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CAN YOU TELL ME WHY YOU HATE SIJUI

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Before Dec. 16, 2000): CAN YOU TELL ME WHY YOU HATE SIJUI
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ABCD

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 06:37 pm
People from Somalia why do you hate any somali born out side Somalia.IS it ignorance or envy?.Cant you accept that we are better than you in every which way concievable?.
Why dont you follow our example and be good humans?.

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Cabdi Bile

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 08:45 pm
COZ YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO READ AND WRITE IN SOMALI YET CLAIM TO BE SOMALIS!!!!!!!! WRITE YOUR POST IN SOMALI FIRST THEN WE ARE GOING TO DECIDE WHETHER TO STOP HATING YOU OR...........

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411

Saturday, November 25, 2000 - 06:06 pm
ABCD,

Bro/Sis I'm a Somali and you think I hate you for being Siju,You are wrong.
To make it simple for you(I DO NOT HATE YOU ), If most of the Somalis that you met them don't like you I guess they don't like you in person and that's nothing to do with if you were born out side.
lol@ Ignorance or Envy: ABOUT WHAT?
Maybe you're lucky enough for having easy and safe life, But I don't think you're better than any other Somali out there.

PS. By the way you're thinking I don't blame them to not like you.

Case closed.

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Rear-end

Saturday, November 25, 2000 - 10:52 pm
ABCD....just do us one favor...don't come back to somalia

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Moh_Luv

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 05:34 pm
Hey u ppl.....isn't a man entitled to ask a question? I don't see why u have to throw these harsh feedbacks at him (exception of 411).

Cabdibille...no offence bro but u sound real dumb. A sijui person is one who was either born out of somalia or left there quite young, and it doesn't mean that he/she can't read/write or speak af-soomali. Lots of them read and write the language but they still got the title "sijui".....so, u still consider them as outcasts??? think bout that before u jot down trash next time....
And by the way.....u have no right whatsoever to tell ppl that U (of all ppl) will decide whether they r somali or not.....

Rear-end.....have nothing to say to u....probably 5yr old using the net without supervision!

Everybody else.....stop hatn and start luvn....we all belong!!!
Peace!

Moh_Luv

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wehelie

Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 04:12 pm
HI. ABCD
There is big qoustion mark, who hates who?.
We somalies believe zuji hates us, becouse we more civilized and more open sociaty. We grow up fredom and you guys under enormous kenyan mojority presure,beside that most of you behave kenyans, but we do,nt hate you insted we feel sorry for you. thanks.

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Anonymous

Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 05:30 pm
Wehelie.....ur so funny.
Where did get this faulty info? i was just reading it and wondering where in the world u been living? Anywayz...sorry to tell u this but ur wrong. To my knowlege..... i dont think sijui ppl hate som peepz..infact nobody hates nobody...how about that? Why hate one when we r the same ppl?
And by the way.....that statement of urs..."sijui ppl r uncivilized, non-social and under pressure" is absolutely WRONG!!!
I wasnt gonna answer this question on this topic but u need to get ur words together.....
Stop hatn, why hate ur own ppl?
One more thin'>>>>> sijui ppl r not only those that lived in Kenya..... all those that were born outside Som r considered sijui....
SO IMAGINE UR KIDS...AM GUESSING U MIGHT HAVE KIDS WHILE LIVIN' IN THE WEST......BEING DISCRIMATED JUST B'CUZ OF WHERE THEY WERE BORN???? Think about this for a sec!.
:-)
Nabadgalyo.

Moh_Luv

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MAKA

Saturday, December 02, 2000 - 07:36 pm
TO ABCD

BECOUSE THEY CANT SPEAK KISWAHILI. IF THE HATE SUJUI THAT THERE PROBLEM. AND REALLY DONT MAKE SESNSE WHY THE HATE SOMEONE AND THE CALL THEM SELF MUSLIM. I WAS BORN IN KENYA I SPEAK KISWAHILI AND IF THEY HATE ME BECOUSE THAT. WELL THAT TOO BAD BECOUSE THEY WILL NEVER MEET A SWEET PERSON LIKE ME IOI.

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ABCD

Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 12:55 am
MAKA:

HERE YOU ARE .LETS LEAVE THIS PEOPLE ALONE.LETS GO TO OUR HIDING PLACE.YOU KNOW WHERE IT IS .DONT YOU?

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Mohd

Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 02:29 am
To: ABCD and All those who wrote those fancy and glamorous TALES. This is what i have to say you bro and sisters: There is ONLY MISUNDERSTANDING between SIJUS and REER SOOMAALIYA. We converse to each other in two complete languages- Somali and Kswahili.....Reer Sommaliya are liers and con people, while sijuus are sweet and honest. Because I love a sijuu chick who is so sweet, and sweeter than thousands of reer somali women...ABCD and others get life, and discuss how to rebuild your nations rather than writting rubbish mesgs over the net.
Bye,
Asalaamu caleeykum waraxmatulah.
Ramadan Kariim

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Trauntlabgirl

Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 11:43 am
ABC: If you ask me, I would say it is xenophobia. However, tht is not something akin to Somalis. The phenomena is present in every culture, creed and you name it.
You will notice that when you get to know each other (both the Somalis and the Sijuis), you will be surprised to see how nice the other party is.

The solution? you ask. Lets all love each other for the sake of Allah. We have common enemies out there, makes no sense hating each other.

kwaherini/ma'asalaamah.

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SEXPERT

Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 12:21 pm
To TRAUNTLABGIRL:

Sister how can you be so blind about the miscommunication and hatred among somalis, when you witness what is going on here on this forums, even the somalinet operator taking it personally when they see some very serious issue that needs to be addressed in the community.
their reaction is simply shut the whole topic down, as you comments my posting yesterday about sex and young generation
how could you be so positive and say something that is beneficial to whole community.

I was wondering why somalis lack sense?.

my point is that this whole page is operated in one purpose, which is the spreading ignorance and clan hatred (sijui or mlendo) as well as spreading the propaganda interest of one particular clan against another, based on their deceptive selfish interest of their clannish saga.

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wanaagsane

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 01:48 am
assalamu calaykum:

The somalis don't hate sijuis/(SAJUWI as somalis from somalia pronouce)... Aren't sijuis somalis?.

But, I think, somalis from somalia are prejudiced against, the sijuis....somalis from kenya aka sijuis never like idea of tribalism, nepotism, which is rive among somalis from somalia proper....So, when a somali meets a sijui, he/she expects this brother/sis of his/her to help ...but the answer he gets is "sijui".....

Another issue is that somali(sijuis) are very liberal in some aspects of life, alcohol, sex etc and this is seen as diveting from the cultural heritage of somalis who are very conservative in these issues.

Finally, there is no hate between them BUT prejudices based on assumptions, conceptions.

It is time for the the so-called sijuis to understand how somalis in somalia lived ...dictatorship, tribal affiliations, nepotisim, corruption etc.......and the somalis to realise that the sijuis are their own people living as foreigners in their own country (LETE ktambulish)...that the sijuis are victims of Kenyan abuses.....

I would like in this regard to quote a kikuyu proverb which I read sometime back (I love quoting this).... Kagutui gamuchi katiagugu amen"...it roughly translates to: "the oil skin of the house should not be rubbed on the back of astranger".....

So, let us not play strangers to one another .....and rub the ashes of hatred on another..


RAMADAN KARIIM

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ReaLdeaL

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 07:01 am
Wanagsane in your attempt to clarify you have made a gross Generalisation of both subjects. You cant paint all with one brush, that is (how can I put it in a polite manner since its Ramadhan) its Not true, this whole issue is based on Jahilnimo... Thats it.

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ABCD

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 03:03 pm
WANAAGSANE:


MAN! I DINT EVEN KNOW HOW TO REPLY YOU.YOU ARE A DOUBLED FACED MONSTER.
YOU ARE ACTING IMPARSTIAL, BUT AT THE SAME TIME FULL OF PREJUDICE.
YOU STILL HAVE THE STEREOTYPICAL MENTALITY OF YOUR COUNTRY FOLKS.YOU SAID SIJUIS ARE LIBERAL IN ASPECT OF SEX AND ALCOHOL.HOW DID YOU COME UP WITH THAT CONCLUSION?I CAN BET YOU NEVER SEEN OR KNOWN IN DEPTH A SIJUI PERSON IN YOUR LIFE.

FOR YOUR INFO THE WORD "SIJUI" CAME UP IN EARLY DAYS WHEN SOMALIS FROM SOMALIA MIGRATED TO EASTERN AFRICA.THEY ALL MEMORISED THEIR CLAN LINEAGE BY HEART FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION,AS IF IT WAS HOLY QURAN.AND WHEN THEY ASKED THEIR HOST, WHO WELCOME THEM IN THE STRANGE LAND,ABOUT CLAN, THEY REPLIED "SIJUI" MEANING "I DONT KNOW".TO THE IMMIGRANTS IT WAS SOMETHING DAMN AND DISPEAKABLE.AND EVER SINCE THEY DUBBED US "SIJUI"

NO BODY EVER LOOK BACK AGAIN,AND NOBODY EVER TRIED TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE WE ARE.SO TELL ME, HOW CAN I LIKE YOU OR HAVE RESPECT FOR YOU WHEN YOU YOU ARE SPREADING UNFOUNDED RUMOURS ABOUT MY PEOPLE'S CULTURE AND RELIGION.WHEN YOU ARE SAYING THAT ALCOHOL AND SEX IS NORMAL IN MY FAMILY.I HAVE SEEING THIS KIND OF TALK ALL MY LIFE AND IT DOESNT SURPRISE ME.
I HAVE SEEN SOMALIS FROM DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE WORLD,WHO WERE AWAY FROM SOMALIA FOR FOR 2 OR 3 GENERATION.AND I HAVE NEVER SEEN ONE WHO DONT LOVE THE FACT, THAT, HE/SHE, IS SOMALI.AND THEY LOVE SOMALIA MORE THAN THOSE WHO WERE BORN IN IT.THEY WERE MORE NATIONALIST,MORE ISLAMIST AND VERY STRONGLY CULTURED.TRUST ME YOU DONT KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO LIVE AND GROW UP IN A FORIEGN LAND.AND BE A TARGET OF EVERY ONE AROUND YOU.

WHEN YOU SIAD REER-SOMALIA BEHAVES PREJUDICE BECAUSE THEY WERE UNDER DICTATORSHIP,DONT LET YOU OFF THE HOOK.

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wehelie

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 04:49 pm
dear brother Anonymous.
Although i do,t konow your name or your e-mail,
i,m really very sorry the hash words i posted about ssju, infact you educated me and i appericiate at the same time i apologize.
thanks.
asalaamu calaykum.

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Trauntlabgirl

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 05:53 pm
To sex expert: Like I said in that folder before it was removed, if your discussion on the topic you proposed will be based on sound Scientific evidence and pure religious verdict, then you have my support. Otherwise, I will join the fight in advocating censoring of such topics on Somalinet. The reason being every Tom, dick or Harry, or every MOhammed, Ahmed or Abdi, will have their two cents in and confuse the heck out of our Teens. Like I said earlier, you might have the right intentions in addressing a problem but the medium u used is not the best in my opinion. You know what the rest of my proposals were, so I'm not gonna bother repeating myself here.

Now about Somalis hating Sijuis or vice versa, like I said earlier on, it is pure fear of the "other" aka xenophobia. The solution to this is to rid ourselves of igorance and realize that we need each other. shifting blames around is not gonna get us anywhere. Just judge everyone on an individual basis and we'll all get along.

Wanaagasane: Cousin, I will disagree with you on the point that sijuis are liberal on the aspects you mentioned. If anything, I think we/they are more conservative than the other party and follow the Islamic teachings to a geater extent.

ABC: FYI, wanaagsane is a sijui. Born and breed. So I guess you fell victim of the generalization/assumption phenomena.

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wanaagsane

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 11:06 pm
assalamu calaykum:

ABCD:::::::::: remember you wrote this:
"People from Somalia why do you hate any somali born out side Somalia.IS it ignorance or envy?.Cant you accept that we are better than you in every which way concievable?.
Why dont you follow our example and be good humans?".......was that an impartial statement???..........Your explanation of the origin of the word "sijui" was commendable


TLG---- I agree with you......I should have said " non-sijuis perceive sijuis as liberals"....I know for certain that sijuis are very conservative and attached to the good old somali culture and tradition.......

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amazed

Friday, December 08, 2000 - 09:05 am
TLG
u are amazing! Can I marry you?

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