     Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
Well here is my story. I have a fried female to be specific. I really respect her more than any one else. We are kind friends that can finish other one's sentence. I life Milwaukee she life Madison temporarily. So one night she call me and we did talk for a while about 45 minute.
MADISON "CAN I CALL YOU BACK"
MILWAKEE "SURE"
About an hour later she call me back
MADISON "ARE YOU GONNA SLEEP"
Assuming she is still talking to the phone I said
MILWAKEE "WE CAN TALK SOME OTHER TIME"
MADISON "WHY YOU WANA SLEEP" she asked
MILWAKEE " IF YOU SAY SO THEN I WILL WAIT"
MADISON " OK TALK TO YOU LATER "
MILWAKEE "HOW LONG YOU WILL BE AWAY"
MADISON "I REALLY DON'T KNOW AN HOUR OR 90 MINUTE"
MILWAKEE "OK THEN"
That was last time we had conversation. It was about 12am, I was not worried getting up early in the morning
for that day. I waited her call till 2:30 am. Then I run out patient and called her back but caller's nightmare "PLEASE LEAVE YOUR NAME AND NUMBER....."
NOT mentioned that she had call waiting. I call her back two more times but some story. You may wonder why I should not forget and go to bed well my room mate before he went to the bed told me that expecting a call from back home therefore, I should bring phone in his room. I was more worry that she may call and wow my friend will answer. Finally I decided to deceive my friend by bring the phone in his room but disabling the phone in the back. And I went to bed at 3:0 am.
Every one know those thing that come up when you are in the bed, well this is my conclusion.
Either she was still talking to the phone and disconnected call waiting (incase you are not familiar with their is way to do it) or she had visitor(s)thus she did what I did what I did to the phone before I went to bed.
85% IM in favor for the second scenario, incase you not following the story the visitor(s) one. Any way IM really still upset and I want to know "WHY" She did what she did. I know my friend would not tell me (not 100%sure) but most likely if the second scenario is true.
"SHOULD I TELL HER MY ASSUMPTIONS AND LET HER DECIDE WHICH ONE SE FAVOR OR SHOULD I KEEP MY MOUTH AND REACH MY OWN CONCLUSION"
I have little more to add. My fiend being so obsess with privately, I always try to be careful the kind questions I ask. She always dictates what information she want to provide and the one she won't. To let you know my friend never (mostly) address the people’s gender. She uses the word "qof" "person" could be male or female. It uses to bother me but not any more I get use to it.
My question may offend her because being a single and no roommate, well mentioning visitor(s) specially 3:0 am.....
If you were following my story, this time you should be apple to finish that sentence 3:0....
But to make it clear there is absolutely nothing more than friendship. Incase you don't know what friendship is, this wisdom my help you
THE BIRTH A NET
THE SPIDER A WEB
THE PEOPLE A FRIENDSHIP
One other thing that I would like to share with you is that my friend is extremely young smart girl and shy.
Let us say 95%(other 5% we are human) I am confidence that she would not do some thing wrong and I am sure that what ever she decided to do, she knows what she doing. So that is not my concern.
Please give me your advice.
"SHOULD I TELL HER HOW DO I FEEL THIS THINGS AND WHAT I DID I ASSUME"
I am waiting to hear you before I took action |
| AN | Unrecorded Date
She sounds like more than a friend to you if you're worried that much, perhabs in LOVE!!! |
| Suban | Unrecorded Date
Anonymous, as the poet khalil Gibran said "let there be spaces in your togetherness".
In any human relationship, one should look at apattern of behaviour rather than an islotated incident. |
| Abbaayo | Unrecorded Date
I think you'r sticking your nose where it doesn't belong. Who'r you to judge her or even come with a conclussion??? Are you her Boyfrien? NO...are you her Brother?? NO...are you her Daddy?? NO... Then whats driving you NUTS??? In your case "Jealousy" is kicking in, maybe you'r in denial and inlove with the girl! Tell her how deep your love is. Accussing a friend could lead into a bad situation, you could loose her friendship forever. Its not worth risking unless you know for sure where u stand. |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
TO Abbaayo,Suban and An
thanx for u re advice but all of u are missing the point i think to say " I love her" is not that that hard but you better bleive or base u re opinion what i say which is "THERE IS NO LOVE OR ANY THINK LIKE THAT AND IT WOULD NOT BE"
BY the way u told me how somalis value freindship
which means unless u re in love, brother, boyfre.. dad,.. and so on I CAN'T BE CONCERN
ANY WAY THANK FOR URE ADVICE |
| Dr.laura | Unrecorded Date
well........well.......well....
it is called "the growing up pains"
You are confused and hellucinated.....sort out your confusions and leave the girl alone.....besides ....a female and male can't have a friendship.........believe...me.......and if you doubt...ask the experts......Dr.Laura..
By the way.....I have this feeling you might have a talent for writing character stories or Novels....... You might wanna explore it....a career possibility.......
s/caleeykum.....
-My two cents... |
| TO d.r laura | Unrecorded Date
to dr.laura thanx for u re advice specially my talent well Im one of those somali noval writter but there is apportunity at all actually I wrote one while I was young and less experience.
thanx u re comment |
| writter | Unrecorded Date
no more advice |
