     Confused and Troubled | Friday, March 30, 2001 - 09:20 am
Hello everyone,
My story might be meaningless and not worth discussing it, BUT I would like to know and see what advise you can give me...
Here it goes...I am 21 and live in San Diego. I go to college, and live there as well. There is this guy that I like a lot. He is like this perfect person. He has a big heart. He is funny. He is friendly and sweet to everybody and to me too. To start with he has a girlfriend that I have seen. She is a nice person. I tried to stay away and to ignore the fact that I have feelings for him, but we live at the same place and I see him EVERYDAY. He opens the door for me if I am there. He tries to talk to me. He says things like "I will do that JUST for you". Sometimes I even catch kim looking at me...He makes me nervous when he is around. I have no intension whatsoever in any way to come between him and his girl. But I just want to know...Are these the things guys do to let a girl know that they like her?...Does he like me or is it just the way he is?? Are these some signals that I am supposed to understand, to let me know that he likes me or.....What are they??
I need you guys to help me please....any comments or advices will do, beleive me...
One more thing...please please I beg you NO insults.
Love,
Confused and Troubled
P.S. The story is 100% true, it is not something that I've made up....and some of you might wonder about wether the guys is Somali...YES he is Somali. |
| Cozi | Saturday, April 07, 2001 - 08:23 am
Hey,
Hmmmm...I really would love to help you or give you an advise, but I am not good with tose things. But I hope you know what you are looking for or what you want....
Good luck
Cozi |
| LiberalL | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 07:35 am
Hello:
Well, first of all I'm no expert but, I'll offer u what i can nevertheless. U said he is sweet, friendly and big heart, he opens the door for u everytime. Well, a lot of guys open the door for a girl, it's a polite thing to do so, maybe he is doing out of politeness. Secondly, u said he is always saying things like I'll do that for u and stuff like that. Well, maybe he is too comfortable with u since u met his girlfriend and all so he feels safe flirting with you a little. I mean it would be a real problematic to think every guy, who is nice to you has some sort of feelings for u. What I'm trying to say is that, non of those indication mean much really. The guy has a girl whom you met by the way, so he is off limits. Sorry, but you shouldn't waste your time thinking otherwise. Even if he wants u now, what makes u think that he will be faithful to you and not hitting on the next girl he meets. Well, I think u r better off staying a way from him.
I hope that was helpful.
LiberalL |
| Anonymous | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 10:39 am
san diego,,,,,,city college or mesa .. well i used to live in sd. plenty of good people are found there. well, well. i don't know what to say.
i'm wordless and stunned at the same time. don't reach far to grap a bit of the apple. that all...... |
| Anonymous | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 08:07 pm
HE DOESN'T LIKE U. HE JUST WANTS TO "BANG" U. GOT IT. |
| T-GIRL | Thursday, April 12, 2001 - 08:43 pm
i fail to see why some people look for advice in the forumss? is this Dear abby or something? |
