     Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
Hi people,
I went out with many somalian guys and they each tell me that if I want them to love me, they first have to kiss me on the mouth or other rubish, and when I did give them a kiss they dumped me and told me that they dont wanna marry a girl who's been touched and that the only girls who let their boyfriends kiss them are bitches. At the moment I'm going out with this really nice boy and he's telling me that to show my love for him, we must kiss once at least. What should I do?
Is it true that guys will never marry u if u let them kiss you?
Please help me |
| Anisa45 | Unrecorded Date
sista salaam first of all
What can I say, even thought i'm sista I would never let a man kiss me unless he' is not my husband (not that I have husband, plz. I"m just a teenage) well sista, it's your life, guess that's the way you chose and guess you kind let brotha's get into you so easy. Don't get me in a wrong way, it's just you also tend to jump from one to one. DOn't you learn from your mistake's too? See sis sometime's some brother's tend to disrespect sista after they date her for a while and things don't work. I guess you see in thier mind, they think that girls who get kissed or get laid by other guys is a bitch. What' I'm wondering is why are they not bitch's 2?..So what they are Guys?
But see we live in a world where we being raised the fact that if girl does something like kiss as you are saying or had sex, she' is effentially bitch. But neverless is the brotha one. The guys tend to be "The Man". And to tell you the truth I don't blame them for being that, after all. For one thing they can't control themself.lol. But some how they gotta learn 2 control themself because that's not excuse. Another thing, they make' that smooth move's where you just fell in love with it. But see what you feel in love with is the "Air". Because that love don't last long enough. Trust me, I guess you just fell in love on the ride for a while. I hope I help you out with your question. But see' don't forget your Islam sista and you know what our religion say's about dating. It's Haram and I hope you know that. I'm wouldn't be so sure if this one is gonna last any long, but lets hope you too do. I'mean some brotha's jump too fast running to the next meat this day's. To check out if the next meat is fresh enought taste. But see never do anybody ever think about the consiquence's in later After Death. yea' thats some long test, we all gonna go throught. Insha Allah I hope it's easy for all of us. Sis, I hope you use your head and take care of yourself.
From Your Sista In Islam
Anisa45 |
| hebel | Unrecorded Date
why? |
| Liban | Unrecorded Date
be careful!!! don'nt let down your self, don,t kiss his, its haraam in islmaam untilhe will marry you don,t touch
thats my advice I am your brather in islam and somlain, he never marry u if let down with him
bye
Liban
NB. And its Tru |
| GeeseeyGoomeey | Unrecorded Date
Kiss? i don't think so.
it is much deeper than that!! i guess they all screwed u. |
| honey | Unrecorded Date
dear Anonymous
Sista there is more to the story that just simple kiss? are the guys you are dating a Robots or what? Now a days most of somali guys are more into other things that just a stupid kiss?...come on sis are you telling a guy left you just because you kiss him? I personally think that is nonsense, no offence.Guys don't get me wrong but a lot of somali guys are more into the booty business, so a kiss would be consider an appetizer to them.So my lovely sista Anonymous, you don't have to kiss someone because they ask you to do it. It has to come naturally, let nature take its course. Maybe you should find mature guys.Maybe your choice of men sucks!! sorry to say that but i found this all story to be childess.Anyways if a guy left because you kiss him, i think you are better off without him.
take your time you are young, and remenber YOU GOTTA KISS A LOT OF FROGS BEFORE YOU FIND THE PRINCE!!!! |
| baaadboy | Unrecorded Date
I agree with you 100%, Honey. For some reason it sounds weird to call you Honey when I don't even know you...mind if I just call you H? |
| hebel | Unrecorded Date
Why? |
| Money | Unrecorded Date
hebel...why, why?
Because of so many becauses! |
| honey | Unrecorded Date
to baadboy...
i don't mind my dear , you can call me whatever you like....
my lovely hebel
BEHAVE!!!! or i will come where you are at and spank you!!!!! |
| hebel | Unrecorded Date
OK Mam |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
Well most, my bad "ALL" somali guys thing if you can get girl to kiss you "she is too easy"
And we all now they want a liite chalange.
So next time give them hard time.
To hebel:
What is up with you and your "WHY" |
| hebel | Unrecorded Date
why u asked?
Muna he started it first. |
| UUUh aaah suck it to me | Unrecorded Date
Hey has it ever acurre to you guys because the guy dumped the girl for other reasons. Maybe he didn't like the way she kissed and need to spend little more time in front of the mirror. Maybe she wasn't challenging enough. Or maybe just maybe she needed little Aqua Fressh, tictac, Aldoros, Breath mint, Cert etc. But ovel all don't be disscourage of what one idiot said. Or is there more ot the story than meets the eye..umm i wonder.
I personally think kissing a guy because he asked for it is just plain stupid...ama do it if I feel like it. And if you don't like it •••• y'all all of ya'll (jokes) |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
Like one of the girls SAID , there is more to the story than u are leTting on. wont ask if u dont wanna tell its fine. speaking from experience , i was dating this guy for about 3days , and i found out that he wanted more , because i loved him , i let him kiss me , etc. but he wanted more , sex, i told NO. AND WE BROKE UP.( i knew for about 1year). and now i am getting on with my lfe. going back to the way i was before, which was not talking to guys at all let alone go out with them. this was the first and last. so girl if they ask u something like this , tell them to get lost, if the guy really loves you he will not ask for those things. |
| LAYLAAA | Unrecorded Date
THE GRL WHO WROTE WHATEVER YOUR NAME COME ON WOMEN WE ARE NOT STUPED NO GUY WILL DUMP U BECAUSE U KISSED HIM MAYBE U DID WITH HIM AND HE WANT TO MARRY A VIRGIN GRL NOW DAYZ SOMALI GUYS THINK SO STUPED THEY WANNA DO WITH U THE FIRST DATE AND WHEN YOU TOLD HEY I'M VIRGIN THAT'A WHEN HE WILL START TRIPPING COME ON GRL MY POINT IS NO ONE WILL DUMB YOU BECAUSE YOU KISSED AND MY ADVICE TO U IS DON'T DO WITH YOUR SOMALI BOYFRIENDS THEY ARE SICK IN THE HEAD AFTER HE FINESHED WITH U HE WILL CALL U A BITCH...
SISTER I'M GRL AND I KNOW ALL THAT.. |
| ThugGirl | Unrecorded Date
To UUUh aaah suck it to me ..
WORD..n'mean
she needs listerine attack on her breath...smack smack%%%
nuf' said ...*
safe |
| UUUh aah suck it to me | Unrecorded Date
I wouldn't want some guy kissing me with stincking breath...put you hand over you mouth and go HOOOH..that'll tell you if you need to spend little more time in the bathroom or no. Handle you business b4 you shove you mouth up in my face.
uknow what'm sayin' ThugGirl |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
sup y'all!
first things first, How old is this "anonymous". I cant believe there are people out there who still believe that cr*p. and I agree 110% with sista Honey.....also "suck to me" had a good point.
so Anonymous, who ever you are please do us a favor and dont insult our intelligence with that bull. and if u r a minor(12 to 15) I have one word for u ...SCHOOL!!
and if u r naag weyne who is playing innocent....two, no actually more: YOU NEED TO GET A LIFE, AND FIND SOMETHING MORE INTERESTING TO ASK.
WHATEVER |
