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     | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 12:00 am My boyfriend's REALLY •••••...I mean he's REALLY, and I'm kinda new to this "sexual thing" even I've had a long term relationship, i never had sexual relationship, but now i'm in a relationship w/ a guy who is totaly sexy and all he can think about is touching me non stop, At first it was... then it was annoying, and i am not comfortable with it...of course it's feels good, but not alln the time. I told him few times and it seems that he's not really listing that. To be honest i don't actually talks about my feelings much. I mean, i know generally what to do, but i know i'm not very good at, but the point is; I am muslian girl and i know having boyfrind is not right, but what can i do about it? I want to make him happy, he understands about how i hadn't done it till this relationship...but i can't exactly ask him to teach me...and i don't really know how to pleasure him w/out touching his places. It's not easy information to get from people or even find here on the internet w/o getting LIKE "ARE U •••••" which i'm not interested in. so, if someone could explain to me how to "pleasure him w/o any BIG danbi...i'd be greatful any/all advise/suggestions are appreciated.
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 01:23 am U NASTY LITTLE BI**H, IF U WANNA BECOME A SLUT, BECOME A FULL-TIME ONE. LISTEN GIRL, SUCKIN DICK WILL GIVE U DA BEST BUZZ EVER SO JUST GO AND DO IT, BEILVE ME UR MAN WILL BE CHASIN U EVERYWHERE AND THE TASTE OF THAT JUICE..MMMMM... DONT GET ME STARTED. AND WHEN UR MAN STARTS 2 LICK U OUT AND HITS UR G-SPOT, GIRL, U WILL BE DOING IT DOGGY STYLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 02:07 am Neeeeeeeeeeeeeeext!
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 03:04 am Luul. Why don't you want your bf to teach you? If he is the one. Don't you love him? If you aren't comfortable asking right out, then while he are touching you just ask "stop" if he didn't listen. Check out this site and it may help. www.cut_his_dick_off.com
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 03:23 am Luul, you said you are muslim, right? Then making Allah happy is better than making happy your so called boyfriend. "Alleh ka cabso". If you are cleaan and nice girl everyone will chase you ultimately. and believe me if you let your boyfriend have sex with you, he may not marry you at all. After all, Allah's fear should be greater than few minutes pleasure. Please do not have sex with him. salaama Somali-boy
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 03:23 am I agree with first anonymous advice...ALMOST. And I just did a searches for that sites and it was too much for me. Hi luul, tough situation..huh? I think that it depends a lot on who is touching you and how they touch. Like you said u had long term relationship, and it was okey. Maybe ur not comfortable with this person, i mean don't get me wrong i don't know u and i do believe you love this person as u saying, but some people get used to when they had long term relationship, they relaxed and enjoying the other person, and expecting the same way. I don't know if that true. But all i know is there's different ways of touching. And this may be something you never done it before with those other guys. I am not saying that you sould do it what ever he told you, aleast ur not comfortable with. Ask if he was always that way with his other ex-girls. If he says yes, ask if he can change, becouse ur not feeling comfortable about it. I don't know if that helps. Good luck.
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 03:32 am to: luul Hi! Buzzycat do like sex! here is some tips of how to make him happy! 1) you have worm him up, i mean start kissing him for 5 minutes and let him touch your boobs 2)after 5 minutes or anytime you/him is turned on then start taking off your clothes. 3)don't worry if he goes wild, its part of sexaulity 5)do it slowly, don't rush 6)let him ride on then change position 7)get on top of him 8)give him from behind 9)he taste you? and never leave!!! trust me on this? enjoy enjoy enjoy buzzycat? Attention!! possibility of pregnance is 1000% on this cow so get engaged B4 you do it?
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 03:49 am Dr.D or whatever ur name is....I have 2 things to tell you. First, part (4) is missing and second part (10) is ur stupid.
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 04:05 am If you cannot say any advice please don't bother to post in here at all, i will appreciated.
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 12:47 pm quraankanu fas weeye iyo qaalalaahu tacaalaa isma qaadan karaane qaaliyoow kaladaa. muslim aan ahay iyo waxaan baan rabaa isma qaadan karaan. either be a muslim and save yourself from hell. and save whatever pleasure you have to your husband, he will apreciate it. or enjoy your life but remember the life is short and there will be a day that you will stand front of Alaah. then what will you say. my boyfriend wanted me to do it. do not think alaah created us for nothing you will be asked everything you did no matter how small they are and zina is a big sin.
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 12:53 pm Chat Noir Dr.D.), I already told you that you lost your tail ce soir, so please go WORM yourself up, eh? If you can find it?? Bye-bye..... luul, Feel free to castrate the cat! ;-)
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 01:07 pm Dear sis Luul English or Somali let me think mmmmmmmmmmmmmh Somali. walaal gacaliso qofku wuu yeelan karaa sxb inkastoo sxb tinimada qaar keed laga fiican yahay. marka la leeyahay sinada(wasmada) ha udhowaanina mecneheedu waa midaad sheegayso taataabasho, dhunkasho waxay kuu lead garaynaysaa sex wax fiicanna maaha oo danbi aad u wayn. U may like but markaad samaysid oo ka tagtid qofku waa ishiifaa(feel bad) sababtuu usameeyey hadana cabaarka bacdi waa ubaahanyahay. bal gacalo wax aadan ka dhargay oo soo taagan maxay kuu taraysaa hal mar samaynteedo. waxaadna ku xisaabtantaa faaiidada iyo khasaaradeeda kii badan. adduunka xataa khasaaradeedaa ka badan faaiidadeeda... 1) markaad la samaysid sharaftii waa dhuntay sidii aad ufiirin jirtay uma fiirinaysid mar danbe oo waxaad dareemaysaa so so low. 2) Qofkaad aragtid inuu ku ogaa baa moodi oo dhulkaa kula yaraanaya. 3) waa ogtahay cudurka ay keeni karto. waxaas oo dhan adigoo ay ku haysato ayaa waxaa kuu raacda tii rabi oo aakhiro jawaabteeduna adagtahay. marka gacalo hadduu kugu khasbo nin ku jecel maaha ee wuxuu rabaa meeshaas kaliya. kaas waxba ha please garayn ee iskaga har ilaahbaa wax ka fiican kuugu bedelaya isagaa abuuray dadka iyo dhamaan wixii adduunkaan saaran.
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 06:20 pm i think u r openminded and asking for advice and no desrespect, so im not gonna go and say anything about u being a muslim. about ur boyfriend he might be more sexually active and more experienced than U. but that don't mean he knows that u r uncomfortable, so u have to show or tell him how u feel. About pleasing him, he will have to tell u what he likes and how he likes it done, and if he doesn't then u need to ask. Personaly i love a woman that can suck a good- dick(blowjob). U actually need a lot of practice to give a good-head. So i think u should start practicing that and lets hope that he likes it. I hope i have been a good help to u, and if u like i can let u practice on me in the meantime. and u can go to ur boyfriend when i think u r perfect. So link me at.bedroom44@hotmail.com. Tell ur boyfriend he has a good-woman..
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 08:47 pm THE GIRL JUST ASKED FOR SEXUAL ADVICE YOU EITHER GIVE IT OR LEAVE IT. LUUL SIS THIS IS WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO WITH UR SO CALLED BOYFRIEND: START SWEET TALKING TO HIM FIRST. YOU HAVE TO BE IN THE MOOD. START KISSING HIM FOR A LITTLE BIT. WHILE AT IT HOLD HIS NECK, TOUCH HIS EARS. LET HIM TOUCH UR BREASTS AND UR STOMEK. LET HIM ESPECIALLY TOUCH BETWEEN YOUR LEGS. SOFTLY NOT GO IN. THEN LET HIM LICK UR BREASTS AND LICK THEM. WHILE HE'S DOING IT PUT YOUR HANDS IN HIS HAIR. THEN LEAD HIM TO YOUR NECK AND YOUR EARS. LET HIM LICK THEM AND KISS THEM. HOLD HIM SO TIGHT. LIKE YOU NEVER WANT TO LET GO OF HIM. STOP FOR A SECOND, LOOK INTO HIS EYES. GUIDE HIS HAND TO UR PRIVATE SPOT. LET HIM FEEL IT AND MASSAGE IT. THEN SOFTLY PUT HIS FINGER IN AND OUT. IF HE IS WILLING, ASK HIM TO LICK IT. AND WHILE HE'S AT IT, GRAB HIS HEAD AND SCREAM. MOAN HIS NAME TOO. WHEN YOU CUM. ITS HIS TURN TO GET SATISFIED. SO START BY TOUCHING HIS NIPPLES. LICK THEM AND KISS THEM. THEN GO DOWN TO HIS CHEST. LICK IT UP AND DOWN. KEEP ON GOING DOWN TILL YOU GET TO HIS PRIVATE STUFF. FIRST TOUCH IT WITH YOUR TOUNGE. THE TOP PART ONLY. THEN START PUTTING IT ALL IN YOUR MOUTH. TAKE IT OUT AND IN. REMEMBER TO TAKE YOUR MOUTH OUT BEFORE HE CUMS. IT IS NASTY. AFTER THAT GIVE HIM A BIG HUG AND TELL HIM HOW MUCH YOU LOVED IT. TELL HIM HE IS THE BEST. KISS HIM SO LONG AND LAY DOWN IN HIS ARMS. TALK ABOUT YOUR FANTASIES. THAT IS OF COURSE HARAAM BUT NOT AS BIG AS INTERCOURSE. P.S. IF YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH SUCKING HIS PRIVATE, THEN HAVE A LOTION WITH YOU. PUT A LOT OF IT IN YOUR HANDS. THEN MASSAGE HIS THING. UP AND DOWN. SLOW THEN FASTER AND WHILE AT IT. LET HIM PLAY WITH UR BREASTS. AND KISS HIM AT THE SAME TIME. TELL ME IF I WAS MUCH OF A HELP.
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| | Wednesday, March 21, 2001 - 09:13 pm CAWRALA U ARE ONE HELL OF BITCH......WHAT KIND OF ADVICE IS THAT HUH.....HAKIIM SAME TO U IDIOT. SHAME ON U GUYS......I NEVER THOUGHT WE HAVE SOMALI PPL WITH DIRTY MOUTH. UKMAN9 GOOD ADVICE BRO.....I ALWAYS LOVE THE WAY U TALK.
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 12:03 am to: lul ah ah ah sis I don't real think your going to have sex but hey. let me tell you something this boring CAWRALA is not expreinced as well, and i don't real think that when stop kissing him and stare into his eyes is gonna do any good coz you will make him think really weird about you anyway part (4) and (10) are really danerously entertaining. secondly if you are wanna do this stuff use pills a day after otherwise you will be in troouble with your family, enjoy sis peace in the house
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 03:39 am dear luul, Don't listen to any of these people, I think the answer lies deep inside your heart. I think you are not really to do it yet that is why u r so confused. In our religion (islam)it is a sin to have a male friend and believe me, it is for a good reason. I don't know how old you are BUT if you are old\mature enough to married this guy, I would say don't do anything yet. wait for the right time ( Nikaax) and if he loves you he will respect you for your choice. may Allah help you with your discussions. yours Som sis
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 04:18 am I really appreciate those tips you have! (what a advice) Some are ones I already thought of, and i knew it before this will happen. Nothing suprise me...i know my people. I never said that i wanna sleep with him or suck his dick...that's one thing i will never do. I know, some of u already did and tying to be •••••. I know somalian peope are muslim, they don't drink (beer) smake (weed) and have sex with (before marrige) couse they are muslim. I never said that i wanna sleep with my boyfriend or something like that. All i wanted was some sensual-romance-tips. It could be bring flowers, grabs his hands and puts them back on my shoulders stuff like that. But all ya can think of is (fucking) probably you'r the one who need help. Thanks again!
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 04:23 am Dr. D I wondering why do they call u •••••!
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 04:26 am Lady. Thanks sis. Your suggest is not that bad
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 05:06 am luul i think u need to read ur tittle once more. (I need Sexual Advice) And i blve every body gave advice about what u ask for..if i am you i will take the advice Ukman9 gave it to you.
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| | Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 05:59 pm To Luul: Tell You what sister be a player,as most girls do with as.they need to touch her,but she never gona get down with you in the bed, becouse she knows the consequence that might result,and sooner or later if he do one night with you, You will be like trash I meant he will let you out after he broke your virginty that is if you are virgine. And take this from me,It never happened,and ain't gona happen, if a man had a sexual contact with u He will Never gona marry you,he will tell himself that you will have sexual contact with other man I meant he will never trust you no more. Now the bottom Line is, be a plyer try to avoid to get in the bed with him,and the same time show him that you loves him and persuade him to marry you,that is what my gilr does with me and i feeel she is very smart,and knows what to do.
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 12:41 am TO:Luul A/caleykum; Walaal Luul sida aad arkeyso dad badan waa cadowgaaga waxayna kuugu yaarayaan waa cadaab iyo care ALLE,waxaase mahad ALLAAH ah inaad tahay gabar muslimad ah oo diinteeda fahansan ee ku adkeyso mowqifkaaga ah inaadanba dhageysanin taladooda qurunka ah.Haddaan u soo noqdo mowduucii ahaa talo siintaada,walaal waxaa hore talooyin wanwanaagsan ku siiyay walaalo muslimiin ah ALLAAH haka ajar siiyo ayagana.Aniguse waxaan ku dhihi lahaa haddaad is jeceshihiin adiga iyo saaxiibkaaga sida ugu dhaqsiyaha badan isu guursada ee haka cabsanina mustaqbalka sida aad u noolaanlaheydeen waayo ALLAAH baa balan qaaday irzaaqda qalqigiisa oo dhan,haddii kale walaal hadda waxa ay taagantahay taabasho waxayse tageysaa waxay walaalo badan carabaaween oo ah zinno,taasna waa qatar weyn ee aan ka wada digtoonaano walaal.Sideedaba walaal ma haboona in wiil iyo gabar is geyi kara hal meel ku keliyooba saana waxaa yiri Rasuulkii ALAAH(NNNKH)ee ka dhaadhici saaxiibkaaga arimahaas aan kuu soo sheegay,waxaanse aad ugu faraxsanahay xiriirkiina qaaliga ah waxaanna ALLAAH idin ka baryayaa inaad is calfataan. ALLAAHU Aclam..........
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 01:10 pm i think your asking for advice is a bit early for u. i think u are just getting into double figures now - about 10 years old, right? don't worry too much about that sis, the chemistry and the hormones would do they bit when u become of age. u would then realise there other ways of satisfying your cravings...... as for now stay away**** that incredible organ between your legs is too precious, so cross your legs firmly and wait for the right moment(wedding) and the right man. i apologise if i sounded offensive. want more advice....
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 01:19 pm luul you need to drink your cup of milk, wash your legs kiss your mom good-night and go to sleep. Don't worry about boys at this age, you should be out there collecting Pokemon cards for burger-king sake.....
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 02:00 pm lol ninxoon pokimon...lol
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| | Wednesday, March 28, 2001 - 03:21 am Hi Luul. Don't listen 2 anyone. Think deep down; do u really want 2 do this? I mean u know the consequences if u do do it and if u don't. Think of the future b4 u do anything. I have a friend of mine who did it with her boyfriend and guess wot? Thats right, he left her the next day. She had 2 go through so much just thinking whether she should do it and wen she did she told me that she had a feeling that he would leave her which he did anyway. Plz don't make a mistake u would regret later. if u think he wouldn't leave u,he will marry u then trust ur heart. it never lies 2 u. So my advice; trust in wot u believe in and think b4 u do anything.
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| | Monday, April 02, 2001 - 01:14 pm yall need to just stop typing for real she said she didn't wanna sleep wit da man and if you ain't giving her no small tips bout romance wich i doubt none yall know just be-goon period!
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| | Monday, April 02, 2001 - 03:13 pm luul first let me tell you about my self I use to have a bf and I really loved him from all my heart. But some how he didn't respect me he started touching me and kissing me and I use to kiss him back ,but then I thought 'why' am I doing this next day we meet the first thing he did was touching me and kissing me again ,I was so angry and said 'stop' 'don't you touch me again" you see I showed him who I'm .And I don't want any on to touch me except my future husband don't get me wrong I actually don't know who I will marry I want my future husband to show me how it's like to have sex all I'm trying to say is don't let him touch you and all this •••• sis you should listen to SOMALI- BOY because he is right sis I love you all my sister's and brother's .damn what the hell are you guys talking about sucking dick •••• shame on you I don't know what to say
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| | Wednesday, April 04, 2001 - 05:54 pm YOOOOOOO SISTER IF I SHOULD BE CALLING YOU SISTER I CAN'T NOT GIVE YOU ANY SEXUAL ADVICE BUT ONE THING U SHOULD BE ASKING ADVICE FOR IS TO HOW TO STOP THIS (ZINA) THE FIRST THING IS LEAVE YOUR BOYFRIEND SECOND IS TO START TO FEAR ALLAH AND THE PUNISMENT THAT YOU WILL GET THIRD TO START TO PRAY AND REPENT YOUR SINS FORTH PRAY TO ALLAH FOR FORGIVENESS AND IF YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH IS TO LOOK FOR A MUSLIM MAN WHAT EVER HIS RACE OR HIS COLOUR AND GET MARRIED. PEACE BE WITH YOU AND I HOPE THIS ADVICE IS GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU UNLIKE THIS OTHER PEOPLE I DO NOT WANT TO GIVE YOU BAD ADVICE AND PAY FOR IT IN THE DAY OF JUDGMENT BY THE WAY I AM NOT SOMALI MAN BUT I AM NORTH WEST AFRICAN AND IF U THINK I SHOULD NOT BE ANSWER THIS THEN YOU SHOULD BE TALKING YOUR LANGUAGE PEACE AND I HOPE U BECOME A MUSLIM GIRL AGIAN.
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| | Thursday, April 05, 2001 - 03:44 pm CAWARALA.....bisinka bisinka bisinka....walaahi i almost fell outa my chair....nacalaa sheeydaanka ku yaal...!! Salaam
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| | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 01:12 am Luul This is probably another statistic in your black book. Be adviced, you are legally allowed to watch the X-channels in your cable, and educate yourself in the world of man touching a woman, in every possible way that you can/cant imagine. Somalis (legits) would be capable of dealing with the issue you posted naturally, but is our duty to guide the sexually-crippled individuals. I hope this advice concerns you, and those who struggle to join your little corn-breasted club. Feel free to express yourself. Rahsaan
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| | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 02:15 am A/calaykum To Luula Luula salaankadib walaal makaftamaysaa mise waa kaadhab. hadaad kaftamaysid waxyaalahaan oo kale inlugu kaftamo mafiicna. haday dhabkaatahayse; anigu waxaan kaa siin lahaa fikrad yar waana sidan: walaa sida aad sheegtay ma aadan oran waxaan doonayaa in aan saaxiibkay laseexdo oon ssexy lasameeyo laakiin wax u egbaadtiri, oo ah wuu itaataabtaa micneheeduna noqonkaro siyaalo bada sida, wuu itaataabtaa asagoo doonaya in uu ila galmado, inuu ilacayaaro,maxaayeelay waasaaxiibkay mudo dheer oo waxyaalahaas ookale waa noo caadi. waxaase aniga ila yaab badan in kabar muslima oo soomaaliyeed ay waxyaalahaan oo kale taladooda kasooo raadinayso saydadkaan ookale, [waalaga yaabaa in aad igusheegid waxaad tiraahdaan gadaalkagaar markii aad akhrisatid taladayda] hase yeeshee miyaadan lahayn hooyo, miyaadan lahayn saaxiib gabdheed wanaagsan????? siduu saaxiibkaa mudo dheer kunoqday? imisaaad jirtaa? kolla mawaynideeeee? mayaadan adigu guuurdoon ahayn mise adigaaba ah mid isaga kumeegaraysa? in adeer maxaynoqonaysaa jawaabtaadu? ina adeer waynow oo garadsoooooo intaa iyo nabad galyo
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| | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 02:34 am CAWRALA BA'LO KU SII QAADAY, NAA HEEDHE WAABA SUUXI GAARAY SUB-XAANALAAH. YAA KU BARAY BALADAN BAAYO. WAXAA TAAS KA SII DARAN CUNUGTAN YAR EE WAYDIISANAYSA DADKA SIDEE CAANA UGA KEENAA SO CALLED BOYFRIEND.....NAA OROD OO SARIIRTA AAD WAQTIGAADI HURDADA LA DHAAFYE. HADDII AAN MAR LABAAD KUGU ARGO AGA GAARKA MEESHAN WACADE WAXAAN KUU SHEEGAYAA QOFTII KU DHASHAY INAAN AQOON HA U MALAYN FAADUMO WADABARI. QOF CAJAA'IB AH AYAY AHAYD. INTAAS IYO NABADGALO AWOWGIIS. EXCUSME.....
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| | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 01:05 pm Yaab iyo amakaag ka dib.ilama ah inaad gabar tahay,waayo gabar xishood baa lagu ogaa.ok.haddii aanad ahayn wiil gabar iska dhigaya ee aad gabar tahay.waxaan ku oranayaa HOOSTA HALAC KAA MAR.
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| | Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 04:41 am luul looke heya you are not imuture enough to be asking sexaul advice,i suggest you wait till your old enough! ps.everyone is intail to have their own opinion,and when they tried to advice yo ass, you just throw it back at their face if you were so smart you wouldn't be asking for advice in the first place. so stop creaping on yo own sh't. love&peace beloved
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| | Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 06:09 pm YOU'RE GOIN' TO HELL WOMAN... YOU FUCKED A MAN BEFORE A WEDDING... YOU'LL BURN... JUST KIDDING!!... COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY!!! TALK TO HIM
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| | Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 08:16 pm Listen who eva start this topic, you sound rookie and I am not sure your B/f is an other Rookie but Key word is Communication talk to him, if you think it wont help the best thing to is talk to your friend dont listen this ppl call cyberfriends Here is my two cent worth. First you shouldn't have B/F you are juvenal Muslim girl and Islam no there is no such thing call B/F so hold your horses sis. Having intercourse is big sin Allah(SWT) will banish you for that, sistah dont eva thing about sex before marriage. You sound very young and your future is head of I would say same your Gold thing to your future husband babe... Nabadeey
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| | Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 11:30 pm looooooool @ WAA ISHIIFA UkMan9 nice advice
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| | Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 04:20 am HA LA YAABINA GABDHAHA WAA TACBAAN-RAG EEY U BAAHAN YIHIIN EEDA WAXAA LEH WIXII DHALEE-WAX LOO ABUUREY WAA IN------NAAGO QAANGAAREY WEY YIHIIN.
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