     Ma Dawg | Unrecorded Date
STOPPING THE GAME!
The Battle of the Sexes Between Somali Men and Women
In my opinion, one of the most fundamental
political issues in the Somali community is not who's this Clan or that. It is not police brutality. It is not glass ceilings or school vouchers. One of the most fundamental issues is the battle of the sexes between Somali men and women. The battle is tearing up our families. This battle is causing mass emotional devastation that is taking a great toll on the productivity and creativity of countless Somali men and women. This battle is caused primarily by relationship games...
One may wonder what relationship games have to do with politics. Way more than people realize.
In our community we have Qaad & Alcohol, Coffee House Addicts, high unemployment, illiteracy, poverty, and self-hatred. We sit and talk about what we can do to improve our community. We say we need more jobs, more schools, more opportunity. Everybody has missed the point! We want to treat the symptoms but not the causes. The breakdown of the family must be addressed; and many people do address this issue. That said, I believe we must look even deeper. I believe we must look at the dating choices made by Somali men and women. The way we are coming together is not out of love. We are coming together out of competition.
The major issue with relationships in the nineties is its competitive nature. A man sees a beautiful woman. He thinks of which game he can use to seduce her. A woman sees a handsome man who appears to have money. She begins thinking about which game she can play to win his attention. Neither person is thinking about relating to the other out of pure attraction. Each person has a specific agenda that probably does not take into account the emotional well-being of the other. The man and woman are not thinking in terms of personal growth and building something. They only want to win the game.
We're competing with each other at a time when we should be cooperating. We have come to the point where these relationship games are spilling over into other aspects of life. It is difficult for Somali men and women to come together without some type of conflict. In my life I have seen several Somali organizations rendered virtually ineffective because of this conflict and whatelse Clanism. Talking about empowerment is a waste of time if we are busy fighting each other because of issues stemming from bad relationships. We are having trouble starting stable families because we are too busy playing games to actually work on building something together. Too many of us are losing sight of what is important in life.
The problem with games is that somebody has to lose. There are casualties in this battle of the sexes. The first casualties are the participants. There are so many who are withdrawing from full involvement in the community because they are burnt-out by this war. Many women ask where are the men. There are good men who have been played too many times. Their generosity has been exploited. They have decided to quit the game and in many cases full involvement in life. There are good women who have withdrawn after having their bodies used and their hearts destroyed by unscrupulous "playas." They too, have withdrawn from full involvement in life. The biggest losers, however, are the children.
Children are the major casualties of this war(remember 911). The child in the foster care system, every child who has been used as a pawn in the games of adults, and every child who experiences the trauma of divorce. These children did not ask to play the games. Yet they are the ones who are suffering. They are the ones turning to drugs and gangs. They are the ones feeling alienated from their parents. Children are suffering because their parents and other adults are busy playing games. They are casualties in a war they didn't start.
It's time to end the battle of the sexes. It's time to stop playing games. Somali empowerment is a pipe dream if we cannot relate to each other without playing games. It's time to move from competition to cooperation. In the name of the best that is within us we have to do this for ourselves and for our children. |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
I AGREE WITH YOU 100% MATE. |
| TROUBLEGIRL | Unrecorded Date
MA DAWG....
Bro R U from LAS VEGAS? Coz where IM from we don't play games to seduce men. We use the old technique called SHUKANSI.....That concept has been around for ages....It probably hasn't reaches VEGAS yet.......
And as far as the battle you are refering to is concerned, when a man approaches a lady ...it's all about his presentation skills....E.g:- If he comes all up in your face going," What,what girl, U look nice in that dress,but I bet you would look boom out of it". I for one would throw him right next to the trash can...or in the trash can, depending on my basketball skillz....But on the other hand if a nice gentleman comes up to U, talks to your face (not your chest),introduces himself, and strikes an interesting conversation.......he will be welcomed with a smile.....if the girl is single....he might even get her number.....WHO knows.
The point I am trying to make is Dating shouldn't be a trivial persuit......it should be a journey shared with fun, experience and communication....
PEACE
TROUBLE |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
Go girl you tell him I like when women stand up for their rights. |
| Shareef | Unrecorded Date
Anon,
what will happen if men do the same, fight for their rights, will u call 911 and accuse them for something.
ciao |
| wondering around | Unrecorded Date
SHAREEF
U GOT A GOOD POINT BUT THEY ALWAYS DO SOMETHING WORSTER THAN STANDING UP .
WOMEN SHOULD STAND UP CS THEY CAN'T DEFFEND THEM SELVES. U SEE ??? IF U LEARNED AND KNOW THE QUR'AN
BY HEART U WOULDN'T ASK THIS QUESTION CS IT'S ALREADY IN THE QUR'AN .QALA ALLAHU TA'ALA MEN SHOULD RESPECT MOSTLY WOMEN AND CHILDREN AND ORPHANS AND THEY SHOULD GIVE THEM EVERYTHING THEY CAN GIVE .... BUT ALMOST NO ONE SEEMS TO DO ANY OF THIS . WE SPECIALLY SOMALIS AND ARABS FORGOT ABOUT OUR CULTURES AND CHOSED THE WESTERN ONE. I WONDER WHAT WILL HAPPEN ON DAY OF THE END THE WORLD??? BUT NO WORRY NONE OF U HAVE TO ANSWER THIS .PLZZZZZZ DON'T GET ME WRONG .
BUT UR QUESTION WAS A STUPID ONE.
WANNA KNOW HOW??? HERE 'S HOW ...
MAN ALWAYS STAND UP FOR THEIR RIGHTS , MAN R THE ONES (WELL MAY BE NOT ALL THE ONES BUT MOSTLY )
WHO'S RUNING THE WORLD AND DOING EVERYTHING WETHER IT'S RIGHT OR WRONG . |
| wondering around | Unrecorded Date
SHAREEF
U GOT A GOOD POINT BUT THEY ALWAYS DO SOMETHING WORSTER THAN STANDING UP .
WOMEN SHOULD STAND UP CS THEY CAN'T DEFFEND THEM SELVES. U SEE ??? IF U LEARNED AND KNOW THE QUR'AN
BY HEART U WOULDN'T ASK THIS QUESTION CS IT'S ALREADY IN THE QUR'AN .QALA ALLAHU TA'ALA MEN SHOULD RESPECT MOSTLY WOMEN AND CHILDREN AND ORPHANS AND THEY SHOULD GIVE THEM EVERYTHING THEY CAN GIVE .... BUT ALMOST NO ONE SEEMS TO DO ANY OF THIS . WE SPECIALLY SOMALIS AND ARABS FORGOT ABOUT OUR CULTURES AND CHOSED THE WESTERN ONE. I WONDER WHAT WILL HAPPEN ON DAY OF THE END THE WORLD??? BUT NO WORRY NONE OF U HAVE TO ANSWER THIS .PLZZZZZZ DON'T GET ME WRONG .
BUT UR QUESTION WAS A STUPID ONE.
WANNA KNOW HOW??? HERE 'S HOW ...
MAN ALWAYS STAND UP FOR THEIR RIGHTS , MAN R THE ONES (WELL MAY BE NOT ALL THE ONES BUT MOSTLY )
WHO'S RUNING THE WORLD AND DOING EVERYTHING WETHER IT'S RIGHT OR WRONG . |
| TROUBLEGIRL | Unrecorded Date
TO ANONYMOUS
LOL.....Thanx..I intend to go all the way with the GENDER issues.......LUv debating ..
TO WONDERING AROUND
U got that right....U tell them ...coz from where Im sitting they need a WAKE up call.....
PEACE
TROUBLE |
| Ma Dawg | Unrecorded Date
Issue is not to abuse anyone's right and that goes for the Gender too but to reach an oasis of understanding. I too do luv debate on this issue that is Gender so long as it a resonable dialogue rather than mindless bantering of we against them mentality. |
| khalil | Unrecorded Date
Hi all;
I have been just wondering what is the difinition of "gentleman" according to female community's prospective?. the reason, i am asking is i try to be one but unfortunately i was doomed many times. First time many of those skirt wearers(female community)said to me i am one, yet when i resist some abuse or manipulation and i discover some plots at work, i was demotted and called "non gentleman at all". So, am i wrong if i define gentleman the following: Every man is gentleman as long as he takes all abuse, financial, emtional, sexual, political and physical ?.
Can anyone out there among skirt wearer community help me out? |
| furqaan | Unrecorded Date
I hate to see ppl mixing culture with religion, the two don't mix infact they are like oil and water.
As for you westernised brainwashed guys, learn your religion and act upon it , don't come with excuses such as ( oh! we live in a western country, we have to adapt to it). Adapting is not changing the way you live and blindfoldedly following what is being done around you! it is resisting to it rather, and holding on the robe of ALLAH, act ing upon the sunnah in every aspect of our lives, from being a pure individual to raising and mnanaging our chidren the way described in our HOLY QUR'AN, and the sunnah.
Allah has NOT given a religion for nothing, he hasn't created you except to worship him. And we have been blessed with a chance, to come to a kafir land, and what do we do??? Instead of calling them to allah and spreading allah religion as he commanded us to do , we leave our holy religion and go astray.
repent before it is too late, and fear allah.
The |
| Ismahan | Unrecorded Date
Khalil,
I agree with you 100% brother.
It's sad to see soo many sisters change their cultures and religion in these western countries. It's hard to understand how could a muslim sister, who is soo clean and respectfull copy the western womans?...how could the good ones copy the bad ones?...it's hard to imagine.
SISTERS,
-Do you want blessings, and happiness?
-then you must FOLLOW and LEARN your RELIGION.
-be affraid of God, and Naar.
-if you want God to love u, and remember you then you must do the same.
-DONT get lost and follow the kufars...make them follow you...
-DON'T copy them ...let them copy u.
-Remember your origins and know where you come from.
-teach others what you know and God will reward you.
There are some sister that say they are muslim but yet they are not...don't get confused...those are the ones that try to get to your xijab, and salaad,and then make you lost and play with the way kids play with their toys, and play with you the way animals play with food.
Be aware.
Ismahan |
| MAD MAC | Unrecorded Date
Ismahaan
Better advice would be:
-Follow your Heart.
-If it feels wrong, it probably is.
-Treat other people the way you want them to treat you.
See how easy those rules are. If you follow those rules, Allah will love you. |
| OPSODOS | Unrecorded Date
Fellas, fellas, fellas;
Slow down on the woman bashing! First of all you men shouldn't generalize and say every Somali woman has lost her sense of culture and religion that is just wrong. Wrong.
Are you men angels or something. But of course you too don't deviate and decide to shack with a foreigner and when it comes time to commit to a "real" "ideal" "longterm" relationship then you think of the Somali woman. WOW! you can accuse of me of generalizing there but that is the way that it is and that is the way I see it.
Please don't generalize and make it seem as though all of us fall under that category of "clean N' cheap" cause I know for damn sure that there are alot of sisters out there who are precious and incredibly gifted, when it comes to respecting their religion, culture, parents, and their essence of being.
Words of advice:
Before you start preaching to others, live by the words that you so hold to be right. |
| xuseen | Unrecorded Date
thanks god who allow to me to participate this converstions,only i am saying a vew words for oursister somali woman,don forget your religon,wht ever you are and affraid your god wht ever you are,it doesnot means that if came europe/north america godnot watch you ,please "ka cabso alaahakag meelkasta oo aad joogtid" |
| Healer | Unrecorded Date
Asalam Alaikum
Hi Everyone
i am here today to simple share my point of view with yo all. and i know some of u wont agree with me so i am gona say i am sorry if i offend yo all.
what i saw in here was plain old atteck of so-called servival of the fitst. i mean i saw two group that standing in two different side one is blaming the other is diffending. i see us male blaming and saying all somalian females r horrible they forgot their religion and culture. is that all true and can we say that hell no cause not all of them forgot it, maybe 10 percent forgot it, us somalain males too.
As we look around we see somalian males drinking qamri smoking hashish but they r nice cause they male is that how it goes this days. but we see one lady who is wearing goono gaban we assume right a way that she is b***h so we treat her like dirt but in deep inside she the most kind person u will ever meet. so i can say that is the reason for seeing our strong females doing what they doing she will say u already b***h to them why the hake u care what they think of u now so go all out. but that is not the case all the time. u want to a place u saw this hot looking a lady u went to here and the first think that is in u r mind is she easy so u will get whatever u want so go up to her and talk to her like crap but they don't appreciated that so when she give u what u deserved u will turn around and say i don't want u were already i b***h so get the hake out. so i think the game we refearing all day is this. one is trying to clean the image and one doesn't want to let go the old image that was in the mind already. we don't have blame each other cause we r (damer iyo labadiisa dhagood)
bye.......
peace
Asalam Alaikum |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
A/ALAUKUM W/WABARAKATUHU:
What a appealing and interesting discussion!!!
After I read through all the above remarks made by the bro/sister, I realised that the vasty majority of views boil down to one central thesis.What it is you ask?. That we all want to excell in every aspect of our life and to overcome the steriotypical and baseless blaming of others while overlooking or completely ignoring the fact that we are all in a same boat;thus we will either sinck together or survive and prosper together. However, if we don't define the cause roots and factors to our dillema, any effort gairing to addressing these convoluted and widespread social ills that we , somalis, all are suffering will dissipate and our sole course of route is back to spuare one1 again or more close analongy is we will find ourselves stuck in an infinete loop.What are the basis of our problem, what is a solution, what can be a good way out of this, what is the most effective strategy out of this mass and more, are the question facing to us to respond before relying on only rhetoric and impractical premises.The gender relationship problems are only tiny fraction and perhaps insignificant if compared to the overall strain and magnitude of the other factors that contribute to our problems.
WHAT AM I ELUTING TO HERE? I HOPE YOU ARE STILL READING AND WHIM ME.
In a nutshell, we are overtaken, overshadowed, and overwhelmed by the ignorance about our relegion, our values, our history, and most impotantly our identity. Who are we? I contended you to answer if you can. ALLAH SAID IN THE QUR'AN"(kamathali ximaarin yaxmilu asfaaran bisa.........)" look more details at the end of suuratul jumca).Macnaha aayada oo duuduuban allah waxa uu tus'aale u soo qaatay qoomka xaqqa ka jeensada ama raaciwaaya in ay lamid yihiin dameer malab duudka u saaran yahay laakiinse aan garaney. By ALLAH this is our case today. we don't know how precious is what is in our hands ,the cure for all societal ills and problems, which is the qur'an sunnah.) The bickrering, qurelling, misunderstanding, dissatisfaction, dimenising, disaffection, and all other diffucties in the families in particular and entire body of the public in general wouldn't have been the case had we adheared to the commands of our lord(Allah). |
| XX | Unrecorded Date
I would like to start by thanking God, because of the situation where I am living things are very different.
Most of the somali women and men are very well behaved. Most of the somalis here have respect for them self.
It is very sad to read what some somali men and women from some places without respect for them self write. Trying to compete with each anther knowing very well, that nothing positive will came out of it
May God help you (Trouble Girl) |
| TROUBLEGIRL | Unrecorded Date
XX......
Do U feel good about yo self now that you are trying to "FIT IN" by cussing LadyTrouble? Teeda kale I haven't dissed anyone, have I? I was merely making a brother understand that dating is not a Schedule that people have to follow---As long as there is mutual respect---We will be fine... So take yo broken ingiriiis to a place where you can actually follow the comments without jumping to conclusions....CAPISHE
PEACE
TROUBLE |
| XX | Unrecorded Date
You sound very hostile troubled girl. It must be a terrible city you are living in. There is nothing-greater then respect; A Somali who acts like spoiled white women. Will not get you anywhere.
There was one writer who wrote that, once born black will never be white. |
| XX | Unrecorded Date
May be the biggest problem with our somali community today comes from "Ricke lake show". Some people watch the show so much that they begin to speak just like those looser that appear on such shows.
A Somali girl speaking of peace and trouble. This is shocking |
| G. PHONE | Unrecorded Date
Hey, it's just a game. But your not to blame.
Why must you be a shame. It is not laim.
It's just a game. So why why why, must you worry, just get high
Use some weed, it's good! To escape that damn same old hood.
I'm just saying hi, but for know by.
Later , G.PHONE |
| TROUBLEGIRL | Unrecorded Date
XX
Brother U need more than my help. I am not gonna sit here and argue with you for the simple fact that I am not on your LEVEL-------So pick and choose who you argue with coz I am wayyyyy out of your league.
U made a comment about how I act white......H ah ha ha ha ha Don't make me laugh. Coz I am so basic and black THAT IT IS RIDICULOUS.... my comments are black too LOL. If you can't understand me----tough. I can't help you there. |
| somali | Unrecorded Date
to .trooblegirl
i think u may need help and u are hopeless,so u are not represented our sisters,so u are street gung.let me ask you a question,do u have family or any close relative u may asked help,definitely u need sycho treatment.u are sick |
| MaKa | Unrecorded Date
To somali >>> what makes u think the girl needs helP???u don't know her and all of suddenly u are just jumping on her, just because she's defending herself. anyhows to make this short, know ur role of what ur saying rather than making wrong remarks. PEACE
^from ur sista in islam^
*MaKa* |
| TROUBLEGIRL | Unrecorded Date
MaKa
Jasa'kalakheyr sister.
People are so narrow minded and backwards in here it amazes me. They see the name TROUBLE and think that it contains nothing but a STREETGIRL with no MANNERS and A LOUD mouth.....Well if they only knew me they would queue up to take my autograph.....LOL....No seriously jokes aside...People in here just JUDGE the BOOK based on the preceptions they derived from the COVER....
PEACE
TROUBLE |
| Michigan | Unrecorded Date
alright fellas... i know how we could win this battle.......we all get M16's and spray on them....all of'em i tell'ya aaalllll of'em.
except my wife to be ofcourse. |
| G.PhOnE | Unrecorded Date
Yo MICHIGAN< LET's f*ck them all up.
MEN, unite it's gonna be a motha f*cking fight.
G>PHONE |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
waad salaaman tihiin
but this subject is booll |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
waad salaaman tihiin
but this subject is booll |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
waad salaaman tihiin
but this subject is booll
we women will win at the end !!!!!!!!!! |
| Alwatan | Unrecorded Date
I salute the person who brought the culture of mutilating women in Somalia.Without kintir they are causing problems,what about if they had kintir.That person did somalis a favour.Does someone know who the person is? Pharaoh-Firauun of course. |
| souljah | Unrecorded Date
Gphone blown to pieces
before he had a chance to take out the chrome
a fool following his dick
he be running with the pack thinking the click is thick
no brother no,duck before get hit
no you ain't slick
and not every sister is a trick,go home get vaselline and rub on your dick
if you got rhymz come to the poetry page...>a little freestlyle why not.....da saga continious |
| G.PhOnE | Unrecorded Date
SOULJAH!
Who ya gonna soul, no ass gonna go ass, flass,
mass tash.
TICk ass, YOUR GONNA GET YA ASS BASH.
I HOpE ya gonna die, me and you aint gonna fly.
TICK TICK, boom boom, FLICK FLICK, boom boom.
ZOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMM!
SEE YA G.PhOnE
THE ONE AND ONLY, not that SOULJAH FONY!!! |
| MAD MAC | Unrecorded Date
Trouble Girl Rules. Everyone who's on her is just pissed off because she's a woman and she obviously demonstrates a superior intellect than her critics possess. Trouble, it's not the critic that counts anyway. It's the (wo)man of action. So don't let them get you down. Of course, with gaal for friends you KNOW your life on the net is going to be rough. Cause those of limited intellect just hate Kufaar like me. |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
Wow!!!what an interesting dissucion you all been having . i can't stop laughing . To bad i didn't check out this site sooner. Somali Women rule!!!!!!lol |
| TALLMAN | Unrecorded Date
MA DAWG:
Thanx to you anD others. - I really enjoyed reading most of these articles. I agree with you 100% that the problem is there with a great magnitude. But how can we address it? Any solutions?
I think the problem is selfishness which cannot be cured. Everyone says he or she did this to me and I don't wanna see him/her for the rest of my life! What about the children. I told my cousin who got married recently to use pills for a couple of years because this city is scattered with Somali teens and early 20s who are raising children single handedly. Where are their fathers? Rolling stones. I love my cousin dearly and I don't wanna see her in that situation. |
| souljah | Unrecorded Date
Gphone,what shall i say fool,you are nothing,you are getting your ass whooped by tariq,in the poetry page.i don't have to waste good rhymz to you. with ya stolen lines |
| Luula | Unrecorded Date
Aslamu calykum
All
To: TALLMAN
My brother in Islam
I agree with u, jazaakallaahukhayra with u'r concerne about u'r cousine and about the somali youth in general.
I think there are far too many single mums and runaway dads in smali communities every where in these (tough and ignorent)western countries. And that is not all, al these young ppl, (most of them)don't even know their own religion and culture, so they just go with the flow till they don't even remeber who they are any more--------> i am more concerned and feel sorry for these little children those who don't have a proper example in their parents, ilaahow nasoo hadeey kulligeenba, aammiiiiiiin.
(Possible) Solutions for our GENDER differences!:
1. More (open)communications;
We know it isn't our best and strongest side; to communicate, it is not even in our culture. Every human being in UNIEK en that is what attract us to each other( if it is in a limited boundries). But these indifferences we have to talk about them(give each other feedback, regularly) and make them open. Don't feel attacked if some one gives u his perception of u back, but he has to give it properly tooo. This point is for our somali youth in E and US very important and crushal, if we pas it we r in good way to a true happiness with each other.
2.............
3.............
I 'll leave it hier today, i hope to hear more tips and advices from my fellow brothers and sisters.
Hope to join u very soon, till then , Allaah macaakum.
Waslmu calykum waraxmatullaah. |
| G.PhOnE | Unrecorded Date
NO BITCH YA GOT RHYMS<
EVEN IF YA YOUR LIFE DEPENDED ON IT!
IDIOT FREAK BITCH! |
| Degan | Unrecorded Date
After all that everything has been said and done.
Every one has showed what they where capable of so it is very easy to see who are the real brothers/sisters.
Thanks all of you.
I did learned a lot
Shall we listen to each other and learn from each other instead of CRITISISING.
May allah be with you all |
| hebel | Unrecorded Date
phone-booth get yar thump out yar butt man and suck on it, ya freaking fool. |
| G.PhOnE | Unrecorded Date
YO TRASH-FOR-SALE!(HEBEL)
GO SUCK YOUR DICK
YA DICK LICKIN-- I WANT TO F*CK YOU IN YOUR ASS! AND I GOTTO GET A RASH-- HEBEL!
NOBODY GONNA LET YOU F*CK THEM IN THE ASS! WEIRD ASS SPASS! |
| RAW | Unrecorded Date
IT IS SO TURE MOST OF US DONT EVEN SEE IT .
BUT IT IS SO CLEAR FOR US NOT TO SEE .
I WAS BORN IN ADEN AND I BEIN IN USA FOR
15 YEARS . WHIN I STARTED DATEING SOMALI SIS
4 YEARS A GO I COUDNOT BELIVE IT .
ALL THE GAMES THE SIS WAS PLAYING.
SO CHILD LIKE GAMES CONCEPSULY I COUD NOT
UNDERSTAND IT NOT AT ALL.
TALKING A BOUT COMPETING EVEN MY FRIENDS WERE PART OF THE GAMES IN THE END I WAS LIKE HELL WITH
U ALL BY |
| hebel | Unrecorded Date
yeah yeah whatever chick.
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yar dummy and stupid. |
| G.PhOnE | Unrecorded Date
aaah is little strangled kid mad!
aaaah, come on now!
Go suck on your daddy's dick! |
| Luula | Unrecorded Date
Aslmu calykum ALL
TO RAW:
Bro don't feel sorry for ur self, u learned some thing out of it don't u? Pls don't criticize and assameply al yhe S girls, çuase there was only one who did this to u, so move on and find the right one,'cause she wasn't, i'm sure of it.
Allah bless us all.
waslmu calykum. |
| T-girl | Unrecorded Date
MADMAC
Im impressed once again bro.....And to think of where we were a month ago....At each others throats ofcourse..LOL......
Peace
Trouble |
| MN man | Unrecorded Date
Mad Mac
When u say "KUFAAR like me" what did u
mean?
Trouple Girl
If i can ask u Question are u single sis?
Gay phoney
what a wasted of sperm |
| curiousmen | Unrecorded Date
to trouble-girl!
hey girl! your techniques is so good! but some girls if you say " your dress is wicked" guess what she gonna said to you! yeah thanx! and the next move will be! girl! i like your bra "victoria secret" and guess what! she is gonna say to you .....yeah thanx! what will be the third move! how much it cost your silicon breast!
girl! teach me another move! not this kind of move! somalian girl is hard to get their phone # but those white chicks and niggers! they are so easy..... why?
curiousmen |
| cheyyene | Unrecorded Date
Heya curiosmen
the secret that the somali women can't give u their telephon number is that they are expensive and pure beuty ...but let me ask u how many times u tried to get a telephone number ???
Cheyyene |
| T-GIRL | Unrecorded Date
Cheyyene....
Maybe some women don't have a phone.....LOL..kidding...
CuriousMen.....
If I tell U the things I like most about a man.... A man should take his time to get to know a Woman.....Treat her unlike any other... make her unique/in his attention/in his thoughts/ basically make your woman feel special.... Need I say more......Tune in next time.....LOL
MN.....
I am not single....sweety....but if I get there.. I'll try to fit U in my WAITING LIST...<Kidding> Easy
PEACE
TROUBLE |
| KINKY | Unrecorded Date
Battle in sex.
mmmmmmmm.
KINKY!
some SM lovers
up here!! |
| analyzer | Unrecorded Date
Did somebody said sex?
/_~\
\ /
why do men&women battle? instead.. |
| love | Thursday, June 22, 2000 - 02:31 pm
everybody,
everybody on this forums i ask one quastion is?
what is the sex?
which is better very weak gril and fat?
which country from best grils from?
what is yourlast best sexual remember?
boys and grils both they can reply?
okky reply as soon as possible
your sex emagine
god byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee |
| love | Friday, June 23, 2000 - 12:55 pm
from:love
To,everybody who can reply this quastion
What is the sex mean?
which one is better fat waman or weak?
what is your last sexual intercourse?remember???????????????????????
reply me quickly faaaaaaaaaadlan
YOURS LOVE
PEACE |
| Anonymous | Monday, July 10, 2000 - 03:03 pm
iwant to •••• you |
| Anonymous | Monday, July 24, 2000 - 01:33 am
to
love and company
Who are you? where do you come from?
asss hole |
| nasib | Saturday, August 19, 2000 - 02:23 am
First of all there is no such thing as the "battle of the sexes" reason: Because women aren't a competition. and tell me something if there is no war of the clans tell me ooh say a couple million somalins have died!! I suppose it was the women !!
this topic is a joke and so are women try to compete with men!! |
