     MOHAMED | Friday, March 09, 2001 - 09:10 pm
Well here's my problem...
I'm 22 years old and I like to think I have a very one on one relationship with Allah. I know that he is there when ever I stray off the path, because he'll smack me good to get me back on the straight and narrow. Well I met this girl. She's a good Muslim girl, but she has been hurt many times. I saw her for what she really is. She is beautiful, she glows with a radient beauty, and I love her very much. Now I have always preached "waiting till marraige" and I knew that we were getting too hot and heavy for our own good, and I knew Allah was going to have some serious things to say about my actions. Now I don't want to point fingers, but she was so hurt when I would try to stop and leave, she began with how I wasn't attracted to her and that I didn't love her, etc.
By now you probably know what my problem is. She has missed her period by at least 2 days...we don't know anything yet, but i am worried. I've prayed for wisdome, and I've been lead to you. any advice you may have I would cherish with all my heart.
thank you |
| Shukriya | Friday, March 09, 2001 - 10:28 pm
There is no question that you both crossed the line and broke the rule, your actions is in Allah's hands, i would say ask Allah forgiveness cuz he is qafuuru raxiim and forgivable and take the neccessary actions Immediately.
I don't know what else to say, what happened had happened. May Allah help you guys. |
| sam | Saturday, March 10, 2001 - 10:43 am
mohammed,
i know what you are going through now, the best thing to do is pray and be patient. I hope everything works out well. if for any case she does get pregnant, then see it as an opportunity to raise a muslim child, and hopefully things will go to your advantage.
PS. i sincerely hope that she does not get pregnant, and i will pray for both of you. Best of luck |
