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     | Monday, December 11, 2000 - 09:57 am PLEASE IF YOU GET OFFENDED EASILY THEN THIS IS NOT YOUR PLACE AND I WOULD ADVICE YOU TO GET OUT OTHERWISE STICK ON AND READ THE NEXT SENTENCE BELOW. I AM 24 YEAR OLD GIRL LIVING IN THE US. I HAVE THIS DILEMMA WHICH HAPPEN WHEN I WAS STUDYING AT UNIVERSITY. I WAS SHARING ROOM WITH ANOTHER GIRL WHO WAS FROM ETHIOPIA. WE BECOME VERY CLOSE AS TIME WENT BY. BUT ONE NIGHT SHE HAD FIGHT WITH HER BOYFRIEND AND CAME HOME VERY UPSET, I WAS WORKING THAT NIGHT AND WHEN I GOT BACK I SAW HER LYING ON THE COUGH AND ASKED HER WHAT HAPPEN AND SHE TOLD ME THE WHOLE STORY AND I FELT SORRY FOR HER AND TRIED TO COMFORT HER WHILE I WAS SITTING WITH HER AND GIVING HER HUGH SHE STARTED KISSING ME AND ONE THINK LED TO ANOTHER YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN, I WANT TO REMIND YOU THAT I WAS NEVER ATTRACTED TO WOMEN BEFORE BUT SOMETHING HAPPEN THAT NIGHT. I WOKE UP NEXT DAY AND REALIZED THAT I MADE A BIG MISTAKE AND DECIDED TO MOVE OUT FROM THAT APARTMENT AND MOVED TO MY OWN APARTMENT. SINCE THAT DAY I HAD NEVER TALK TO MY CLOSE FRIEND . FEW YEARS LATER I AM NOW GETTING MARRIED AND WONDERING IF I SHOULD TELL MY FUTURE HUBBY OR NOT PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR SINCERE ADVICE.
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| | Monday, December 11, 2000 - 01:13 pm disgusting
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| | Monday, December 11, 2000 - 02:22 pm HEBLA BITCH YOU ARE GAY!!! TELL HIM THE TRUTH SO NEXT TIME YOU SEE A GIRL AND GET HORNY, HE WILL UNDERSTAND.
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| | Monday, December 11, 2000 - 03:12 pm DONT TELL HIM NOTHING.FORGET THE PAST AND THINK ABOUT THE FUTURE.YOU DID THE RIGHT THING MOVING OUT.DONT EVER GO BACK THERE AGAIN.HAVE ALOT OF CHILDREN AND PRAY ALLAH ALOT AND SEEK FOR HIS FORGIVENESS.
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| | Tuesday, December 12, 2000 - 01:44 am HEBLA You did the wriht thing moving from the apartment but that is big sin you have to repent to Allah and pray very hard Allah might forgive you.also you can tell your husband if he is understanding guy and dont ever do again.
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| | Tuesday, December 12, 2000 - 04:35 am honey i am so sorry to hear such a story, i must say you did the right thing. i personally don;t think you should tell him coz he will bring it up every time you have a fight! why didn't you beat her up unless you liked it yourself! lol how did it get that far your room mate should know your religion and what it forbids. anyways i am not gonna give you any lectures but don't ever do it again or ever tell your man.
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| | Tuesday, December 12, 2000 - 05:01 am Dear Hepla I deeply feel sorry that this horrible thing has happened in your life. We live in a world were everything is okay e.g. lesbians, guys,drinking,smoking, homosexuality and so on.. So we feel like we are one of them. we totally forgot about our religion and our way of living since we left our country. I understand when you say that things led to one other, the reason being is that our mind has been corupted by Satan, he is behind every sin we commit. So my advice to you is never ever tell your future hubby what you have done in the past, as this will lead him telling all your relatives about your secrets and image all the shame you will then feel.He has no right knowing about your past,as the say the past is the past and concentrate on your future and don't worry about your past as this already happened. You should try and find someone to speak to about this problem so that you feel okay to have got it out of your system. Please my sister pray to your creator and beg for mercy, as he is forever giving. God bless asslaum aleykum
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| | Tuesday, December 12, 2000 - 05:37 am TO HEPLA I REAL FEEL SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPED I THINK YOU DID THE RIGHT THING MOVEING OUT BUT WHY DID IT EVEN HAPPEND IN THE BEGININNG I KNOW YOU ALREADY EXPLAIN.... BUT THE PAST IS THE PAST IF YOU WANTEND TO TELL HIM YOU SHOULD TELL HIM WHEN YOU WERE GETTING SERIOUS BUT KNOW IS TO LATE FORGET ABOUT IT AND JUST MOVE ON HE MAY LEAVE YOU IF YOU TELL HIM SO JUST LET IT GO I KNOW IS HARD BUT IS JUST SOMETHING YOU GOT TO DO. ONCE AGAIN I'M VERY SORRY.
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| | Tuesday, December 12, 2000 - 05:58 am somali people that claim to be muslim are going too far!!! it is bad enough having people that drink, smoke, date etc, but to go on to homosexulity is too much. what we need to learn is when to say yes and no. like dhuxullay said,lol, you should have beat her up as soon as she touched you. how sad.
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| | Tuesday, December 12, 2000 - 06:24 am Thanks you for all of you dhuxula, mahamed, hanam, man, understandingsister for being so understanding and your encouraging words and advice which I greatly appreciate. I am really sorry of what I did and thanks to you I am now feeling much better although this memory would stay with me forever. thank you for your advice once more hebla
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| | Tuesday, December 12, 2000 - 07:52 am HEBLA I FIND IT SO HARD BELIEVE YOU !! BUT I AM NOT GONNA JUDGE OR ANYTHING AM GONNA KEEP MY OPINIONS TO MYSELF. CAN I ASK FEW QUESTIONS ? WERE YOU UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF ALCAHOL? """"""""""""""""""""""""""""""" DRUGS? DID YOU ENJOY IT AT THE TIME? DID YOU TRY TELLING HER TO STOP? WAS IT A TURN ON? WHO IS THE BETTER KISSER MEN/WOMEN? HOW DID YOU RATE HER BED SIDE MANNER? SINCE THE TWO OF YOU WERE IN THE SAME UNI- DID YOU SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN?
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| | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 07:41 am TO MERCUTIO 1. NO THEY WAS NO ALCAHOL 2. YES I LOVE IT. IT WAS NICE SHE'S A GOOD KISSER 3. NO IT WAS NICE. 4. I NEVER TRY IT. IT WAS OK I WASN'T REALLY TURN ON BUT IF I WASN'T WITH MY B-FRIEND I WILL GET INTO IT. 5. IF EVERY WOMAN CAN KISS LIKE HER WOMAN ARE BETTER. 6. SIDE MANNERS 7. NO WE DIDN'T.
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| | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 07:55 am who ever posted last massage as hebla used my name so that is not me. To Mercutio I guest before I answer your question I have to ask you what are getting at? do you get turn ONN if I told you the hole stroy. because I ask advice here not to mention what has happen that night but if you are so into it like most men are then I would ask you to write me a private e mail and i will tell you the hole story. K_CUTEI@.HOTMAIL.COM tO REST OF YOU THANKS FOR WORDS OF ADVICE
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| | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 08:19 am Waxaa layiri Calaamadaha Aakhiro samanka lagu garto war markii xumaantii fiicnaan noqoto samaantii xumaan. What amaze me the most is u wait to tell the holliest month. My God fovgive us all. What shame
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| | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 09:30 am NAA ANAA SAA KUGU JECELE MAAD II IMAN OOD SAAXIIBADAY ILA WADAAGI WAABA RAAXADII ADUUNKEE EMAIL ME IF YOU WANT THAT XODXOD@HOTMAIL.COM
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| | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 12:30 pm I was disgusted when i read the story, but did u have to tell us?? u know it was a mistake then why telling people about it? no one is 100% innocent is this world, we all do mistakes and if we know it's a mistake we should learn from it, but if we are not sure then we ask people. Don't you know allah did not tell anyone about your story, I'm wondering why are you telling people? HARAAAAAAAAAM, HARAAM, HARAAM
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| | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 03:37 am YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BY MOVING OUT BUT I CAN'T EVEN IMAGINE ONE OF MY SOMALI SISTERS BIENG GAY, AND ESPECAILLY BIENG ATTRACTED TO ONE OF OUR ENEMIES, THE ETHIOPIANS, I WOULD RATHER HAVE YOU DEID LIKE ROMEO AND JULLIET THEN BE GAY AND BE PROUD ABOUT IT....OHH!! I'M ABOUT TO THROW UP ..PEACE...
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