     Warda | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 06:04 pm
Hi all of u
I have big problem really big.
Every time i meet a nice guy i feel good.I think he might be the right one for me.
The right man to marry and have kids if Allah gives us right.
The problem i have starts after 2/3 weeks i go out with the guy.
I start not to like the guy even if he is good guy and i don't really know why that happen to me ever time i meet guys.
I am almost 21 and i really would like to have my own family but how can i have husband when i have this problem.
So please guys if u have the some problem let me know.Coz i wanna know if i am the only one have this problem or just give me advice.
Than ya all. |
| Honesita | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 07:46 pm
Warda............sweety calm down....u r deffinetely not the only one sistah..........
If u dont like the guy after u get to know him.....that should tell u that they r not meant for u......believe me.......when a guy is the right one......something is just gonna make u fall for them.......even if he is not good......u'll just go crazy about him........
so take ur time.....u're still young and i'm sure u gonna meet some1 who drives ya nutts someday......
so good luck and Keep Da Faith sis!!
adios |
| Mercutio- | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 09:43 pm
YOU ARE LOOKING TOO HARD.
JUST RELAX AND ONEDAY HE WILL FALL INTO YOUR LAP.LOL |
| Anonymous | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 08:53 am
hurry up and marry him right away before you dislike him. |
| m&m | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 09:14 am
warda
you are not the only girl who feel that way girl
it happens to all of us
but believe me when you feel the guy is not for you after you get to know him better....
your instincs are you telling you something so you better listen to it
honestgirl
sometimes you can fall for the wrong guys
just because you think you like the guy doesn't necesseraliy mean that he is meant for you
adios |
| Boy in Love still | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 09:40 am
hey Listen up sisters ok real good ok to that sister call Warda....... u need help real becouse WHY i tell u if u ppl start to like each nother in world and u like first persong u see hhee it would not be right person for u coz u she know it not as easy as 1 2 3 to find the right person u would have to had go thought goood and bad then that person comin thought so ,.what u say is u should of like that guy to get marry with him sis well i have news for u that wrog take ur time that person will comin one day .. well i hope i am not that person coz u can if wait sis u need help u only 21 u have the world to go on so wait for the right time with the right person and shut up now ok bye |
| Boy in Love still | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 09:43 am
why i am call boy in love well answe is in discussions where it saty Let Talk ABOUT LOVE ok ,,,go there and read it good u would now |
| kingmaker | Friday, February 02, 2001 - 02:32 pm
some people's heart is not strong enough to love someone and you can't do anything about that so if you want to settle just settle with the one who loves u..
life is too short and don't expect too much because no one gets what they want.. |
| Rahma | Saturday, February 03, 2001 - 08:52 am
Warda your normal sis. Maybe your confused with this dating game the western people set up for us.
I think it's great that you want to get married. my advise is you already know what you want and that's to get married, so here is what you should do every time you meet someone ask them what they want whether they want a someone to date or someone to marry because some people just want to have good time and you shouldn't be wasting your time with them if that's not what you want. If he tells you in the future that's another way of saying he wants to have a good time so don't go out with him. when he says he is ready to get marry and that's why he come to you, then get to know him and see if you like him I don't think getting to know him should take you more than two weeks if you like what he can offer you, than when you decide he is the one start planing the wedding or else kick him like you been doing so far the difference this time is your not wasting anytime on someone you don't know what he wants from you.
Bye |
| m&m | Saturday, February 03, 2001 - 09:32 am
rahma
i think that was good advice the best i have seen so far
keep up the good work girl
warda
i think you should take rahma's advice cuz that seems to make sense
that was just my opinion |
| salim | Sunday, February 04, 2001 - 12:01 am
hi sister this is human nature we all like that so. didnt u know that whatever ur nafs like there is problem whatever ur nafs hate there is khayr on it so do what ever ur naf hate |
| warda | Sunday, February 04, 2001 - 02:14 pm
Rahma sis i think it's not nice to ask a guy what he wants.Coz he might think u are desperate to get married. Any way thanks for ur advice sis. |
| Rahma | Sunday, February 04, 2001 - 06:08 pm
Thanks M&M I thought it was a good advice too, but it looks like Warda doesn't agree.
Warda you think asking him what he wants from you is desperate, but going out with him that seems to be okay with you right. No wonder why the guys are calling us cheap and clean. If you don't ask him what he wants from you at day one don't be surprise if he decides to leave you after two weeks of trying to get you in bed, I mean at least give them what they want what's with this non sense. Your dating someone your not talking about marriage, do you think he's your brother or something, the guy has to know when he's going to hit that thing between your legs. Some girls want to be kissed and touched but not all the way, if your feelings are so low don't drive the guys crazy, I mean did your mothers taught you this •••• about having sex but not really having it, so that the man you marry can see you virgin. Your either good girl or bad girl there's no in between. The good girls stays home and they only talk to a guy who wants to marry them. The bad girls sleep around and have fun. Which group do you belong to my friend don't tell me your the in between once, because I hate those kind, it annoys me hearing girls saying me and my boyfriend go in a dark room and kiss and touch and stuff but we don't have sex I mean I am not those kind of girls who sleep with guys.(Aniga waxaan ahay naag iska adag)they're sick they should be at home not giving some poor guy a headache.
Bye. |
| WARDA | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 11:15 pm
FIRAST OF ALL I DON'T HAVE TO TELL U WICH GROUP I AM.LET ME TELL U 1 MORE THING NY MOM TAUGHT ME EVERY THINK SO DON'T TRY TO BE 2 SMART OK. I KNOW IT'S HARAM TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MERRIED AND THANK TO ALLAH I WILL NEVER DO SUCH A THINK LIKE THAT.
TELL MEE ARE U 1 OF THE GOOD GIRL WHO STAY HOME DO EVERY THINK RIGHT DON'T TALK TO GUYS OR U ARE BAD GIRL WHO HAVE BIGH MOUTH.WHO THINK SHE IS ALL THAT.WELL LET ME TELL U WHAT I THINK U ARE''U ARE ONE LONLY GIRL WHO HAS NO LIFE. 2 OLD TO GO OUT WITH MAN.SO SWEETY RAHMA GET LOST DON'T NEED UR DAMM ADVICE SO U CAN GIVE TO UR LONLY FR OK. |
| Ubax | Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 08:35 am
Werda...........i would say i enjoy my sex life most of my time....day and night, even though iam not married.how cares.....life is short my dear...so enjoy...if u don't wanna have sex...have oral and anal....ahahha..how about that sis.....u know what i mean right |
| UkMan9 | Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 01:15 pm
Ubax guess what life is short and guess again what there is a time life wont be short and long day in hell is waiting what will u say on that day when u face ur creator. will u say that I was enjoying my sex life or will u say I watch too many moves so I though there is no judgement day Oh lord forgive me!!! let me tell u this life is short and prepare for it b4 is too late my dear sis |
| Justice | Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 03:52 pm
Well said UKman..
Ubax girlfriend you must be nutts sis. How can you give a person advise like that, all i wanna say is shame on you. and that's what I call a whore lol
To: warda
Darling you ain't the only one, we all go through the same thing, everyone has their ups and down.. it's matter of relising it before the waves take you. |
| Rahma | Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 05:30 pm
Warda it makes me wonder are you the one who posted the stupid post about me?
Sweetie I am not having any problems with men because I know how to handle them like the back of my hand, I get a man and I am happy with him unlike you I am not confused you see. some people know what they want in life and they go after, so you're not one of those people as I can see from your posting you sit and complain about your problems and when we offer you some help you don't take it because nothing can get through that tick head of yours.
Talk about getting old, aren't you the one who said you're 21years and you can keep any relationship more than two weeks, you need some serious help, I am 20years old and I have been married for a year now, can you say the samething about yourself. you probably don't even know how to talk to guys let a long being married to one.
I don't like ugly sister without her ugly man so go and get yourself you kind of man, that's if you think you get any chanse with skinny Farah, because you're so ugly you sometimes scare yourself so what a man gonna do with you.
desperated is what you are. Happy is what I am. |
| idman | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 01:51 am
warmaalyacniga iska dhaafa
that is my all waano guy |
| WARDA | Sunday, February 18, 2001 - 12:33 am
Rahma u making are making me laought.Did u said u are 20 and married....ha ha ha.
U bitch know how to tell lie don't u.
Let me tell u this maah maah.....waxaa la dhahay sharmuu tada in taa dhihin sharmuuto ayee kugu dhah daa adiga.So now u are telling me i am so ugly.
Honey u are not happy if u were happy with ur idiot skinny,ugly husband u wouldn't west ur facking time on the net so get a life ugly bich.And spend with ur facking husband time.I know what KIND of life u leave but what i can i do for u.
I know u are regretting ur marrieg....u are thinking now Rahma why didn't u marry that Jamacan men so u can suck his dick bitch.
Let me give u advice u rather be lonley then unhappy.So before it's 2 latte make sure u make ur ugly husban happy othere wise he will take ur sorry ass to ur familly.So u batter stay with ur husband YOU DON'T WANT GET BACK TO UR BITCHING LIFE AND SUCKING all the DICKs DO U. |
