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Please same one help me

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lila

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i meet same one more than what i was dreaming but when we said it time to get marrid my family said no becouse he not from our trip and they never hear about his trip. and my heart not going give me to marrid same one else so i will never going get marrid.
same time i can'tmake my family upset
please tell me what do.

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BET

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HUH?????

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YASMINA

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DEAR Lila
First of all i would like to say that we are in the same situation in a way but the only different is that i never told my parents about it yet?

But what you have to ask yourself is that is he WORTH the pain you are putting your beloving family that have been there for you ever sinces you was born.I know it's hard when you think about it?because beleive me when ever i think of marriege the first think that goes through my mined is My family because they are the most IMPORTANT people in my life and i pray to allah that i would never do anything to hurt them.So you should look deep in to your heart and try to see what really mean from this advice .

I don't even know you but sister i don't want you to get hurt by this because i care for you like sister.

Even if you decide to not take what i wrote to an account then remember that if you don't obey your parents that what ever happens between you and your partner e.g if he beats you ,cheats on you etc...(am not saying he well but)
your parents would always make you feel LOW,and ASHAMED of yourself because you never listend

bye and take care

P.s sis follow your heart but not your mined

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LOL

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LOL@@@@@BET

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hebel

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Lila you can start by writing in Somali...English is killing both of us

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abdul

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to LILA abaayo marriege and love's hard it's not about tripe if you'r famaliy said he's not you'r tripe. they are wrong but you can't tell them they are wrong you know how they feel about tripe. but you can explian to them what's love about i don't want you to brake there haerd abaayo what iam trying to say 's tripe's nothing ' and you know that . where's our cauntry a
t. we don't have cauntry today because of tripe
abaayo if the man love you and willing to take care of you and show you respect. you and you'r parent i will advice you to married him no metter what tripe he's as long he's somalian and good luck god bleas you lila love this 's my email abdul33@hotmail.com

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