     RASHID | Tuesday, February 13, 2001 - 09:35 pm
Hi my names Rashid
I love thiz girl but she doesn't love me back, because she thinks am not good for her. She says that she work hard for what she is and she wouldn't put up with someone who is not Educated.
Can u please help i really need ur help am in love with her |
| jamiila | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 03:34 am
well your topic speaks loud for it selv......do you whant the girl then it's cristal clear on what you should do............Education vc Love.....you need to bring some inteligence into a relationship........not ignorance!!!! |
| Liberal.L | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 07:56 pm
Rashiid:
Education is very important. I strongly advice u to finish your studies or go back to school if u have left it already. As for her, It doesn't seem that she loves u. However, why don't u talk to her and show her there is more to u than meets the eye. If she doesn't see that way, I guess it wasn't meant to be. Sometime things don't work out the way we want them to. We just have to be positive.
Hope things workout the way u want them to.
All The Best!!
LiberalL |
| Rashid | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 08:06 pm
Thanx Liberal L
for ur advise iam trying to Educated my self. i go school at night and i make living at day for my family back home. U know every time i try to block her my self either she calls me asking stupid Q. or she star showing up where i am i sware this happend couple times. I do really love her and u can block someone from ur live that u love. |
| HANA | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 10:16 pm
RASHID
I agree with Liberal it doesn't seem that she Love u.Coz when u love some1 u don't care wether they are rich or boor,educated,good looking,ugly ect.Do u know Rashid JACAYLKA INDHO MALEH.
So my advice is finish ur studies for ur own good not for someone els and don't worry about anything....in this earth no body is perfect.
Any way i wish u good luck. |
| Honesita | Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 08:35 am
Rashid.....ur problem is common between a lot of somaliis nowadayz.......every girl is dreamin' of an educated guy who's got a professional job...someone she's gotta be proud of takin' home to hooyo......but what is hard to understand is that most single somali guys have families back home they have to support....which means not a lot of time for school.......my bestfriend is with a guy she truely luvs and he luvs her back but they always fight about the same thing....why dont u go to school u idiot and he says hooyadeey iya aabeheey ii biil and i'll go to school!!!
Aint nothin' we can do about it bro......but manage ur time....i know its hard to support ur family and go to school at the same time....but work on bringin' them here......and about the girl u luv......well tell her to be patient...if she luvs u she'll be patient and stick by ur side.....and maybe even help ya u know.....!!
adios |
| cleopetrasxy | Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 09:50 am
My dear friend, I my self is educated sista (I think probably too much). In any case, I know were you comming from. It's hard for a female who put herself in a high position to admit that she may be in love with a man who may not have education etc.
Education will not make you better person, good personality, or smarter. Those things come from the person. What it does is add to your knowledge that you already have.
If She is Educated person (as you're stating), she should know that it doesn't have to go the way it use to be. Meaning the Men has Education the female doesn't.
Men was always the soul provider back then. These days it takes two people, who understand each other and who would help one another.
So Rashid, if this girl is smart as your stating, she will know that a degree or a paper does not make you better than the other person. And if she is an independent women, Well an Independent Women doesn't look for a man with high education or with lots of money, because she already has that.
As for you Rashid, since you mentioned you had to support your family back home. Remeber this With an Education behind you, you can send the amount of money you're sending right Now Triple it or Quadruple the amount. You may say I can't do that, because lack of time, and have to work 12hr shift. Nothing is inpossible if you put your mind.
Good luck |
| kabaweyne | Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 07:34 pm
BROTHER RASHEED
HUNG IN THERE MAN I KNOW IT'S HARD,AND(IF)SHE LOVES YOU SHE'LL HUNG IN THERE WITH YOU,OTHERWISE SKIP HER AND MOVE ON. |
| RASHID | Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 07:43 pm
I Would like to Thank u Sisters one more time.
I truley apperiate ur advise.
Yesterday at 4:00 when i get out work. i found a card and a singel flower in my apertment door. The card had her singnature.
After i had a couple tea i call her. I told her to stop playing games with me and act like mature person. Either u like me for who i am or u don't.
Am ready to stell with someone and i like to be u. If that's not tha case i would like us not to see each other again.
She said she would think about it. |
| LiberalL | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 07:43 pm
Rashiid:
I really hope it works out for u. U seem like a nice guy.
BTW, u w/c. |
| Kingmaker | Friday, February 16, 2001 - 11:27 pm
RASHID
It is obvious that she does not love you. When woman loves you she would do anything for you and accept you for who are not what you are .. so it is advisable that you leave her and look for another girl who wants to be loved and will love you back unconditionally.
OTHERS
Love is not Compromisable, education meant to make you more understandable to the reality and respect human beings for who they are , but it seems that some people are using to blackmail those who did not have the chance to educate them self, so simply you had the chance does not mean you are better .
Take care and respect each other. |
