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I HAVE 1 QUESTION... CAN PEOPLE WHO MET EACH OTEHR OVER THE NET... REALLY TRUST EACH .. & THUS B EQUALLY COMPATIBLE AS ANY OTHER COUPLES????????

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Before Feb. 16, 2001): I HAVE 1 QUESTION... CAN PEOPLE WHO MET EACH OTEHR OVER THE NET... REALLY TRUST EACH .. & THUS B EQUALLY COMPATIBLE AS ANY OTHER COUPLES????????
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questionman

Saturday, December 30, 2000 - 05:40 pm
HI,
u know ever since i first started serving the net... i had 1 question or be it a querie bothering.. which is: can people who each over the net realy eva trust each other????

i mean i know there r a lot of dangers and dark truth to it.. in some cases.

but i personally lately come to a conclution.. that IT'S INFACT POSSIBLE ( & WHY NOT) I MEAN IF 2 PEOPEL REALLY GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER BEFORE TEHY GO ANY FURTHER...THEN WHAT MAKES ANY DANGERER THEN GOING A DATE 4 THE FIRST TIME WITH A PERSON U DONT KNOW THAT WELL...

that is my opinon anywayz___________ and i would love to hear other peopels views on this matter.

write to u soon
piece out

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Sugar-Honey

Sunday, December 31, 2000 - 07:19 am
meeting people over the net is a foolish thing to do. One can say anything and the other tell the truth and the only one who in the end is gonna end up hurt is the one who told the truth from the bigenning. Some lie when they surf the net and some tell the truth, they are honest, but I really don't think it's a good idea ,to go out on a date whith somone you meet over the net.........................................

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HonestGirl

Sunday, December 31, 2000 - 08:29 am
Question man..............i heard a lot of its dangerous to meet pple from the net......but hey we r SOMALIIS............we r not like american psychos u know...........do u think a 30 year old somali man will rape a 15 year old girl.......do u think he would stalk her and sneak into her home or what eva other psychos do...........i dont think so...........i'm sure they've got something more productive to do with thier time............
Brotha pple always get to know each others..........did ur mom and dad know each others b4 they got married........no.......they got to know each others.....they liked each others then they got married..........it doesnt matter where they met....all that matter is if they like each others and if they just CLICK.........right!!!!

this guy i knew online married this girl i knew online and they now live in the same city i live at!!! they r very happy alxamdulilaah............
so everything is nasiib and calaf............dont hesitate to meet anybody if u think u might click with them u know

adios......i said too much i know.....lol

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Hebel

Sunday, December 31, 2000 - 10:49 am
Yeah QuestionDude.
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When things go down to what's your Social Security number? Or your Credit Card number? Or what's your Mother's median Name? Is when U should get suspicious...
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Other than that, Yar just being in a freaky state of mind.
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Take a deep breath and relax, The Chic just wants to know better.

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questionman

Monday, January 01, 2001 - 08:59 am
hi,
i thank u all 4 replaying back..
u know i completlty agree with the sister that suggested ... the fact that our culture and morals as SOMALIS supported and build by ISLAM the true faith, our religion is vastly and completly different to that of an ANIMALISTIC, BARBARIC, FAITH LESS, SHALLOW MORALS AND ETHICS less WESTERNS whether they are americans, British or any other similar nationals.

still, though there is 1 think that we have to remeber WHICH is: there is always 1 or 2 bad apples in every farm......... and since many of our peopels live in the west i wouldn't be surprised if i heared A Somali person behaving in such similar fashion to that of an westerner SO WE ALWASY GET TO BE CAREFULL WITH WHO WE REALLY TRUST TO BE RIGHT OR GOOD 4 US.............THIS GOES 4 BOTH LADIES AND GENTS.

ps.... i also know some people who had found their soul mates over the net........and others who became a very good freinds.....so its possible.

that is all 4me.....4 now
piece out my people.

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Anonymous

Monday, January 01, 2001 - 11:41 am
Honest girl wake up and smell the coffee sister, Men are men, wether Somali or so-called-American Psycho. There has been and there are still many Somali men who rabe young girls and older ones.
To answer ur Question, Questionman, ppl know what they are getting themselfes into when serving the net.
If 2 ppl find eachother's company more enjoyable then some, then i don't see any reason why they shouldn't trust eachother, and also depending on how much one is willing to put trust on someone over the net.
I hope this helps u a little on ur Question.

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Anonymous

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 05:32 am
YOOOOOOOO,
nigga this is a 1 good question.
welldone my nigga.

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dr.romance

Sunday, January 07, 2001 - 06:53 am
Questionman!

We seek the comfort of another. Someone to share and share the life we choose. Someone to help us through the neverending attempt to understand ourselves. And in the end, someone to comfort us along the way.The perfect love affair is one which is conducted entirely by post.oopps'sorry the internet coz u need to chat and try ur best be honest with each other and things will be ok,in this generation we are we need to use anything including the net to know each other as you see we live in a busy life.

Yours dr.romance
Thanx!

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dr.romance

Sunday, January 07, 2001 - 06:54 am
Questionman!

We seek the comfort of another. Someone to share and share the life we choose. Someone to help us through the never ending attempt to understand ourselves. And in the end, someone to comfort us along the way.The perfect love affair is one which is conducted entirely by post.oopps'sorry the internet coz u need to chat and try ur best be honest with each other and things will be ok,in this generation we are need to use anything including the net to know each other as you see we live in a busy life.

Yours dr.romance
Thanx!

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Leyli

Sunday, January 07, 2001 - 09:40 am
Dear Writers,

Do you know that there are more and more couples
who're meeting on the net than in any where else these days - generally. In this information era, in which internet is on the lead, there will hardly be any other method that can parallel the internet in terms of peoples interaction.

Therefore, Somalis are not exceptional, in fact I suspect the Somali culture will appreciate the internet communication more than other cultures. For the fact that, Somalis are spread all around the world and the selection of compatible soulmate among buckets of Somalis will get tougher with time. Thus, one solution for diversity will be people ending up travelling as it used to be ages ago "Heermid."

However, as Somalis can't most of them afford travelling; internet will be more probable and conveniant solution for many of them.

I think there is also no argument that we doing alright here. Despite all the difficulties associated with the net commincation traditionally, genuine people with patience will save time & money after being successful. And personally I know that some already did.

So, folks take my word - it works. It just takes pit of brain and creativity. Where my tip is don't lie and don't expect to be lied to!! Tawakal Calalaah:).

Bye and good luck,
Leyli

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PENTIUM

Sunday, January 07, 2001 - 10:41 am
yooooooooo,
jus like the internet has revolutionist every other aspect in life IT IS AND WILL REVOLUTIONISE THE LOVE LIFE.

i dont know why people have bad feelings about mating throug the net.........in most of the casses.

truth and honesty r the key to any relationship and i most definatly believe that its the same over here aswell.

so peeeeeeepz its FINE i believe to meet ur soul mate or dream partner over the net...

still though its better to b safe than sorry, so B CAREFULL WITH WHO U REALLY TRUST, AND JUS FOLLOW UR INSTINCT.

CIO,

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SHEIKH_999

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 02:54 am
HI,
WELL IF PEOPLE USE TO MARRY, PEOPLE THAT THEY HAVE NEVER SEEN BEFORE, NEVER HAD A DECENT CONVERSATION WITH THEM B 4, NEVER REALLY INGAGED WITH THEM IN A CONVERSATION THAT THEY REALLY EXPRESSED THIER FEELINGS IN AN HONEST AND FRANK WAY....
BUT WHAT THEY EVER SAW WAS THEIR PICTURE.
((((((((((((((((THAT IS ALL IN THE PAST)))))))))))

THEN WHO SAYS U CANT ACTUALLY MEET AND B WITH SOME 1 THAT U CHATTED WITH FOR TIMES AND TIMES GET TO KNOWN THEM REAL WELL, AND MAY B EVEN SEEN THEIR PICTURE!

DO U HAVE TO MEET SOME 1 ON THE SHOPPING MALL, OR AT LAUNDRY? CAN U REALLY TRUST THEM? DOES REALLY WORK, ALWAYS?

THE ANSWER IS OBVIOUSLY NOOOOOOO

INFACT, OVER HERE ON THE NET U CAN CHAT TO A GREAT SELECTION OF PEOPLE AND U HAVE GREATER CHOICE AND OPTIONS THEN EVER EXISTED IN THE HUMAN HISTORY!

THEN THERE BOUND TO B SOME 1 THAT U'LL INSTENTLY JUST )CLICK(. AND BOOOOOOOM THAT IS IT. U R THERE!

SO, OFCOURSE IN MY OPINION THE NET IS REALLY BECOMIN' AND WILL BECOME EVEN MORE IN THE FUTURE THE ULTIMATE PLACE TO MEET PARTNETRS AND SOULMATES.

BELIEVE THAT!

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Anonymous

Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 12:22 am
hi
what i want to say that it does depend on who u are!
SUGAR-HONEY are you trying to tell me that when you meet pple life, they don't tell lies. God knows if they give you the right name!!
So the chat is nothing different from the real world, there r people that lie and could be dangerous but there are also honest people that just want to have fun.And if these kind of people "click" and want to know eachother better than well let them cuz god knows what might BLOSSOM from it!!
LUV MOI

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