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Actions speak louder than words

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Before Feb. 16, 2001): Actions speak louder than words
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just_a_Girl

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 01:01 am
Hi my people...I'm just somalian girl and need advice from YOU.
I have been bad gir, life is full of learning experiences and this is not the way my mom rase me. Well my peoblem is I'm kind seeing two guy, verry attractive. This is very hard for me, coz i never done anything like this before. As i have very confused feelings of what i want in life right now. Emotions are very difficult things to control and right now, i do not have control. The problem is i do have feeling for both..I hope you understand this, it is very complicated for me to write this and it breaks my heart to see i am asking advice some strenger people that i don't know, not asking even my friends. I am dealing pain & confusion. The pain of staying if i loose one of them or the pain of leaving it if i have both of them. They growing indside of me bth of them, and i don't want to end it.
There is something special about them and for some reason I don't want it's over now. I know that now i'm being stupid, there is no way i can have both of them, somehow/someway/somewhere i have to let one of them go before it's too late and loose both of them.

This is tough for me, i am scar of ending up alone, (you don't know what you got, until it's gone) is hard when you have to person in your life, i used to think (how somone can love 2 person at same tame?) The hardest part is wich one, who should i break up with. Although that i have the same feeling for both. Sometimes i think breaking up with both of them, it is still hard when you think of all the good times.
I wanna make the right decision soon, is not good not being honest with someone who is honest and trully for you. Give me your best advice my brother/sister.

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Ali

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 01:14 am
You sound like someone i know my sista

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m&m

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 01:19 am
GET A FUCKING LIFE U BITCH. U HAVE A 2 GUYS TO LOVE U.,
DONT U KNOW THERE R PPL WHO HAS 0. WELL
IF I WAS U I WILL BE LUCKY, COZ I ALWAYS DREAM ABOUT TREESOM. Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

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Truth

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 01:27 am
SOme people learn things the hard way. Here is my advice.

1. If you wanna be called a bitch all your life keep this relationship going.

2. If U don't wanna be called a bitch, then choose one of them and get married ASAP you little horny girl.

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ilhan

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 01:28 am
What happen is happen, you can't go back now, what you need to think is,wich one you love more, becouse the time is gonna fly,think sis good heart
is hard to find,i know you smart eunght to know who can be for'ever yours, do what you have to do before it's not to late.

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Amazon XX

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 02:37 am
Just-a-girl;
Here is my advice-
Take a break from seeing both men/boys for a few weeks; tell them you will be out of town for a while- see which one you miss the most- also see which one calls you the most- chances are you "love" one of them more than the other- or one of them "loves" you more. stick with that one and dump the other.
I use "" around the word love because I honestly don't think you love either on of them- If you did you would be with only one man. You might be looking for a certain kind of man- and maybe you found parts of him in each of your boyfriend!
I hope this makes sense to you.

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T-GIRL

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 03:46 am
ESSAYS.........Dang SORRY MY schedule is not permitting me to read a long and dull story. Next time KISS it........

K---Keep
I---It
S---Short &
S---Simple.

Bloody hell jungleeeeeeeeeeees

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Anonymous

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 06:18 am
K.i.s.s.
Keep
It
Simple
Stupid!
And if you think these are "essays"- your schedule could be under the influence of "speed" :-)

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S

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 02:30 am
I can't tell you who to pick because I don't know them or you, or who you would be most compatible with. But i think you'r not in love, but i understnad.Sometimes people can't figur out what's love and crush.
TO T-GIRL: I think you should go and see your doktor.

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