     HAYAT | Monday, March 26, 2001 - 10:41 am
MY Q. IS TO ALOT OF PPL IN THE UK AND ALL OVER. ALL I WANT TO KNOW IS THAT WHY AS SOON AS YOU TELL A GUY YOUR TRUE FEELING HE THINKS HES GOT U FROM THE PALM OF HIS HAND, PERSONALLY I NEVER USE TO TELL GUYS HOW I FEEL BUT IN THIS RECENT RELATIONSHIP I HAVE TOLD HIM THE WAY I FEEL AND IT WAS HARD BUT NOW HE THINKS HE DOES NOT NEED TO MAKE AN EFFORT NO MORE. I KNOW HE STILL LIKES ME BUT I REALLY DO REGRET TELLING HIM MY TRUE FEELINGS AS I THINK HIS TAKING ADVANTAGE.
THANKS FOR READING THIS AND ANY GOOD COMMENTS ARE APPRECIATED. PLZ KEEP UR CHILDISH REMARKS TO YOUR SELF
THANKS |
| WHISTLER | Monday, March 26, 2001 - 11:49 am
LET ME POINT OUT FROM THE OUTSET THAT I CANT OFFER U ADVICE ON THIS MATTER. I'D JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT I HAVE BEEN GUILTY OF DOING THIS. I DONT REALLY KNOW WHY, ITS NOT THAT U HAVE THEM IN THE PALM OF UR HAND, BUT RATHER YOU LOOSE A BIT OF THE URGE TO CHASE. I DONT THINK THIS IS SPECIFIC TO GUYS IN THE UK ALTHOUGH I AM, BUT GUYS IN GENERAL. THE MOST OBVIOUS ANSWER IS THAT THE GUY ISNT READY 4 A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP (ESPECIALLY THE YOUNG ONES OR INEXPERIENCED ONES.) THE BEST THING TO DO IS TO AVOID HIM FOR A WHILE, THEN HE WILL MISS U AND HOPEFULLY. IT WORKS ON ME EVERYTIME.  |
| HAYAT | Wednesday, March 28, 2001 - 06:26 am
HI WHISTLER
THANKS FOR UR MSG, ACTUALLY IT DID HELP A BIT I DID NOT SEEM TO CALL HIM FOR A FEW DAYS AND HE MADE A BIG EFFORT TO GET IN TOUCH WITH ME! MAYABE YOU ARE RIGHT ITS BECAUSE THAT URGE TO CHASE IS NOT THERE ANYMORE! BUT ITS THE FIRST TIME AM DATING A YOUNG GUY AND HE SAYS HE WANTS IT TO LAST BUT I DON'T KNOW! AM ALWAYS USE TO OLDER GUYS DON'T KNOW WHY BUT I THINK AM COMPARING THIS RELATIONSHIP TO MY ONES THAT I HAVE HAD IN THE PAST.
BUT HE DOES SAY HE NOW MISSES ME A LOT BUT I NEED TO TELL HIM AM NOT USE TO PLAYING THESE STUPID GAMES AND I WANT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. |
| MNman | Wednesday, March 28, 2001 - 07:54 am
HAYAAT
Sis all man are not that some I personelly don't know the Bro's in UK.
allot man apporiate when u told them how u feel about them.
So my advise to you sis Is wait and let thiz relationship devolope it's self. |
| HAYAT | Wednesday, March 28, 2001 - 11:49 pm
thaks MNMAN I KNOW I THINK I DO NEED TO WAIT FOR THIS RELATIONSHIP TO DEVELOPE AS IT AS AN ERALY STAGE BUT I DON'T KNOW WHY I FEEL ALOT FOR THIS GUY WHICH IS WERID FOR ME AS I DON'T TELL GUYS THE WAY AM THINKING AND FEEL. AND FOR SOME RESON I HAVE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. HE SAY THAT IS WHAT HE LIKES ABOUT ME AND LIKSES ME TO TELL HIM WHAT AM THINKING BUT I JUST CAN'T TELL HIM THESE DAYS! |
| Honesita | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 06:14 am
Hayat.......sistah i welcome u to the boat of confused sistaz........i'm currently on it and i feel the exact same way walaahi....and believe me it kinda hurts....and sometimes i just dont care....and sometimes i get so mad i start cryin' and tellin' him how much i hate him...its weird.......i dont know......i'm just confused....and it feels good to know i'm not the only one....lol...!! But sis one thing i realized is never hide ur feelings......when u do it just makes it worse.......cuz u neva know if this person u're dealin' with has clean intentions or not.......so just tell who eva how u feel.........if u dont like the way they react....just leave girl.....dont waste ur time......cuz u're gonna regret more in the future u know what i mean.....!!
And its true what Whistler said.....when u tell a guy ur true feelings......he feels like whats the point of tryin' now.....i already got her......but when he sees that he's about to lose u....or he cant get u......he has do to somethin'.....!! Sis how young is the guy u're goin' with anyway.......older guys rule girl........most young guys r not into committment or serious relationships......but if u like him that is a diff. story...always...!!
I wish ya best luck sweetie...!!
Salaam |
| StillFeel4_Ex | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 06:17 am
HAYAT! (MY POINT OF VIEW)
DON'T WORRY ABOUT THIS LITTLE AGE GROUP THING, "AGE IS NOTHING BUT A NUMBER"
ALL IM SAYING IS MAKE SURE U WATCH WHO U CHOSE 2 FALL 4!
"LOVE IS BLIND AND IT WILL TAKE OVER YOUR MIND"
NOT ALL GUYZ ARE THE SAME.WELL I AM TRYING 2 TELL MYSELF THAT. HA
THERE WAS THIS 1 GUY I REALLY LIKED, I LIKED HIM SO MUCH THAT I PUSHED HIM AWAY. AND DIDN'T REALIZE UNTIL HE WAS GONE.
AND "NOW" I MISS HIM SO MUCH THAT I CAN'T EVEN CALL HIM AND TELL HIM THAT.
EVEN KNOW HE IS A SWEET GUY.
U KNOW WHO U R IF UR READING THIS IM SORRY!
P.S A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD GO BOTH WAYZ NOT JUST 1 WAY!
SPEAK YOUR MIND AND TELL HIM WHERE YOU STAND! |
| Youngone | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 12:30 pm
It's pay back baby....doesn't feel so nice does it?????? stop playin hard to get and makin the brother sweat in the first place. If u show kindness in the beginning, we show kindness in the end, and Vice versa.
This is a lesson to all women |
| mana | Saturday, March 31, 2001 - 01:56 am
Youngone
Youngone
You are not young but just stupid!
My God what is this forums heading too.
Hayat
I feel your pain. You treat him good, he runs for his life. You treat him shitty, he runs and gets crazy over you. MAN!!! If I try to understand the way these men's mind works, I am sure that I will end up in a mental institution. |
