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WHY A LOT OF YOUNG MEN MARRYING OR IN RELATIONSHIP WITH OLDER WOMEN:

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Diehard

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I have recently seen an increasing number of younger man in relationship with older women. i think some of you were already wondering and asking the same question.what caused this unusual kind of relationship?

What do you think ??
let discuss this in a civilised manner. no hard fealing whatsoever intended for the sistas. I know some of you will ask me, why not the other way round? well, its a naturally accepted rule that the man is alway older than the women,but if you're feminist enough and felt offended then go ahead and start you're own topic.
waiting for your response......

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Live-easy

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Diehard, i like hilib dheeylo, that is why I am interested in fresh guys.....not older than 25. I find men more than 30 to be sooo old and jaded.

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Anonymous

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DIE HARD
EXPERIANCE MAKES THE MAN
THAT'S ALL I GOT TO SAY

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SiHaM

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Live-easy: LOL fresh meat huh? Well I don't mind one either. Remember the rules girls 16 and UP!

Mr.Cool: Do you have anything else to add? *smile*

Later!

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Mr Cool

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Ohhh Fresh meat and I am not invited? Xaram!

Yeah Siham,

Well well well, I guess the younger dudes wanna know some new moves for future reference. Oh well what the heck, he is young, fresh.... not an old used thingo which makes a woman think "Acuudka!!!!!! kana yaa inta dhigay".

Diehard

Yes I for once cannot take the fact that is ok for a man to be with a younger woman but not a woman (to be with a younger man). Well that is an old thingo and thank god there is a change. Dear, age is just a number. Yeah some of us like fresh meat and the others go for experience. So it all depends on the person. But hey for the new millennium, yeah we all (most of us) go for younger (damn did I say that at loud, opsy). As I said before age is just a number, you just go with the one that makes jump like there is no tomorrow, that is all!

SiHaM
Girl, what is with you and the Xanjo business?

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Marwaan.

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DIEHARD.

I am not surprised by the new dudes who opt for maximum service with great experience. Older women are more gentler and enjoy the young muscle too oooobs I hope underage nuisances don't check into this but since you did not rate the title I can not be blamed.

Why go through gruelling experience with young doves when you can find real women with the asset.

Young women biss me off with their we-know-it-all attitude when they have no clue of what shakes.
Add that to the new americanised version of girls
who go" he is cuttie bye" and "He is funny I love him".

They are becoming more cheap by adjusting to uncle sam shukaansi system. No wisdom, no real sense of humour. whassup with that that amigo?..

That is why we want older more mature women.

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Saeed

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Die-hard My wife is older than me and you can get more details about our mariage at "ila tali walaal>>talo" age never come to my mind because i live in an environment where the above rule does not apply. Here in Canada most couples are about the same age or 1 - 5 years in difference. And it not the man who is older all the time.

Prior to my marriage, I used to date personalities not age as long as the woman is not under-age.

Saeed

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Diehard

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thank you all for your response,
well let me ask you this questions

1-I know older women are experince, emotionally stable than the 20 year old girls and she knows well when it comes to game of the bed making use of previous experienced gained. is this all the desire of sex that driving this guys into this relationship ? then why dont go for the younger and fresh ones?
what about you ladies are you going for stiff and hard flesh?
2- Are you afraid of the risk that she may not get children assumming that she is over 40 or close to that( although hightech and science may help but we are muslim and our religion dont allow us to use it ?)

3- How do you feel when walking on the street hand in hand with your spouse ?
4- will you invite your friends to your house? How do you feel if your wife come to visit you at your work place ,will you give an excuse that she is your mom, your ant or whatever you can came up with ?

last but not the least is this just a short time relationship where everyone need to fullfill his or her desire or there's real love involved?
let me stop here! I hope that i will get both the youngman and the oldwoman perspective
thanks DH

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Macaani

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Igaaramka yeryer waxaas rabaan qoftoo hal amse lamo wax aduunkaan ka barto,see waaye,
nin kubo-kubees u jeedo maa jiidahaa?...cajuuso ciroole eh cawada dhen aas wadee meehii nuuneeda ka noogeeso,ciro welbo caqli iyo cimri aa la socdo

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