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     | Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 06:28 pm What is dating??? In the West, dating basically means going out with a person of the opposite sex. If things work out, marriage and family follow. If they don't, no harm done and everyone goes on their own way. To tell the truth, that is an over-simplification of what really takes place when two people start dating. The fact of the matter is that there're both emotional and physical harm done when those people break up. Emotional 'cause you're breaking up with the person you thought you would share the rest of your life with. Physical 'cause you might have given away the most cherished and valued gift to the wrong person. Yes, you guessed right, I'm alluding to your virginity. The question obviously arises, then how am I supposed to meet the right person without jeopardizing my virginity. I'm sure most of you will say, I know how to take care of myself. But, believe me when you're in the middle of it, it's really hard to say 'no'. With all the necking and sweating going on, you must be iron-willed to step back. Luckily, there's a way of circumventing these issues and meeting the right person at the same time. All you have to do is follow what the Holy Quran has laid down for us. In other words, if you meet someone that you like and you think you are meant for each other. Just inform him that he's to come to your family's house and ask for your hand. If he's not willing to do so, then the answer is quite obvious, he is not the one for you. Another way, you can tell whether someone is really in love with you is that they'll never ask you to give away your ultimate gift. In other words, they won't urge you to test drive until they're licensed to do so. (I hope you're getting the gist of what I'm writing).
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| | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 11:41 am the equalizer bro that was good advice i think every guy/girl should follow your foot steps provided that you do practice this i was out of the dating game long time ago and i think i will continue till i meet the guy i'm going to marry
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| | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 01:56 pm Equalizer, Are you married?
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| | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 02:19 pm i'm single 24years old very very very horny.. what do you suggest A) keep dating other races till i'm ready to marry my somali queen B)stay single and keep masterbating  C)date somali girl...till i'm ready to marry her D)non of the above so tell me DR.ruth(sorry..i'mean equlizer)
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| | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 03:09 pm To: m&m Yes, I do live by my beliefs. In other words, I do practise what I preach, so to speak. I urge you to keep searching till you hit the gold-mine called 'Love.' You'll live emotionally wealthy ever after. Good Luck with your search!!! To: Anonymous I'm really flirted that you asked that question. You must be the kind of person that doesn't beat around the bush. I like that. To answer your question though, I'm not. to: zig-zag Read my lips, 'NO PIMPING ALLOWED AT THIS FORUM."
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| | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 11:46 pm Hey Equilizer , Been looking for you --------where have u been ? I read all ur postings and i must say i find them interestin, i therefore would like to get to know you (as a friend )so please drop me a line or 2. At Hani2u@hotmail.com
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| | Friday, February 09, 2001 - 09:38 am Ziz-Zag....who said we girlz r not horney....and yet we can control our selves......it all depends on what is in ur mind that u wanna do....u know!!!! m&m........i'm surprised girl......but i guess i came to the same resolution........can u believe it!!!......and it feels soooooooooooooo goooooooood!!! Equalizer.............how temptin'......u're single!! adios
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| | Friday, February 09, 2001 - 10:24 am Would u marry me equal?? Sulkha
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| | Friday, February 09, 2001 - 10:31 am Equalizer, if you're not married maybe you're not the best person to be giving advice on the rules to follow to get married. Huh? What I think: Equalizer = middle age man Been around the block (has ahem "experience"  Found Islam and is now looking for a wife (virgin) Am I close? Don't lie now!
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| | Friday, February 09, 2001 - 01:52 pm to honesita, i hope you don't think i'm sexest,but girls usualy have better control of themselves when it come to sex. it's my only personal opinion.. to equlizer, relax brother don't be so defensive...you sounded like you were talking to a child......
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| | Friday, February 09, 2001 - 02:31 pm To: Anonymous, I'll definitely e-mail you, just keep your eyes wide open. To: Honesita, Thanks for the compliment. To: Sulkha, Thanks for the offer!!! To: Forensic, I guess you've seen too many dead bodies. Better take a vacation for awhile. To: Zig-zag, Surely, I don't bear any grudge against you. It's just that I can't stand people who overstep the boundaries of civility and mutual respect.
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| | Sunday, February 11, 2001 - 08:39 am i thinks the best things come to those who wait so if you wait and pray you will find the best husband/wife and you will know that it was worth the waiting
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