     Somaliperson | Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 06:25 am
HAPPY GOOD EID
It's very funny what I have been seen these days.
My Somali sister is trying to make me a religion man when she is struggling her self. She doen't even know anything about Somali culture(SML) at same time she is forcing me.
I thought she should change before she tries to change me. My parents never tried to make me do what I didn't like. Now I have a problems when my SML givin me a hard time.
She was lost and one day she said" you want to see how my boby look". I told her that is HARAM and she excepted that facts later on. She wants to marry but she tells me bad stories some of the times. I told since She had the money to go to SLM(Somalia) and there are millin men waiting her. I need man to marry she says everything I sees her
Her critism contiues by saying these men back home are this and that. I don't want to tell the things she said about them but it was very bad things. There is no different between these man and myself I told and got very upset about this.
Today Allah gives her the understanding of Somali culture but I' m weak. She is taking advantages of my weakness. For me I don't discriminate any Somali women from those with Hajab to the rest. I believed I don't judge how they look and what they wear. SHE TELLS me how good is some Sml men and hopes one day I could be one. I sometimes wonder she maay causes probles to this Masken marry man. Don't tell me what aother man do for his wife we are not even marry so what is the point of talking about that.Assume that I am a religion man, I thinks that is just for me and I would show-off for it.I believe whatever I do I am the one who will pay a price for it.
To me at the moment all I prevent is not to have --- with woman other than the one that Alah will make to share my life with.
I WANT TO KNOW why people try to change others when they are struggling themselves? If i tell her just leave me and I don't want to marry you, do you think it may have a impact on me? Ireally don't want to make her feel bad.
Happy EID to all of you |
| faarax | Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 09:09 am
is this the twilight zone or something!?!?!?!? |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 04:58 pm
faarax looooooooooooooooooooool |
| gabardadow | Wednesday, March 07, 2001 - 08:25 am
come again? |
