once a player always a player!!!... So Anon: bro... get ur acts together. Be sincere... pray..cut the other girls loose. Let the show begin then.. U will be amaze, how beautiful things can be!!!
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| | Saturday, December 09, 2000 - 05:40 pm Baby when your gone I realise Im in Love Days just feel so wrong And the nights just feel so Long Even food don't taste that good And I never do what I should Just tell me what is wrong Baby when you are gone
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| | Saturday, December 09, 2000 - 11:21 pm SAMMY,HIBAAQ,S.GURL YOU BEEN HELPFUL,THANK YOU, HIBO,NASTEEXO AND MYSTERIOUSLADY,THANK TOO. HIBO IAM NOT A PLAYER. MYSTERIOUSLADY WHY DIDNT YOU REALIZE THAT WHEN I WAS NEAR YOU ? NASTEEXO STOP PULLING MY LEGS,THEY ARE TIRED CHASING AFTER MISS-X FOR YEARS.DONT MAKE FUN OUT OF MY MISERY. I DONT BELIEVE YOU BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING TO BELIEVE.AND TUBEEC DONT RING A BELL AS FAR AS IAM CONCERN.COME UP WITH SOMETHING ELSE.SOME OTHER JOKES PERHAPS.SOMETHING THAT CAN INTENCIFY MY CURROUSITY. WABILLAHI TOWFIQ
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| | Friday, December 15, 2000 - 10:43 am hibaaq whoa! can i have your email? got some questions to ask i'm a sis, i think i could use your help
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| | Friday, December 15, 2000 - 12:33 pm to Anonymous I've read your letter and bro I'm not sure what the problem is. Is the problem that you don't practice love? then my brother you must be a fool beacsue no girl/woman would spend time with a guy if they didn't like him. I can tell you of my own experiences : for a couple of years ago I meet a guy, I literally bumped into him, and at first I was in a hurry so I didn't notice him at all. But he did he noticed me, and for a moment there were a strange feeling in my stomich/heart then I turned to him this happend when I didn't pay attention so when I looked back I saw him stare at me like no one has ever done, and that just took the air out of me. To make a long story short, he and I became friends, and the problem I don't know if I can call it a problem . But you see you guys rush into things, that is I think the reason why it dosen't happen anything between the Xgirl and you. I can rely it to my own story the one that I wrote above. He as u did (tell x that u love her), told me that he loved me and I although I loved him and I still do I couldn't say to him that I felt the same . The reason why I said no was that I couldn't let the walls I've build fall, I know that this doesen't make sense but bro. I'm to proud to let my self be in a vulnerable position, so I turned him down. I choosed to be friend with him to be sure that he is the one, maybe I'm fool but I have to be sure that's why. I don't know if this has answerd your question, I'm not sure but I hope I've inlighten the situation for you that you in some how can try to understand her. I think she whant's to be 100% sure, I think I'm kinda sure that she feels for you in the same way I feel for mine, and belive me it's strong feelings. bye and take care
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| | Wednesday, December 20, 2000 - 10:48 am maybe just maybe the girl sticks around becuase she knows how much you love her, how you might just die if she ditches you? i mean if she was to tottaly cut off all types of contact you have with her. that she is just killing time with you untill she decides you've recovered from your heartache she is waiting untill you find some other girl to pick up and put together the pieces she broke..so that she could have clear conscience and finaly move on with her life and proceed with the quest of finding truluv? oooooooorrrrrr maybe nobody ever told her they love her, you're the first and she is just afraid if she takes you out of the picture that she might grow old and loney without someone to love her?..in this, she is also just waiting untill something better than you arrives! sory but reality BITES since everybody else in this page took the same approach weeel, i thought(me being the realist that i am) i should try this and give the brotha a good dose of fresh coffeee lool
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| | Monday, December 25, 2000 - 06:46 am JAMIILLA, THANK YOU VERY MUCH.YOU ARE THE CLOSEST PERSON TO UNDERSTAND MY PLIGHT AND SUFFERING,AND MY YAWNING FOR HELP DEEP INSIDE ME. I CAN EASILY RELATE TO YOUR PROBLEM,BECAUSE WE ARE BOTH IN THE SAME BOAT,AND EXPERIENCED THE SAME MISFORTUNE. WE BOTH LOST SOMEONE WE REALLY LOVE TO BE WITH OUT OF BRIDE.I HAVENT SEEN MISS-X FOR QUIET SOMETIMES NOW, BUT, NEXT TIME I SEE HER,I WILL LOOK AT HER FROM A DIFFERENT ANGLE,OPPOSITE,TO HOW I USED TO ,BEFORE. I WOULD APPRECIATE IF YOU TELL ME MORE,SO THAT WE BOTH SHARE OUR GOOD AND BAD TIMES.AND I WISH YOU SUCCESS.WELL HOW DID IT END UP FOR YOU? GABARDADOW, YOU COME UP WITH TWO THEORIES,AND THEY ARE BOTH LOGICAL,AND POSSIBLE. YOU SAID THAT SHE WOULD STICK AROUND TILL I FIND SOMEONE.SHE KNOWS I FOUND MANY GIRLS BUT SHE ALWAYS STICK AROUND.THE THOUGHT OF HER NOT STICKING AROUND REALLY SCARES ME ALOT.I COULD NOT IMAGINE THE DAY WHEN SHE FINALLY DECIDE NOT TO STICK AROUND. ALL OF YOU PEOPLE ARE WONDERFUL AND YOU HELPED ME ALOT.I GUESE IT IS TIME I TAKE MATTER INTO MY OWN HANDS AND SEE THE OUTCOME IN THE WAY ITS MEANT TO BE.
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| | Friday, January 05, 2001 - 10:13 am Brothers and sisters Assalaamu calaykum: SULDAANKA, you dodn't have to be an auditor( just take the point of the story). NASTEEXO, Good girl but you didn't help the boy,, you could have helped but chosen to make fun out of his problem. TO THE POINT: Brother this reminds me when i was a very very young , when i used to play with our school girls, neighbors etc (somthing not good to mention in your case. ANSWER: There are few answers that i can think of: 1)normally girls don't say yes easy, because they think if they yes easily it will let them down. 2)because you grow up with her, she may have shared something(secret etc) that she would never have shared with other men. 3)Most of the girls like a bit older men than them. SOLUTION: Trying would never do any harm, but please investigate if any of the above were to blame, if so try to reverse them. for further you can e-mauil me Khadarrash@hotmail.com All the best
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