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"LOVE" , every body knws wrong JUST READ THIS and u will knw

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QEYS

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Have you even been in love? Horrible, isn't it? It
makes you so vulnrable. It opens your chest and it
opens your heart and it means someone can get inside
you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses.
You build up this whole armor, for years, so nothing
can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different
from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid
life...You give them a piece of you. They don't ask
for it. They do something dumb one day like kiss you,
or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own
anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It
eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so
a simple phrase like "maybe we should just be friends"
or "how very perceptive" turns into a glass splinter
working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in
the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's asoul-hurt, a body-hurt, a real
gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.
by unknwn

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Layla

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To Qays

I feel uour pain bro.

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Anonymous

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Brother,
You have said what I have been feeling. You hurt so much you swear that no-one will ever do that to you again. But then someone else comes along, years later, tells you to trust him and it happens all over again....

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Ladan

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Qeys!

You scaring me man! Second thought!

SINGLE FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!


Peace~

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Mr Cool

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You keep falling and you will keep getting hurt....one day your pain stops not because you heart beat stopped but because you found your right one(anima gemelle, twin soul). Only that second of happiness makes you understand what is all about. Eternal love that is all.

Love is not something that you can control. It doesn't look at religion or race. It is the only thing that is free about us. Just let it rule and at least you will find a happiness even for a second which makes it all worthwhile.

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Cibaada

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LOVE is a unique program, there is no other like it in the world. LOVE attaches to your operating system and runs silently in the background. You will never see LOVE on your monitor or your toolbar, but you will notice its affect on every application you have. It makes the good programs run smoother and greatly restricts and/or deletes the bad ones.
LOVE searches your memory for programs like HATE.COM, BITTERNESS.EXE, SELFISH.COM, and
SPITE.EXE. These programs can't be entirely deleted off your hard drive, but LOVE overpowers those programs. LOVE stops their commands from being executed and runs its own instructions. You will no longer hear INSULT.WAV and you won't be able to write with the fonts "BADWORDS12" or HARSHNESS10." . Once you have LOVE installed and running, it automatically copies a module, or a piece of itself, to every external Harddrive Email And Remote Terminal (HEART) that it comes in contact with. In turn, those external devices run whatever version of LOVE they have and return a module to your HEART.
You will be upgraded with each and every module that you receive. But you have to remember, to receive the upgrades you have to be running LOVE and you have to come into contact with other computers while it is running. LOVE will automatically erase PASTHURT.EXE from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory, but it will no longer disrupt other programs.
LOVE will eventually overwrite LOWESTEEM.EXE with a module of its own called HIGHESTEEM.EXE. However, you have to completely turn off GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM. Those programs prevent LOVE from being properly installed. Can you turn those off Qays?? LOVE program is set up to run on external HEARTS but has not yet been run on your HEART. It is one of those complicated programming things, but in non-technical terms it means you have to "LOVE" your own machine before it can "LOVE" others. Click on the following files and then copy them to the "MYHEART" directory; FORGIVESELF.DOC, SELFESTEEM.TXT, REALIZEWORTH.TXT, and GOODNESS .DOC. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching any faulty programming. Also, you need to delete SELFCRITIC.EXE from all directories,
and then empty your recycle bin afterwards to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back: LOVE is freeware. Be sure to give it and its various module to everybody you meet. They will in turn share it with other people
and they will return some really neat modules back to you.

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Faith

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LOVE comes and goes, sometimes makes you cray and sometimes makes you happy
LOVE is not something we can tuch it,it´something
we can feel it
we can never change those lor ´couse it´s just the
way LIFE goes, the only thing we can do is to learn
something about it when we get hurt, so we can be
ready for the next Love trip

to:qays dear brotha i´ve been hurt twise and know
how it feels,but i know soon or later you´ll
get use to it and you´ll be stronger and stronger
for everytime,couse i´m stronger then before and
i feel that i am ready for LOVE everytime it comes my way.
remember those words and you will realize that is true

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frm QEYS to FAITH and CIBAADO MAN MAN SIS U SAID IT ALL

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TO faith thanx ure advice sis.

To Cibaado:
sis I can bleave that u knw both LOVE and COMPUTER
YAAAAAAAAB ! U WILL BE FRIST PERSON TO MASTER BOTH
BESIDE SIS WHAERE DID U LEARN THIS THING WHICH SCHOOL I WOULNOT LISTEN U LEAN WITH OUT GOING TO SCHOOL.
TAKE CARE SIS
BY QEYS

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X

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Cibaado,
Sis that was cool, I loved It. Great Job.

X

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shaper

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Love is beautiful but i don't know if there is somali woman deserves to be loved , i have seen many somali girls in love but for some reason they fall in love with the wrong one cos simply they don't have the sense of distinguishing right from wrong and that is why 89% of somali woman live unhappy life, i feel sorry for them and at same time i am prying for them that someday they will know how to control their feeling and who to love.

no offence intended.. just concern for my sis

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Finest

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Shaper but i guess Somali men know what love is Huh....I don't think love is something u can control but u can control who u wanna fall in love with if u get into relationship with both of you eyes open...I think it's experience and u should never regret it cuz everything happens for a reason...it's all about Faith aka CALAF.

But it aint gonna happand anytime soon for me cuz no one is worthy enough of my love..(Joking)but i could be wrong.

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Anonymous

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one cold night after i returned from my first date with this interesting guy, i couldn't fall asleep at all and nor could i eat normally like i used to. i became very sick for 2 days and i couldn't stop thinking about him nonstop. soon did i realize that i loved him, and i also come to find out that he was not worthy of my love. what a shame, that the first man i loved turned out to be disappointment on my behalf.well to this day i still have some strong feelings for him. but thats life.

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shaper

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anonymous

i am not suprised that you fell in love with the wrong one cos you are somali woman and falling for the wrong one is something that you all have in common may be you werte all born it genitically.

i am just prying for all of you that one day you will be intelligent enough to love the right one

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Anonymous

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to: shaper

i'm sorry to tell u that u can't control love, it just happens. it's ALLAH'S will that strange things happen, and u wish that u could do something to change that but ur not in control, allah is. remember that. love makes u do things u don't normally do. if i would have known what kind of person he is then i would have never have loved him. and what exactually do u mean u were born genitically?

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shaper

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if you are intelligent enough you can judge the person in one hour so don't tell me that..


the ability to know or judge the person is not something you can try you have to born with that

there is something which is common in somali communty which is the inability of doing the right decision at right time .

so yopu are not alone ..

please honestly telme why you fell in love with
what does he have ?

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Mr Cool

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Heeeeeeyyyyyyyyy don't judge the whole community because of someone's mistake. Show a bit of respect to your community will ya!

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Muslim

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Asalaamu Caleykum!

We see people falling in love and we heard people saying love is blind. I've seen many girls that love messed up their life, loved someone that didn't care, not only girls but men too, you see a young boy falling in love with a KUFAAR girls and doing all the FAWAAXISH with her. Is this the reality of LOVE? I don't think so, people use all kinds of excuses to cover up their mistakes and they finally blame love. Love exists but it ought to be controlled. Love is not first sight love but a whole different issue. For the most part, being in love in the west means going out and having a date which ends you up in making FAWAAXISH. I was loved and I fall in love but I had the capability of controlling my self from anything I wanted. It's easy to say I love her/him but what is so true about it?

If you love someone and you know that's not the right person but you can't keep yourself out of that love, then you gotta problem. Your disease is not love and it shouldn't be blamed but you have low self-esteem. You mind is trapped by HAWADAADA and you gonna get to the point where your moral, personality, and mental loses. By the way, JECEYL IS KA HELID yaanan la isku qaldin.

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amran

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To shaper,
First and foremost are you a somaliman? If you are not one,please we do not need your silly comments in this forums coz this is strictly somali issues.
Secondly if you happen to be a somaliman then,you are as useless as your shapeless ass because you do not know what you are talking about.Who told you to distinguish the right and the wrong for the somaliwomen?What cretaria have you used to get the percentage of the unhappy somaliwomen?If there are any unhappy somaliwoman,then it's Then it is the fault of the somaliman who do not know HOW to LOVE or to give love.
Somalimen can not guarantee satisfaction to their women.ANYONE TO REFUSE THIS!!!

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haha

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ha ha ha

shaper your coments made lough yo!!!!

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Anonymous

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I once fell in love with a guy
this guy i don't know why i had this strong feelings for him because he never not even once said he loved me nor did i said to him, but i knew in the back of my mind that he was not what i called my ideal man. nor did i think i was his ideal one
but somehow he stole my heart and for months i couldn't do anything all i wanted was to be with him go out him and hang out with him.
no matter what i'm doing if he asks to me to go with him i go i just don't know what to do
i know he is not for me and i can't get him out of my mind
he treats me nice he is always good to me but i just don't think he loves me because i know he is the player type.
anybody wanna give me advice welcome
tell me how can i get him out of my system?

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handsome

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Its simple.

As long as he is playing with your system you cant off it, just make your system off specially at knight time.

Hope u undstand.

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Anonymous Queen...

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Sweet sista Anon.....I once to waz in the same bout as U i waz crazy about diz guy U know he waz all i eva whated out of a guy.....We dated for a few months and he made we so happy....i really feel deep for him he waz all i'd think about morning noon and night......But one day outta the bule he told me that he waz seening another girl and that he waz in Love with her....i felt sad and used ....But when i think about it it's my fualt coz i alwayz knew he waz a playa....But i still dated him anyways.......I'll tell U the way i got over it just think to Urself he's not on my leval think that U are better off without him and think about how many more FINE brother's are out there for U that are gonna show U respct Love and that U can trust ..So Walaalo plz don't be sad just move on honey londz more fish in da sea......

Wishin' U the best ...

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shaper

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i was here to help and some of these as usally start insulting which i don't like doing.

what i mentioned here was the truth and the truth hurts but you have to live with it

i can recall there was a somali sis who was insulting but that is ok because may be that is the only was to show your anger or express your feeling i hope u will know better

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Sagal

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to bros & sis

i agree with you upto a certain extent, but what love?? i beleive what y'all experiencing is what is called LUST.
Lust is a strong feeling that will last only for a few months. How come you don't feel the same after 6 months?? that you don't think about him everysecond of the day?? because the lust wears off.
I have been in lust. OK i confess i have strong feeling for my first love, but that is as far as it goes. I wouldn't wanna see him, coz i knew deep down he wasn't right for me. If you someone who isn't right for you, but find yourself having feelings for him, you can prevent falling for that person by staying away, occupying yourself with something or someone else.
That is the only way to avoid the pain and the hurt coz in the end you have your fate in your hands.
And if you know the man you like is a player, then you have 2 options: Be a player yourself and delete any feelings you might have for him OR prepare yourself for the evident heartache as a result of that relationship.
that is what i think anyway!
peace

sagal

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Hani Osman

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What is up
Well I kind agree with you all. And I am happy that you open up yourself that way. You talk about your feelings and that is the best way to communicate.
By the way don't insult yourselfs. Let Everyone talk their point view openly!

Peace!

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hanfade

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Soomalida waxaa caada u ah in ah ku heshiiso arin qudha,, taasina waa in aanay heshin. Lakiin waxaa halkan ka cad in ay soomaalidu tahay dad si dhibyar uga turjumi kara dareenkooda ayago ku sifeynaya taas siyaabo kala duwan sida hees, gabay, geerar, sheeko .. laakin waxaa yaab leh waxa aay soomaalidu ugu heshiisay in aanay waxba ku hashiin. Labada ceebood ee soomaalidu leedahay waa qabiil ay ku abtirsato ayagoo u qadarinaya qabiilka sida aay diinta u aaminsanyihin, ceebta labaadc oo soomaalidu leedahay waxaa weeye sida ay caada u tahay in aanay raga iyo dumarku isku fahmin oo aanu jacaylku (ka u dhexeeya nin iyo naag) dhaqanka soomaalida mid jira u ahayn.

ilaahow soomaalida is jecleysi, raga iyo dumarkana in ay is af gartaan u dhib yaree

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RAXEEYE

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I hear a lot of sisters complainning how they get hurt, and how they fall inlove with the wrong guy. Well, did you asked yourself why this is happenning? Or did you know?. Trust me I know why. So many reasons: maybe you forger where you from, maybe U forget that you are dating Somali guy who is under the age 19yrs old, or maybe you forget that you are somali girl, or maybe you trying to be western girl, or maybe you forget you from Muslim soceity or you are Muslim, or is it that you lost between the two soceities and don't understand fully eitgher of them?. YOU TELL ME.There is no doubt you did one of the above soo think about it and think again ...AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP.............

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dacas

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yasalaaam

what the hell did you wrote here mr raxeye

cajaaib i thought you were gona say you were the best man ever than you say some •••• like "maybe you dated a 19 year old somali guy" who the hell is gona date 19 year old specially from somalia give me a break

jaaw

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LEEROMEO

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hi every one, i am very impressive ur expression towards this heartful topic which basiclly concern every living.
in my point of view, love is a mercifull feeling which allah gave his creatures as gift,in other word love is feeling which needs patience,faithfullness,truthfullnes,carring,at same time it nees u to be strong just to survive from the wrong side of it.
i believe that as human we all look 4 ward to a better and bright living future wich every one of us would preffer to live life of loving style.
therefore to love some one is to have the luckiness of expeiancing into onother satage joyness, coz life with no love is like lady with no passionate..,,,,
i would like to be excused if jumped the topic, i only meant to be expressive'''i hope u understand me where i am coming from'''


love and peace''''
leeromeo99''

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Aaxey

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Well! It seems like everybody agreed with the existence of love. Me as a Somali who has been reading about love n its charcteristics. I don't think it is something that is in existence. When u really close examine it. U will find that its nothing but attraction bonds that connect to hearts together n once that bond is broken its finished. When people say they r in love n that they would do anything for their love ones. I don't really buy that because:
1) If that person does something horrible to u u wil always remember it n nag him /her for that.

2) If that person breaks ur heart or leaves for another. U forget about them n go on with ur life.

3) If that person dies, U forget about them too n continue living, maybe much more happier than u were before.
If u look at the defination of love n its elements, all these actions contract that. So it has been my experience that most of the people think they r in love just because they have a crush on someone or they really like someone for his looks or personality or both. BUt it takes onlya wrong action by that loved fellow to throw him out of the loving person's life. Is that love? Definately not. Love is supposedly,
1: something that makes u see the good side of the person regardless of how the society sees it.
2: love is something that makes u forget the world n its troubles.
3: love is something that makes u forget ur parents n ur family if u have to.
4: love is something that is supposed to last longer than what the world has shown.
5: loves takes couples at the same time.
The stories of Qeys n Leyla.. or Romoe n Juliet was created by men so that people had something to entertain themselves with. There is no one so far that prove that they would die for love. Don't even consider talking about Cilmi BOOdhari b/ he died of disease n peopl knowing that he liked HOdan assumed he died for her, when infact he died of malnutrition. N that is not something that is caused by love but depression of it because he couldn't get the girl.
LOve doesn't kill but makes u love life. Love makes to wanna spent all ur life with the only person u care about not the worldly materials. So bros.. n sis.. don't waste ur times in the games of love coz, its in no existence. U can like somebody, can be attracted to them but hey life goes on when that person is no longer part of ur life. That ain't an element of love but crushes.
PLease don't attack me personally, I know alot of u won't agree with me but before u take a step towards explaining to me what iam missing think about my points. We r here to exchange view not to personalize opinions.
Thanks...

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Aaxey

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Well! It seems like everybody agreed with the existence of love. Me as a Somali who has been reading about love n its charcteristics. I don't think it is something that is in existence. When u really close examine it. U will find that its nothing but attraction bonds that connect to hearts together n once that bond is broken its finished. When people say they r in love n that they would do anything for their love ones. I don't really buy that because:
1) If that person does something horrible to u u wil always remember it n nag him /her for that.

2) If that person breaks ur heart or leaves for another. U forget about them n go on with ur life.

3) If that person dies, U forget about them too n continue living, maybe much more happier than u were before.
If u look at the defination of love n its elements, all these actions contract that. So it has been my experience that most of the people think they r in love just because they have a crush on someone or they really like someone for his looks or personality or both. BUt it takes onlya wrong action by that loved fellow to throw him out of the loving person's life. Is that love? Definately not. Love is supposedly,
1: something that makes u see the good side of the person regardless of how the society sees it.
2: love is something that makes u forget the world n its troubles.
3: love is something that makes u forget ur parents n ur family if u have to.
4: love is something that is supposed to last longer than what the world has shown.
5: loves takes couples at the same time.
The stories of Qeys n Leyla.. or Romoe n Juliet was created by men so that people had something to entertain themselves with. There is no one so far that prove that they would die for love. Don't even consider talking about Cilmi BOOdhari b/ he died of disease n peopl knowing that he liked HOdan assumed he died for her, when infact he died of malnutrition. N that is not something that is caused by love but depression of it because he couldn't get the girl.
LOve doesn't kill but makes u love life. Love makes to wanna spent all ur life with the only person u care about not the worldly materials. So bros.. n sis.. don't waste ur times in the games of love coz, its in no existence. U can like somebody, can be attracted to them but hey life goes on when that person is no longer part of ur life. That ain't an element of love but crushes.
PLease don't attack me personally, I know alot of u won't agree with me but before u take a step towards explaining to me what iam missing think about my points. We r here to exchange view not to personalize opinions.
Thanks...

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shaper

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axeey i doubt if what u wrote is what u believe cos u sound confusing let me make somthing very clear LOVE IS THE MOST POWERFUL EMOTION MAN CAN FEEL

reality not everyone falls in love only people with good heart fall in love so if u never been in love it means that your heart is not good enough to love someone. i never been in true love and i am prying everyday that one day i will be in real love i can't wait to taste the love and i am dying to love someone and see how it feels.

i want to be crazy about someone and go where all the great and good people been.

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Sagal

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shaper

the emation called love is what hurts you in the end!! that feeling makes you so vulnerable and giving someone that power to hurt you aint worth the pleasure u r receiving.

regards

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shaper

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sagal why u r afraid of hurting ?
if u do love the one who won't hurt u

and love what makes life worth while so please don't be afraid be confident be optimistic

what is feeling of hurt is it pain and why u get hurt?

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Aaxey

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First thanks Sagal sis I couldn't have said any better but let me tell u something Mr. sharper don't just make assumptions about people's hearts not every good person falls in love. It seems like u r beginning to face the world now so its my advice don't go looking for trouble, it will come to eventually. N u have no clue if i was in love or not. When I speak bro i speak from experience n facts that i have gathered. I don't just bluff like u have. And another thing i don't know if my few last sentences weren't clear enough coz u seem to be attacking me personally. Next time read thoroughly before u make judgements n understand the facts that r presented to u.
peace

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Sagal

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Shaper
Do u love hurting?? coz any sane person wouldn't put themselves a position where they know that they will get hurt in the end!. u might love somebody and think that they would NEVER hurt you and vice versa, but in the end they are human beings and they are bound to make mistakes and so do you. So i wouldn't hurry to be in love if that makes you vulnerable and open to wounds. Maybe you should talk about caring, kind, etc and lust which people mistake for love. (maybe)

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abdish

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It is me appearing like twinkling star in the sky just for the of love. Honestly love is not a commodity to be bought. LOVE is astranger it is something which exist somewhere on earth i would like to make this thing clear that wether you fall in love with wrong one or with the right one. You have to admit SIR GOD isthe one who controls as he controls the universal entire. shaper stop talking ill about your community shame on you . from Mr. Abdish

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abdish

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It is me appearing like twinkling star in the sky just for the of love. Honestly love is not a commodity to be bought. LOVE is astranger it is something which exist somewhere on earth i would like to make this thing clear that wether you fall in love with wrong one or with the right one. You have to admit SIR GOD isthe one who controls as he controls the universal entire. shaper stop talking ill about your community shame on you . from Mr. Abdish

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Raxeeye

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To dacas

Sis let say things about your reply. firstful, If you happen to be growing woman who don't have mood to date yound guys sorry and don't forget there are many young sister who getting hurt and I want say something about it. Secondly, you say "who the hell is ganna date 19yrs old?" please wake up!. and think about what the young people can do, and remember 19yrs old guy is man who can fall in love. and be responseble.YES THERE ARE SILLY DUMN ONE and it si those one who hurt sisters.

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Raxeeye

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To dacas

Sis let say things about your reply. firstful, If you happen to be growing woman who don't have mood to date yound guys sorry and don't forget there are many young sister who getting hurt and I want say something about it. Secondly, you say "who the hell is ganna date 19yrs old?" please wake up!. and think about what the young people can do, and remember 19yrs old guy is man who can fall in love. and be responseble.YES THERE ARE SILLY DUMN ONE and it si those one who hurt sisters.

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FALIS

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TO TRUE NEGGA RAXEEYE. Even though I don't like your message you are the only one seem like that he undrestand or care young soomalis. By the way you say something true in your old message and young somali girls know that

DON'T BE FLATTER

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FALIS

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AND TO DACAS

WHAT EVER YOU ARE LET ME ASK YOU

QUESTION. WHAT IS WRONG WITH 19 YRS OLD SOMALI

GUYS? HOW ABOUT 29 YRS OLD ACTING WROST THEN 16

YRS OLD? TEELL ME ABOUT DACAS

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Anonymous

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TO: Raxeeye

Waar yaabee goormaad la boodey magacii Raaxeeye Burcaawi, waar orad oo shaqo tag magacna la bax inta aad ku dhadhabeyso magac aanad laheyn. go and get a life.

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RAXEEYE

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TO: MAGAC LAAWE

MAGAC LAAWAHA KOR KU QORANOW MAXAA MAGACAYGA KU DABADHIGAY IN AADA SHAQO LAHAYN WAX KALE OO AAD KAHADASHI MIYAA WAYDAY WAY ILATAHAY. THERE ARE A LOT SIS, AND BRTHS WANT TO HEAR YOUR OPINION, BUT SOMEONE LIKE YOU!!! A! AAH!!! YOU BETTER KEEP YOURSELF...

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redmouth99

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Let me be honest with every Somalian bro/sis out there. THE DEFINITION OF THE WORD "LOVE" HAVEN'T BEEN FOUND YET. AND FROM MY PROSPECTIVE I THINK LOVE IS A FEELING THAT IS INSIDE YOU AND YOU FEEL IT BECAUSE YOU ADMIRE/WANT/NEED/RESPECT/CHERISH/CARE/ABOUT A GUY OR A GIRL. AND TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN THERE, AND THERE IS NOTHING WORST WHEN THE PERSON Y ARE IN LOVE WITH DOES NOT FEEL THE SAME WAY, AND IT JUST TORNS YOU APART AND LEAVES Y WITH WOUNDERS OF WHY YOU FELD IN LOVE IN THE FIRST PLACE. LOVE IS NOT SOMETHING THAT YOU AS A PERSON CAN LOOK FOR, IT IS A FEELING THAT COMES TO YOU AND WHEN THAT FEELING COMES "YOU WILL KNOW IT" OHH YES YOU WILL. AND MAKE SURE YOU LIKE THAT RIGHT SOMEONE BEFORE YOU GET TO THE WHOLE LOVE PART IN LIFE AND HOLD ON TO IT ONCE YOU FIND IT.

PEACE&LOVE

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abkeey dooli diloow

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Crazy topic...sounds good!!
love#lust
love#liking
love#possession
the real love is the one you feel and appreciate the feeling that you have for that person..not the feeling he/her has for you!!..whether she/he understands your feeling or not,you keep feeling and enjoying it, and it deosn't hurt at all.
so if you been hurted ,you are not in love just you lost something you liked ,or you didn't get something you wanted so bad ...!!
any comment about my definition you are welcome!!
intaa ku ekee maanta

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IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE BENEFICENT THE MERCIFUL. Please my fellow BROS ! and SISTS ! let me try to steal a little bit of your time. I would like to remind you all . About the the wisdom of our prophet MOHAMED [ S.A.W]. As he said in his Hadhith [ Mankana Yuminu Billahi Wal Yomil Akhir Falyakhul Khairan Awliyasmut] As i proceed to give you apiece of advice about How to. SAFE-GUARD OF TONGUE AND GOOD MANNERS. 1.Do not speak without thinking.When you are quite sure that whatever you are going to say is not unreasonable,then speak otherwise not.
2.Do not call anybody as dishonest or curse,any one to go to hell beause if he is not so, it will return to you.

3.Do not talk double facedly.
4Do not talk ill of anyone nor listen to such talk
5.Do not laogh at anyone`s bad face or immitate bad actions.
6.If 0ne seeks your advice,give him the best which is most reasonable to you.
7.If you learn about anyone`s defect or fault, cover it do not propogate it
I end by saiying ASALAM ALAIKUM. may god bles u all. By Mr. Abdish. Thanks.

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WABS

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Salaamaad!

You might be all right about the subject in discusion, but then again I could be wrong about that. In my opinion, Love is Lust, as one of you pointed out (I believe it was Sagal). While to be in love with someone is a joyfull experience, it has the potential of it becoming a painfull experience too. This risk-benefit duality is also true in everything in life. For the sake of humanity, it is my opinion to think that in the case of true love the benefit out weights the risk a bit (just a bit). And Love/Lust alone is not sufficient to sustain lifelong partnership. Respect (Another point raised by one of you (Red99)) must come in to the equation. Friends, people fall in love for many reasons that vary between individuals. The reason could be quantitative, like wealth, or qualitative, like looks. Whatever the reason is without mutual and global(overall) Respect most Love/Lust (True one or not) relationships will bottom out. Consequently, the end result of most of these relationships is a disappointment and hurt. It is my belief that Love,which is an impulse trait most of the time, grows on Respect. If there were no mutual respect to begin with and none was established during the process, the Lust form of love will sustain the relationship in an exponential decay fashion till there is no more of it left. Just like the idiom goes you "Fall in love", but you must earn Respect. You must respect the persons viewpoint, educational & moral standards., etc. etc.,

The above dialog is how I see the nature of this LOVE THING. I know that one must be loved and love, so I will like to share the Respect thing with you all. I thought it was overlooked a little. What do you think?

Yours WABS!

P.S. Forgive me if I may sounded knowall-wanna-be ,on the contrary I know little.

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True2myself

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Wabs, deep analysis ! i agree with you that RESPECT is very important.
I don't care what looks/$$$$/education a person has if i can not respect his moralities, ethics, and values.

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Anonymous

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Hello everyone. I am not Somalian but I am in love with a beautiful Somalian woman. I am a 27 year old strong black man with alot of "Creole" in my family and I am mistaken for Puertorican very often. She and I are so happy together. I love her with all my heart and I hope to marry her when she graduates from college next year. I was reading some of the comments and I was saddened by some of the negative statements that were made. Of course no one is perfect and we all have had our hearts broken but I have learned alot from my own and other people's mistakes. Sometimes you have to look in the mirror and realize you can't find love because love has to find you! If you go out looking for someone you leave yourself more available for the wrong thing to come into your life. I am no preacher but I just call things the way I see it and I am always open to "constructive" critisism. And for you all that have lost faith because you got with the wrong man or woman remember, it's okay to make a mistake-just learn from it and try not to make it again. The only people who don't make mistakes are people not trying to do anything.(everyone makes mistakes) I am sure this may not interest some of you but I had some thoughts that I wanted to share. Once again, I have a beautiful & wonderful Somalian girlfriend and I am so happy to be with her! I can't help but feel that the Somalian Culture is very special!

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C/J

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Let's call this forums "Geedka Jacaylka" <g>

C/J

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Aliya

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Asalaamu Caleykum,

To my all brothers and sisters out there.
I want to say something about this subject <LOVE>.

First of all, as my brother abdish said say something reasonable, and think about what you want to say before it comes out, otherwise do not say anything. I think bro abdish you raised good points, Jazak Allah Khayran.

Then, some of my brothers and sisters really expressed their ideas about love very openly, I'm really amazed, love and respect each other. When someone hurts your feelings, you shouldn’t blame love. Because love is the most special gift a person can give. Love has no boundaries. Once it is found, it will never die. I think love is feelings of joy, acceptance, honesty, loyalty, patience, understanding, respect and trust. Love shared between husband and wife should be unconditional.

Ultimately, love is the strongest bond between any group, and it contains a sense of warmth. Words can’t capture the beauty of it all. I wish to all my brothers and sisters romantic happiness.
Wa Salaamu Caleykum

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suge

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This word love is so over-used and I don't know
if there is true love left any more.Some of us love others for the wrong reasons and when it didn't work we blame others for our own mistakes. Get it right from the beginning, and you won't get hurt. Take your time, and think about it. DON'T JUMP INTO THE WAGON OF LOVE THAT QUICK. YOU NEED TIME TO SORT THINGS OUT.

HAPPY THANKS GIVING TO YOU ALL.

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Guled

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MAY THE BLESS AND PEACE OF ALLAH BE UPON YOU SIS/BROS.

WELL,Having read about "love" and perceived every single word of it i still don't think that is the way love goes.why? here it goes....

First what is Love?Love is an understanding that is so complete that you feel as if you are a part of the other person and just accepting the way they are..not trying to alert them to be something else which they don't deserve and Love is knowing that the other person will always be with you regardless of what happenes,missing the other person while they are away but remaining near in heart at all times so love is the source of security and life.

There once was a time when i had someone special in my life whom i was un able to put into words how much she meant to me and we had something i common but after few months our love became history and that was my most embarrasing experiance and i time i had ever,However, they say "IT IS BETTER TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST THEN NEVER TO HAVE LOVED AT ALL" and i'm firmly saying that it does carry much conviction.

so dear brothers and sisters never win your trust on someone whom you don't know deeply cuz the more you know her/him not the more you are disappointed. so why it is binding you to have someone in your life whom you don't like from the bottom of your heart? why do you have to loose your time on someone whos is not your secretive?

The Ball is in your court dear brothers and sisters.
Peace and Love.

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Ismahan

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hi,
many of you have diffrent defenition of love and none of them are wrong. Because i believe we are all different and have different experiences ...some of us are scared of love and some are not! It all depends on how we receive and give love. LOVE it's a strong word that can destroy once life or complete once life so we have to be carefull when it comes to luv.
If you ever found love and you lose it don't you hate the person ...let it go and keep it simple. I know you feel pain but you will find love again and that pain will turn into a beautiful felling.

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MNXD

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hi all
wow amasing i am already inlove with two girls who posted on this page. can someone fall inlove two girls at the time? Also they are freinds.

help me out people what should i do?
peace

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Ismahan

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To mnxd:
without being rude,
My first question is how can you be inlove with 2 girls at the same time?
my second one is how can you love someone you never met? have you seen them b4?... do you know how they look like ...there personalities and quality?...these are important questions you should first ask yourself. You sound to me that you "like them or their text" but love is too strong word for someone you don't know!....sorry if i offeded you bro that was not my intention.

PS: and for your last Question , i believe you can only love one at the time!!!..

Peacefully Ismahan.

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Ismahan

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This one is for Ques!

Macaan, love is beautiful and something to be charished but only with the right person ...i feel your pain and i've been through it!...but believe me once you find the right person that gives you love back i'm sure the old pain would be far from you I found love again and that's what i see now....i hope you find love again cuz that's the best part of life!

Ps: the person who broke your heart will get her heart broken one day cuz that's the way life goes!. Just hold on and allow your heart to be loved again cuz there are lots of beautifull sisters out there that have lots of love to offer! I pray you find one that fits you!!!

Peace Ismahan.

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malik's

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malik's
first of all i would to thank ALLAH, second i want to say i read all your stories, i found my self in there for some reason......trust me my heart got broken..and i broke hearts......i was not been around to experience alot cuz i am only 22, i had live long enought ot atleast the word of love.......love is something that happen but you or either your partner make it happen cuz when you start dating you only wanna know the person you with then that is where the attraction start. i personally believe that i can't love some one who doesn't like me......sister there are so many sweet somalian guy outthere, please don't mischarge cuz i am lover and every girl that i date will tell ya that....so again don't give bad conclusion....i believe somalian guy are the best(suited) guys for woman.....man tell me any other man will take his date to mall and buy her what she desire....that is something very unique for us........


PS.please check out the percentage good somalian guys instead of calculating improper fact
luv yo'll
if you have any comment pls contact me at
silktheshoker@hotmail.com

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king

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every girl has her heart broken and only very very few guys had heart broken why is that?

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Been there

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Guys are qalbi xajar who think with their d**** while girls use their heart.

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Anonymous

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What is love got to do with it
I don't know myself!!!

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Anonymous

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You people are you joking or just passing time how the hell can you ever love a girl who is not one hundred per cent somebody took a knife a long time ago and mutilated her private parts.She does not know what love is so please do not waste your time with somali girls they do not know what love is and they will never know untill doomsday. Find some one who have feelings and enjoys life as it is supposed to be.

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Anonymous

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You people are you joking or just passing time how the hell can you ever love a girl who is not one hundred per cent somebody took a knife a long time ago and mutilated her private parts.She does not know what love is so please do not waste your time with somali girls they do not know what love is and they will never know untill doomsday. Find some one who have feelings and enjoys life as it is supposed to be.

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Ismahan

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Anon,
Without disrespecting you like you disrespected me as a somalian girl. you really make me wonder if you are a true somalian man! Second if you happen to be one ... do you respect your mother and sister who are somalian womans?...I guess not!...Let me point you one thing as a somalian women myself:
1- our womens are clean!
2- we respect our body and if you didn't know we also respect our men and don't sleep around after he leaves!(like other womens)
3- and like we say in somali "xishood baanu lenahay!"
4- Maybe we cut our private parts but it's for the best !!!"TRUST ME ON THAT"
5- and by the way be proud that a somalian women brought you in this world.!!

PS: please! hablaha somaliyeed meel ha'ugu dhicin !There are no better womens then ours! that's for sure!!!

Thanks !!!
Peace Ismahan

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Cumar

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Cumar

To Ismahaan

Walaal waad salaamantahay,waxaana ku leeyahay afkaaga caana geel lagu qabey! sida wanaagsan ee
maangabkaa ugu jawaabtey

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Ismahan

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TO Cumar,
Thanks wallal for reconnazing!

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Shamso

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Salaamu calaykum to all of you brothers and sisters.....I am just testing the site.

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Fay

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waxaan bari ilaahay hatuu itmo si wacan uku jawaabi toonaa - qof aan ogahay.

peace out,
Fay

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Wadani

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Waar hayaay Walee waa inan codkar ah.

Ismahaaney huno afkaaaga caana qaboow lagu qabay
I truly honestly agree there is nothing close to My somali sisters. whether it is beauty,personality,or quality of womeness for that matter.
marka those of you who are constantly critisizing my somali sistr's. waar yaadhahee enough is said to you "dibjiris" by my sis ismahaan.all I have to say to you is "kudaafad waaxid"


until then sidaa iyo is akhris dambe.

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msr.love bashir

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when I think of love
I think of a sweet smile
a tehder smile
a gentle touch
when Ithink of love
I think of picnics
of walking in the park
of waching the sunset
when I think of love
I think of hopes
togetherness
and sharing
when I think of love
I think ofthe simple
think and you

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Guled

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Salaam All!

Well, Having read about your birlliant messages,i was so excited and thrilled to have it around but there is one more thing i would like to make it sure and that is...here it goes...-

Love can be expressed in many different ways and all we are discussing about is the special love between the 2 opposite sex okey that is recognizable and understandble fact but what about the other love which was about the family,friends and etc?

I had been beating my brains out endeavouring to figure out what excatly love supposed to mean....Actually Had i told you how badly i was hurt you all wouldn't speak on the wrong side of your mouths but Alxamdulilaah i hope i'm on the top of the world.

I'm in favourite of putting 1 question to MNXD Loved two girls at the same time.

Well, My question is brother....D you think Love is handwriting when u told us u r in love with 2 girls whom you read about their messages?

Thanxs all of you.

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Guled

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Salaam All!

Well, Having read about your birlliant messages,i was so excited and thrilled to have it around but there is one more thing i would like to make it sure and that is...here it goes...-

Love can be expressed in many different ways and all we are discussing about is the special love between the 2 opposite sex okey that is recognizable and understandble fact but what about the other love which was about the family,friends and etc?

I had been beating my brains out endeavouring to figure out what excatly love supposed to mean....Actually Had i told you how badly i was hurt you all wouldn't speak on the wrong side of your mouths but Alxamdulilaah i hope i'm on the top of the world.

I'm in favourite of putting 1 question to MNXD Loved two girls at the same time.

Well, My question is brother....D you think Love is handwriting when u told us u r in love with 2 girls whom you read about their messages?

Thanxs all of you.

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Anonymous

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Dear sis
I did not direspect you as you said but I stated the facts as they are. Can I ask you one question?IS there a somalia word for whore if there is and I know the word and will not repeat it here then it is proof that there are somalian women who are whores just like other women of other nationalities. So skip the out ofthe point reason which you wrote and cu the chase. Somalian women are no good believe me they have no feelings and it is no wonder when making love to somali women she just chews chewing gum. Believe me you and the others are just loosers. By the way if you are wondering Iam 100% somalian man but Iam just fed up. No offence meant.

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Ismahan

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Anon,

first of all, explain yourself clearly, one time you tell me you did not disrespect me in your letter but at the end you wrote "you and the others are just loosers". second, with how many somalian womans have you slept with? to my eyes you haven't slept with all somalian womans so how can you judge all of them? maybe the one you slept with didn't enjoy much!!! (in other hand you didn't do your job well!!) because i'm sure if you satisfy her she will act differently! and how can you say somalian woman don't have feelings? if you were smart you would realize all humans have feelings!...so don't wait your time direspecting our womans cuz i'll be here to stand for them.
bye
Ismahan

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samira

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Salaama aleikum.
On the issue of love...yes, it does exist. How do I know? coz I am currently madly, deeply,incredibly in love with a righteous brother who is so far away from me. but alhamdullilah even from a distance I feel so loved and blessed to have him in my life. Most importantly I am waiting for the day that we will get married because I believe it is only then that I will be able to feel and totally comprehend the meaning of love...and at that time..I intend to treat him like a King and give back some of the love that he has shown me.
as to anonymous who is talking about circumcised somali girls...please dont generalize and most of us anyhow did not have a choice as to what was done to us. So, if you are somali, when you do find a girl that you like...be gentle,loving, compassionate...and affectionate and make sure you are emotionallly connected...and I can guarantee you she will be satified and you will know it. as for me, I pray to Allah everyday, night and day,to bring me and my beloved together in this dunya being incredibly happy. Hope you all find what I have found...alhamdulilah.

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anon

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If you really need to know the somali name for whore it's 'DILLO'
no lie

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Ismahan

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dear Anon,

If that's all you have to say, then i feel sorry for you ...i know exactely what whore means only "somali" and "whore " don't match.!!! so find something better to do then unsulting somalian womans of "whores" or "dhilo" ....i'm not gona sit here and call you names because your not worth my time!...

Ismahan~
Peace and bleesings!

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Badmaax

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To: Amran:

Tan Amran ayaa iska leh, walaashiis waxaan kuu sheegi lahaa eedaynta aad raga Somaliyeed ku eedaynaysid inaysan dumarka Somaliyeed qancin karin, waxaan ku oran lahaa walaashiis adiga hal qof ayaa tahay umana malynayo inaad dumarka Somaliyeed mas,uul kawada noqon karto, hadii aad rabto in lagu qanciyana aniga oo aan ku afla gaadaynayn waa in qanciska labada dhinac ka yimaadaa,hadii aad qanac rabtid waa inaad ka keensataa sida aad malaynasid inaad ku qancaysid, hadii kale bar oo waxaa tiraahdaa sidaas ayaan rabaa. Ogowna walaashiis qof balabala(hadal badan)
wada hadaad aragto tiisa ayaa shaki kaga jiraa, ee adiga ha xishoonin, soo qor talo ayaa lagu siine.
Hadii kalana walaashii xishoo bulsh dhan ayaa pcga ku caynaysaa,anigana waxaan kugula talinayaa markii aad seexanaysid inaad niyada gashataa inaat wax qancin karto adna lagu qancin karo.

Kana raali ahow walaashiis hadalkayga hadaad khalad u aragto, anigu adiga oo kaliya ayaan hadalka u wadaa ee dad kale maye.

Bye:Badmaax

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anon

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Ismahan

who said i was calling you names , boy you need to get your fact right before you speak!

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MA

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Samira u made me cry zzz.......got tissue? that is so sweet but common u making us the lossers who ain't go jack ..no heart feelings but personal staff?.. comon.

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Anonymous

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Hi sister
Please don't hate love , all the people are not same feeling maybe u didn't get right one , your young and beautiful so don't give up the right one , maybe is me .
sister watch out who you dating .

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$$$$

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u guys r all 40+ and caruurti baad iska seexiseen and the wife/husband too, so now u want to come here and talk about love. plzz bro/sis get a life and go back to ur 18-19+ kids. kiss my black dark somalian ass and enjoy while u doing it. love is for 17-25 years of age not 40+. go back to the donat guys and women go back to aroosyada.

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$$$$$

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to qeys watch out cuz i know u man. lier lier nobody broke ur heart, probably u got it from magazine or books etc... idiot get a life cuz u aint got any. u need to kiss some asses.
(^)

( _^ _ )


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aniga

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To: Anonymous

I almost agree with u but u r wrong cuz that is not love, u got mix up with love and enter couse.
i think u need to go to school and learn the real meaning of love or should i recomend the dectionery it will be usefull.

u r the kind of man who uses the women for their privet prats and don't care about their feelings.

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Murug la'

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LOVE- the most overated word in the english language...followed closely by "Happiness"! But that is for a different discussion.
Love is for the birds and the small of mind.
Let us think it through. I am only refering to the love between man and woman- whose goal is marriage.
Marriage is a partnership entered into with mind!
Courtship is the process by which one engages in to find that partner.
So where does love fit in? Nowhere.
Love is something young men and women pine about, to waste time, while dreaming and listening to pathetic songs about "love conquering all"!
Love is a glich in the brain that is taken care of by the dawning of MATURITY!
Enjoy it while it lasts!

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Lajeceel

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Murug'La, now I know what the phrase 'ignorance is bliss" means. If there is no love in your life and you are emtoionally deprived; don't deny the existence of love and advice ppl to settle for less. To settle for less is a crime against one's soul!!!!!!

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BY: ABDISH

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IF TO LOVE SOMEONE IS A CRIME THEN MISSING HER IS A SIN. DO ALL THE GOODS THINGS U CAN , BY ALLTHE MEANS U CAN ,IN ALLTHE PLACES U CAN ,IN ALL THE WAYS U CAN , AT ALL THE TIME S UCAN ,TO ALL THE PEOLE U CAN AS LONG AS EVER U CAN. TO PROTECT OUR WOMENS . BEST LADIES , SOMALI LADIES, REOSON: THEY ARE FANTASTIC AND THEY SATISFY YOUR NEEDS.

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Murug la'

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Lajeceel;
So I don't know what "love" is? LOL - maybe? maybe not! But that is beside the point.
I was advising against making life's decisions based on a flimsy emotion! and you have to admit- love is pretty flimsy! One day you are nuts about someone- next day/year/decade- "what was his name"!
I am not denying that one should follow ones hopes and dreams. One should! One should also wtch out for ones self. TAKE CARE OF NUMBER ONE- ALWAYS!
The compass of your destiny should not be guided by an emotion- any emotion. Love, Anger, Hate, Jealousy etc- they all fall in the same category.
My final point: My advice to the young in search of "love"- Make your life's decisions using your HEAD! After all its your life- doesn't it deserve clear thinking to guide it!
For you Lajecel, feel free to use the heated emotions to fulfil your soul and guide your destiny. Who knows- you might suceed wonderfully- I hope you do- Cynics need to be proven wrong!
Good Luck!

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Lajeceel

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Murug'La lol sis. I am a recovering cynic, so I have to post such messages as above to convince myself and thus improve the quality of my day dreams :).


Much love to y'all!

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Murug la'

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Dear Lajecel;
:-)
Happy Millenium to you!

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reality-check

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Happy New Year All!!!! Even though it is not the Islamic New Year...i hope that this 2000 will be the yr that we shall unite and that Allah will guide us all on the right path...Amiin.

i like to say that all of ur talks r interesting...but ppl plz look at another angle.
Love..i think many of u guys already defined so perfectly that i would be an idiot to say it better than u :)
That means that most somalimen and women know what love means so where is the pb...it is easy to c...as a somali society we were not allowed to express our feelings so easily to outsiders. by outsiders i mean ppl outside ur family. Now that does not mean that the word was never used...it is known that every reer xamar man says "i love u" to every girl he sees lol :) but i am talking about saying and meaning it....i do not think i have seen that case yet.
I know that some couples got married due to love...but they confesed to one another only after the marriage, for we see marriage as an alliance brought by love.
I think that we have to quit acting like the white man and go with culture and religion.
It is said...marry the one that is religious,love him/her for the sake of God, love ur children for the sake of Allah and then eventually love will come.
Sisters, would u not feel better if the men were more serious. for real, our men today act more like OGs then the real somali man...a somali man always keeps his promises and he never does a sister wrong, i guess that part of our culture was thrown out of the plane on our trip to the Western world. Brothers, wouldn't u feel better to know that u have a girl at home that cares for u greatly????
I guess what i am trying to say is...stop dreaming, wake up and smell the coffee!!!This so called love does exist in some aspects but not the way it is written....no man or woman dies for love or does not eat for days...love is an inner feeling...it can not be explained...but it makes u feel good and bad.
I tell ppl who want to know about love to study a mother with her new born baby....that is the true love the most innocent one...it is not based on sex, or attraction or money or converstation....it is something beyond that..the same goes for the love we have for our Creator...it is beyond explaination...it is GRAND.
so for my somali sis and bros....love one another like u love urself and things shall go well.

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Aliya

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Asalaamu Caleykum,

To my bro reality-check, I agree with you, keep up the good work. WOW,I think you did your homework quite well. I hope as you said our bro's and sisters love and respect themselves. To you and all my sisters and brothers kula caam wa antum bil khayr.
Wa salaam

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Contributor

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Hello to all those who are reading this message. I apologize for the fact that I am leaving this message in an area of the forums that is of a different subject matter than my message. But I really need this message to be read by some Somali people.

I am not Somali, but I am learning the Somali language. I have been studying it for about 5 months. It is TRULY a beautiful language as I hear it spoken. I live in Minneapolis, Minnesota, U.S.A.. There are many Somalis around me, and I see them often. Some of them are even my friends.

As I study the Somali language, I am coming across a number of hurdles, some of which I cannot overcome without the help of others. I have 3 Somali-English dictionaries, but that is not enough. For that reason I am humbly requesting that if there is any person who is willing to help me in my efforts, could you please e-mail me. I would only need to send you one e-mail about every 2 weeks (or even less often than that). My questions would be in the e-mail. The time it would take you to answer the questions in each e-mail would be 10 minutes or less.

I know that I am not supposed to advertise in this forums. But I'm not actually trying to sell anything, and I hope that my message does not fall into an unacceptable category with regard to what is allowed in this forums. If this is the case, then I do apologize. But in all honesty, I am just sincerely trying to learn your language, and I need some help.

In the past, when I have tried to ask some other Somali people for help, I have found more or less the same questions to be asked to me. So, I will state these facts now, since I imagine that some of you may be hesitant to help unless you knew this information:

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The reason I'm learning Somali is for multiple reasons:

(1) I have some Somali friends, and would like to be able to talk with them also in their language
(2) I see Somali people A LOT because of where I live (Minneapolis, Minnesota, U.S.A), and I would like to be able to speak with them in their language.
(3) I'm an open-minded person with regard to other cultures, and I try not to be single-minded, and I think it's good to know about others.
(4) I see Somali people where I work also, and I would like to be able to communicate in their language with them.
(5) I enjoy studying foreign languages in general.
(6) I think it is a very beautiful language.
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About myself:

I'm male, a student (college student), and I was born in Minnesota
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Some of the Somali people that I have asked for help in the past have said, "why don't you ask for help from the Somali people that you see in your city?"

The reason why that is not practical is because of the time issue. I am trying to get more that 1 helper. Why? Because shortly after I started learning the Somali language, some of the questions I had asked other Somali people have lead me to this answer from them; "There are different dialects, depending on whether you are from the North of Somalia, the South of Somalia, etc." Not only that, I have seen that certain words I would ask a person, he / she might know what it means, but another person would not have ever heard of the particular Somali word (and visa-a-versa ). Thus, for that reason, since I'm reading different Somali texts in the Somali language which are written by different authors (some of which may be from the North, or some of which might be from the south), I need to have helpers from different places in Somalia. So my basic idea is to be able to send my e-mail questions to more than 1 person (to a couple of people who are from different places in Somalia). That way, I can be sure to get the answer (that only a person from the North might be aware of, or only an answer that a person from the South might be aware of). That is why it is not practical to ask people in person in my city because it takes too much time running around trying to get different responses from different people with different dialects if the first person I ask does not know the answer perhaps due to the fact that this person is not from a certain region where a certain word is not even used (and this word just happens to be the word that I'm asking for the meaning of).
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"Why don't you just go to one of those Somali web sites and get grammar books and stuff?"

This is also not enough. I have already bought 3 English-Somali dictionaries, and I have access to Somali grammar books. But there are some questions that you need to ask others. For example, here is one question that I had asked one Somali person not too long ago. In a Somali text that I was reading, I saw this sentence, <<Gurigaannu ka shaqaynaynaa>> . . I already knew the word "shaqo" for "work", and I know the word "guriga" for "house".. . But the "aannu" ending was confusing. If I try to find "aannu" in a 500 page Somali grammar book, forget it-- it would take 3 hours. But the Somali person easily told me that this construction was the way of speaking in a certain area of Somalia. He said that it is a short way of saying, "Guriga aynu ka shaqaynaynaa" . . And then I understood!! To be very honest, I need people that I can ask when I have certain problems that a dictionary or a 500 page grammar book can't answer. . If I were a Somali person, then maybe I could find this information in a grammar book, but I'm not Somali, so I need people to help me.
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And the last question that I've gotten a lot of time is, "Hey man, you are Somali, why don't you just admit it! I don't believe you!"

No, I am not Somali. I am American. I cannot prove it unless you live in Minneapolis, and you meet me.
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Well, I think that is about it. Once again, I apologize if this message is inappropriate for this area of the forums.

If any person is willing to help me, I WOULD VERY MUCH SO appreciate it. Basically, I need a person who speaks both Somali and English fluently, and who is also able to read the Somali language. My e-mail is as follows..

abdulkareem100@hotmail.com

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kumafahmin

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you're confusing us, try to make a somalian good friend and then keep him/her in touch whether by phone email or seeing. first you need to learn basic somali before you pass dialogs.

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reality-check

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Dear Contributor,
First of all i am pleased to hear that a non-somali wants to learn my precious language....hands up for u bro.
Second of all...i shall tell u that u r not the first of non-somalis that want to learn somali.
I am not perfect in my language...but i have one good teacher....my ears and my tongue.
If u listen to it and try to speak it then u shall master it...but it will take u more than couple of months...it might take u yrs.
I think somalis have been through what u r going through now....i am not referring to the study of the somali language but of english, french,sweden etc. We did not yell for help...we did what we do best...we fought it by ourselfs...but of course not all ppl have the characteristics of our somali ppl!!! (Masha allah...may Allah make us stronger...Amiin)
until then take care
reality-check

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ubax

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Hello everyone
How is going?

First of all I wanna to say...I never been in love...I use to date but I stop coz is waste of time when you not plan to get marry, why coz i have better things to do then been house wife...Where I live most girls are getting marry in their teen (16 to 20) I think is wrong..they should at least finish high school. I just happen to know three of them who got marry and then drop out of school....what kind life do you think they gonna have...rely on their husban all time...yeah that the kind life they gonna have. Love is something no one can tell you... is just something that come is out... but most of our somalia ppl don't watch out of who they give their heart to ...you never know what the person is gonna do to you. I have a friend who date this guy for 5 years and she alway told she love and she wanna to get marry, her heart was out there for this guy, guess what he did, he play on her, and she crying..until that day i told myself...even if i star dating again i would never fall in love.


peace out.
your sista

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scat9

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Hello Ubax.... I really admire listening to people's love situations because it's very educational whether it is a happy one or not. It is true these days that it is very difficult to marry at an early age like 21 and younger because people are just really getting started with their lives. But you can never say never because you don't look for love and find it....love finds you and love is what you make it.....a marriage is only as beautiful as the two make it. Love is also more than just a man taking care of his woman as far as paying the bills and it is also more than a woman becoming a housewife and until people really learn what love is their relationships will be difficult. Every relationship is different and every couple will have their problems and that is why communication and friendship are extremely important to have as the foundation of a relationship because there won't always be romance. And you already know there is no romance without finance. I'm just a brother that has learned to be more opened minded and a better listener. I look forward to your response(s). Peace out to everyone! scat9

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PLeasureGiver

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Asalam Alaikum
Hello big bro and sis
i really liked what read in here today it was very educational. i just want to thank everyone for being honest and opening minded. i know or maybe i don't know what love is, but i know one think and that is to be in love in not easy, cause to be in love is job and we need to do that job for the best of our ability, but whenever we in love what is the only think we fear people, let me tell u people i may be wrong but the only think we fear is fear itslef, and all fear is through of fear of lost and only through that fear that we can truely love. the only love that can last forever is true love, and true love can't last forever without the risk of lost. so people please don't let one bad experiance stop us for finding what could be the most beautiful thing that can happend to us and that is love cause love is beautiful and it come make us the happiest person in world, but don't count out that love can also make us so misrable and make us wish that we never feel in love. so don't let that stop us for opening to our heart for someone else, cause life is twice beautiful when shared with two happy people who love one another. keep in mind people when we in love with someone we actually in love with the other person heart, so always we should try to respect the other person heart and appreciated whatever the heart offer us even if it is by huring us. my message for all of us is accept and appreciat what life brings to us and the meantime feel in love and let nature took it contorl for the outcome, please don't let the fear of getting hurt stop us for opening to our heart to someone else, cause true love will never ever hurt us and distroy our life. peace and love to my big bro and sis.
i really apreciated if i got comments of what i said in here today if it is agreeing with with me or disagreeing with me so please post u r comment in here and inshallah i will read next time i come here and try to respond u r comments to the best of my ability.
P.S pleasuregiver

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Ismahan

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Dear Ubax:

Sista, first of all I wanted to say that i anderstand your opinion about getting married early. I myself use to think the same way before i met my fiance. when I met him I was only 17, i know it's very young but there is no where to escape love!...i was doing my last year of high school. things got tough for me,i agree but insted of getting married with him i decided to get engaged to him till i finish my education. to make a long story short, we had an engagement party and became husband and wife, i still live with my parents and i'm now in college. we are now planing on getting married this summer >insha'Allah...this is a way for me to finish my education and for him to save up some money!! and still be with each other. There is not always a bad ending in love so give it a shot!!!
I hope this point of view will change your opion about love and marriage!

Peace Ismahan!!~

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hebel

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Aaha aaha aaha
ok ok ok ok
koow koow koow
waan gartay waan gartay waan gartay
waa ceynkaa waa ceynkaa waa ceynkaa
walee walee walee walee
iiwad iiwad iiwad
balo balo balo
ba a ba a ba a
aaha aaha aaha
uumhu uumhu uumhu

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KAAFI

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All ya up there, listen be careful brothers and sisters. Love is something we all need, but question is when do we need that kind of "love"?
Love starts the nite of the wedding brothers and sisters other then it is just imaginary.

Love

Love is true!
Love is sweet!
If you have a lover you can't be beat?
Hold them close show them you care
let them know you'll always be there!
No matter when no matter why
just know they will love you
till the day you die.

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BADA

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This is 4 ya "Ubax"

If i don't misread ur message, ya said that the place ya live all of the girls married with age (16-20). Sis what is wrong with that. I think sis ya are getting changed ur-self. Even though if ya study high school or just say it collega or univ sis what make ya think ya will be bigger than us sis no ya are wrong! If we are Muslim, we today beleive so easily the "kufar" pple sis, they make the all education stuff that we have to follow otherwise, we beleive we will not success this life who said that human-being or just ya? If we don't gratuate the univ or clge sis we gonna be failure is that what ya think sis?. I think that is not true sis. You can married and the same time go to whatever education ya want. Why are ya making big deal sis, ya don't even mention to study or to learn the "qur'an" sis?. Sis don't misunderstand me I'm not agains education but i wonder why ya are making big deal of education which the kufar wanted to wested our-time sis.

Your second word:
ya had a boyfriend sis and ya think something that somebody be vain sis wrong!!!. Don't ya see those girls they didn't wested their time to the street the way ya are doin' and they are very happy then the life ya live sis. so back up sis don't insult the good sis who wanna married young, it is good for deeds and for their lives sis.

if you wanna to be educated please read the qur'an and ahadith sis, ya will find most of sciences stuff ya wanna know sis. Remember ya will find anything ya want to know about this life.

I see ya like one who don't know at all qur'an sis ahadith sis. So go and learn it sis ya will get "ajir" sis.

thank ya sis

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A/J

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LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL 222222222 C/J
geedka jeceelka that is the right word of saying it.

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Hibooooos

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To: Kaafi

Brother I agree with you hundred percent.

Love comes.......Markeey labada qof aqal galaan taasna been ma ahaa waa wax laga soo salgaaray...marka girl listen to the brother. Been Beeen wax mabaawineesee...Reality aas larabaaye

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hadiya

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hi to all brothres/ sisters

i was reading all of u r idea and what u thing about "love" some af u are right and same aren't. aneyway i'm not here to to make a laction, but what i thing about 'love' at first i thought about my self that i won't fall in love, never. that word doesn't exist. now i knew that i was wrong. i fall inlove with a guy and he is a wonderful. i'm injoying evan tuoght that we r not in the same country.jaceelku kuma xirna qofka in aad isku meel joogtaan qofkana in uu kuu qalmo waxaad ku ogaan kartaa weedii su'aalaha aad jeceshahey adiga oo fiirinaaya sida uu uga jawaabo sida uu u qaato ama uu u fasirto, dulqaad maleeyahey qofka, dadka banaanka sidee ayuu ula macaamilaa adiga oo intaas oo dhan fiirinaaya hadana ilaahaaga talo saaro oo aamin asiga ayaa towfiiqda ku waafajinaayee markastana waxaa ogaataa in aan heleesid kii ilaah kuu qorey.

god pless u all

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hebel

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and those stupid persons ruin your good pair of stupid shoes.
love stinks bro. and so is life.

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Baaadboy

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Hi All,
I was just wondering, where are all of you Somali girls talking about love live? The ones I had the misfortune of meeting couldn't grasp the concept. All they ever think about (and this may not be their fault)is a relationship based on convenience. I am glad to know that Somali girls are not that dumb.

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hebel

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this came out the baaaaaaadboy?
the end is near
the end is near
run for your lives.

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Baaadboy

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How come you never make sense, Hebel? Are you always drunk or just stupid?

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hebel

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stupid

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lol@hebel

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lol@hebel
i think you stupid ass is in pain, some smart person dumped you cuz ya was stupid.
hebel, dont worry, aight some stupid person will come to your stupid ass and you will live in a stupid life. LOL

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hebelhater

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MR Hebel....
you are pathetic!!!! save your B.S for someone who wants to read it.

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hebel

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OK sir

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Idil Buraleh

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Hi all,
First of all....I wanna say Love is a feeling that empowers our heart, our soul and our mind. I'm in love with a guy that I want him to be the father of my children. But his love hurt me so much. He has not had much experience in field but his learning. They say Love is non-selfish, giving feeling. Really there is nothing more selfish about it. The problem is I don't think he love me enough and he thinks i love him too much. May-be we just wanna drive each other mad. I tried to be patient, I tried to love him more, I tried to care for him more. I don't know much but I know I Love him. There is no secret in having a good relationship, you only have each other to kindle your eternal selves to each other. At times I wanna just break free from it all. Yet, something inside of me keeps pushing to that feeling. One can never excape from it nor live without it. But I all say if you belong to each other, you will alway find each other again, if you don't then you weren't never his/her to begin with.

Thanx for listening

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ABDULFATAH

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HI mis DASH,its me appearing like a twinkling star in the sky just for the sake of all somali(men/women)including u mis dash,honestly i went through all the commentsin these forums and none of u haven't touch or did comment the true LOVE.First of all let me thank the creator of all the universal entire who have given me these golden opportunity to draft these massages in these beuatiful screen of every human race on earth. {GOD IS GREAT} LOVE-XUBU-JACEEL is there for all men and women.But there is 2 different kind of love,1)lets go back to our prophet MOHAMED (peace be up on him)and see what was his wisdom to his ummah as he said in his hadith that AXIBU LINAAS MAA TU XIBU LINAFSIKA WHICH MEANS lajecloow qofka binu aadmiga ahi wax kastoo aad nafsadaada ola jeclaan laheed.2)these is the love which everybody has in mind which is between a man and a womanbut unfortunately we mislead each other and i dont mean that iam absolutely perfect,actually there is no one who is perfect,we all make mistakes but the degree varies and everybody cover up his mess.ALLAH IS HIGH and knows what is in our heart. So my dear bros!and sists! lets go back to our prophet and creator and ask ALLAH for forgiveness.let not translate love to be sleeping around and commiting fawaaxisha which is ZINNAA waciyaadu bilaah min daalika. (AMIIN) I have so many things to say but i dont want make u feel bored , i will add some more if god wishes, and i would like to apologize if i touch ed someone .i will end up by sying assalamu alaikum warahmatulahi wabarakaatuhu.Abdish in otherwords Abdulfatah

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TROUBLEGIRL

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Love is a WONDERFUL THING Y'all

LOVE

When I think of Love I think of my
Nimcatulfashuuq.I think of his smile, tenderness, his kisses, his honesty.I love the way he respects and adores me.I love the way he speaks to my heart.I love the way he understands me when I throw my tantrums and act childish..I call it PMT(lol).I love the way he calms me down.I love the way he calls me in the morning even though we were on the phone for 6 hours the night before.I love the way he refers to me as the mother of his children(lol).I love the way he is a man of Allah.I love when he advices me and guides me....Above all I LOVE THE WAY HE LOVES ME.

Guys just pray that if you fall in love your feelings are reciprocated.Take your time to get to know the person

Love is a not a little while
So always keep a cheerful smile
Love everyone if you are wise
That is sister Trouble's advice.

PEACE
TROUBLE

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Anonymous

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cibaado
I likewhat you told about love,i loved you by you being that genius...is there a way i can get connected to you.....

bye
lol

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hebel

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any whichway ya can bro, any whichway

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AXMED

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SOMALIAN WOMEN DON'T KNOWN ABOUT LOVE OR SEXUAL EMOTIONS. THEY NEED TO BE EDUCATE ABOUT SEX LIFE STYLE. THEY NEED TO LEARN BASIC SEX POSITION EXAMPLE(DOGGIE STYLE,69ER,FROG STYLE.

***FANS---IF YOU WANT TO A CLASS, COUSRE NAME IS SSC.
AT DIXON 370 #1605
SOME CONDITIONS APPLEYED!!!!!!!!

(***THIS IS YOUR HANDS ON TRAINER PAPA AXMED***)
ALWAYS SERVERING THE COMMUNITY NEEDS!!!!
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

FOR TROUBLEGIRL--- REALITY CHECK

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ThugGirl22

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For ahmed,
well ...you can start serving your community by enrolling in Continuing Education FREAK!!.
DIXON guys are HIV_SPREADING 2Cent whores. Check your grammar and yourself weasel-head
and dont disrespect the ladies..

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ThugGirl

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For ahmed,
well ...you can start serving your community by enrolling in Continuing Education FREAK!!.
DIXON guys are HIV_SPREADING 2Cent whores. Check your grammar and yourself weasel-head
and dont disrespect the ladies..

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DaBACHELOR

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WHATZ UP LOVE
I can make your life a world of difference
Throw me in the mix of your sexual experiences
See what happens
by
GINUWINE Da BACHELOR
DO U WANNA RIDE MY PONY?????
HAHAHAHA

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Anonymous

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by Sheenadin,ku all bro,sis dhamaan tiin waxaa tihiin dad xishoodkii katagey waxaana lagu duceeystaa ilaahoow xishoodka hanaga qaadin,waxaayna sheekadu ku fiicantahay in qof walba qofka uu garanayo sihoos ahaana uu ugu sheego. kii xun iyo tii xun allaha ugargaaro,Amimmmmmmmmmmm.?

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samam

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Waxad ku hadlesan lalabo ahaa

mawaxad qabatan bad way deen

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dr.congo

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meshaan dadka waalwaalan aalaga helaa hadaa fiyoowdahay maxaa ku keenay

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layla

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i was reading some of these meassages, some of them are very interesting and they at least trying to put their own oint of view and other don't actually know what they talking about.
First of all we can't say one is wrong and other right always arguments is no win sitaution.

if you go to the point what is love? i think i have to leave the answer to people who get throught it and i will ans other time and am sure one day i will be that position.

Remember be respect

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Anonymous

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IF WE COULD CONTROL OUR FEELINGS , WE WOULD BUT I DONT THINK WE CAN , BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN WE ARE STUPID OR DUMB.

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XaawoTaako

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Listen Up Y'all,
Love is that which keeps me Energized & Pumped Up Everyday! Love is My Savior, My Protector, My Only Hope for Life! Yes, I am in love with a wonderful man. I Love him so much, I cry at night just thinking about it! I never loved someone so much in life! He makes me smile, cry, laugh all in the same hour! I know he's the one for me, Why? because he loves me as much, respects me as much, tolerates me as much, cares for me deeeep!
I never knew Love could be so REAL! I never believed that Love exists! But Hell Yeah! It does exist. When You least expect it, Love Creeps up behind you & smacks you right in the face! One day you wake up & Boom You're In Love! And you'll be like "How did that happen?" Well, it did happen. So, people Love is 4real! And Once you've found love, you'd never want anything else in life! But, Loving someone too much & not getting back the same love is a Pain. So, in that case you should love smarlty.

Real Love also existed during the Prophet's time (PBUH). There was a man who loved a woman so much, that he used to cry each time he saw her face. So, love is there! Love is 4real!

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ThugGirl

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"There was a man who loved a woman so much, that he used to cry each time he saw her face. So, love is there! Love is 4real! "
THAT WAS THEN , NOW its the yr 00 aight!!and there is :
1. Lust= sexual attraction, in other words being just plain horny. But having this, indicates you're a sexual human being and no one ever died from being horny

2. limerance= the glorious glow when you first meet that somebody,boom!!you connect,and the intimacy is immediate and it builds to the point where you're thinking about that person 24/7. Then sooner or later you gotta eat and take the garbage out right. you know what i mean.

3. Love--> comes after #2.
you know your partner, you trust your partner, you get comfortable with your partner;you tell your partner your deepest and darkest secrets,.and .yata yata ...i think thats enough for today...
4. You have a partner FOR ETERNITY...seen!!
case solved...peace

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BADGIRL

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TO ThugGirl

Girl.....That is so true......


TO AXMED

U need to reality check your cheap sense of respect for the SOMALIAN QUEENS......U talking about we need to learn more about sex......I am so glad I don't know you personally......coz If I did I would explain some vital points to you about US...........The somalian women.
U live in DIXON.....No wonder you got HIV dude....
And anyways..I feel sorry for the SISTAH who has any kinda future with ya........U deserve to be with a BITCH(dog)......U know you will truely be happy

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ahmed

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i dont think sow love i don.t think sow love is lake that

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Anonymous

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i never get love but i think sow the love isnot imbortant because if you have many you can get every girl you want. and girls also so that fest many then love se peaple have many they have love to so the love isnot fest so i dont beliv the love but i belive maruch
alanlay10hotmail.com

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ANISA

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*69
LOVE IS SOMETHING THAT CAN MAKE U CRAZY BUT ACTUALLY LOVE IS STUPIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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hebel

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And this is where English died.
It used to be very good language...god bless it.

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TROUBLEGIRL

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AXMED

LOL....Idiot AXMED(aka alanlay10) U need help bro......U R trying to cover your ignorance with your pretence thug like attitude.....Why can't ya just admit YA CAN'T SPELL.......?

PEACE

Trouble<I got trouble ignoring fools like above man>

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heblayo

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Strange indeed!
Love that makes you cry anytime you think/see the person!
ppl...that is not love. That is psychosis!

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OG

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to Anisa that was boring and misleading the IDea of love , love is really thrue gift from GOD ...lol..
if you haven't got that gift don't offend it

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Sara2000

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Salaam
I believe in Love, but not in the way the Kufaars describe it. Love is not just a feeling, but also can be shown in action. What a spouse does for you, say to you, shows you compassion and support, now that's Love. But I do believe that the ultimate love that you can express from your heart belongs to Allah. That love will never let you down. However, what Allah placed between men and women is something undescribeable, perhaps is't a different kind of Love. That kind that strenghthens a special bond that exists between a husband and a wife. Unfortunately, with some ppl, Lust=Love. I believe that love can be controlled. I'm not denying love. Peace

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hebel

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LOve stinks

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CoCoNut

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Why, do you live near a sewer?

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huh

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lol CoCoBalls anti hebel's words

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hebel

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yeah the sewer of Love and it stinks cocobutter

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Venus

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Dear CoCoNuT
The day the world will die is when you open ur mouth cuz ur breath needs Billions of dollars worth of a dentist.Why, did I see you going out with another guy, was it a girl?i suppose u take a bath in the local city dump?!!U knw that love is way over the topic we need the other love. so peace and love cuz i'll see you in the Jenny Craig program! And why did you fall in love with the purple teletubbie?U seriously need a big book about the life of a player or scrub like me! i do knw that u have the book about being handicap cuz u are!!!!

Love peace and see ya sucker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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SAGAL

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SO WHAT IS THE CONCLUSION?? HERE???
lOVE A MYTH...OR...WAXMATARE??

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kamaalcadde

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SAGAL the conclusion is who wanna meet me in love now waxaan ahey wiil dhalin yaro ah daddiisuna tahey 23 jir waxaana jeclahey gabdhaha soomaaliyeed lashhkeesigooda so the conclusion is who wanna stay me with love barasha kastana waa furan tahey welcome

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hebel

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sagal and kamaalcadde (cadde aa? warka isii) wait a sec. we're beating up coconut.

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sagal

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funny how ur name is os familiar kamaal cadde!!
Dont i know u from somehwre....like close relations??
hebel..lol
!

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khalil

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Hey Qeys:
I really found your piece not only thrilling and charming but also based on reality which you wrote in good and appealing english.

I can't agree you more that this sentimental idiocity they call Love is nothing but another drug, like crack, that makes you act like insane.

Isn't really amazing how stupid mankind can enter your defense system and fuckes all up?

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unknoen

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lllllllllllove, is not something to play around o.k
lllllllllloooooooooooovvvvvvvvvvveeeeeee

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MIND SPEAKER

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What is LOVE? do we realy know what it is or are we just taking about a subject that we have no idea about?
SOMALIA's in gerneral have no feelings or idea about what it realy is and they think that having a CRUSH on someone or LIKEING someone is the same as LOVE?
SOMALIA GUYS been the WORST when it comes to LOVE?

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

PEACE OUT MY BROS AND SISS

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Anonymous

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Mind speaker.

you know, its true somalians don't know what love is even though they say they do. And clearly, you domanstrate it well your self, but it won't hurt to start taking about it know than later.

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Anonymous

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hi all horta marka hore salaan walaalayaal mida labaad ma ogtihiin dad aan englishka aqoon inay idinla qaybsanayaan fikradihiina maxaa idiin diiday inaad ku qortaan afkiina hooyo ... waa cajiib

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MIND SPEAKER

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WHAT IS IT WITH SOMALIA BRO AND SIS THEY SAY THEY LOVE YOU JUST SO THEY CAN GET SOMETHING FROM EACH OTHER (FOR GUYS ITS SEX FOR GIRLS ITS FOR MONEY AS THE GUYS SAY GOLD DIGGERS).

THERE IS NOTTHING WRONG WITH GOING OUT WITH SOMEONE B'COS THAT'S THE ONLY WAY YOU ARE GOING TO KNOW IF YOU HAVE FOUND THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU BUT PERSONALLY I DON'T BELIVE IN SAYING I LOVE YOU TO SOMEONE WHEN I KNOW DEEP DOWN IN MY HEART I DON'T REALY LOVE THE PERSON.

I BELIVE IF THERE WERE A LOT MORE PEOPLE LIKE ME THE WORLD WILL BE A BATTER PLACE AND A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO ARE HURT HERE WILL NOT BE HEART BROKEN.

TO ALL THE BROS AND SIS WHO ARE THINKING OR SAYING I LOVE YOU TO SOMEONE THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU SAY IT TO SOMEONE NEXT TIME.


LOVE, PEACE AND UNITY TO ALL MY BROS AND SIS

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Cibaado

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To mind speaker

LOVE is a unique program, there is no other like it in the world. LOVE attaches to your operating system and runs silently in the background. You will never see LOVE on your monitor or your toolbar, but you will notice its affect on every application you have. It makes the good programs run smoother and greatly restricts and/or deletes the bad ones.
LOVE searches your memory for programs like HATE.COM, BITTERNESS.EXE, SELFISH.COM, and
SPITE.EXE. These programs can't be entirely deleted off your hard drive, but LOVE overpowers those programs. LOVE stops their commands from being executed and runs its own instructions. You will no longer hear INSULT.WAV and you won't be able to write with the fonts "BADWORDS12" or HARSHNESS10." . Once you have LOVE installed and running, it automatically copies a module, or a piece of itself, to every external Harddrive Email And Remote Terminal (HEART) that it comes in contact with. In turn, those external devices run whatever version of LOVE they have and return a module to your HEART.
You will be upgraded with each and every module that you receive. But you have to remember, to receive the upgrades you have to be running LOVE and you have to come into contact with other computers while it is running. LOVE will automatically erase PASTHURT.EXE from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory, but it will no longer disrupt other programs.
LOVE will eventually overwrite LOWESTEEM.EXE with a module of its own called HIGHESTEEM.EXE. However, you have to completely turn off GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM. Those programs prevent LOVE from being properly installed. Can you turn those off Qays?? LOVE program is set up to run on external HEARTS but has not yet been run on your HEART. It is one of those complicated programming things, but in non-technical terms it means you have to "LOVE" your own machine before it can "LOVE" others. Click on the following files and then copy them to the "MYHEART" directory; FORGIVESELF.DOC, SELFESTEEM.TXT, REALIZEWORTH.TXT, and GOODNESS .DOC. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching any faulty programming. Also, you need to delete SELFCRITIC.EXE from all directories,
and then empty your recycle bin afterwards to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back: LOVE is freeware. Be sure to give it and its various module to everybody you meet. They will in turn share it with other people
and they will return some really neat modules back to you.

All the best and keep in touch

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Amal2

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to cibaada

waaw sis waad iga yaabisay sidaad u qeexday love cajiib baa tahay . qof ilaahay maskax siiyaad tahee ilaahay ha kuu siyaadiyo sis lol ilaa hada waan yaabanahay ,xaas maa tahay aan walaalkeey kuu dhisee sidaa laguuguma sii dayn karee lol

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Mustapha Guiled

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To cibaado

that was great keep going and do the res. I think
u r the best i mean nice looking.


xxxxxx

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peace

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I am sorry i am somalian but abouve all i am a muslim.

Now look at what you have all written, i could swear there was no muslim among all the girls and guys who have writen here. When i read all the messages i only see things a non believer does.

Have you ever thought there is a reason we do not date like yestern girls or the reason we do not have sex before marriage, it is to stop as from ending up in the traps you you talk about or being hurt and all the other things you talk about

I would just like to remind my sisters out there you are somalians and above all you are MUSLIMS

NEVER FORGET THAT

peace

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TROUBLEGIRL

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THAT'S WHY I LOVE U BABY

Ain't anybody loved me like U do,
Ain't nobody gonna treat U like I do...
That's why I love U baby.....

U give me every little thing a girl needs
There's so much that U do
U never keep fronting when UR with UR friends
U know I don't like materials or any kinda Benz
U give me peace all the time
Furthermore U let me know IM on your mind...
That's why I love U baby

Everytime I say I love U is with PRIDE....
And everytime I say I need U its from deep inside
Coz my heart is yours forever honey
The things U do U do just 4 me...
That's why I love U baby....

AJ....That's 4 U...

PEACE

TROUBLE
PS:-Peace
George Coloney Wannabe.....Just coz people are in Love don't signify that thery from a certain RELIGION....Don't preach Bullshit coz ISLAM is all about LOVE baby not HATE....CAPISHE,,,,,

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Annima gammela

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Mr cool!
Thats wrigh <<<Annima gammela>>>that is what is all about mannn, u get it wright i love u mr cool
I wish every one will feel the same or at least get the whole meaning .
Love is all about finding ur <<Annima gammela>>.
Wich means u feel like u made each other its like ur mam knew who u r going to be with and she rased u as that person wanted u to be so no matter what happens u guys can allways work on it wrigt thats what Annima gammela means get it mr Qays the life is ful of surprises so give it chance to make fall in love again. My be ur Annima gammela is looking for uuuu..


love and peace,<< Annima gammela>>>,,
MR cool love u doesant mean i want be with u bro so dont take me wrong peace again yo all

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hebel

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MR cool doesn't live here nomore.

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analyzer

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got evicted for music blastin?

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hebel

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no...for rocking the bed agaisnt the wall too much.

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xalwa

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Salamu calaykum

hebel did you lost you sences or maybe your lover please stop this nonsence.

every one is trying to to show their feelings and you know what you just enoyed the h*** out of me.

Please say something useful or say nothing at all.

To all of you brothers and sisters please be afraid of alla the almighty.

May allah all pless you.
Xalwa

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hebel

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OK ma'am

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NeefoowKaniini

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,,,,,Hebel did u lost ur mind & ur Girginity??

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Mr Cool

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Anima Gemella
Caro
I am not male and yes it doesn't mean u love me when u say I LOVE YOU! You don't have to state that, I am smart enough to realise that. And yes anima = soul
gemella = twin
Is more like when you were born for a person and that person was born for you.. that is another interpretation of love. It is so sipmle but at the same time seems to be so complicated. Is all about on how you see it.

hebel
I would like to thank you for beeing my secretary when I am not around. You are very useful dude! Once again thank you.
I like how you handle people when I am not around. You are indeed the secretary of the year.. guess what .. you will get bonus in your pay check.

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hebel

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I like raise better My coolness.
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neefoowkaniini I lost little bit of both bro.

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Mr Cool

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Yes Yes Yes! You will get it!

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fartun omer

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To all my plp(somalian's).

Real love is what I cry for everyday. But usually i end up in the wrong hands or heart. I have loved many guy's all of which broke my heart, why you say? I don't know may be because he isn't the right "man" for me, the one allah made him for me, and me for him. No matter how many times i get hurt i alway get up and start love all over again,because i know there is some one out there for me and i'm not gonna stop till i find him. I beleive there is some one for every one out there, and that one day or the other they will find each other. My point here is that no matter how long it takes to never ever give up on love because it's real and it does exist. See your self as juliet waiting for Romeo. My Romeo if you out there i'm waiting for you.

By fartun omer,aka indho jacayle.

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Anonymous

Wednesday, October 25, 2000 - 03:52 pm
You make me cry brother
good luck.

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