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     | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 03:46 pm hi there..i have a b/f that i was dating 4 2 yrs now and i have a problem.....he doesnt like to please me in bed..every time we wanna do it he has to act weird..he wants to chill back and gets everything..told him about that and he said he will do some thing about it...and the story never ends..we are planning to get married..and i am very worried that i will cheat on him cuz i am not satisfied in bed..what should i do?? not to mention he is such a great man,in every way except that...i dont wanna even think about cheating on him or letting some one else touching me..but if i am not happy in bed can u make ur man change?? I REALLY need some advise and i am not seeking 4 attention.....PLZ help
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| | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 05:43 pm Salam sis, You do know that sex before marriage is xaraam, right? And you do know that Allah does not bless that which is forbiden, right? Could it be that you Boy friend doesn't give a didle about pleasing YOU???? Sad sis (and the name suites you just fine) Your problem is not a sexual one.. but lack of Iman.. work on Your Iman Honey and the rest will take care of itself. Sorry if I've offended.. But I IZ for real. Peace, Love and Happiness
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| | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 07:16 pm Said so...amina keep it up sis . . . . . bless
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| | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 01:22 am Amina sis you said it all!
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| | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 02:37 pm thank u amina..i respect ur answer and inshalla i will never do tis anymore..maybe all i needed was a wake up call..and thank u 4 being that one.. 
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| | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 06:01 pm Date+Time: Monday, January 29, 2001 - 07:37 pm Location: http://www.somalinet.com/forums/ Event: Sadgirl vs real world! Judge  from da highest court of appeal): Amina! case#322322000004323 Decision: It is hereby stated that Sadgirl has given her full testimony in great depth and majority of the jurors were considerate of it! Well, we all know that judge Amina is well experienced in this field, this was one hella case tho! still she was able to tackle it without any emotions. sentence: Defandant is therefore sentenced to ::: 1). collecting facts ahead of time and making decisions on her own... things that need common sense e.g NO PRE-MARITAL BANGING! Final words from Amina(judge): "yes, this was quite unusual, b'cuz we(Muslims) dont engange in this king of behaviour, but as experienced as i am, i had to HIT THE NAIL RIGHT ON DA HEAD!" Case#322322000004323 CLOSED!
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| | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 04:49 pm Sadgirl, sis i am glad to hear that walaahi. I appreaciate it being hard for you sis and I hope Allah makes it easier for you InshaAllah. Sis, i am only doing my duty as a muslim. I'd love 4 u wat i want 4 myself. Best wishes Anonymous n asma tnx for the encouragement sisters. Somnetbailif.. looooooooool (But hey are you taking the mick???) stop that or else...... Peace, Love and Happiness
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 07:21 am waan sad girl runta waxaa kuu sheegtay amina ee taas qaado fadlan intaas ayaan kugula talinaa ee ny
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 08:26 am Amina...OK I got a problem too sis! I have a Bf too and our relationship is physical although we never had sex! Plz dont judge me as I do have iman and fear Allah, and feel very guilty for everything I do, but as I love him dearly, I find it hard to fight temptation. what Advice would you give?
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 09:37 am Dear Sadder, As I was reading your post, I remembered my past experience, I was once in your situation,,,but thank Almighty Allah I never did anything that I regreted later. Tell u what abaayo, there is this xadiis that says when a man and a woman are alone in one place there is a third one, and that Satan "Sheydaan" Acuudu bilaah, thus be careful, never be alone with a man,,,,,,coz anything can happen u know....also eliminate the time that u spend with him,,,,,,,that might be helpful. Fear Allah abaayo,,,,,,and fear for your reputations too. I hope this would help (
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| | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 05:08 am Amina well done girl keep up with the good job, if i ever need any advice i will come to you.
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| | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 05:33 pm Sadder sis, first of all I ain't an expert in this (just wanted to clear that). Don't said all to be honest.. just wanted to add you said you really loved your b/f did you consider marriage sis? It might be ideal.. Anyways do what You feel is right sis and remember Allah.. and good "luck". Amiliyah honey, you know i'm always your girl through the good n the bad aight. Peace, Love and Happiness
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| | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 05:42 pm Dear AMINA..i am glad ppl are finding u helpfull cuz u really did help and u woke that Iman inside of me that i thought it has been dead..and i told my b/f if he doesnt get his act together and come to ask 4 my hand .....he aint got to go home..BUT he got to get the hell out of my life...
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| | Friday, February 02, 2001 - 03:51 am I DON'T WANT TO JUDGE U BUT WHAT YOUR DOING IS WRONG I THINK U KNOW THAT ALREADY, ANYWAY MY ADVICE WOULD BE TO GIVE HIM A ULTAMATUM EITHER HE MARRIES U OR YOUR DONE WITH HIM. I THINK IF HE REALLY CARED FOR YOU HE WOULD HAVE MARRIED YOU BEFORE YOU SLEPT WITH HIM. SOMALE MEN DON'T RESPECT A WOMAN THEY SLEPT WITH B4 MARRIAGE AND THAT IS A FACT. MAY ALLAH POINT U IN THE DIRECTION AND FORGIVE YOU FOR YOU'RE SINS. RESPECT YOU'RE SELF SISTERS AND RESPECT FROM MEN WILL COME TO YOU AUTOMATICALLY., IT'S A FACT OF LIFE.
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| | Saturday, February 03, 2001 - 09:10 am First mistake sleeping with him. Second wanting to marry him. Thirth still thinking you can start a relationship like this and hoping to live happilly ever after. Bye.
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| | Monday, February 05, 2001 - 03:18 pm Guess what rahma...we are getting married..he came to see my family on saturday and inshalla we will have the engagment on valantine's weekend..and 4 a fact....i know i will live happilly ever after...
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| | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 09:10 am Sad sis, I should be calling you "happy sis" now... Hey girl, i is happy for ya and hope things work out for ya inshaAllah. We all make mistakes sis, but the best of people are those who relise their mistakes and change their ways... don't let them people put you down honey, Your only answerable to Allah. And hey don't forget my wedding invitation lol (joke) Peace, Love And Happiness
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| | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 07:33 am Amina..thanx sis...i am happy walahi..and i am so glad i listen to u dear...i made a mistake but thank the lord..than u i made it...and inshalla u will get the invitation card..u now why? cuz i will be more than honored to have ur presents there
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