     jibril | Friday, November 24, 2000 - 09:26 pm
I want to marry an Isaaq lady her parents are very ignorant and tribalist they are one of the habar tribes. I want to know are all Isaaq like that? Neither am I Isaaq nor close to them |
| Ice-Man | Friday, November 24, 2000 - 09:45 pm
What's your point? |
| suldanka | Friday, November 24, 2000 - 09:55 pm
All the isaaqs are crazy ppl and also ignorant. |
| Anonymous | Friday, November 24, 2000 - 11:19 pm
SHUT THE F*** UP SULDANKA
WHEN UR POINTING OUT SOMETHING DON'T SAY ALL
CUZ ALL ISAAQ ARE NOT CRAZY NOR IGNORANT
I'M ISSAQ AND MY MOTHER IS MAJEERTEN...AND OBVISOUSLY THEIR NOT TRIBLISM
SO DON'T SAY ALL
AND TO ANSWER UR QUESTION JIBRIL
FORGET ABOUT HER PARENT CUZ ALLAH DID NOT SAY IN ORDER TO GET MARRIED YA'LL HAVE TO BE THE SAME TRIBE
IF SHE LOVES U AND U LOVE HER THATS ALL THAT MATTER HON |
| Hammer | Saturday, November 25, 2000 - 06:03 am
JIBRIL,
If you love the woman then marry her....You are not marrying into her entire clan.
It doesnt matter if her parent are clanist...as long as you are not you will prevail over them.
And i dont believe it's right to label any particular group wrong. |
| H/Y 2 | Saturday, November 25, 2000 - 07:01 am
HABAR ARE NUTTERS.
DON'T GO ANYWHERE NEAR THEM OR THEIR WOMEN. |
| jibril | Sunday, November 26, 2000 - 01:07 pm
anonymous/hammer I appreciate your comments |
| Anonymous | Sunday, November 26, 2000 - 01:55 pm
jibril
depends.....are you hawiyee? cuz if yes..isaaq dont nothing to do with you.also some daroods,so yeah they are tribalist. |
| Musee | Sunday, November 26, 2000 - 06:07 pm
one challenges isaaaq interms of education and civilization in somalia. that is fact, but this her parents might be bad. if u love her and she feels the same marry her period be a man and take the law to your own hands. |
| Leila | Friday, December 01, 2000 - 06:57 am
Guys stop Talking about tribes .Coz the only think that should count it's the heart and if the persone is inteligent.
So jibril don' let your girl just coz of her parents.I am Issak and i know what parents think of.I love my father more then anyeone in this world and one day he came up to me and says,child dont never get me(to get married me) i HAMARAWI guy .I met this guy his hamarawi,he is the nice persone i never knew, i brook up with him But I do still love him.And no matter what I WILL.
It's all to tell you don' give up ,don' let her go.If you guys make plans together for getting married then GO!And do the islamic way without the permision of her parents .THAT IS NOT HARAAM
Good Luck.
I hope god will be at your sides
Leila |
| HAATUF | Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 08:01 pm
Asalaamu calaykum......
All I wanna say is; pse stop insulting entire tribes. That is superficial, no tribe is perfect. Every tribe in our country has every kind of people.
To insult an entire tribe just for one person or one family is Haraam. The Isaaq tribe is just like the other tribes in Somalia, they possess every quality that the other tribes possess, whether good or bad.
To Jibriil.....
My advice to you is this; it's okay if you are content with the girl that you wanna share with your life, but be ware.......the family comes with the girl too, after all, they'll be the grands of your children. Some people say that the families are not important, to tell you the truth they are important. To have a happy marriage, all families on both sides must have healthy relationships.
If I were you, I would have started working on how I can win the confidence and friendship of her parents. If you're thinking of marrying this girl and not making her family happy, I got to tell you ....you're dead wrong.
This is your brother Haatuf wishing you lots of luck......... |
