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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Before Dec. 16, 2000): AM I SICK?
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Anonymous

Monday, November 27, 2000 - 08:24 pm
I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT I WILL END UP WITH SOMALIA MEN AND I THOUGHT THAT THE ONLY MEN WHO CAN MAKE ME HAPPY WAS SOMAILA,I MAEN THEY WERE MY KINGS BUT SINCE I COME TO THE U.S I STARTED HATING ALL MALE NO MATTER WHO THEY ARE AND I CAN'T STAND SOMALIA GUYS ANY MORE, NOW I DON'T SEE MY SELF WITH SOMALIA GUYS. SO DO YALL THINK THAT THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME.AND I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO FEMALE SO DON'T THINK I AM LES. I MAEN I CHECK OUT CUTE GUYS BUT DON'T DATE THEM ANY MORE. FEEL FREE TO SAY ANYTHING U WHAT

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soumynonA

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 12:05 am
LATELY I STARTED HATING ALL SOMALI FEMALES WHEN I MOVED TO AUSTRALIA I BELEIVE WE HAVE SOMETHING IN COMMON WHAT WOULD YOU SAY IF WE CONTACT EACH OTHER AND WOULD YOU MIND IF I ASKED YOU YOUR AGE

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Mariam- from London

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 02:05 am
I think that somalian men can't forfill the needs of young somailan women. These days women understand what they want and aren't afraid to ask like they did years ago. I think there is nothing wrong with you and that you are like every girl who has an idea of what kind of guy she wants. If you think somalian men are not for you than go for someone who you think is your match made in heaven. Just go after your heart, and if your heart is not kneen on somalian men than don't worry there are plenty more men out there who are willing to take you and treat you like the queen that you are.

I have a boyfreind that is from somali and he treats me really nice and we do all sorts of things together like going out to the movies, to resturants and anywhere we like.

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Khaalid

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 03:38 am
NO more.......No more.........No more baby!

I think Somalian guys are no longer ruled by their heart So no one is gonna dish you for your test. As It has been said there are blenty of men in this world so you don't have to stick to Somalians; just explore around!

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dreamlady 01

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 04:02 am
I dont blame you for not feeling attracted to somali guyz becauz most of them have atattuide now dayz
let me say you can fall in love with anyone u want and there si nothing wrong with you

love and peace to u all

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qoonsade

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 06:44 am
lama huraan waa cawska jilaal, but make sure not come back to us after all your plans fail miserably. secondly, you have to know that you can't marry non-muslim person.


Ramadaan kariim brothers and sisters

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RFace

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 07:00 am
STOP WITH THIS NONSENSE!!!
SO WHAT THE @#$% DO YOU WANT US TO DO?
SO YOU DON"T LIKE SOMALI MEN.
BIG @#$%ing DEAL!":O
WHAT KIND OF ADVICE ARE YOU ASKING FOR WITH SUCH A STUPID PROBLEM!
LET ME GUESS- YOU ARE AN 18 YEAR OLD AND "HIGHLY-EDUCATED" AND ......
SAME GARBAGE- DIFFERENT AUTHOR ":O

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Anonymous

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 07:29 am
THANKS U GUYS FOR YOUR HONEST ADVICE. IT IS NICE TO KNOW THAT I AM NOT THE ONLY SOMALIA GIRL WHO FEELS THAT WAY,IN SOME POINT I THOUGHT THAT I CHANGED BUT NOW I KNOW IT'S NOT ME WHO CHANGED.

SOUMYNONA, U ARE RIGHT WE HAVE SOMETHING IN COMMON AND IF U LIKE WE CAN CONTACT. AND THE ANSWER TO YOUR Q. I AM 21 YEARS OLD.

RFACE, THANKS U FOR YOUR TIME ANSWERING MY POST AND I DIDN'T ASK U ANY ADVICE I ASKED SOMALIA MEN AND WOMEN AND YOUR ARE NOT ONE OF THEM SO GET LOST.

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somalia-man

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 08:58 am
lol somalia men and women is that a new term!?????

anonymous-lady(or somalia-lady lol)

Gosh where should I start?

Why do somali-women in general have something against somali-men?

Everywhere I go I can feel this hate in their eyes directed towards me why?because am a somalia man.

A typical example is mariam (the somalia woman from london)she dates a somalia man,yet still thinks a somali-man can not fulfill her needs!!

instead of criticizing us somalia-men(note am getting hook up on this somalia men thing lol),Why don't you guys date from another races,not the worthless Jamaicans cause they're worse than the Somalia-man you're running from it's like trading in a 1990 BMW for a 1972 VW.

Here is my suggestion for all of you somalia-women out there please do us a huge favor and CROSS OVER see if other men are interested in you considering your tough conditions I mean being circumcised both emotionally and physically,The first thing a foreigner will demand is SEX,Think about it for a little while,We are somalia-man the only ones on this planet have to deal with your scars say AL-XAMDULIALLAH.

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Anonymous

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 01:07 pm
somalia-man behave like somalia-man dickhead

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Waleed

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 04:58 pm
Mariam from London, Your response was elegantly written TILL you mentioned your "Boyfriend and how he treats you". Does the word Moron ring the bell?

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Somali-Yankee

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 05:46 pm
Abaa...."Hate" is a just big word....yu might wanna rephrase that......well abaa my advise to yu don't settle for any looser somali or non-somali.....try a little harder not all of us(somali guys) are freaks.....if yu gonna settle
for non-somali.....don't settle for da cheap ones...but go for finer thing....an educated muslim man.....n yu might wanna be carefull...foriegners can be charming in the begining but reality sets in later....believe me yu don't wanna be 26years old with two kids and divorced.... i have seen alot sistas that married non-somalis and regret it now.....shalaati mafiicna....iam sure yu are wise girl....make da rite decision....perhaps yu might wanna finish your education before yu jump in any relationship...did i write too much....lol
peace
Ramadan Kariim

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Anonymous

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 08:54 pm
LOL, THANKS GUYS FOR TAKING THE TIME U TOOK TO ANSWER THIS POST. U REAL MAKE ME LAUGH, AND TRUST ME I DON'T DATE NON-MUSLIM NOR NON-SOMALIA I AM JUST TAKING BREAK FROM THE DATING GAME, I REAL WANNA END UP WITH SOMALIA MEN CUZ THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES I UNDERSTAND.I JUST THINK SOMETHING THEY DO BOTHERS ME SO MUCH,LIKE THE ONES WHO ACT LIKE AMERICANS, IF I FIND REAL SOMALIA MEN WHO DOESN'T ACT LIKE SOMETHING HE IS NOT I THINK I CAN HANDLE THAT,BUT WHEN THEY START SAYING "HONEY", "SWEETHEART","BABY" AND "DARING" THAT PISSES ME OFF I MEAN COME ON WE ARE FROM SOMALIA AND WE NEVER USED THESE WORDS U KNOW WHAT I MEAN, MY UNCLE AND HIS WIFE ACT LIKE THAT INFRONT OF THE WHOLE FAMILY AND I JUST HATE IT.

I KNOW WHAT SOME OF U ARE THINKING "IT'S BAD IF SOMEONE WHAT TO SHOW THEIR LOVEONES HOW THEY FEEL" NO IT'S NOT BUT NOT INFRONT OF EVERYBODY, U LOVE HER OR U LOVE HIM THE ONLY PERSON WHO NEED TO KNOW THAT U GUYS NOT US, ARE U GUYS FEELING ME.

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ANONYMOUS1979

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 09:02 pm
SOMALIA -MAN, THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICE U ARE REAL FUNNY GUY, AND I JUST WANNA SAY THAT I AM NOT THE ONE WHO CALLED U DICKHEAD IT'S SOME ONE ELSE,SO DON'T THINK THAT I INSULT U FOR YOUR COMMIT,SO I THINK FROM NOW ON I WILL USE DIFFERENT NAME LIKE


"ANONYMOUS1979"THAT WILL BE MY NEW NAME
P.S YOUR GF MOST BE LUCY TO HAVE U AS BF I AM SURE U ALWYAS MAKE HER HAPPY

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ANGEL

Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 03:56 pm
MY ADVICE IS TO CATCH THE FIRST PLAIN TO SOMALIA AND THEN GO TO MEIYEY OR WHAT EVER YOU CALL IT AND MARRY ONE OF THE GALLSHEREH THERE AND HE WILL GIVE YOU ALL THE SOMALI LOVE... LIKE CALLING YOU NAYA INSTEAD OF BABE OR HONEY, REALLY ROMANTIC..
IS THAT WHAT YOU R LOOKING FOR I DON'T THINK SO...
ON MORE THING ARE U UGLY.. JUST WONDERING?

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kingcab #9

Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 07:39 pm
it seems to me, that you been through too many hands and all, and lost the taste, and the very reason why you wanted to date us.
now i see you as a 96 crown victoria a ex-city police vehicle, with a bad case of messed up transmission.
$2500 sounds fair?

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barakada beela

Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 12:03 am
ANGEL/ kingcab #9

u need to wash ur big mouths with soup idiots

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ANONYMOUS1979

Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 09:59 am
I AM NOT UNGLY,AND I DIDN'T HAD TO MANY BOYFREINDS IF U ARE WONDERING THAT I DATED TO MANY GUYS, IN FACT I AM 21 YEARS OLD AND I HAD ONLY TWO BOYFREINDS IN MY WHOLE LIFE, I DON'T NEED GUYS CALLING ME BABY,OR HONEY THAT IS WHAT MAKES ME SICK. IS IT HARD TO FIND REAL SOMALIAMAN WHO DOESN'T PARTAINING SOMETHING HE IS NOT OR SOMETHING HE CAN'T KEEP UP WITH ? LIKE ACTING ROMANTIC WHEN HE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS AT ALL.

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suomynonA

Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 02:15 pm
TO ANONYMOUS HERE IS MY EMAIL maano_file@yahoo.com

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Ruf

Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 07:40 pm
So far Waleed and Kingcab9 made my day :)

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DYSFUNCTION

Friday, December 01, 2000 - 06:02 am
hey, did you lately see your family doctor
for referral to psycotherapy ?. If it is not
it is about time before it gets too late.
Iam dam SERIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!

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KINGCAB #44

Friday, December 01, 2000 - 11:32 am
MY KINGCAB ONLY HAD TWO CITY COPS IN ITS WHOLE LIFE AND IS ONLY 3 YEARS OLD. PEOPLE CALL IT EX-POLICE CAR AND IT MAKES ME SICK TO MY STOMACH.
ITS VERY HARD TO FIND A EX-POLICE CAR WHICH PRETENDS SOMETHING THAT ITS NOT.
I ACT LIKE IM DRIVING A EX-POLICE CAR WHEN I REALLY CANT KEEP UP WITH ITS EXPENSES.
$2500?

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NAIMA

Saturday, December 02, 2000 - 12:58 pm
NANY GOT MAN BABE!
TRUST ME HONEY THERE IS SWEET AND
H/SOME SOMALI GUYS OUT THERE, SO WAIT YOUR
TIME DONT RUSH/....
YOU ARE THE SOMALI QUEEN EXPENSIVE THAN OTHERS
DONT LET YOUR SELF DOWN WITH NONSOMALI,THEY WONT
RESPECT YOU LIKE SOMA SWEETHEAR CAN DO...

GOOD LUCK I HOPE THE BEST 4 U
PEACE AND TO ALL...

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XANASH

Saturday, December 02, 2000 - 08:20 pm
FIRST THANKS WALED FOR YOUR RESPONSE TO THAT LADY FROM LONDON CALLED MARIAM AND I DON.T WANT TO SAY ANYTHING MORE THAN THAT.
ANONYMOUS I GIVE U ONE SIMPLE AND SINGLE ADVICE
SOME THING IS SURELY WRONG WITH U GO AND SEE A DOC
OTHER WISE U WILL BECOME LIKE THE LONDON LADY WHO SAY SOMETHING AND DO SOMETHING ELSE AND WHEN U FIND THE REMEDY TELL HER SHE NEEDS TOO.

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yare

Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 03:49 am
Go Naima
Go Naima

I am so surprise to see sista
like u, thank god there is still

good one,s around.

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Ayaana

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 07:36 am
Boy are we not freaking crazy?

Abaayo same here, I hate when men call me babe or romantic stuff, but still there is no way I am going outside of my race. I will rather not deal with no man than date a foreing guy because they don't know nothing about my values all they will do is shoplift for the booty, know what I mean.

If it is their romantic wanna be attitude that you hate, than find a askari like dude. Walaahi I am not lying, It just depends on your attitude. If you don't want somali-guys at all, please be frank and rephrase the question like, I wnat to date non-somali, is there anything wrong with it.

As a somali girl the best advice I will give you is wait and don't rush into anything, finish your school, become dependent so that you can get out of any hardship and then see whom you really want to deal with.

Good luck to you and with your education.

Ps. I suggest that you check out both somali sugar dadies and the bad boys. Compare them, trash one take one. OR become like me don't date them. I swear I have some friends of mine who think of me as a guy, it is irritating, but to me it is better than, hey babe.

bye girl and take care.

your sister Ayaana

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zahra

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 09:42 pm
anoymous: i dont think nothing is wrong being attract to other guys as long as they are muslims but i have worest situation which is that i am not attract to any guys of any kind of race including somali and like u say dont u guys think i am attracted to women.

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kamal

Friday, December 08, 2000 - 02:38 pm
Guess what anonymous keep up this pace and i could see you 5 years down the road with three babies from three different baby daddies hooked on crack coke with education ,running back to the Somalia community begging for somalian king to marry so, check your self sis before you wreck yourself.
I should know i have seen this case time and time
again.

peace out

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Anonymous

Friday, December 08, 2000 - 02:48 pm
I can't belive all this somalian girls talking sh I t .Saying somali man ain't ••••. Go head do who u want to do, but remember non somali man don't know who u r? what u represent? and what u stand for. so when u have 2 to 3 kids by them and u r ass is big as balloon don't run back to us ,cuz u have crossed the bridge..


take care

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True_Tree folk

Monday, December 11, 2000 - 04:29 am
No You just GET sick. Of your ugly Face....

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Hanad

Monday, December 11, 2000 - 06:26 pm
To:-Whoever started this topic.
I think you are not woman/girl and you are pretending someone,it seems you are a man.
To:-Kamal thanks for your comment,although,idon't
believe there is a such woman who can say those words in somali culture.
Good lucky.

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InLovewithSom

Wednesday, December 13, 2000 - 07:15 am
Wow!!!

The view is in the eye of the beholder indeed!!!!

Sympathy for anyone getting the blue from a relationship. But that must not lead to generalization.

Believe me guys, there is nothing like him. Equally there is nothing like her. The Somali lad is dependable, patient and Somalo (not latino!!) in the real sense of the word. The Somali girl is mystic, caring and will put Marlyne Monroe to shame if a beauty contest was held.

The only catch is the damn click guys!! Before the hearts skip a beat or emotions rise, we go out of energy.

We need to be communicators. We have a strong urge to belong and to love, but we cant express it to our partner. This is the problem. It has something to do with our nomadic/farmer keep-quite Somalian mind-set.

Somali boys and girls are sweeter than honey and made for each other. Give ourselves a chance, You will know. Soo dhawow abaayo. Soo dhawow aboowe.I love him. I love her. Carry on please.

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Anonymous

Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 01:59 am
hey sexy my name is rahma and i am looking for a somalianm boy that i can chat too

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