     Abdi | Sunday, March 04, 2001 - 06:12 pm
Lately I've noticed the lack of respect that the men of this forums show towards their female counter parts. Did you guys know that your mothers are women?Did you know your sister is a woman?Did you know your aunt is a woman?Did you know that your Grandmother is a woman?Anyway I think I made my point clear!
This is a lovely story That I read and it brought tears to my eyes the second after I finished reading it Immediately phone my mother and told how much I loved her.
MAMA
When you came into the world, she held you in her arms. You thanked her by wailing like a banshee. When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you. You thanked her by crying all night long. When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk. You thanked her by running away when she called. When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love. You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor. When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons You thanked her by coloring the dining room table. When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holiday You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school. You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING!" When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball. You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window. When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream. You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap. When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons. You thanked her by never even bothering to practice. When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastics to one birthday party after another. You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back. When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies. You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row. When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows. You thanked her by waiting until she left the house. Those teenage years When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming. You thanked her by telling her she had no taste. When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter. When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug. You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked. When you were 16, she taught you how to driver her car. You thanked her by taking it every chance you could. When you were 17, she was expecting an important call. You thanked her by being on the phone all night. When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation. You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn. Growing old and gray When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags. You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends. When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone. You thanked her by saying, "It's none of your business." When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future. You thanked her by saying, "I don't want to be like you." When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation. You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe. When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment. You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly. When you were 24, she met your fiance and asked about your plans for the future. You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muah-ther, please!" When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving halfway across the country. When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby. You thanked her by telling her, "Things are different now." When you were 40, she called to remind you of an relative's birthday. You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now." When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her. You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children. And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did came crashing down like thunder. "Rock me baby, rock me all night long." The hand who rocks the cradle...may rock the world". Let us take a moment of the time just to pay tribute/show appreciation to the person called MOM though some may not say it openly to their mother. There's no substitute for her. Cherished every single moment. Though at times she may not be the best of friends, may not agree to our thoughts, she is still your mother!!! She will be there for you...to listen to your woes, your braggings,your frustations, etc. Ask yourself.....have you put aside enough time for her, to listen to her "blues" of working in the kitchen, her tiredness??? Be tactful, loving and still show her due respect though you may have a different view from hers. Once gone, only fond memories of the past and also regrets will be left. DON'T TAKE FOR GRANTED THE THINGS CLOSEST TO YOUR HEART. LOVE HER MORE THAN U LOVE YOURSELF. LIFE IS MEANINGLESS WITHOUT HER... > |
| somali healer | Sunday, March 04, 2001 - 06:48 pm
hi abdi
respect to all the mothers and you
man bout there are som sis that dont
now that one day the will be moms
and there is a day that god will
I cant spek of that day man so
I wish if the come back to islam |
| Anonymous | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 08:18 am
Abdi i wish is my mother would do all those thing lol. |
| JAYLANI | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 12:08 pm
abdi,
since it's eid...i want to wish all the SOMALI
MOTHERS..happy eid.
now that we got it out the way....
my brother..the lack of respect to a FEW women
her in somali net...it was a direct massage
to these bitches..no more no less.. it wasn't
toward ALL women...and it seems you guys bring
that every time.
i'm going to say this for the last time
WE DON'T DISRESPECT ALL SOMALI WOMAN,these harsh
massages is for few hoes and the know themselves
and if you need names ..here we go
1-rahma 2-honsita 3-getto girl 4-jamilla.
abdi if non of them is your mom or wife or sister...then we don't have a problem,
and if you going to ask me why we use such
a bad language with these hoes...the answer
is look at there postings...they have nothing good to say about somali-kings....and it seemes every
one here was avoiding answering them...i don't know why??
but i will tell you this...it's not over yet
and you're damn right..i'll talk to them like
that and worst..cause they don't deserve
1% of respect.
p.s/ i see getto girl acting like shike now days
but don't let that fool you it's a phase she is
going through..her true cloors(super black) will come out soon......
once again HAPPY EID TO ALL SOMALI PPL(EXCEPT
THESE BITCHES) |
| abdi | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 12:19 pm
Listen walaal name calling is not the way to go about things!That has never ever solved a problem.
No matter what we have to respect our Sisters,men aren't allowed to argue with women. If theres someone you don't like or can't get along with leave them to Allah (swt) and carry on with your life duties.
Keep in mind every time you bad mouth someone they get your good deeds! It's just like someone stealing your money you worked so hard and long to earn it why give it away to someone whom you don't like! See what I'm getting at.
I do agree some sisters in the forums are very disrespectful same goes for the men. We all need to reconcile and work on more positive things! |
| jaylani | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 12:57 pm
abdi,
i hate to tell this ...but brother me and you
are in diffrenet page...
and it's oky to disagree...and i don't agree
with 65% of what your saying,however, i agree
with some of your posting......
i'm not going to let these women walk all
over this net like there is nobody els
once i see there attitude towards men changed
i will change..or even better i might leave this forums alon...since that was the reason i start
coming here to put these women in there place
and you know where is that(the garbage)
SO...thank 4 the reply..and peace out |
| somali healer | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 04:42 pm
Hello guys
abdi aslam alak my brother first of all leave it to alahy that is the laws thing to do in islam
you have to find a way to chang things around
so you dont be ask what you did about it when
that day come my brother and if you love your somali sisters you will stop the bad apple's
from rownd there good somali maslim name |
| suhuur | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 04:48 pm
jaylani did you realize that it is possible that one day you may end up to be the husband of one of these girls since they are not using their real name. or may be one of them is your little sister. i do not know what do you have on honesita?, by the way it is wrong to call some hoe unless you have 4 wittnes which i doubt you do. |
| Anonymous | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 05:10 pm
Guys can you blve these girls who telling us that freak UkMan9 is the best. to me, he is a freak lunatic •••••••. |
| UkMan9 | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 05:24 pm
I have no tolerance for stupidity.
Whether genetic or inherent,
I cannot stand it.
I choose to believe
In survival of the smartest,
Of which I am Chief.
My brain by the way
Places me at the top
Of the evolutionary
Food chain
Feeding off the insecurities
And shortfalls of
The weak-minded.
I will destroy all those who
Wish to usurp me.
I will shoot you down with my words
And display you for all to see
The bumbling idiot you are.
I have no time for you.
I have more important things to do
Than explain to you how things work,
The nature of the world,
And such.
If you don't know,
Why should I tell you?
Why waste my breath
On a mind incapable of understanding?
What's in it for me?
So, rather, get a damn dictionary
Or encyclopedia
Or another source of reference
Or better yet,
Don't waste your time.
Why expend energy
Searching for things
You cannot attain
-Higher learning
Is for those with
Actual brain power
Not for those with
Imagined intelligence. |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 08:28 am
After readind all this posts i might say it is true ours mothers hold the future of our tomorrow. As most human we never give our mothers the credit they deserve all we owe the is to reach the best potential we can accomplish, because most of our mothers have made great sacrifices for us, so it is important to remind our mothers the love we have for them and thank them in any way we can.. mama we understand the pain u went through to deliver us |
| faarax | Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 09:13 am
hooyooy la'aantaa dhulka ila wareega |
| Warsame | Wednesday, March 07, 2001 - 12:11 pm
Thank u for the remembrance bro! And thank u Allah for giving me such a wonderful mom, for that I`ll forever love u!
Always stay on the siraatal mustaqueem
-W- |
