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CONFUSEDgirl

Friday, January 05, 2001 - 04:37 pm
I know it seems like a weird question, but i seriously dont know if i'm virgin or not.

I have a boyfriend, and when we meet we do all kinds of sexual stuff. It gets so hot sometimes I dont know what i'm exactly doing, but I know for sure I never had intercourse.

The reason why I never let him enter me is because of my moral beliefs and the religion too. I am too scared of the punishment of Allah oneday, but how come i'm doing the other stuff now? I am also very scared of getting pregnant oneday in an unlawful way.

My boyfriend once told me he will never merry a non-virgin girl, but then he tries to have sex with me. I feel like he only wants sex from me, and I try to let him go, but when I see him and we kiss, I forget everything and all I want to do is get satisfied!

Please dont disrespect me, I am a human being and I have feelings. I am just feeling very guilty and desperate to have sex. But HOW!!!

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abdul

Friday, January 05, 2001 - 06:41 pm
well sis, leave ur boyfriend if u believe allah.

abdul

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Idea

Friday, January 05, 2001 - 06:44 pm
You think that that is a tough question to ask!
Well, I have easy answer for you: Get Married.

But sis, let me correct you on something...you don't have a crisis in your moral system...rather in ur ethics (hope you do understand me).

Finally, If i were you...i would have replaced your BF with god fearing muslim brother <smile>

May Allah guide sis

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Anonymous

Friday, January 05, 2001 - 07:03 pm
Dear Confusedgirl,

I envy your boyfriend so much. I wish I was in his place. Your story reminds me about my ex girlfriend. She too was a vergin and almost every weekend we used to do it. We would start kissing each other, next we would be naked and doing the nasty thing. Everything would get so rough that we would come again and again. To this day, I don't know whether I penetrated her or not. I know it's hard to believe that, but must undersyand that she was a vergin. Perhaps the tip of my dick-head penetrated her, but not all the way. Otherwise, i would have been more certain about the whole thing.

Eventually, my girlfriend decided to broke up with me 'cause she couldn't keep up with me. I wish she stayed in the relationship. I miss so much the nasty stuff that we used to do it.

P.S.; should you decide to broke up with your boyfriend, give me the chance to prove to you what I felt. In fact, just reading what you wrote made me feel horny all over again.

Bye Sweetie and keep in touch!!!

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Zaahid

Friday, January 05, 2001 - 09:07 pm
Subxaanalaah, I never thought a person with FITRAH would ever write such thing....what's wrong with you anonymous.

ConfusedGirl.......you are involved in MACSI.......disobedient.

Shahwah or having a desire to committ a haram sexual acts is one of the sickness that our beloved prophet told us. There are three sickness for the heart, SHUBUHA, SHAHWA, and QAFLAH. You are just facing one of them and need a treatment but let me mention something here. You're being tested by Allah if your IIMAAN is true or not! You need to repent to Allah and you should first learn the process of repenting. There are few steps that need to be done in order to get the acceptance of Allah. First of all, stop committing that sin and get your hands off that sin in which you were involved. Secondly, Make CAZIMA not to return, reach a strickt decision not to return that damb. and Lastly, you must regret it so that whenever it comes to your mind you'll make ISTIQFAAR and repent to Alah. Those are the three basic things you have to do for repenting to Allah.

THINGS WILL HELP KEEP YOUR REPENT

Lower down your eye sights as it was ordered by Alalh to both Muslim males and females.

Get married if you can or make SOWM either Mondays and Thursdays or three days a Month (Ayaamul Bayd)

Read the Quran, daily as it's a good treatment for the believers or make friends with those who will help you remember Allah and pratice your religion daily.

Cut off any relationship with anything/anybody that might lead you back to that sin.

THINGS YOU SHOUL AVOID DOING

Avoid being with that person or whoever is pushing you to such thing.

Avoid staying alone and DO NOT make friends with the evil do-ers as one will regret the day of the Jugdement for having such friendship.

Avoid reading such article that reminds or traps you back to the ignorance.

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~Kusseey~

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 07:49 am
Zaahid

well done..you're most certainly right

ConfusedGirl

listen..you are who ur friends are....in life you always have a choice...so its up to you ..you either put ur Fait in Allah or keep messing it up with ur Boyfriend..who will lead you nothing but sins n heartache

everybody makes mistakes here and there..some of us are fortune enough to notice it before time catches us..you still have plenty of time to undo ur damages..but you'll have to make a sacrifices..you need to leave him...and stay with the lord above you

The choice is ur..it has to be black or White..no gray areas

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Aidid

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 08:28 am
Hi bros & sis,

People say Somalis ain't anything, they seem not to care their country, people, unity, freedom and even about themselves individually.

Well there is something true about this because most of the things mensioned above draw interests when you're really into common good - and most Somalis aren't that. Majority of us are magnetically attracted to trivial things such us this one. STOP, don't shake your head, about 24 hours there are 5 pages of writing from 5 different responders all very eager to spend energy and stuff for a bitch, who left her religion in daylight, by the name of help. I'm sure she doen't need any help from any of us; may be he didn't turn up "the boyfriend" tonight so she wants to have forums-sex with us instead.

I just want say let us be realistic and try not to succumb to trivials and loosers, let us expend our precious energy on good cause and more communal ways. People are dying....dying...dying every day in every corner in Somalia beacuse of other Somalis and their causes.

Peace, struggle and unity,
Aidid

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ali

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 10:15 am
well, girl don,Lt talk about nasty things that you did, this is a page every body reading and it,S not good for you to discuss the people what you mentioned,
Ali

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sulkha

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 11:15 am
Hi sis,
sis, don't let thIS BOY take advantage of you, because it seems like he wants to do so. What i don't understand is that, if he wants to marry a virign then y is he trying to take your viriginty away from you? Think about it for a momment, and see it yourself how greedy and selfish he sounds. I would say break up with him, he is looser sis. Find yourself MAN not a BOY and marry him. Make yourself busy till u find the perfect MAN, by reading, doing some kind of actives, hang with your friends, and try shopping (not MEN, but colthes and etc...). This will make your thoughts disappear.

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Anonymous

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 12:20 pm
bismillahirraxmaaniraxiim,
and after,
tha's great shame for you ,i and all the somalins

where ever they are in this world ,
let me tell what i can tell you.
1: don'nt do such an act again never & ever in you'r live.
2: if you do so i will pray allah to forgive you.subxaanallah,get maried instaed of doing dirty acts like that.... may allah forgive my sister ... that's all what i can do
wassalaamucalaykum

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Jilicow

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 03:51 pm
Bisink,

Sis, if you are a true Muslim (as you claim that you are), there SHOULDN'T be a boyfriend (one that fools around)in your life. So, if you want to do the right thing either get married or stay at your home-instead of doing the "humpt hump"

Jilicow

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neighbourly.

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 04:24 pm
Aidid.

Her intentions lie with her not with the people who responded to her. The same way you gave your thoughts to the responders the same way they did respond to the confused indeed.

CONFUSED.

If you are mature enough to handle the sex, I advice to you to get married with the consent of your parents. Tell them WHAT YOU JUST TOLD HERE. They will be happy and delighted to help you out satisfy your desires. The flip side of that marriage will be though, it won't be productive, people don't get married only for the sexual desires, a lot more are considered. But as you desparately stated, you need do the act by the right way and through the legitimate channels. Tell your dad how you feel. After the initial shock, he will be inclined to help you out because if he doesn't, he will regerett endlessly. If you do adultery, you will ever bear the scars of low selfsteem. I am positive the boy won't be with you and will be on the prawl looking for other victims just like you who don't realize sexual desires for the short term will cause long term negative effects on you. I have no bags of tricks otherwise to tell you to achieve your sexual desires in a manner different than what I said. The boy you meet, ASK HIM IF HE WOULD LIKE HIS SISTER BE SLEPT WITH, OR HIS MOTHER, OR HIS AUNT, See what he says about that. You are one sad somali story.

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Sagittarius

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 04:45 pm
Dear Sis,

Your situation is a true dilema, you want to have sex and you have moral implications! I think the real problem here is being a virgin more than anything else and not knowing about sexual pleasures, and even worse your boyfriend doesn't know how to ease you up and prepare you gently without making you feel any remorse or have second thoughts.

Being a virgin is indeed a tough situation, but once you make the decision to have sex, choose your mate carefully. Since he is the one who can make the aftermath a regret or a blissful happiness.

Finally, dump right away your hypocrite BF, since he wants to have sex and wants to marry a virgin!

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Anonymous

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 04:48 pm
Guys,

I appreciate everybody's view and advice. It seems the only way to cure this horney feeling situation is to get married. I've a plan to solve it. Let Confusedgirl and I tie the knot once and for all. That way, our horney feelings will balance out and no more shameful sins.

Confusedgirl, I think I'm your medicine and so are you. Let's call it quits and move to an isolated island where no-one disturbs while we sweat profusely. Just a thought. What do you say?

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neighbourly.

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 06:36 pm
Saggiturius.

Are you a player?. I was thrown off guard by the easing up deal. There is no easing up involved in sexual engagements. He shouldn't have sex with the sister period. If she is after sex and don't want to feel the guilt afterwards, then her solution lies in marriage.

You said " but once you make the decision to have sex, choose your mate carefully". What kind of advice is that?. How many mates did you dump after you didn't like the way they handled the bussiness?. What a disaster!. No wonder a lot of somalis suffer from AIDS. You are a victim of your desire. Immagine your sister being given such an advice?. You shouldn't advice the young sister to nothing less than dignified sex. Where both parts are held responsible for whatever happens after the intercourse. May Allah guide you.

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Mohamed

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 07:43 pm
ConfusedGirl

Soomaali waxey tiraahdaa "QAADE IYO QARIYE WAA ISKU MID" ama "OOD QAADID IYO GURI GEYN LABADUBA WAA ISUGU MID" Hadii markii hore aad baneysatay inaan boyfriend yeelato maxaa hada ka mancinaya inaad jaqafkaada ciid ku beegto! Hadaad dhimaneysidna cayga waa la iska duwaa, markii hore ayaaba xalaal iyo xaraam aadan kala soocan marka hadaad leedahay waan dambaabay. Walaaleey iska daa suuraha umadoo dhanna waa isku mid ee proteinka badan iyo yeelasha wadeey hoose iska daa aysan aheyn haweeneey muslim ah noqo diinta qeybna ha u arkin wax fiican qeybna ha u arkin ceeb iyo mustaqbal xumo. Taloow haduusan ku oran laheyn virgin cidaan aheyn ma aroosayo, waad is qadimi laheyd miyaa? War sinada ha uga baqin inaad gabarnimadaada dhumisid ee u garo inay diin tahay iyo amar ka yimid xag rabbi.

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Hana

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 08:34 pm
if u are really scared of Allah u shouldn't have sex at all. Even the other staff u do. But since we are human being we all make mistake right.So the only advice i can give u is pleeeas sis don't have sex with any men, even the right guy coz if u have sex first of all, Allah will banish u and even ur BF won't have respect for u.Also he wont marry u,so tell this guy to get lost, find ur self nice BF and make sure u don't do nasty staff. GOOD LUCK

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Hamse

Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 09:38 pm
GOOD STUFF HANAH!!

Are you married sister?

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Anonymous

Sunday, January 07, 2001 - 04:40 pm
Hi girl,

You can test a lot of wayz

blowjobs on your boyfriends
he can lick your pussy
you can be assfucked

No prob sis, you must have fun and still be virgin

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Anonymous

Sunday, January 07, 2001 - 06:29 pm
CONFUSEDgirl, You said and I quote " The reason why I never let him enter me is because of my moral beliefs and the religion too". That was hilarious, your nick name said it all.

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Amazed

Monday, January 08, 2001 - 05:41 am
anad she kisses him..isn't that xaraam..lol confused hoe ..ho..ho..ho

later wahta waste

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Sagittarius

Monday, January 08, 2001 - 03:40 pm
neighbourly,

What gives you the impression that I'm a player! Just a grown up and not a virgin..lol

To my astonishment, you are adamant that there's no easing up in first time sexual intercourse with a virgin. I wonder if you'd advice us to do it like other primates!

I find the sister analogy quite silly too. Naturalich, I would have given her the same advice, only that she wouldn't come to me for advice..our traditions et al being this rigid.

About the Aids thing, I didn't know many Somalis were infected. Do you work for "WHO"? lol

Marriage is a good solution, but gosh don't make it such a handy tool to grasp when some hormones try to ooze out a little bit. The idea of getting married because of satisfying an impulse sounds to me a lot worse.

Let's get the thing out, out in the open.

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hannah121

Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 12:57 am
DEAR CONFERUSEDGIRL
I THINK U R SICK IN WRITING UR STUIPID DIRTY THINGS ON THE NET WE ALL HAVE B/F'S U DON'T SEE US WRITTIN OUR STUFF ON THE NET HAVE RESPECT FOR YOUR SELF

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sahruja

Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 02:15 am
Hi sis i think that you BF should recpect you becouse if hi say hi will not marry a girl ho is not virgin and what the do ho wont you fore do hi won't to dosray you future in life.., anyway if i was you i will think very careful sis becouse if hi really won't to have sex ask him if hi would marry you then have sex.... please write what hi tell you ok...

love.. sahruja

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Anonymous

Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 04:25 am
hmmmm confused girls sounds like a man writing his fantasies.
I guess watching too many porno can cause one to write such thing
but anyhow if confused girl is a girl as she says i have one answer for you pray and repent and try to get married not to him your bf but to a god fearing man.
MAY ALLAH FORGIVE ALL OUR SINS
S

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confuse-nigger

Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 05:30 am
hi confuse girl
its ironic i got the same problem i been sleeping with so many somaligirlz and i have read your article and all the respond u got. and they never seem to understand u at all. some of them like bro abdul are simply saying leave ur boyfriend. what he doing is actually plyer-haying.its not as easy as that ppl.and hana121 u make me sick, she think she owners the net or something.hana121 u r narrowley minded. the net is where free-thinkers come and express thier deeper feelings.u cannot discuss this kind of information with ur friends or reletives.so confusegirl,dont listen to121.and look at sulkha she is already blaming the boyfriend.typicalll haliimo.jilico.v.good advice.confusegirl don't think I've agreed with u 100%.u can actually stop like am planing to do.anyway try please.a'll give u a joke yeah, don't take it seriouse.theirs no virgin like a reform tart.am just having a laugh nothing personal.bless u all.

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Anonymous

Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 10:05 am
You know I saw another post similar to this written by a young Somali guy. You guys were a lot more sympathetic to him though. No name calling. Hmmmm.

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SomaliCream

Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 10:49 am
First of all , u guys needs to calm down on the sister, she came for advice and not to be disrespected. I think the girl knows that as a muslim she is not supposed to have a boyfriend let alone have sex ( unless she really lives up to her name). All i have to say is to get rid of your contradictory boyfriend who wants a virgin wife yet he is willing to take your virginity. There is no point in being in a relationship that has no future. And don't listen to the people who said to get married to this creep, marriage is more than sex there is other issues u need to be able to deal with in marriage, such as trust,love and equality etc. Don't marry just to satisfy your sexual urges that is just plain wrong. Remember sis that a women virginity is the most precious gift to have, if ur thinking to have sex (even though it is wrong before marriage) choose your partner carefully, someone that u may have a future with, and remember to use protection, u don't want to end up with STD or a baby.

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A real sister

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 06:59 am
You people are full of it...lol

If I was to do a search on every each one of you, 99.9% of you have had pre-marital sex...don't front on that pple.

I get horny, I'm only human being...I •••• my man, what's the big deal? We've been together for over two years now and we have started having sex few months ago or so, I'm telling U...the •••• is good, we ••••...we have a good time, he loves me...he wants and wanted to marry me before and after we have had sex....we're both student's....after grad, when we both get good jobs, we might marry...thats my nigga....I love him just as he does...aint no problem...we both wanted to have sex, so we did it..I trust him as he trusts me...so

CONFUSED GIRL, I SAY DO IT...but PROTECT YOURSELF..SAVE SEX IS A MUST...

My man loves me for me, not for my virginity...he is my first and will be my last, insha allah...

He wanted to marry me for a long time now, it had nothing to do with sex...

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Anonymous

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 09:44 am
a real sister you a whore first.

confused sister

you is a whore in progress.

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rag yaqaan

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 10:48 am
anonymous LOL a whore in progress LOL

A real sister HOW CAN YOU BE SO SURE HE IS GOING TO MARRY YOU AFTER YOU GAVE HIM THE BUTTER FREE OF CHARGE

********WHOSE GONNA BUY THE COW IF GETS THE MILK&BUTTER FOR FREE???????????????????????

OF COURSE NO ONE

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Anonymous

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 11:21 am
EITHER WAY HIM AND HER ARE GOING TO HELL SO ENJOY AND HAVE FUN LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
TO ALL THE FELLA'S WHO THINK THEYRE PLAYERS JUST BECAUSE THEY GET LAID THINK AGAIN BECAUSE THE HELL FIRE IS WAITING FOR YOU. AND TO THOSE BITCHS WHO •••• AS WELL ARE GOING TO HELL. EVEN IF YOU GUYS DONT GET MARRIED ON EARTH YOU BOTH WILL BE SPENDING ALOT OF TIME IN HELL TOGETHER

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NINXOON

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 04:19 pm
TO ANON "HOE IN PROGRESS" LOL LOL
YOU KNOCK ME OUT OF MY CHAIR WALAHII

TO REAL SISTER ...LET ME GET THIS STRAIGHT NOW YOU GUYS MET IN COLLEGE..HUUM START SEEN EACH OTHER HUUM MOVED IN AND NOW YOU ARE LIVING TOGETHER... FELL IN LOVE ....GRADUATE ....HUUM... GET A JOB ..... HE TAKES YOU TO LAS VEGAS GOES ON HIS KNEES AND PROPOSE TO YOU...YOU CRY AND SAY I DO HUUM.......COME BACK FROM LAS VEGAS AND YOU GET PET DOG NAMED LUCKY. YOU WOULD HAVE TWO KIDS A BOY AND A GIRL THE BOYS NAME NOAH AND THE GIRL JASMIN AND BOTH OF YOU START SAVING MONEY " COLLEGE FUND" FOR THE KIDS WHILE YOU AT IT YOU GUYS GO OVER YOUR PENSION PLAN....HUUM.... AND RETIREMENT SAVINGS TOO, YOU DECIDE TO TALK YOUR PARENTS TO THE SENIOR RETIREMENT CENTER ....AND YOU WOULD VISIT THEM ON THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS HOLIDAYS AND WHEN YOU COME BACK FROM VISITING YOUR PARENTS YOU TELL YOUR CO-WORKER BOUT THAT...HUM OH YOU FORGOT TO MENTION THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND IN COLLEGE WHO'S NOW YOU HUSBAND WAS AN ALL AMERICAN WIDE RECEIVER FOR THE OREGON STATE BEAVERS AND THAT WHILE IN OREGON STATE HE BROKE 20 YEARS RECORD IN TOUCH DOWN RECEPTIONS BY PAC 10 CONFERENCE....AND THAT YOU WERE A CHEERLEADER FOR THE TEAM.......
DON'T FORGET THAT YOU GUYS BRING HOME A TREE AROUND CHRISTMAS TIME PUT THE GIFTS UNDERNEATH IT
HALF GLASS OF MILK ....AND CLAIM IN THE MORNING THAT SANTA WAS THERE AND BROUGHT GIFTS TO THE KIDS..........


CANBAROO WAKE UP YOUR REFUGEE ASS BITCH YOU GONNA BE LATE FOR SCHOOL
CANBROO WAKES UP AND SAYS DAAAAAAM THAT WAS COOOL
AND AWESOME DREAM BABY.....

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HonestGirl

Friday, January 12, 2001 - 10:13 pm
looooooooooooooooooooooool@NinXoon.... brotha i am rollin' on my stomach...........that was pretty funny.........

Real-sistah..............girl come on.......... not 99.9% of us did that...........i admit lots of pple nowadayz see it as a normal thing when its not.........but a lot of us have morals....and i dont think if one or 2 do wrong....the whole society will..........
About ur boyfriend........well i cant say nothin' about dat...........it aint my business......its between u and Allah..........all i can tell u is think twice about ur actions sis.....

Confused-girl..........what eva u do girl is ur own business............but i would truely advice u to get rid of that hypocrite boyfriend of urs..........he aint worth ur time...........get a real man who wants u for who u r......not for how ur vagina is........if u know what i mean...
and if u choose to do what ur morals r stoppin' u from......please, please, and please use protection and make sure u and him r healthy........

I was watchin' 90210 once....and that episode was talkin' about educatin' teenagers about safe sex..............and Don....i think that was her name.......she set an example bein' if there was a pool in ur house and u're scared ur kids might fall in it.....wouldnt u teach them how to swim............so i know its XARAAM to do that.....but if u gonna do it.........then protect ur self.......of course u cant protect ur self from HELL!!!!

Anon....lol@u

salaams ya'll

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sista

Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 07:20 am
sis you already received some good advice all i have to say to you is pray for allah to lead you in the right path. if you don't stop what your doing, one day it will get too far and then it will be too late. good luck sis, always remember to put God's will before anything else

real sister, you are so corrupted you're not fit to give advice! i will tell you now you will probably never go to heaven let alone smell it

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hoe

Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 08:35 am
anon@lol

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Hebel

Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 11:14 am
Of course not Sis. Yar not sexually in hyper drive.
.
Yar tubes are not tied enough, or yar underwear maybe one size too large, maybe it's too windy out, or maybe yar pregnant.
.
There’re too many reason for being Boolo.
.
Go and tell Daddy that it's time for a new belt.
.
We're dealing with this and some freak says: They're dumping nuclear radioactive materials at Jazeera beach.
.
Being exposed to radioactive materials can make U be a SexFreak if U really look at it.

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Mr Cool

Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 09:34 pm
Hebel
My God! you are a freak! Take that as a complement :)

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Hebel

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 05:54 pm
Thanks Mr. Cool...U don't really mean that....Do ya?
.
.
And where have U been my dear Mr. Freakness?

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Mr Cool

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 09:04 pm
heheheh
stop you monstar! :)

just freaking out ppl

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INTISAAR

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 02:34 am
ninxoon@@@@@@@ lol alla qosol baad iga dhameysaay wallahaay hadi aan dhinto ada laku heysta

CONFUSEDgirl:
qurbaha ayaa kugu wacaan ee kulama yabayo lakiin sharaftada meel heys kaga ridiin ileen inaan ayaad tehe.
ayoo iskulahar ileen bari kamaliin niin ayaa ku nageysaan ileen ee?
kaad ledahaay waa b/f keyga waa niin wangsaan oo ani waan ku racsanahaay inu gursado naag hagaagsaan .
MUQMAAD SIXIIN KU JIRTA HADI LASIIYO WAYO AYUU U DIDI INU CUUNO?? marka hadi aad isku dhiigtiid asna wuu ku buxiin
lakiin adi ayaa laga raba sidi dumaar inaad wax garatiid
TAA ILLAHNA MEEL AYEEY KU TALA! AKHIIRO XASUUSNO WALAAL!

WANO HADI EY WAX KU TAREYSO DAAD BADAAN AYAA KU WANIYEEY ILAAH AYAAN MARWALBA DHANKA ROON KAGA BARYAYA
ASALAMU CALEYKUM

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Miskiin-Waryaa-Macruuf

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 01:11 pm
Salama...

Having a boy-friend and being a 'good' Muslim--vis. and to quote her words:

"Moral beliefs and the religion too."

I am a 'Confused-Boy,' too.

How bizarre! Being, or at least trying to be, a 'good' Muslim, and yet, simultaneously having a 'boy-friend.'

I smell a foul, not fair, play.

Hebel:

Wali waa qaraabanoysaa miyaa, waji macbuus, Shiir-Sanbuusle ah?

LoL, waa lagu waaye, warka soo daa nooh.
______________________

Mac-Salaama!!

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Anonymous

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 04:21 pm
confused girl:
I am sure you are grown up by the way you wrote your letter. why can't you be a mature somalian girl and get out of your relationship or stop talking and go all the way. any body would know what you did is flat out wrong.And you talking about I am afraid of God we both know you are not afraid of god. you just live for the moment....

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Hebel

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 05:59 pm
Maxaan war soo deeynaa Maskiin-Waryaa-Macaani ani ii duqdoo meeshaan (Mr. Cool) Old-School aan noqonee?
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Meeshaan ciyaal qashaabiir aa nagu abuse-gareeyo maalin kasto.
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Hada magaalo joogxumo intii ka gaarni, hagoogta aa lasoo badashaa aan maqalni, iyna rajabeetada ee soo badalati anina kastuumada.
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Labo qof oo cuscusb aanbo iska dhigoonaa....Maka heshi?
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Shiir-Khamiir ii Maankaal warkaa keenbo, aawi akhyaartii?
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Canbaryaal maa la heli?
...Duqa Hebel war mala siiyoo? inkaar yeey idinku dhicin, canbarkii hesheen aan idinka inkaraa walaahi.
...Canbarkaas DUF! maka soo baxdoo (Illaah idinkiis) oo yar-yar, saasna ubadneyn, oo jil-jilicsan sida dhogorta geela.
....Aamiin ila dheh Mr. Cool bacaw yahay dalbaha weyn sidii odeygii Jilbo-Case!!
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Kheyr aan isku ognahay.

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Mr Cool

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 08:15 pm
Hebel

Adi Af Somaliga keeyga intuu xunyahay aa u maleeynayi. But you know what I can't beat you. You are professional :)

You might wanna explain the above blaa blaa you wrote. Yeah one more question..... naa forget it. You are just nasty my brother. :)

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Maasgarato

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 09:05 pm
LooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooL

Yo I like this writing comedy..Confusedgrl I like ya sis.....what u started everybody falling that trap...N I c now He/She whoever U r laughin with those Makarofiiyaal story...

Ninxoon bro I read that story Portland Dispatcher couple weeks ago..is she just copying or what.Hey I like the way u finished OurConfusedGrl Dream,

Pppple whoever have problem their sexual life talk to their Parents...if u r too young Gacmahina le isku aamina....wa iga waano..rest of ya'll who r sayin we r expert...Baashaal wanaagsan Aaakhiro meesha la idinku KALAANKALAYO Eebe ima ak keeno...................

Luv ya'll Freaks in da house

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Anonymous

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 02:59 am
Ninxoon looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool

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CARAMEL

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 08:44 am
LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING. TO ALL THE PEOPLE THAT IS SAYING TO HAVE SEX, YOU HAVE TO GET MARRIED. ONE QUESTION AFTER YOU MARRY AND GOT THE SEX, WHAT'S NEX? DIVORCE? COOMON. GIRL WHATEVER YOU HAD. WHENER IS INTERCOURSE, ORAL SEX, OR OTHER. YOU STILL WERE INTIMATE OK. SO EITHER DO IT GOOD. OR FORGET IT

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Wadhaf.

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 09:15 am
Hi my dear confused sista.
I feel 4 u coz i know when u c u r boyfriend u forget everything,but i think it is time to tell him your feelings.
I have one question 4 u though,Have u been circumcised ?
No disrespect but u sound freaky to me who doesn't know wat to do?
I hope your boy friend is wise enough to understand your problems.
GOOD LUCK BABE.

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Miskiin-Macruuf-Waryaa

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 10:29 am
Salama...

Hebel:

Aqiyaartii reer Sh. C/qaadir Sheeleylaah aa qafashaa filaa, iyaah. Mise Tarxiil aas lagu soo daba ridey.

Magoo meshaan torobo Ciyaal Kuni-Kuni, if not Ciyaal Fay-Cali, aa qabsadaa filaa. Sidii Jiil-Jiil camal ay mooradaan ugu qabeyeen. Meel walba fiiri walaahi, General-ka, kan, Ila-Qosol, iyo kuwa kaleeto bo; kuli kuwaan aa u qabeeyey, si fiican ay ugu bil-bileen 'dhaybarkooda' nooh.

Yaq, uffffff...way soo shiiree nooh. LoL

Adi lee ka joogtid ciyaal Siyadii aas filaa.

Ar buraashad biyo oo Sam-Sam ah in lasiiyo ay rabaan aa u maleynaa ciyaalkaan.
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Nabadeey!!

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Hebel

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 05:55 pm
Mowliid-Waryaa-Aw-Malaakh warkaa meel fiican aas iga gali.
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Mr cool haddaadan af Soomaaliga aqoon dee huuno, Turjubaan doono ama walaal sidayada dee ayaa farta lays geshaa, ee farta is geli.
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Wa Bilaahu Towfiikh.

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joe

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 06:11 pm
HERE IS WHAT YOU DO TO CHECK IF YOU ARE VIRGIN GIRL, FIRST PUT YOUR FINGER TO YOUR PUSSY, IF IT'S GO THROUGH, YOU ARE NOT VIRGIN, IF IT DOESN'T GO THROUGH, YOU ARE VIRGIN.

BY ADVACER

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CALI

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 11:07 pm
INTISAAR WELL SAID SIS

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Miskiin-Macruuf-Waryaa

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 10:57 am
Salaama:

HebeL:

Iyaah, waji shitaawe waaxid. Miskiinta maxaa ka rabtaa, anaa, at least, tartumaan u noqon karee. Hokey.

Hilfaha aaba u laabtey nooh. LoL. Walaahi, sidii qoleey camal aa ugu bil-bishay saxaaradeeda. Maxaa la dhihi jirey:

Waq Waq Kuro-kukoo. Saas ma'ahenoo hee. Sida ay qoleey u shukaansadaan. LoL. Shukaansi xaas ka kasaa Widaaygaan. Torobo areebo oo dhooro eh waaye nooh.

Hebel Ateere Dhooro, in lagu dhaho lee fadaasa. Kastey ma'aha, si fayla dheh bo. LoL, ha igu soo camiran hee aniga. Hokey.
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Nabadeey!!

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yaasmiina

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 02:24 pm
i'm confused guys. ma saas baa soomaalidu u dhuntay? sister confused before you think virginity or anything else think about alaah and the day of judgement do not you know that zina is one of the biggest sin read zuuratu alnuur. i still can not believe that somalian girl/boy could do such a sin. you are in a great danger if you do notcome back to the right path.

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Ahmdy

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 08:11 pm
Dear Sis confused

I may not say an extra advice already my fellow brothers and sisterss had responded and advised to you respectfully and sincerely, now the chioce and decission is yours whether you should continue or quit and back to real value of Islamism, but in my side I ask allah to prevent from you again in such sin and evils act.
Take Care

My fellow Brother and Sister I like to thank you all for the way you responded and adviced our Confused sister.MAy Allah reward you for your doing in good job for Islam and defending Somalism

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CONFUSEDgirl

Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 08:27 am
Thanks to all of you brothers and sisters. I must say I was impressed by the way some of you adviced me and some of you decided to just cuss me out and disrespect me without even knowing me.

It is not my fault for feeling the way I'm feeling. I can't control the way I feel about all of it walahay. But I have made a decision which was to tell him everything. I told him I didn't respect my self knowing I did what I have done. And he understood. So now, it is all over.

To clearify one thing, I was not confused about my religion. The only thing I thought I was confused about was my feelings for him.

Thanks again.

===============================CASE CLOSED=============================

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Anonymous

Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 11:04 am
To: Confused girl


The case isn’t close sweetheart, Can you give me a chance to prove that am right man for you honey? I’m Wiseman, charming, respectful man and understanding.
How can we communicate each other? Email is good?
By the way I feel what you are saying honey. your ex wasn’t experience man either
I’m assure you we could make good couple if you approve me as your new boyfriend lol I mean it everything I wrotedown here.
Honey I’m waiting your response, darling I can’t wait.
I know you feeling the same as me. Love ya.

Much love.

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Anonymous

Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 05:29 am
yaa hee igaartu waa qoodee dayya,

ya dameerkeyga marabtaa hee asgaa kuu furfurayee xaad hee rabtaa qadha fil darane

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DEBLA QALI

Friday, January 26, 2001 - 04:42 pm
YA ILAHI YA RAABY
SUBHANNALLAH
I DO NOT BELIEVE THAT OUR PPL, MUSLIMS ARE TALKING ABOUT THIS SUBJECT. DON'T U KNOW GIRL SOMETHING CALLED PRIVACY? THIS IS BETWEEN U AND THAT NO GOOD BOYFRIEND OF URS. IF U R THAT DESPERATE U SHOULD HAVE TALKED TO A VERY CLOSE FRIEND. WHAT U R DOING NOW IS CAYB.
ANYHOW, U SEEM NOT TO KNOW MUCH ABOUT OUR PRECIOUS RELIGION. OUR DEAR LORD HAS NOT ONLY FORBIDDEN THE PENETRATION, BUT ALL PHYSICAL CONTACTS BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN. FROM WHAT I UNDERSTAND OF UR MESSAGE U DO ALL KINDS OF THINGS AND URSELF AT THE FINAL POINT BECAUSE U FEAR ALLAH. BRAVO
BUT MY DARLING HERE IS A REALLITY CHECK FOR U , U HAVE ALREADY COMMITED THE SIN U WERE AFRAID TO COMMIT BY SIMLPY TOUCHING HIM SO U MIGHT AS WELL CONTINUE AND GET THE FULL PLEASURE. WHY DO U THINK THE ABLUTION FOR SALAT IS NOT VALID AFTER THERE HAS BEEN CONTACT BETWEEN TWO PPL OF THE OPPOSITE SEX IF THERE ISN'T A PARENTAL OR SIBLING RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THEM. SO THINK AGAIN AND DUMP THAT USER-CHASING-AFTER-S-E-X GUY.
I ONLY HAVE 1 WORD TO DESCRIBE U AND HIM WITH, ANIMALS. COS ANIMALS DON'T HAVE BRAIN TO CONTROL THEMSELVES, TO KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG.
ALLAH IS WITH NO DOUBT THE GREATEST , HE GAVE U A NICE LIFESTYLE SAY THANK U AND FOLLOW IT.
AND BY THE WAY U SOUND LIKE AN EASY GIRL. A TOUGH GIRL WOULDN'T LET HER BOYFRIEND GET THAT KIND OF THING INTO HIS MIND BEFORE THINKING ABOUT MARRIAGE FIRST. THAT'S THE GIRL WE SAY THAT HAS SHARAF.

DQ

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MINIVOICEE

Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 01:11 am
hey there there is only one way you can find out how you are a virgin or not think hard
did he or didn't he stick it in
biatch

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crazy122

Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 03:43 am
hey gal gal you are make me feel sick,
wrote them thing on this page if you are virgin or not it does not need explaintion cause sex normal thing every person does ok
will let me tell you something girlfriend your boyfriend or man whatever you call as control of you tell him give it space and you think bout what you wanna do otherwise tell him to lock off
you know how we do it grilfriend i'm like your sis ok don't hesista to reply to me
all best and good lucky

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SPIKE_LUU

Saturday, February 03, 2001 - 07:54 pm
the case is not closed my dear confused girl.

you can't close it...i am having a blast here

i have to add up something to this. most of you cracked me up.
my co-workers are now into this and every one is amzed about how funny , crazy and religious somalis are. we gonna check how this ends and where it goes. am gonna be the only one to contribute to this forums.....
keep it please.....


confusedGirl u said u ddon't know if u r virgin or not..
here a little tool u can use to test your virginity....
am a programmer so i will write some pseudo-function :

FUNCTION check_virginity
(
depth number default 2 inches;
finger insertion tool IN OUT;
vagina reception tool IN;
result number OUT;
} return result

BEGIN

IF finger > 2 inches,
OUTPUT_TEXT " NOT VIRGIN "
ELSE
OUTPUT_TEXT " VIRGIN "
END IF
RETURN result

EXCEPTION
WHEN confused
THEN
OUTPUT_TEXT " CONTACCT THE FORUM "

END

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