     HBA JUNIOR | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 08:24 pm
Since i lef my home country,i was dating a white
womens and matter fact a white women knows how to treat a man good, how make love and most important she is always there for u.
But i took other way around and felt like i'm in prison or in hell, cos the collision of the different traditions and pressure from my family.
When u live someone have different tradition and values there is unimportant things to us but a great deal to them, e.x the compliment, like, how was ur day, u look beutifull, thanks for last night and so on, but when there is little argument she is gonna remind u, that one day she dresste well that u didn't notice or when day u forget, lets say her birthday.
After all that and other things i decided to abonden this world and i did back to my old world, after a while i founded a beutifull,inteligent,educated,strong somali lady
that we likete each other and at last got maried.
The first 6 month everything went so lovely, but it wasn't last long, cos first there is no strong, self confident somali women, afterall there is always other somalies women who is destroying thier future, beside that, they want u stand for them, butnot for u when u need them,they want u to suport thier family and abonden yours, not to mention how good they are wasting money and most worst of all, when there is a simple argument it produces intemidetion of calling polis.
Afer all that when i consulted some freinds and i evaluated my present relationship and my previous one, i realized i did very big mistake for abondenen the lady who still love more then anything else in this world, the mother of my dotter who still wonna have me.
thanks.
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