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Friends 2 BOYFRIENDS

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overFRIENDLY

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well i have this problem with guys..i mean i like to be around them and play games or what have u....thus 90% of the guys that we are good friends tend to fall in love with me.....what is a girl to do....all i really want is a friendship and the guys want more...and so far i have fallen and can't get off my high horse with a guy friend....so far our relationship is going fine...the thing that really suprised was the fact that we have soo much in common...never have i met a man like him....i feel so great when i'm around him...and i think for the first time i'm in love....so my prob is not with him ...but my other guy friendS...funny thing is that they all have the same name....ooh god this is getting tooo weird for me...and them guys give me hints that they want me and i'm afriad to break their hearts and want the friendship to continue.....one of my girl friend ask me what is it that i do to make these guys want me.....i wish i knew the answer but i think that me being close friends with them is it.....so guys help a sister out and tell me most easiest and simple way of telling these guys that all i really want is a friendship...and at the same time concealing the fact that i'm already taken.....

one luv

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sahra

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sis runta sheeg ayadaa ugu wanaagsan wax la sheego

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$real

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you know what....I think a lot of girls face that same promlem...and the thing is if you decide to tell them you want them as friends and nothing more..they're gonna think that's flat out rejection...so what I usually do is avoid any kind of questions or setuations that can lead you into trouble. Change the subject when they start saying things like "when are you and me gonna get 2gether." And on the long run they'll get the hint...if not just hook them up with one of you dump friends(jokes)

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sagal

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how about hints?? i have a friend who is acting up whenever we are together.. he says give me a kiss when we see each other, so i give a peck.. but he always imply that he wants more. so i give him all excuse from u r not tall enuf..wana have tall kids.. or ...u know my b/f (make one up), .. or say u what!! i met a hunk.. he is os sweet and nice and just my type, so how do i get him, comon guys give me advice.. then they will sure get the messege. Also say when i like a man i always ask him out myslef if he doesnt... so they willl ask themselves ..well if she wanted me she would have asked me out..
i hope that helped, cos it really helps me bigtime

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hebel

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some woman once played games with me, last thing I remember now is how she tried to hitchhike off of 395. that poor girl.
so sorry.
I wish I could meet her so I can apologize.
Oh! well that is life.......keep going please don't let me stop yo'al

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TROUBLEGIRL

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OVERFRIENDLY

GIRL:- I got the same problem sometimes....I have so many male friends. I tell them all that I am in a serious relationship....they say silly things like...U R not married yet....or ...the ever so famous somali sentence..Naaag kun ay koodisaaa Kowna wey kala baxdaaa...or Compare me with your man and see which one of us is a better Lover....Well I did choose the King of my Heart already......But they don't get it..

What usually workes for me...is:-

>VeryEager guy:- What R U doing this Friday?
>Trouble:- Im washing my hair

>VeryEagerGuy:- How about Saturday?
>Trouble:- Drying my hair man.....back off...lol

PEACE

TROUBLE

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EverEagerHebel

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what about 6/05/00?

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Osmand

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To overFreindly

let me tell you somin girl..personally, if you ever see me talking to a girl, im only trying to get one thing from here, i dont need to say what that is, it speaks for itself.

The only real freinds i have, are all males, lets get real ladies, us "real men" arent intrested in chatting to you, if we aint gonna see an end result. Thats why Friendly, they all want a relationship.

If you think real hard about it, what do men love chatting about,. what are their intrests.

1. Women, its not like we can chat to you about other woamn
2. Sports, being a boxer, most girls i come across think im barbaric.
3.Cars, expalining the significance of a dual herst gearshift to a girl is a mission and a half.

If you want a friendship with a guy, only friends, notin else..girl, you better find your self a homosexual male. Thats the only solution i can come up with.

Take care

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Nice

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Hi all,

Wow at least some1 said it....Girls! we all have the same problems acros all over the world..I donīt know if i can give an advice when I myself in that troble all the time, but whenever you see him or them getting into that point try to change the supject as $real already said OR tell them the truth which will not help coz as Osmand said " All, what men want from US is not a friendship"
I hope things will be better for you overFRIENDLY and so as for us the rest whom is having the same thing....


And for u Osmand....let me tell u one thing here dear brother, itīs very hard for you "guys" to live without us "girls" but we can survive without you so grow up coz there can be friendship between girls and guys (Only for does of you which is not sick in the heard)

Sorry for my language...i just couldnīt help myself....

peace and love all

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explict

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Yes life is hard so play it hard boys and girls,don't settle for anything less then the best,cause after all you have to think of nummber one first and hebel all though you are an idiot 395 was funny.

peace.explict

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afriend

Friday, June 16, 2000 - 01:16 pm
osmand....
is true what you say about you males...
or are you speaking for your self...

overfriendly...
girl i have been there and done that...
i had this freind(guy)he was good to me ...we were bestfriends then one day he came to me and asked me if wanted to date him...
it's strange we used to talk about guys and girls ...
i said yes so we dated for months ... but then it didn't really work out ...
so i broke up with him and now we are very good friends...
so sis listen ...
ones you start dating your friendship will be over really sis ..
peace

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awa

Monday, August 21, 2000 - 08:49 am
Nice
you can not live without men pleave me. We men like water for dead soil, Men can abandon sex by so many means, but women can not.

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ReaLdeaL

Monday, August 21, 2000 - 03:42 pm
Pleave me Looooooooooooooooooooooool I fell off the chair when I saw that one,,,,,,, ooh men ! that made my day ! pleave me !

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hebel

Monday, August 21, 2000 - 03:54 pm
Yeah Awa tell them boy Tell them women are like water in Sweden...they're everywhere man.
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YEAH DUDE!!!

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RUNSHEEG

Sunday, December 24, 2000 - 11:20 am
Hi, 2LOVE WAA KU SALAAMAY WAXAAN KU LEEYAHAY AMA AAN U MALAYNAYAA INAY MARMARKA QAARKOOD AYSAN DUMARKA AQOONIN WAXAY RABAAN AMA U DAN AH AYAGA. MARKA WAXAAN KUU SHEEGI LAHAA HADII AAD WALIGAA RUN SHEEGTAHAY AMA AAD TAQAANID WAXA KUU ROON HEERKAAN AMA DHIMAATADAAN KUMA QABSATEEN. HADA WAXAAN KULA TALIN LAHAA RUNTA CIDNA KAMA NAXISO ILAAH AA KUU JEEDA EE RUN TA ISKA SHEEG.

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