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I AM CONFUSED BY MY SOMALI SISTERS.

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Before Feb. 16, 2001): I AM CONFUSED BY MY SOMALI SISTERS.
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ZICO24

Sunday, December 17, 2000 - 06:48 am
I always wanted a women who will come and ask me for sex why do we always ask u for sex and beg sometimes?OR DO U GIRLS GET KICK OUT OF THAT?

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girl with respect

Sunday, December 17, 2000 - 07:16 am
zico24, i came into this page thinking that there will be an interesting ? posted from the bro- but unfortunatly i was wrong. you should not be asking for sex in the forst place so i don't have an answer for you.

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sahra

Sunday, December 17, 2000 - 12:32 pm
To Zico24

Hi Zico, i would like to now what can of sex would u like talk about. Are u exp difficult for you love live.


SAhra

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pink

Sunday, December 17, 2000 - 02:24 pm
TO ZIPCO24

are you crazy bro? you think we as women will asked a man for sex? oh god i dont think so!!
i believe sex should be between marry man and women. what are you talking about? are you talking about sex for a girlfriend or what?

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HANA

Sunday, December 17, 2000 - 03:41 pm
BOY IF IT'S ALL RIGHT LETS GO SOMEWHERE AND GET IT ON TONIGHT.

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sahra

Sunday, December 17, 2000 - 03:50 pm
Where on earth do u live zico24? that is the sillist q i ever heard. your talking about asking sex some stupid guy but i wouldn't even ask sex my own husband if i desperately wanted it.

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yare

Sunday, December 17, 2000 - 05:17 pm
hana@lol

You are a wild

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Anonymous

Sunday, December 17, 2000 - 06:43 pm
Oh GhettoGirl poor Ghetto, your addiction is 100 times worse than I thought & I am not talking about sex.

You know who wrote this.

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Ikram

Monday, December 18, 2000 - 03:32 am
You are a sick if u think women will ask u for sex mind u there are some who will give to you and give all women a bad name. Anyway I suggest you go and see a Doctor because you need a phycological help.


In the mean time get a life.

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Rahma

Monday, December 18, 2000 - 07:30 am
Sahra is it wrong if you ask your husband for sex?
Is he going to think your a hoe if you do that
I am interested to know how some peoples mind works.

Zipco24 I don't have anything to say to you except get a life!

bye.

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yaahoo

Monday, December 18, 2000 - 09:19 am
be ashamed of your self sico
what do you think you are talking about:O?

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Ahmed

Monday, December 18, 2000 - 10:31 am
Bro i have quetion for u are u single??? if yes plese get urself check up before u get marry!!!!!!!!!and stop talking about what God harama util u get marry!!!!!! bye.........

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Ahmed

Monday, December 18, 2000 - 10:31 am
Bro i have quetion for u are u single??? if yes plese get urself check up before u get marry!!!!!!!!!and stop talking about what God harama util u get marry!!!!!! bye.........

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sahra

Monday, December 18, 2000 - 11:35 am
to rahma: sis i dont know if it is wrong or not to ask your husband that but i personally wouldnt ask cuz i think it is gross.

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SIS

Monday, December 18, 2000 - 02:11 pm
I thing sex is not something u ask, it just cams.
Beside u can't have sex while u are not married, and when u are married u don't go to ur husband/wife to tell you wanna have sex.

Zaco24 all i want to say is get a life. and u should be ashamed of ur self thinking to have sex when u are not married(A CUU DO BILAHI MI NA SHAY DAANI RIJIIM).

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sahra

Monday, December 18, 2000 - 05:18 pm
ok sis: and who said u can have sex with someone your not married? well we really dont know if jamac was talking about his wife. was is your wife who dont ask u sex jamac? if is not you're in big trouble to desire to have sex with someone who isn't your wife...

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ZICO24

Tuesday, December 19, 2000 - 10:56 am
I DO APPRECIATE YOUR RESPONCE TO MY QUESTION ,BUT I THINK U DONT GETHE QUESTION.
IT IS OK TO ASK YOUR HUSBEND FOR SEX IT COMES NATURALY BUT THE SOMALIAN GIRLS I DATED ALLO WANTS SEX FOR THE FIRST DATE AND I AM NOT COMPLAINING BUT WHY ARE THE SOMALIAN GIRLS GETTING SO FREAKY NOWADAYS?
ARE WE MOVING WITH THE TIME?
THANXZ AGAIN FOR U R RESPONSE

HANA U R CREAZY GIRL IT IS RAMADAAN OK .

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najiib

Tuesday, December 19, 2000 - 11:50 am
?what i dont understand is why somali sister
don ask what they want when they want?
se some times i gat confuse.
they want but they dont wanna say what they
want

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Aisha

Tuesday, December 19, 2000 - 08:36 pm
waz up bounch of crazy somali people?Am a girl that has been married before,let me tell you this ,you dont ask ur husband for sex it comes naturally,or i would say he would be asking you.If i wanna have sex with my husband i don't say ,honey can we have sex,Such a turn off!!I'd rather start warming him up my self lolsorry if am going to details.But what am saying is:CAN I HAVE SEX WITH YOU?is a Turnoff 4reals,let it come naturally!And to that crasyass sistah,pls urnuttin but a talulah ..lool.peace out sisters&brothers RAMADAN KARIIM!

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MN man

Tuesday, December 19, 2000 - 10:08 pm
Give warm applause to Aisha those are tha somali woman i am attractive too, not tha new once and especially not tha nigger babies.

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SurReal

Tuesday, December 19, 2000 - 11:00 pm
That wasn't a question, you made an observation. I believe you're wrong in every aspect of course, first and foremost, I think you are going after the wrong girls, or better yet you are a magnet for the wrong type of girls. So stop complaining obviously there is something about you that is forewarning these girls to behave shamelessly. We both know that decent girls/women would not even carry this conversation with you. I am disgusted with the way people are throwing the word sex around.
For Aisha, all I can say is perhaps that is why your marriage was history. From what I read, you have no integrity, save your philosophies on enticing your ex to yourself. Some of us aren't interested in it, the operative word for men should be that she used to be married.

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shu shu

Wednesday, December 20, 2000 - 11:26 am
What kinda of question is this? brother, did u forget that we are Somalis and Muslims? Did u forget that we have a have a religion and a culture that aviods us from doing that ? Get a life bro, and have a great a day,

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Anonymous

Wednesday, December 20, 2000 - 02:18 pm
QanCiso,
As aisha said, there is nothing wrong asking your husbend to have sex, it all depends how you do it, a lot of somalian girls have that problem, they hide their true feelings from their partner, becouse thay are not comfortable/affraid to make a move, so the duty of the somalian guys is "to make them feel comfortale, and to show them there is nothing to be ashmed of,sinds this is a natural feelings that allah give to us, by the way they should be enjoy it instead of hindeing.
I think, one of the main reason that is couseing alot of devorse in the somalian community is a sexual problems between husbend and wife.
When you are not sexualy satisfaid, you will get sexual frostreded with a lot of comblecations.

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soul 4 real

Thursday, December 21, 2000 - 08:21 pm
Damn this brother is in need of a women despertly, Let me tell you this man you r not gonna get any if you come off the way you did damn at least buy the girl a happy meal first.

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soul 4 real

Thursday, December 21, 2000 - 08:27 pm
You all crazy if you think am going to ask my wife 4 some sex damn that thing belongs to me
i better get it when i want it, and same goes 4 her too.


am being honest.

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Mercutio-

Friday, December 22, 2000 - 12:03 pm
SAHRA !

I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU THINK ASKING YOUR HUSBAND FOR A BIT OF INTAMCY IS GROSS!!

LOL

DO YOU EVEN HAVE TO ASK- JUST PUT ON YOUR BEST GOOGARAD AND RELAX ON THE SALLI.

LOL

IF HE DON'T COME CHARGING IN LIKE MATADOR BULL THAN THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH THAT PICTURE MY DEAR.

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Rahma

Friday, December 22, 2000 - 02:01 pm
Metcutio LOL, that was funny and it's true just look sexy and hope he notice you!

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faarax

Friday, December 22, 2000 - 09:24 pm
Mercutio loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool put on your best googarad lol the red one huh or was it the blue?
red or blue?
blue or red?

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Sagittarius

Monday, January 08, 2001 - 04:10 pm
Mercutio,

Deadly funny,

Yeah tell the sister how to behave.

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chocolat

Monday, January 08, 2001 - 04:45 pm
good question Zico......but I dont think u will get an honest answer, coz we somalis are HYPOCRITES, and as such will not discuss what we would otherwise like to do...for example Sahra, she is married( or so she says) and expects us to believe that she doesnot ask for sex, when in fact she wears dirac with no bra infront of her old hubby and tries to get his attention. Sex is good and if u find that there is someone u like to have sex with why the heck not?? personally if I meet " Malcolm in the young and restless" u can bet your last dollar for the shabta that I will be asking him and getting hot,& heavy, sweaty.....dont even get me started.

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pick

Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 01:22 am
my name is fadumo sheffield i came from holland not long a go and i like this 2boyz called mohamud and he teaches a school called springfield and aboy called saeed and i go out with borac but i likehis friends
and

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Anonymous

Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 07:31 am
yeah yeah tell us your freakin life story

mercutio nice one bro


later

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Aisha

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 10:04 am
Dear brothers&sisters!
When i decided to respond to this confused brother.I meant well and only well!
So to my brother surreal" its ok ,i know whats bothering you.!ur one of the type that i would neva discuss with!Why my marriage is a history?thats really non of your bussines. So don't come here and play smart ok..!peace&luve to ya'll

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JOE

Sunday, January 14, 2001 - 11:49 am
Hey respectttttttttt, the brother ask one question guys so you should answer it or shut up.

My dear brother confused, I wanna tell you that there are somali girls who like to approach a guys, and ask them to have a sex with them. I did had such girls walaahay to ask me to have sex, and sometimes I said no, and they get mad at me. what I am trying to say is that, there are sisters out there who wanna have good time. May be you have't met those wild once.

peace brother

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ZICO24 $$$$$

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 07:32 am
Thanxz guys 4 taking the time to help this ''confused bro''.
I think overall the response i got from yall is the one i expected.
I do hope though our women will wake up and become bit more wiser than they r now.
I do appreciate your comments.

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Qaxar

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 07:46 am
sxb somalian girls r waist of space ok.
You need a women who will give u what u need anytime and anywere ^^^^^^ u freaky somalian bro .......

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Anonymous

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 07:11 am
To: Zico24

ur question is very simple to me cause I know why guys always ask girls for sex.The reason is that guys have more hormones than girls which drive them carys,that is why,,,,,,,,

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CARAMEL

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 07:29 am
ZICOOO MY MAN :) WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN IN ALL MY LIFE :). YOU KNOW WHAT??? FOR ME IF I WANT TO GET IT I'LL ASK FOR IT?? AND PLLLEEEASEEE, DON'T GIVE ME REPLY THAT I'M A HOE, BITCH ETC. ALL I KNOW IS I'M COMFORTABLE WITH MYSELF, WITH MYSEXUALITY, AND LOOOOOVVEEEEEE MEN, AND OBVIOUSLY I'M NOT CIRCUMSTAICE (MAYBE THAT'S THE REASON HA HA HA:)). THANK GOOD FOR THAT. IN ANYCASE, ZICO, YOU'RE RIGHT, WE SOMALIAN HAVE NEVER BEEN TAUGHT, OR WERE TALKED ABOUT SEX, OOOOHHHH IS BAAAADDD THINK :). I'M NOT SAYING GO AROUND AND •••• EVERYONE YOU SEE (THE WORLD IS NOT A CLEAN PLACE PEOPLE :)LOL). BUT IF YOU WANT TO MAKE LOVE ( I SAID MAKE LOVE NOT •••• :)) WITH YOUR LOVE ONE, OR HUSBAND, THEN ASK FOR IT. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT OK. AND TO THE GIRL THAT SAID SHE IS ASHAMED FOR ASKING HER HUSBAND FOR SEX. WOOOOOOWWWWWW GIIIRRLLL, YOU ARE EITHER HAAAVVEE NOOO FEELING WHAT'S SO EVER, OR A LESBIEN (AGAIN THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT IF THAT'S WHAT YOU WANT TO BE, PERSONALLY?? YUK HATE THEM). I'M

SORRY BUT I'M TOOO HORNY TO WAIT FOR MARRIAGE. 'GIVE IT TO ME' :O

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sweet-girl

Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 02:37 am
WELL WELL HOW R U ALL DOING, SEX IS SOMETHING BEAUTIFULL IN OUR LIFE AND THAT,S WHY ALLAH CREATED ADAM AND EVA, and in my opinion i think it,s ok to ask ya husband for sex, and we will never think that u r kind of a hore hell no why should he think that, i dont think so, and when making love or whatever it just come by nuture , just let it flow and relax enjoy kiss, andmake whatever u wanna do, but let it be in ya bedroom , i think it,s nice to have sex ooh yeah,

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