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     | Saturday, January 27, 2001 - 04:09 am HELLO EVERY1 HERE! I HAVE JUST SHORT STORY TO SHARE WITH YOU ALL. I HAVE BEEN DATING A GIRL(SOMALI GIRL) FOR ABOUT THREE YEARS NOW. SHE WAS NICE TO ME, SO DO I. WE HAD AGREED TO MARRY ONE ANOTHER BUT SHE BROUGHT ONE ISSUE WHICH I REALLY NEED TO GET SOME HELP FROM YOU PPL IN A BOLITE WAY. SHE WANT ME TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE SO SHE CAN HAVE DOUBT IF I CAN DO THE JOB RIGHT. MY QUESTION IS, SHOULD I AGREE HERE OR DO I STAY AWAY FROM HER? PLEASE HELP WITHOUT HASSLING ME ! THANK YOU ALL
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| | Saturday, January 27, 2001 - 10:59 pm well first thing I have to ask is she a virgin if she is then I have to say that I will advice you to follow your religion and not the devil. in anther word its HARAM and you know it and if she really loved you BRO she would of never asked for such a thing. sorry that's all GOOD LUCK.
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| | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 12:42 am To Mr Karama, your question is really very hard to answer but i should try some of my sincere advice. one was wrong the word of "freind" in islamic faith you must have not a female friend for love reltionship that is a sin. What I beleive is SOmali women never ask sex with men, the men always presuade the girls/women to have sex with him that is one thing. Let's back the somali culture which have little to do with Islamic values, if both of you were beleiving that your love should succeed into a marriage the issue of sex wouldn't come into conclution, Did one of you asked the other what you do when get married? if your answer is yes why the sex issue come now? if your answe is No, you should ask now. Mr karama the other points that i need to tell is some marriage is relavant to age, the age can give you more experience, knowing what the religions said and beleiving is important to your life, sex before marraige is a sin its agains islam, some christians do that even some don't get married without having a baby. so do not confuse with the western and christian culture. If she is islam tell her what the religios said about sex and love relationship.and tell her that you are filled all the resposibilities and that you are capable to fulfil all the duties that required as an leader of a family. "you lead she will flow at the end"  not to lead in a bad way). I think this unprepared answer sshould give you some changes. Thanks bro take care
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| | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 01:05 am if we are talking this stupid things and dont what way we are on, what do you think our kids ???? GOD HELP US!!!! EEBOW NA SOO HANUUNI
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| | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 03:10 pm lol@mohamed....i agree bro... Ey karaaam........brotha the girl is just testin' u.......if she really wanted to have sex with u she would have asked for it 3 years ago...when u guys were gettin' to know each others......so tell her 5 things.........no....noo...nooo....noooo and nooooooooooooooooooooooooo aight bro... allah help ya out bro!!!! adios
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 07:36 am waligaa iyo alahaa naag aa xaaraan ugutagtay kadheeraaw sxb mida qof kudhahaaya guurka kahor sex waxa uu sowado aa kawayn taladeydu eaa intaas
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| | Tuesday, February 13, 2001 - 05:33 pm to all of my fellow freinds who aswered this issue let thank you all for being creative, informative, and good advice as well. I made my decision and she finally hit the road!
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| | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 03:49 am congratulation.You 'rthe bro....
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