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££ Why do the somalian parents have to sell their girls? (Urgent Help needed)

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love boy

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 04:55 am
Hi! to all y'all nigers/negters

first I met this girl at college last year and
we just click just like that, I mean she was so
so find and everything, you know. anyway we were so in love with each and we never wanted to anything come between us but these horrible girl traders sold my love to a fucking van driver who is 40 years old., I mean come on she only 18 doing
her A levels and I am 19 working towards my HNC
so guys and girls I realy need your help!!
I mean she belong to me and we realy can't do anything coz of that hoof head brick! you know she even did bad in her exams last month, coz of worrying about when this ••••••• going to anounce the wedding coz she was given to him and I have no time and to stare! but what if I suggest that I fill her up, I mean get her pregnant but then
there is the islamic religion saying avoid all unmarried sex? what about Qudbo siro would that work? help me guys !!
and then after all we promised no sex before marraige so quickly guys help! help!

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Anonymous

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 06:41 am
okay if this is in america or a western country she can refuse, and you guys get married don't let her go if you do this man is going to ruin her life.............. trust me

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hell no

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 07:12 am
You really need help ass hole
Somali people are muslim. Why dont you start by acting like a muslim.

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ModaneKirli

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 07:28 am
Hey you guys leave this girl alone cause you can not take responsibility. You might not understand know but you will when you have a wife and your daugther brings up baby with no father around.

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Anonymous

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 12:11 pm
Let the OLD man marry her. Then she will refuse to have sex with him. And then he will divorce her. Or she him.... And then Young man, then she is all yours...

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Caasha

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 12:45 pm
aboowe don't listen to these loosers!

i will tell you what to do!
do you realy love this girl and you think she is your soul mate then rescue her and be a man go up to her father and say i love your daughter and i want to marry her!

And if the girl talks to her father too and tell him that she does not want to marry this old guy and then he can't force her in islamic way..she can marry whom ever the girl pleases as long as they are muslim. so i hope things work out for you
that is my suggestion for you
good luck

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Anonymous

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 12:49 pm
Ooops....I'm on the loose...hehehe! Right, loosen up, bro...

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T-GIRL

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 02:58 pm
Love boy
Do U really love this girl or is it your pride talking? R U just jealous coz there is another man interested in her? U know what.......If U only 19 U not mentally ready to get married so if I were U.........I'd talk to your girl and tell her U love her and everything, but U ain't down to get married just yet. Tell her to refuse the Old Hag and Islamically speaking NO one can force a girl to marry against her will. So if she really loves ya she'll protest her parents and wait till U R really settled financially, emotionally, physically, and ofcourse mentally.
I wish U all the very best bro........and keep your confidence..........But remember IF IT WAS MEANT 2 BE......IT WILL BE

HEY and no Jiggy-jiggy B4 U get married CAPISHE

PEACE

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HBO

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 04:20 pm
GET HER PREGNENT...SHE WILL BE YOURS 4 EVER
AND SHE GOING TO HAVE YOUR BABY...HELL WITH THE
OLD MAN,,,TELL HIM GET YOUR OWN OLD FART....

AS NIKE WILL SAY"" JUST DO IT""

BELIVE ME MY NIGHBORE DID THE SAME AND THEY
LIVE HAPPY TOGATHER(WITH 3 KIDS)

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HBO

Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 04:22 pm
OPS..I FORGOT TO TELL YOU
MY NIGHBORE WAS 43YEARS OLD ...AND HE WAS
THE OLD MAN IN THE PICTURE.....SORRY TYPO :(

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Discover

Thursday, March 15, 2001 - 10:10 am
To T-girl.


What's the matter with you anyway? Where did you get such a western ideas from!
Probably too much watched talk shows or soaps opera.
19 years old is not mentally, emotionally, physically enough to marry?
That’s wrong idea and probably our youth today believes that
My dad had 2childeren, my sister and me when he were your age young man
He was only 19 yrs old and my mom was 16yrs old when she married my dad.
I can only one thing agree with you, that’s the financial thing if he can’t offer a dime its bad idea to marry 2 someone, and the responsibility is not easy my friend.
But if you think you can handle your responsibility as a father. I would say go ahead
What you waiting for, if you guys love each other, true love I’m talking about here, than god blesses both of you.
You can get married and studying if you want.

But these days we have get a lot young people or adult people whose thinking that marriage is a crime, same of them beliefs above 30yrs old should marry or something
But that is a another culture and tradition, not yours .in Islam once a female has receive her first menstruation, she is a woman and there is no1/where mention she cannot marry and our prophet one of his wives were 9yrs old we all know that.

Please people stop thinking of those western ideals, and stick with your own culture and traditions it will guide you.

I do know some people don’t get the point no matter how much or knowledge they receive from others. They keep the simple-minded approach of having only one or two
Statement and bringing them up thousands of times no matter how many people tell them to give it up. Some people can’t get the point and they always try to personal attack while there is no one here knows other his/her real life and what they do!

PS: I’m not here like every single day, you probably understand. But I’ll be back sometime probably.
Tgirl I did not attacked you; I just disagree with you point of view.prove me wrong.
Much love.

I'm out just like that Peace y’all



Born "Anonymous"

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love boy

Thursday, March 15, 2001 - 11:31 pm
specail greetings to
sis Caasha, T girl

so many thanks for your ideas honeyz. I'll
talk to her to after college and we will come out
with solution Insha Allah and I think here in the u.k they have not stopped arrange marraige yet,
but i will go through with her what ever happens to us and in the end Rafaadka Raaxo ayaa ka dambayso. and
hey T.girl I promise no jiggy jiggy B4 marriage sis. I do a lot of respect and love for her, I mean she my Julliet/ princess after all.
thankz alot
Caasha / T.girl

love

love boy

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£1.50

Friday, March 16, 2001 - 06:51 am
Y R U DIEIN 4? MY PARENTS SOLD ME FOR £1.50 AND I AM VERY HAPI SO GO AND SUCK THE OLD MANS DICK AND THEN HE WILL LEAVE HER 4 U.
IF THAT DONT WORK U CAN ALWAYZ HAVE SEX WIT ME BUT U HAVE 2 PAY. BUT SINCE ITS U, I WILL GIVE U A DISCOUNT.

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TGL

Friday, March 16, 2001 - 10:45 am
HBO YOU ARE REALLY DUMB. ARE MUSLIM? I DON'T THINK SO IF YOU WERE YOU WOULDN'T BE TALKING LIKE THAT. LOVE-BOY DON'T LISTEN TO HIM ALRIGHT? TELL U WHAT
DON'T DO ANYTHING STUPID DON'T GET HER PREGUANT ALRIGHT? TELL HER TO REFUSE IF THAT DOESN'T WORK I WOULD TELL HER TO TELL HER PARENTS THAT SHE WOULD LEAVE IF THEY FORCE HER INTO SOMETHING THAT SHE ISN'T READY FOR YET. GOOD LUCK. SHE SHOULD TELL HER PARENTS THAT SHE WANTS TO FINISH SCHOOL AND INTO COLLEGE YOU KNOW? AND MAYBE AFTER THAT SHE MIGHT THINK ABOUT GETTING MARRIED,TO YOU I HOPE LOVEBOY. BY THEN YOU CAN BE READY I GUESS YOU WOULD HAVE A GREAT JOB THAT CAN SUPPORT HER AND THE FAMILY THAT YOU WANT TO START MAYBE? YOU CAN SHOW HER PARENTS THAT YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH TO MARRY THEIR DAUGHTER AND YOU CAN SUPPORT HER YOU, SO THAT SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO END UP WITH THAT OLD HAG

BYE LOVEBOY
HBO •••• U MAN, U R A DUMB ASS MOTHERFUCKER U KNOW
GET LOST BITCH
BYE GUYS

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T-GIRL

Friday, March 16, 2001 - 12:08 pm
DISCOVER
Brother don't get me wrong. I meant is it is impossible to get married at 19........if U R a guy, living in the UK. I wouldn't care if UR a 15 yr old boy & got married in SOMALIA coz U get the financial backing of UR family. Back home U get the support of your people, UR parents give U a room and U don't really have to worry about the bills..........but in here U must be kidding.

To get a house in the UK, U have to be pregnant, on drugs or a prostitute. So I was giving the guy advice to take his time and besides he doesn't even have the girl's parents permission to marry her. I understand that by getting married U R fulfilling half of your diin........but there are obstacles in the young mans way...;ie, another man. Anyway I wasn't being anti- cultural or anything......

LOVE BOY
One more thing bro........Aim for anything and if U R persistant enough U will achieve it Inshallah.....U just have to believe in yourself. And remember NO PAIN NO GAIN .......that usually shoves me in the right direction.
All the best

PEACE

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Jama-Deen

Friday, March 16, 2001 - 05:14 pm
Lover Boy it is better to let her go and marry the 40 year old man. You need to marry some girl much younger than you because if she is close to your age she will look much older than you when you get in your 30's.

If you get your education first and make a good career for yourself then you can marry at 30 yrs old. Look for a 18 yr old girl and pay for her too. Thats the best way.

Right now if you go to Somali you can buy a good girl for about 2,000 USD. Then you can train her and teach her what you what her to know. Once a unmarried woman reaches 30 yrs old she knows everything - there is no more innocence left. They only desire old guys in 40, 50, 60 on up.

Take your time am mature, get a good career and buy you a young girl to marry. This way is the best.

peace

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atam

Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 08:30 am
Greetings Discover.

God bless you bro. :-)
over....


atam2010
Rotterdam boys

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jamal

Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 03:13 pm
YEAH, JAMA-DEEN i agree totally what you said and that was very good.

peace ya'all!

jamal.

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BLACKRAP

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 05:14 am
Yo! If you get a job first. than maybe her mother would give her to you. And you know this has been going on for years so don't act like this is somthing(NEW). She is gone boy. and got a baby on the way.

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Anonymous

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 04:54 pm
JAMA DEEN

FUTADAADA AA BEEC EH WARYAA SEE U GADAN KARTAA GABAR.

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HBO

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 05:11 pm
TO TGL

bitch save the dramma for your mamma....

that was my opinon if your sorry ass disagree
with it, then post your opinon and move your
refugee ass over for the next person...
you need to learn how to respect other ppl's opinon..as i can see your parents didn't teach you that when you were little
you stupid little bitch

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Anonymous

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 05:38 pm
jamma diin •••• you is all i have to say and your advice was •••• just like you, you ••••••• bitch are you gay? bye

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Anonymous

Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 05:43 pm
last anonymous= carmel..aka muna aka layla
:) :)

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lovelylady

Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 02:56 pm
hello loveboy

walaalo do not let her, couse your mind goes where your heart is ,,,,,,, do whatever it takes. be honest with her and with your hear.
love never die and do not let her suffer,,,, it does not matter if you ar eyoung or not as ols somali says "gu wax ma taree garadka ayaa wax tara",,,and if qabiil ku jiro I wish you the pest
farkaliya fool ma dhaqdo.,,,,,,,,, courage her to be strong as long as you guys are together will sarvive. and after marrige is the most happiest part in life,,,,,,,,couse you have your soulmate ,

any way i wish you the pest.

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Anonymous

Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 04:34 pm
"Subxanala waryada gabdha xaqdhowra"
Bro give respect sister's.

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WordSWortH

Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 04:40 pm
Jamal Deen your just one sick rapist! What do you mean marry a girl much younger then you? What's the point you both are going to end up old anyway!
Back in Somalia I feel sorry for those girls who are married off to those men who are old enough to be their fathers I think that's just plain sick!

Marry someone you love regardless of age!

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WordSWortH

Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 04:43 pm
And another thing! How could you buy love you wasaq you buy things not love
Go back to behaviour school

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sisqo

Wednesday, March 28, 2001 - 01:50 am
anyway i have got this girl sitting next to me she is so worried about you mate, so what i was gonna tell you isn't important any more. let me post this girl's opinion aght buddy,
man let me tell you smthg get engaged to her or go to the family and tell them how you feel about her and how she feels about you,and you are prepared to w8t for her, you know what this sis is saying dont let the old guy defeat you, bor u can do better than that,

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