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A Raped Victim

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Mar. 2000 - August 2000): A Raped Victim
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Habiba

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Six Months ago, My Parents hired a new Macalin quran after the old one left the country. This Macalin was not as old as the other one. (he was in his late 20's) On January the 8th, was the most dramatizing day of my entire life. Macalinka Usually comes around 11:30-12pm, My Parents try to reach him that day so they can cancel the session, because we were all suppose to go to my Aunt's casumaad (sab). Macalinka was hard to get hold off so my parents asked us (my little sister and I) to stay behind because they didn't want macalinka inuu so lugo'o (He lives the other end of town). As my parents were off at about 12pm, Macalinka showed up and apologized for coming late. Macalinka started the session as always and ended about one and half hour later. After cashirka uu dhamaaday macalinka said he wanted to watch some show on t.v. (there was a islamic program on at the time)

I was in the kitchen preparing sandwiches, and My sister went to the market to buy us sodas. Macalinka came to the kitchen and asked me to come watch the program with him. As I was watching, he kept telling me how I can learn alot from the barnamij etc. The next thing I know he started getting comfortable in the couch touching himself and told me to come closer. I told him to •••• off and leave and I will tell my parents when they arrive..but instead he laughed at me and kept coming my way and said that this was all halaal and that I can learn from it. He pushed me down to the floor and forced himself in me. After 2 or 3 mins of screaming and shouthing out help help (which seemded bout an hour), he got up and threatened me not to say anything to anyone and If I did so, I would lose respect of my parents and everyone else would call me sharmuuto because I let the macalinka screw me. I sat still, shocked (watching him leave) and thought that this was just a nightmare that I have had...

I put myself together, and didn't tell anyone about what had happened to me that whole entire day/night, I felt ashamed, discussed and used.
Next Saturday, Macalinka came his usual time, but I refused to go to the session and made an excuse about being sick.

The following day, I revealed what had happened to me over the weekend to my bestfriend and she suggested that I go see a doctor ASAP. She offered to come with me to a walk-in clinic, I was checked for pregnancy test, HIV Test, AND STD TEST. Pregnancy test came out negative and so was THE STD test but still waiting on the HIV. My bestfriend also suggested that I should talk to someone about this (Parents, Police, Counsellors and etc) but I refused.


Till this day, Macalinka has been coming to my house. What do u think?

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SmOoThY

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To::Habiba

Damn that's some really messed up shi*t I swear It makes me so mad I could shout...I feel deeply sorry for you ....That's the worst thing I ever heard for real... but walaalow U must tell some one about this sick mothafucka...Cuz what he did to U....he could do it to other muslim girls...I didn't think such things go on within somalian people I guess I was worng...

The fact that he still comes to Ur house must make U wanna die.. and for that rapist to teach young girls about dinn is a crime alone U must tell the POLICE A.S.A.P

plz macaan don't let this bit*ch...get away with this...If U feel like U can't talk to Ur mother sisters etc...U must seek counselling..A.S.A.P

What a shame..
*May He Burn in Hell*

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hajiin

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Habiibo


If what you saying is true. This is very serious crime; it's absolutely appalling to let this man go unpunished for what he's done. You sound very intelligent and articulated. I 'm sure you understand the grave consequence of letting him carry on as usual. Not telling anyone means succumbing to his will and fulfilling his ill-conceived prophecies and expectations. What has happened, is entirely his fault. You have no valid reason to stay quiet and suffer in silence. This man is not a macalim as you still refer to him. He is low-life criminal, who belongs to the lowest part of hell.

No body knows how many times his done it before and there is no guarantee he won't do it again to other innocent girls like you. Please don't let us all down- tell someone who can do some thing about it? Remember -what he has done to you, he could soon be doing to your young sister. Do you want her to suffer the same misfortune?

Don't accept the daft excuses that, the hard evidence has gone and there is little chance of proving his guilty after all this time. There is lot of other ways to trap a creep like this. Just tell the police and within no time he will be picked up red handed. This man needs to be captured. Tell some as soon as possible. As a guardian of one 11 years old girl i got the scare of my life when I read your story. now i had to keep an eye on those macalmiin guys.

can you possible indicate which country this qabiix lives.

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Anonymous

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I am very sorry, the only thing i could advise u is to see a counsoler or the police. For the macalinka to come to your house and still teach deen, how could he.
I mean he could do it agaian.
I once had a experience back in Somalia when a Macalinkeyka kept asking me about whether i HAD MY PERIOD OR YES. i AM SURE THE CASE IS NOT THE SAME BUT YOU COULD JUST IMAGINATION WHAT HE WOULD HAVE DONE IF HE HAD FOUND OUT ABOUT IT.

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TROUBLEGIRL

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Habiiba.....I would like to express my sympathy to you girl....OH MY GOSH...That is absolutely disgusting for a man that people trust as someone who preaches the Qur'an...to do so such a thing. I would advice you to tell your mother. If you tell her I am sure she will help U. Inform the police ASAP....and I wish you all the best in dealing with the trauma of that experience.

Hi SMOOTHY!

PEACE

TROUBLE

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SmOoThY

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T.Gurl::Hi sweetie can U believe this???

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Caraweelo

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Habiiba-
Dear sister- write me.

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Anonymous

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I DONT BELIEVE IT
I THINK SHE WATCHED TOO MANY MOVIES LIKE THAT
NO MACALIN IN HIS RIGHT MIND WOULD DO A THING LIKE THAT
LET'S SAY HE DID IT
BECAUSE OF TEMPTATION
THE IDEA OF HIM BEING ALONE WITH YOU
HOW COME YOU DIDNT DO ANYTHING?
LIKE RUN,BITE HIS EAR OR SOMETHING OFF?
WHAT WERE YOU DOING FROM THE POINT HE STARTED PALYING WITH HIMSELF AS YOU SAID
TO THE POINT HE LAYED YOU DOWN?
IF YOU MADE ALL THIS UP IT'S DISCUSTING AND EMBARRASSING TO THE WHOLE "MACALIIN'S" AND YOU SHOULDENT.
AND IF IT DID HAPPEN TO YOU
WHY ARE YOU QUITE?
WHY DO YOU FEEL GUILT?
YOU KNOW IT WASENT YOUR FAULT
AS YOU CLAIM HE FORCED YOU.
IF HE DID DO THIS TO YOU AND YOU DONT TELL ANYONE YOU AS GUILTY AS HE IS WHEN HE ATTACKS HIS NEXT VICTIM
WHO KNOWS MAYBE YOUR SISTER
OR EVEN CLOSE FREINDS.

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Brother

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Habiba:
This site is very popular and it is possible he already read your article and is about to leave the country. Please do something before it is too late. You may never forget what he has done to you but you can save many other girls by standing against this evil guy.

If you are in Canada, rape is one of the worst crimes and I am sure he'll pay a hefty price for that horrifying five minutes.

Please speak up before he victimizes other girls like you.

Talk to Arawelo, she seems very caring and helpful.

Brother

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MrFaroole

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TO: Habiba::
First iam very and very sorry the problem faced to you: Sis wanna tell you one thing, I think there can't be a pregnancy. coz pregnance can come only when the couple threated as enjoyment but during force and fighting itme is impossible.
Other hand i hope that to don't loss your Vir(Gabadhnimadadi) bocouse it is hard to loss it that easy, even it use to take time when she indulge her self.

Wish you the best sis:

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Sunaari

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Habiba, this is for your information:
The Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network (RAINN) 1-800-656-HOPE
Automatically routes your call to the closest crisis center in your area. All calls are confidential, and accepted 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Sis, you didn't tell us how old you are? Are you under age??. In any case, it is extremely important that you speak to someone about this creature who violated you. DON'T BE SUBMISIVE AND ACCEPT CRAP FROM CREEPS!!!!!! SPEAK UP AND REMEBER HIS PATHETIC ACTIONS ARE NOT A REFLECTION OF WHO YOU ARE AS A PERSON.

Faroole, contrary to what you wrote, please be aware that it is possible to become impregnated by rape

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I-don't-believe-it.

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Sorry sis habiba, I find it difficult to believe this. Parents are very caring to their children and rape is something that leaves a taletale marks that can never go unnoticed. Pregnancy is another issue that needs a careful planning and in your case you knew you could not hide it fom your parents so why wait untill conditions force you to come out?. How come you sit in front of a man that who you allege raped you forcefully every weekend?. I find this even more astounding. I hope you are right and you are the victim you claim to be. If not, you have to know that you committed against god a grave sin for tainting his servants who put their time and effort in his words. The way you concluded is very strange too. There is calmness in your story and it seems dry from the emotions that are attached to a rape victim. allahu aclam. I can't even give you the benefit of the doubt. You said you have parents, check with them and see what they can do. I hope you are not laughing at the sincere people that have shown you their outpouring support.

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ThugGirl

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habiba,
it is not your fault that you were raped, you didn't ask for it. He has no rite to lay a finger on you, n'mean?
i suggest that you tell your folks what happened, cuz they will share your pain. you know, if you keep $h!t like that to yourself, you gonna go crazy.
How can you stand that freak coming to your house every saturday? Dont let him get away with this.
i gotta 9mm: glock17, stashed in of my drawers, if you want i let ya borrow it. that pycho needs a bullet rite in his balls..smack smack. let me know if you want the glock ..aight? . remember!! that savage cat needs to be eliminated by ANY MEANS necessary*.
safe yo%%

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Anonymous

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ThugGirl
adi lee yaan lagu xoogin intaad leedahay macalinka xiniinyaha hala toogto.

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ThugGirl

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anon,
why dont ya try, daba modoobe!?
my dad's old Ruger will take care of your xiniinyo...so shut the F* up.

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Abdul26

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To: Habiib

Asalaama Calykum

Dear Habiba first of all I'm macalin Dugsi and we
teach students about what is bad and Good not to
rape them, By the way Don't follow these advice
to call police or Counsellors, you should tell your parents this big crime, still cames home this is not macalin he is a killer, Allaah knows best. and don't tell your info another ppls may be they will make fun of you bewere that.

Your's Abdul

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Ubah23

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To: Habiba

Sorry what happen to you , don't follow Crazy ladies tell your parents what happen the will fixed everything, don't email and lady in here they will tell you are information another people ok. Don't go Kaafir Police, Counsellors , your parents is counsellors

To: Caraweela

Why you need her email your are Rape Victim before
pls don't mislead young lady with pain

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Anonymous

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ThugGirl
forget about Macalinka ur dad is not far away from u why don't shoot his ugly and dark xiniinyo.
he was the1 who teach u how to suck Guz.
by the way i don't need tasteless kintirless dry like a rock Somali pussy.
byeeeeeeeeee Futa cad !! \^..^/

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Faysel

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Hi Habiba,
Iam a father who lives in europe, and it hurts me alot to read ur story. I think u should not be ashamed to reveal what happened to every body, starting with ur parents. This could happen to every one, and the worst thing u could do is to keep it for ur selv. I think u should start to talk with a councilar, and this sucker should not go free and find a place to hide for what so ever.

To all the parents who may read this" Trust ur kids more than u trust any body else, and be aware not to be tricked in the name of relegion"

Yors Faysel

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SmOoThY

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Anonymouz r U crazy???
Why U need to talk like that???
Only Allah can help U..

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Anonymous

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SUXANALLAH THIS IS AN UNBELIEVABLE THING YOU KNOW WHAT I CAN'T BELIEVE THAE FACT THAT YOU'RE JUST NOT TELLING ANYONE.

IF YOU WHAT THIS SORTED THAN YOU MUST TELL SOMEONE ITs revolting. ESPECIALLY YOU PARENT THEY HAVE ARIGHT TO KNOW WHAT HAD HAPPENED TO YOU

MAY TH PEACE OF ALLAH BE WITH YOU.

GOOD LUCK SISTER!!

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Caraweelo

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to Ubax23-
if you don't know why I asked her to write me THEN YOU ARE NOT A WOMAN...AND YOU ARE NOT A HUMAN BEING!
What you said to me is CHEAP! Here is a young woman crying out for help. She is afraid of her society and what they will say about her.
She is afraid of her parents- they may get angry with her.
and most of all, she is afraid of the rapist in her home!
I wanted to speak to her in private- and not with ppl like the last "anon" listining and saying the garbage he said.
Knowing all that, is that all you can say to me?
No, dear child, I am NOT A rape victim. But Allah has given me a heart to care with and feel other's pain.
I feel sorry for you.

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Luqmaan

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a Somali teacher(macalim quraan) will never do that, i think the girl is lying or maybe she doesn't want to learn Quran..she maybe accusing this guy cuz she doesn't like him coming her home every saturday while other kidds in her age are having day off and fun. I THINK SHE MADE UP THIS ACCUSATION.... some1 who knows Diin will never rape a child.
if she was a real rape victim she would have gone and told to the Police or her parent specially her mom.....as we know in N.America there are some kidds who accuse their school teacher or even their own parents with sexual assault because they mad at them or they want freedom.

Habiba
abaayo ilaah ka cabso ee wadaadada ama dadka diinta yaqaan magaca ha uga dheelin ama sharafta haka qaadin, tan kale nin soomaali ah oo ilmo xoogaayo ma jiro isagoo heli karo 4naag iyo weliba hookers(macsi) haduu doono

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fairness

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Go to the police or call one of your crazy uncles to rape your macalinka.

tit for tat is a fair game

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MrFaroole

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TO: Sunari::

Bro/sis:: Though each of us has his own opinion, I think this is not something we can imaging, It is something need knowledge, if you need you can make research and ask someone has much an experienced than you. I hope you find out :

Thanx to all:

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Law Student

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Dear: habiba

Asalaama Calykum

1-First of all fear Allaah don’t lie about your teacher , As a law students I read your sayings A to Z You said that On January the 8th, when action took place by the way was Eid-Day and there is no Dugsi as we knew all the Duqsi quran closed for Eid with in two days off, so have doubtful in mind.

2- You also said that Macalin age is about 20 years old, what about you I have seen the the way you wrote it looks likes your almost 22 or 25, because we left Somalia about 10 years ago and no another school to learn Somali language, I also have a doubtful someone in your age rape you one hour top of you and never fear if your sister comes back and never fight him even scratches or damage because you were in Kitchen with knives , forks and so on. If macalin was watching Islamic Program what lead him to do this Evil things, Does the Macalim watching Sex things , Watching Islamic program and doing rape this another doubtful again. May be if your Expose him it force him to do evil things.

3- Sis Habiba you also said your sister goes store to buy a Soda how long it takes her to buy a Soda more than hour and Macalin knews that your sis will be back that is doubtful again and again.

4- Habiba I think you live in Canada Toronto or Ottawo because you mantion about walk-in clinic in
America we don’t have thah in here, so you Women’s country and never call a Police or teacher
That is again another thing.

5-Last things from me I will advice if things happen to you are true tell your parents never tell another people like Cawareelo they will Expose you every where and this is privacy between you and your you should hire that, our people talk to much on phone so carefull Abaayo.

6- I try to send and email , your email is wrong this again samething based on lie I think.


Habiibo Abaayo fiiri wax Caraweelo qortay qoftaas aa talo ku siin iyaadaba talo u baahan.

http://somalinet.com/forums_archives/33/33.html

By Caraweelo on Wednesday, March 8, 2000 - 12:54 pm:
Hi all;
Deeqa, welcome back Sis! Missed your wit!

Cajabo, darling, you need to see what we do to men in our town. They are always on the "kawaan"!
At any party/any saturday, the poor souls stand trapped at the edges of the party hall/room, trying to look very suave! It is hard to look "cool" when you are wearing a pair of pants three times your size and a mismatched shirt, balancing a coke on hand and a smoke on the other.
As a dear friend of mine used to say- the same 'quatro gato'!!!
As for the women, the waltz in, join their gang- you know we travel in herds- already seated and start studying/butchering-with-their-tongues the entire cat family present! we never show our desparation- the fact that THEY are the group we are supposed to select from! Holy #$@%!
So WABS aka m.w.l.p.when is this conference/kawaan scheduled for?

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foos

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luqman, pple like you make me sick...coz u r taking his side just because he is macalin duqsi.....give me break, furthermore, the #1 on the pervert list are macalimiinta duqsiga. everyone knows that. and if she is lying that is her problem, personally I dont think anyone is desperate for attention that they'll make up s/thing think like that, however it is not your place to judge things which u know nothing of, it is plain stupid and ignorant of you to make that common.
I'm out of here

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lover girl

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Habiba, abaayo macaan I am really sorry about this sad, sad, sad, thing that you had to go through nobody deserves to be treated like this or to be taken advantage of this way or any other way, sis I would advice you to talk to your parents especialy your mom first tell her everything also your sisters if you have sisters and they are older don't tell the yonger one's yet, and let your mom tell your father, after you and your family have this talk don't go to the police right away 'cause if you do it will be she said/ he said you need to have a some kind of proof such as get a vedio tape or a recorder tell your parents to hide some where in the house and make him believe you are the only one at home at the time, after you get all of that set, start talking about the last insident get him to admit it on tape about what he did to you, after he admits it, tell your parents to come out of hiding then call the police don't be afraid while all of this is happening 'cause you got your parents watching everything so if he tries anything they can caught him on the act....Good luck sis for this mission!!
I can't believe some of you the way your being insencetive about this, it seems to me most of the one's that are being jerks are guys even the ubah23 person, no wonder why we don't have peacefull country today 'cause pig's like you used to govern it.... whassup with you ganging up on caraweelo all she did was offer help to the poor girl whith is more than you all did..
LAW STUDENT, this just in ( your client got life in prison) you talked about having all the fackts when in fact you got all the fackts wrong, do you know what late 20's is ??? she did't said 20 years old she said late 20's (27-29)..again you got another fackt wrong it is 2-3 minutes but it seemed about an hour to her typical somali man he only lasted 2-3 minutes..and for your info in America there are free walk-in clinics in all of the states.. so pls next time you come to court come prepare ok!!
sorry y'all it is long message***** sis sorry again!!! I'm out.

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Lil Doobio

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PHONY!!!PHONY!!!PHONY!!!PHONY!!!PHONY!!!PHONY
I can't believe that sh*it..

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Luqmaan

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foos
sis, sorry if i made u sick ...ma waxaad rabtey inaan ku dhaho ninka xiniinyaha halaga xabadeeyo, lol, waad ku raaxeysan lahayd haye,aha, i'm not gonna say that> we don't even know if the whole story is true> w/come to the net sista where all the liers N' cheaters meet......ha ila yaabin horaan u soo arkay gabar soomaaliyeed oo ninkeeda habeen inteey is qabteen police ugu yeedhay kuna tiri wuu i xoogay markii la xiray ninka oo dhowr sano loo dhiibay ayeey gadaal ka tiray been baan sheegayey oo ninkeyga waxaan ku nacay wadaad buu ahaa oo inaan baadhiyada(party) ka boodo iima ogoleyn.

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Ubah23

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Habiiba

Abaayo don't tell you information anyone
Except your parents that is all, never leak, keep
on you


To:Caraweelo


Abaayo how can advice sis habiba , when your under
bad condition first clear your self look what
you wrote, before you talk pls.

To: Foos

Abaayo Luqman did good things, she should check
with her parents not ppl like Caraweelo. Our sister today lost there Virginity easy why so
don't blame anyone.

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ThugGirl

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To so called-LAWSTUDENT

first of all, you aint in LAW SCHOOL*. and you will never get close to it period (BAR exam involves reading and writing) .
the sis said her parents went over to her Aunt's for Cassumaad. She hardly mentioned EID !!and her sister went to the market to buy sodas, am guessing she didn't cross the border to get it.
So next time you wanna play Law Student, represent your case, in organized fashion !ya hear fool!!
nuff' said....
TO:ANON
small timer, i'm guessing you didn't get the meaning of my last posting...
learn to read n write ,ass-wipe!!

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Anonymous

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ThugGirl
#### shut ur stink hole, u talk too much bitch and u r everywhere all the time, don't u have anything better to do ... whore, get a job u ass.
hey, don't forget to shoot ur dad's ugly and old balls.

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cade

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Law student....


you got a very valid point there. if the date of the rape is january the 8th as she mentioned it. Its highly unlikely event for two reason.

firstly it was EID day and no dugsi are taught on such day, as you clearly stated. if it wasn't Eid as it was in some places then it was Ramadan and her parent wouldn't have gone to xaflad at 12:00pm and most definitely no sandwich will be needed for the macalim as he craftly implied in her story.

The other point I couldn't understand in this story is that, the time for Dugsi qur'an is normally well after school. around 5-7. How come her one is taught in the afternoon. When kids of dugsi age are in school?

I guess there is something fishy about this story.
anyway, the story was posted at 05.02am so canada is bit unlikely to be the source venue. Looking at the lingo, Britain is not also the place where this story is being posted. because no kid in UK will use the word sodas. so this person must be somewhere in Australia or New Zealand.........possibly South Africa..


later

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TROUBLEBOY

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TO;HABIBO.ABAAYO ISLAYAAB BEENTA DHAAF ABAAYO MA,MACLINKAAGII OO KUGU YIDHI (DON'T GO TO THE NIGHT CLUBS)KAA?MISE WAA NINAAD JECESHAHAY OO AAD ISLEEDAHAY HA LAGUGU DARO ILAAH KACABSO (GOD IS WATCHING YOU)WAX YAALAHA QAARKOOD BEEN HAKA SHEEGIN SIIBA DADKA DIINTA FIDINAYA MIYAADAN KA CABSANAYNIN INAY LUGUHU ISKU KAA DUUBMAAN,AMA AAD INDha BEESHID,ABAAYO WAAN KULA TALINAA WAX YAALAHA QAARKOOD HAKU HADLIN. SUBXAANA LAAH .ANI LEE HA,ISOO MARIN. PEACE.

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MissX

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Sistah habiba,

I'm really sorry to here about ur unfortunate encounter.. sister, If u tell ur parents about the situation..no one is going to think that u r a slut...god, they would never, in thier rite minds, side with a man like that...sistah, i want you to think about something..if u dont say nething about what he did...then maybe next time ur little sister is alone with this man, what would happen to her? and what about all those parents who trust the "macalin" with their daughters?..sister, if u dont want to be the victim i suggest u take action so this man can be punished (both here and the after life) for the safety of all those girls out there...I once knew a so-called "sheikh" who used to give me dirty looks...and from that day on.. I knew that some so-called shiekhs are not better than ne rapers or kufars out there..It's quite sad i know..take care..n peace!

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Anonymous

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MissX
dirty looks can't be a crime...were u wearing hijab at that time?
i think that sheikh was scaring sheydaan away from u.

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Trouble-gonna-kick-yo-ass

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TROUBLEBOY.....


GET YOUR OWN NAME FOOL!!!!!

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MissX

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anonymous, ur just ignorant
it starts from dirty looks..and goes on from there..and by the way, the issue is not whether i wear hijab or not...and shiekhs should not care about that either..neither should it be an excuse for rape!

thank u!

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The Equilizer

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To: Habiba,

as the Law Student already pointed out there are too many contraddictions in your story that don't add up. First of all, unless you had lost your virginity a long time ago, the Macalin couldn't have screwed you in three or less minutes. What's the Macalin, a superman with a superdick. What's more, unless you live in a rural area. It doesn't take too long to nip into a store and buy sodas. On the other hand, we need to remember that the Sheikhs are made of flesh and blood as we are. Therefore, not all of them behave. They have both good and bad guys. At this point, it is really very difficult to either believe or refute what our sister Habiba wrote. As far as I'm concerned this whole thing could be a prank made up by Habiba and her friends. They're probably dying of laughter at our expense.

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Anonymous

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my only question to habiiba is where are u now?
how come u not writing any more? or are u really xabiiba? please answer?

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Habiba

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Eid Wanaagsan All.

I decided to write my story not because so others would judge me, but because I wanted to see what the rest of you out there would advice me to do. I thank those of you that showed concern and also I wanted to thank you for your advice and guidance.

I read someone's comment above and he/she was trying to guess where I was at. If I wanted to let that person know or others that showed interest as to where I was at, I would have given you my home address but like I said, this is the net and thats why I came to the forums and decided to write you all. (No one knows me, no one can see me and it feels good to put it all in writing than facing others) I didn't demand your trust nor am I going to now. (for those who think that I let this happen or those that think this was all a just made up story)

My parents are religious people, not only do they take our DiiN serious but good followers. They both have their own problems and at the time I wasn't about to let them stress and worry about this, I have kept it to myself long enough and thank God that I wasn't infected nor was I pregnant. I told my Aunt and she helped me tell it to my parents. As of now, things have been handled but I look at my father's eye and I see the pain. (they both blame themselves)


The criminal investigator and his/her fans, You forgot one thing. (I was at home on a Saturday afternoon, and as far as eid was concerned, the time zone)


Just because I was dressed at a certain way or have a certain shape (meaning beauty etc) no one has any right over my body at any given time, unless I allow it. Some of you said that I asked for it, and some said that I lied about the whole thing.


One of the last people that posted their message mentioned about my virginity???

I am a virgin and very much proud of it, I might be 17 and not yet had sex (because nowadays everyone is doing it) I have respect for myself, I never said he got into me completely because it will take more than 3 or 4 or 5 or even 10 mins to break through. (not even a whole day would help it open up completely) my point is he tried forcing himself on me and that was not right.

I promised myself that I will do whatever it takes to keep that qaniis out of my sister's sight, because he is no longer teaching her. I I hate to see it happen to another girl, but there is nothing I can do to prevent that from happening.


Again, much love and thank you goes out to those ladies and fellas that showed their sympathy to me.

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Habiba

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To: careweelo and for those who tried emailing me. I made an error on the email address both times, habibag@prontomail.com, not habiba@prontomail.com (I keep fogetting the "g")

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hebel

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habiba
did u call Caraweelo?

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Faysal

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Habiaba,
Itsi the second time iam writing to u, i dont care if ur storry is true or just a made up storry, but it can happen to any family, so i hope the advises are not waste.
During my long stay in the west, i met alot of people who generally don´t like their religion or race becouse of an incident like this, i would keep ur identity intakt no matter how.

Faysal

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Allow sahal amuuraha

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Waryaa Cade,

Don't waste your skills on this fictitious , imaginary,fantastic, Internet bull crap tall tale made up by this chick(she obviously has some deep-seated psycho-sexual problems). You have talent my main man, why don't you go on and apply for a detective job at your local constabulary. You sussed out that lady's bogus story with such deliberate ease.

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hebel

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hebel could you leave my name alone please?

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Anisa

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To Habibo,

I am so sorry that you are going throught this alone. i myself have experienced something similar to this. I had this Macalin who used to come around my house and teach us the quran, he was quite young. About 23/24 and one day he told my parents that he could not come around our house but wanted us to come to his house , and my parenst accepted what he said. After all he was far cousin of mine and didnt think of anything by us going to his house but on that day my sisters was sick and i had to go alone/. I went to his house ( he lived with his brother and his sister in law ) by the time i got there the were going out and this mean that i had to stay there alone with him , i didnt think anything would happend. I was only 15 then.He read the quran for me and after a while i asked him if i could leave since i learned my quran and he refused and i said ok ill waite till my time is finished but before my time was up , he was telling me all these thing like how beautiful i was , how smart i was and that he loved me etc. I was so shy and embarrassed at the same time and didnt know what to say to him , but i said i am going and he said no and came close ,when he did this i spit on and scrached him and run out of the house. After that inciddent i didnt go back to his and i refused for him to teach whether it was at my house or his house. Of course i didnt tell anyone about this till this day. so i know how you must be feeling.
So i do believe you 100% , i just wish that there was anything i can do to make you feel better. You can tell your parents if you like but that depends on what your parents are like , do you feel that you can tell them. Anyway whatever you decide to i wish the best of luck.

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khalil

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Damn it! He started to play himself ? what piece of joke!. looks like to me that all this crap is being made up. I am not so liberal to believe this piece of crap. Hey Habiibo, if it did happen, Does he took your virginity? or you didn't born with to begin with?. And the second thing we expect is a Somali girl who says My Father did to me. I see too much Jerry Spring show at work.
Please spare your filth tongue from Macalin Community.

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shapiro

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to: habibo,

am n't saying u r lying, but according to your
written story it seems unfit and beyond reasonable doubt. for de rest i wish u good luck+wisdom.

yours bro

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Anonymous

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first of all i dont by this made up story anyone in there right mind would agree with me on that secound of all if that teacher was a western school teacher (icould have believed you)but we somalis and i say it proudly dont do that we are not that sick sister and dont lable quran macalins ,dont tell me your parents are so irresponsiple to leave you alone you and your young sister,your whole story calls into ???????????so many illstated points which indicate its a total lie and one last request (please we are a clean nation comparing to thoese sick western societies so dont give your self your family and our people a bad name.

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Anonymous

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I have my doubts about this story but I find it sadenning that parents can allow 'macaliins' near their children alone. Don't they know that sexually deviated people will do anything do get close to children - including playing 'macalin'. How much do these 'macaliins' get paid? Isn't it time that parents got together and organised professional teachers to teach their kids religion rather that hiring the first cabdi who comes their way?
Back to the story:
How could anyone attempt to rape you while your young sister was out fetching sodas?
Ask anyone and they'll tell you that rape can never happen on a one to one situation. Was he armed? Did he knock you out first? Were there others who helped him by holding you down?
You were never raped my dear! At best it was attempted rape - which is very far from rape. But you should report it nevertheless. And all those parents who hire a twenty-something-year-old (probably jobless) fellow off the streets to be around their teenage daughters, think again!

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MAMA

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A/ALAYKUM

habiiba aad ayaan uga xumahay dhibaatada kugu dhacday

waxaan ahay hooyo 4 caruura leh hada kahorna arintan oo kale igu dhacday ,run ahaantii ilaa xoogid islama gaarin laakiin wuu isku dayay.

qofkaasna waxaan ahayn qof aan famly ahaan isku xigno ,
laakiin intiina kale ee kuhaysa macalinka been hakasheegin waad qaldantihiin ,shaydaanku qofwalba wuulasocdaa ama macalin ha ahaado ama shariif .

anigu hada gabar malihi laakiin hadaan dhalo gabar macalin iyo cidkalaba u soo dhawaan mayso .

to faisal walal ka fogee inay gabadhaadu cidla la noqoto macaliiinta ama cidkalaba
hadaad awoodo gee meelaha furan ee quraanka lagu barto

p.s all waalidiinta caruurtiina dhagaysta waxay idiin sheegayaan

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Selsabila

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this story is very sad even if it is true because it's really hard to believe. But in that case the first person you should tell is your parents because this is a serious case. How can you stand the look of him if he cames down your house very week. don't you feel dirty. I don't think why he should get away with. What if he tells your parents your daughter done this and this and this not even mentioning his name. And even if you were pregnant what the hell are you going to tell your parents if you then say he raped me and he is the father of the child and he refuses it. By only knowing that is 9 months time when the baby is born in whatever age you are do you wanna have a baby that is not even halal to you. Do you wanna have a child that you don't even want. Or a child getting by raped.
And of the day when it's too late your the one who is suffering no one else.

It's really hard to believe this story but at least i gave you an piece of my mind.

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Just Another Sistah

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Acuudu-Bi-Kalamaaat-ul-Allah!

To:Habiba,
Walaal, from what I read of your story it is Terrible! I never in my wildest dreams thought a 'Macalin' could commit such a crime, except if he was a fake one, and in this case he was fake!
Abaayo, I think you should definately do something about it! You should tell your parents ASAP! If they're good Muslims they will believe you! The truth needs to come out even if it changes everything! Because he may be Molesting other innocent little girls. You could be saving other sisters/brothers by telling someone about this!

May Allah(SWT) keep you Safe & Strong Aamiin!

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READ AND UNDERSTAND HER POSTING...FIRST

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FIRST AND FORMOST READ WHAT THE SISTER WROTE IN HER SECOND STATEMENT
SHE DID REPORT HIS NO GOOD @$$
TO HER ANT WHO LATER TOLD HER PARENTS
AND NOW LISTENT CAREFULLY
HIS FIRED
THATS RIGHT FIRED
SO QUIT REPEATING AND TELLING HER
'TO REPORT HIM" CAUSE SHE ALREADY DID THAT
BY THE WAY THOSE OF YOU WHO THINK "MACALINS" ARE MR-TWO-GOOD-SHOES AND THE "SOMALI COMMUTINY AS A WHOLE THINK AGAIN
THERE ARE BAD AND GOOD PEOPLE IN EVERY CULTURE
AND THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH "ISLAM" IT'S SHEEEYDHAN THAT MADE HIM DO THIS
AND THOSE OF YOU KEEP ASKING IF SHE LOST HER VIRGINTY OR NOT
AGAIN I REPEAT READ HER POSTING DAMN IT.
SHE SAID HE DIDNT GET THAT FAR(FORTUNETLY)
AND FOR THOSE WHO DOUBT IT DONT POST A THING
CAUSE YOU CLEARLY DO NOT KNOW HOW TO READ A POSTING AND UNDERSTAND IT.

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Ismaciil

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To> Habiba
Subxanalah,

waligay sikadaanookale mamaqal waan wax laganaxo hadii ayrun tahay, aniga markii ugu horeysay maanan rumaysan aniga somaliya ayaan joogaa waxaa soo kalena anagu aad bey cajiib noolatahy.
aniga markaan akhriyay waxaan isugu yeeray wixii arday dugsiga Al-Bandar computer ee Bosaso dhigato
waxaana ardayda intii badneed waa rumaysan waayeen. walaal hadii ay runkaatahay waxaan ku oran lahaa usheeg Hooyadaa ayadaa taqaan sidii ay oranlaheed ayadaan qofdumar ah oo waxaa lagayaabaa in ay kafududahay dhanka aabaha.
usheeg wixii kugu dhacay hadiikale waligaa nolol fiican kuma noolaaneysid kawaran haduu sidaa oo kale kusameeyo saaxiitaa ee aad dugsiga wada dhigataan. marka usheeg waaridkaa sidii macalin ku sheegaas lafaha looga jajabin lahaa oo ardayda looga qaban lahaa oo loo xirilhaa.
cidsharmuuto kugu magacaa beyso majirtee ee habaqin.

waahaday runkaatahay.
Dhaan somalida waa wada salaaman yihiin.

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SHUKRI

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Dear Habiba


OH MY GOSH....OH MY GOSH?WHAT IS THIS?OH MY GOSH?I am so sorry abaaay,it just stops me cold?I cannot believe someone with a status of religeous educater can stip so low.Dea r Habiba- i beg you to report this to the authority and seek some counsel.Also you can take the news to your local TV news caster.I personaly work for a local news room in Minneapolis mn.(wcco 4).Please i beg you go get help?Where do you live?if u live in Mn i can give u my number.please?gosh?pathetic....
SHUKRI

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bitch

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Holle.....Holle.....Holle........
What'z up girl?
This is cannot be tru, what ever happen it can't be,
your story is unbliveable the way it happen and the way you said.
I think you copy magazen or movies your friends white bitch's who don't have culter, religtion.
Let me tell you something, wake up and get the life, you seem u miss out the life, have your own way and tell us something tru or possiable.
hey did you aske your self why they don't trust u?
Go back to your topic, u will know the reason why.
sis u want my advic let me talk to your sis or mother bitch.

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fahdi

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The amount of inconsistency in this story is beyond imagination. I am not saying the story cannot happened but I am sure with some degree of certainty the person who wrote this story is not the very victim he/she wants us to believe she is. I reckon we are dealing with the rapist himself. writing his story out of guilty.

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CONCERN.BROTHER

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THERE IS BAD AND GOOD POEPLE IN EVERY COUNTRY AND CULTURE IF ITS TRUE MAY ALLAH HELP YOU AND PUT HIM IN HELL ,IF ITS NOT THEN SISTER DONT WASTE YOUR SHARAF BY LIEING IN SUCH AWAY.

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G.PhOnE

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Hey girl, get your self a gun, find that motherfucka** and blow his face of for fun.

Find some ways to turture him, something with his, u know, slimm.

Cut that thing off, push his eyes in, and rip his nales of and push a knife in his chin.

Yo, revenge is sweat, it's as addicting as meat.

Abduct the motherfucka and burn of his feet.
Hire some faget and let him f*ck him like a maget.

Out with his tong, do this, and ya never hear his song.

Some good advise is necassary, help your self get some courage go to your parents and tell them about him and yourself.

He must be punished, he can't get away, think about your sister and get him away.

G. PhOnE

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somegirl

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gPhone nice advice there. I probably would have done that too. Peace

somegirl

P.S. But don't do it girl. He'll suffer life after death.

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Unguis

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HI if He did Habiba , Kill him , period ,if u r fooling around with our consciousness n emotions ,
n happen to be lying , than burn in da eternal fire,if wat u said is da truth , make a plan with a couple of ur gals n do him for good, A woman
can easily kill a man , by da way , it won't be murder , it is justified by da law of God ,just see it as Divine intervention,
Allah's wish , Get it
best wishes

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SUHUUR

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And they said all wadaadz are nice!
Habiiba, head for the authority?

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FBI

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TO HABIBA! I THINK YOU ARE TRYING TO FOOL US AND MAKE STORY THAT DIDN'T HAPPENED! SORRY GIRL! THIS IS NOT FACT BUT OTHER THAN FICTION! YOU ARE TRYING TO MAKE THIS WEBPAGE MORE EXCITING THAN EVER BEFORE, ALSO A "MACALIN" WOULDN'T NOT CONSIDER TO DO SUCH KIND OF DISCUSSTING BEHAVIOUR TO HIS STUDENT AND CULTURELY, WE DON'T ALLOW A STRANGER TO WALK IN YOUR HOUSE AND START TO TEACH WHAT HE SEEEM TO ME NOT HAVING KNOWLEDGE OF WHAT HE IS TEACHING,IN ADDITION IF YOUR PARENTS ALLOWED HIM TO COME IN YOUR HOUSE AND TEACH YOU QU'RAAN FOR THE SAKE OF GOD! TO ME! HE WOULD BE THE LAST SUSPECT TO CHARGE THIS INCIDENT.

IF YOU ARE SERIOUS ABOUT THIS SITUATION! WHY YOU WAITED FOR A SO LONG? WHAT IS WRONG TELLING YOU PARENTS? PLUS! AS ONE GUY NOTICED ME ABOVE! WHERE IS YOUR SISTER WERE? BUYING A SODA FOR THAT LONG! WHY CAN'T YOU RUN OUT THE HOUSE? WHY CAN'T YOU CALL 911? WHY IS HE STILL YOUR TEACHER?

I THINK THIS SUSPECT IS NOT TEACHER BUT HE IS FAMILY MEMBER! AND THE FACT YOU CAN'T TELL ANY0NE FOR THAT! BEFORE I GIVE YOU ADVICE! TRY TO ANSWER ALL THAT QUESTION!

PLEASE! ALL THOSE "YABIE-YABIE"TALKER THIS IS NOT CONCERN ABOUT YOU! AND I DON'T NEED YOUR NONESENSE OPINION AND CHEAP RESPOND! STAY OUT THIS ISSUE!

CUZ IF YOU MESS UP THIS STUFF! YOU WILL BE CHARGED AND PUT IN JAIL FOR MISCONDUCT OF COVERING UP INFO...

FBI!

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adam

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asalamau laykum,

nobody is denaying whether if this cruel action can happen in muslim soicety but the question is this girld telling the truth or is fabricated?

to me, i used to teach Qu'an my last eight years in mdarasah and homes,in my veiw this story it look like fake,

becouse she said the (boy) so called macalin he was 20 year old it's very rear in the west boy like that age teach qur'an, why did i said that after somalian war 1991 the boy was 10 years old let say he came west in that age, majority os somali boys i met they can't even read the faatiha let alone teaching islaam and moral.

my second point is why you didn't speak up why you didn't tell your parent what he did to you you should have confidentaiol your parents unless something wrong with you, either you used be lier extra.

third point after you claim he raped to you what makes the boy come back to the house and carried out normal taching he must fell guilty what he did unless he used to do same.

my last point the timing rape was not accurte the is some thing your story.

soomaaldu waxay ku maah maahdaa been sheeg laakiin been run ueg sheeg.

sorry sister if i offended you

your br in islam
London
uk

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FBI

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FROM FBI AGAIN! I AGREE ADAM WITH YOU COMMENTS ABOUT THIS CASE! BUT THIS GIRL IS THE KIND OF GIRL WHO WANTS TO GET SOME ATTENTION FROM THE CROWD! SO HONEY! I DON'T BUY IT YOUR STORY, BE FOR REAL ....

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G.PhOnE

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Look at that, the FBI, here and saying Hi.

What do ya think ya now fly, hell no and let me tell you why.

Cuzz ya a motha f*ckin pig, and ya must die.

Here is G.pHoNe saying hy, and bye.

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FBI

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To g.phone! you got mad at me cuz i am expressing my feeling some run-way kid who make-up her story to this page! thatz obsurd!

if you believe it! then thatz your opinion. but insulting someone thatz more degrading someone's idea...

so watch your language before i take step forward...
jerk!

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G.PhOnE

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WOBBLE WOBBLE............................................
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what ever. ya aint worth it.

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amina

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Gphone

u make me Hot.....geee..mmmmm is it hot in here..?

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G.PhOnE

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to Amina,

ya don't live in Holland!

Or maybe you do?!?????

Who this, bitch!!

G.PhOnE

if ya know me call me up! ya got my phone, number,

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MUCALIM

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ASSALAAMU CALAYKUM

MY DEAR RESPECTED SISTER HABIBA;

I'M NOT EXPECTING FROM A MUSLIM SISTER TO CREATE SUCH A GREAT LIE, THIS IS FROM SHAYDAN AND IT CAN HAPPEN AND EPLIS CAN DECIEVE EVEN ELDERS THIS WAS A YOUNG MAN AT HIS 20TIES THE WORST AGE FOR MAN AND WOMAN TO FALL SUCH A BAD DEED, BUT MY ADVISE AND LAST ADVICE IS DO NOT STAY ALONE WITH YOUR (GEYAN) MEANS SOME ONE WHO CAN MARY YOU, NEVER NEVER AND NEVER DO THIS, IT'S THE MEANING OF THE ONE OF THE SAYING (XADITH) OF OUR PROPHET MUXAMED MAY PEACE AND PLESING OF ALLAH BE UPPON HIM, AND YOU PRACTICALY EXPERIENCED.
YOU AND YOUR PARENTS AND THE MACALIM HIMSELF IF HE IS NOT MUNAFAQ, US THOSE WHO READ YOUR STORY WE ALL PRACTICALY UNDERSTAND THAT THE TEACHING OF OUR PROPHET IS POTECTING US FROM A SUCH ACTS WHEN OUR PROPHET PEACE BE UPPON HIM SIAD WHICH MEANS "DO TOT STAY TOGETHER ALONE WHITH SOME ONE YOU CAN MARY UNLESS THERE IS [MUHRIM] SOME ONE WHO CAN NOT MARY YOU {ONE OF YOUR FAMILY}"

MAY ALLAH MAKE EASY FOR US TO PRACTICE ISLAM OUR LIGHT IN HERE AND HEREAFTER AND LET US ALL REMEMBER THAT ALLAH WILL NOT PROTECT US IF WE CALL OUR SELVES MUSLIMS AT THE SAME TIME ACT LIKE NONE MUSLIMS, WHY I SAY THIS IS EVERY FITNA WHICH IS TAKING PLACE IN THIS WORLD BEFORE IT HAPPEN THERE IS SOME IGNORING OR NIGLECTING TO THE PRACTICE AND TEACHING OF OUR RELIGION ISLAM.

....... PLEASE MUSLIMS KEEP IN YOUR MIND THE BEUTIFULL HADITH WE QOUTED IS THE PRACTICE OF ISLAM THAT IS MISSING FROM WHEN THIS FITNA HAPPENED.

.......NO ONE CAN SCAPE FROM ANY FITNA IF WE IGNORE ANY AYAH OR HADITH OR UNDERSTANDIN OF THE SCHOLARS, I WANT END MY WRITING THE WISDOM THAT HASSAN AL BISRI SAID (ONE OF THE SHEUKHS OF ISLAM) HE SAID " I CAN KEEP AS A (AMAANA) GOLD AND SILVER AS MUCH AS YOU LIKE, BUT PLEASE DO NOT HOLD ON ME THE (AMAANA) OF A WOMAN"
THIS IS THE UNDERSTANDIG OF OUR SHCOLARS, WHO ELSE CAN GIVE US THIS KIND OF ADVISE EXCEPT FROM ISLAM.


YOUR BROTHER
MUCALIM ADAM

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Saqiir

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Habiiba tell my mom about this..she can help you because she is very active.

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FBI

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to the jerk called g.phone!

first of all! this is not a place to find a "hooker" like in holland!
second of all! when you want to find a girl! you know where to find!
third! this discussion has nothing to do with a getting a phone#.

think twice before you put your dirty hands on the computer...got that! moran!

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G.PhOnE

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Yo FBI

GO ANOY THUGGIRL OR SOMETHIN'

NOBODY CARE!

DAMN YA STUPID!

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RAW

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RAW MAY 4
THIS IS A SIN AND HE WILL GET IT SOON OR LEATER
BUT NO MATER WHAT U MUST TEAL SOME BODY.
HE MOST BE STOPED .THIS THINGS GOES ON OUR IN
COMMUINTI BE CUZ NO BODY TALKES A BUT IT.IT KEEPS
GOING ON THIS IS ALI AKA RAW LOVE SIS STAY STRONG

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fbi

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to g.phone! if you don't care then why are you fucking responding to my public message! nigga! i care less about your filthy opinion either do i care if you get fucked!

back off before i make you brain-washed!
•••••••!

plus! learn how to type english! or take some e.s.l classes..

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nasro

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By Nasro on Friday, May 12,00

Wuz up fbi you know u telling the truth about this nigga!cuz he don't know ••••, you know what sister mean. Any way •••• this mother f...ck and go on with your words.

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Anonymous

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Wuz up fbi you know u telling the truth about this nigga!cuz he don't know ••••, you know what sister mean. Any way •••• this mother f...ck and go on with your words.


ps. He sure do need to improve his typing and E.S.L is the right thing for him.

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Anonymous

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to FBI and other ppl

don't you know he is not comin' any more.
didn't you read that last message.
Good rithens of that fake ass niggah

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najma

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I feel so sorry for you, he messed up everything.
my advice is u should tell your parent and the police, this is criminal. What i realy understant is he was your teacher,not just a teacher but also a religion teacher who was going to tell you about what's wrong and right. Am sorry about everything that happend to u, but be strong and bring that basted to justice.

Be cool Ok

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Anonymous

Thursday, June 29, 2000 - 04:23 am
i am the maalim of habibo .the story happened but not has she said.iam only three year older than my student.On 8 january was idd day thank u mr law student[u r wiseman].after idd prayer i was apprach by my students amongst them habibo.the informed me that iwas to lunch[walima] at


habibo's home.they forced me to come,even after explaining that i had other arrangement.habibo said that because they have already included me in their budget she will drop the food to my home.
i refused but promise to passby at their houseafter maghrib.iwish i had known habibo eyes lighten up &she said it was good idea,i asked her
weather her parents r going to there .she assured me that they will be their.just as i promised after magrib iwent to habibo's home.iwas w\c by habibo sister&another girl.after isat in livingroom iask whereabout of their parents.iwas informed they're on their way from hospital.iwas served tea&sweets by habibo'ssister.the small girls disappeared after awhile habibo entered the livingroom .she wore avery transparent cloth.then iknewned her intentions.iadvised her againsther unislamic way of dressing and infront of her maalim.from here i don't want to go in to detail. justlike prophet yusuf i came out of it victorious.let learn from this experieance both us ,maalim& parents .to maalims do not allow u self to be trapped .

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Anonymous

Thursday, June 29, 2000 - 04:48 am
There's a lie in here.. Maclin.... then why you
advanced your sex apitite to her...........

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macaalim's raper

Thursday, June 29, 2000 - 11:34 am
anonnymous????????????pervert!
Funny i could have sworn i read something in the morning paper about a macaalim guy being raped in the ass by five men.!Was you the victim?bitch ass!!!!!

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Anonymous

Friday, June 30, 2000 - 10:55 pm
I JUST WANT to explain what happened.so there is need of bad language br.

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Anonymous

Sunday, July 02, 2000 - 03:41 am
well then u have to start all over again and the jury will listen the victim as well( Hibbo). then we will pass out verdict.......

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Anonymous

Sunday, July 02, 2000 - 01:05 pm
OK.. Macallin Quraan.... we are listening???

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najma

Wednesday, September 06, 2000 - 01:37 pm
habbeba you should became a writer , what a story.
unfortunately the is unblievable but well done
slite, if you are that disprate why don't you ask the african ameriacan guys to •••• instade of embaressing our religion and culture. think before you write or make up things beach. you are disgresfull to our religion, it's people like who bring to the religion and somali culture.
don't write things like ,

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najma

Wednesday, September 06, 2000 - 01:37 pm
habbeba you should became a writer , what a story.
unfortunately the is unblievable but well done
slite, if you are that disprate why don't you ask the african ameriacan guys to •••• instade of embaressing our religion and culture. think before you write or make up things beach. you are disgresfull to our religion, it's people like who bring to the religion and somali culture.
don't write things like ,

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Anonymous

Thursday, September 07, 2000 - 05:27 am
Dear sis,
what has happened to U could happened to anyone U know even your own sister and that is fact,
no one know's what around the corner. I wish it never happens.
Am assuming that U are calling from Europe,
back home even. well darling now majority somalian, society are educated, modern which I belive if U speak to your parents about the incidence you had with U teacher they will do something major about also stop believing aboutthe theory he mentioned to U saying that "U lose respect of your parents and U will called sharmuuto, darling this happens around the world either to somalians or other cultures.
Because it was not your fault. pls speak to your mum especially am sure she could help you.


good luck............

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Habiba2

Thursday, September 07, 2000 - 06:37 am
Dear sis,
firstly the longer u wait to tell ur story to the police or ur parnets the harder it will be to believe ur story (not saying i don't, but the police will aske y didnt u tell b4, wat changed ur mind now and all sorts of other complications) abaayo if u dont tell it could happen or maybe has happened to his other students and i know u dont want to put others through the terror u went through...and i'm truly sorry for wat happened to u sis...but dont worry if u dont get ur justice in this life for u will get it from the Almighty Allah

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Nassir

Thursday, October 05, 2000 - 12:02 pm
To All,
This Girl Has gone through something soo painful so instead of calling her a liar, listen to her story and give her some advice. I believe this girl was raped by somebody it might her teacher or somebody in her family. we have some freaks in our societies and the earlier we accept fact the faster people will get treatment. Sister this person has violated you and you should face and tell him ( have a tape recorder in your pocket) once he confesses pass the information to the police this maggot belongs in jail.

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SAMAWADE

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 10:26 pm
TO: HABIBA

THIS IS UNBELIAVABLE STORY AND YOU MADE IT OUT.
BUT YOU KNOW WHAT, I THINK YOU CONDEMING OUR TEACHERS AND THAT U DON'T WANT ANYBODY TO BELIEVE THEM NO MORE!!! YOU ARE A EVIL AND MY ALLAH REWARD YOU IN THE HELL FIRE( IF YOU ARE A LIAR).

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Ubax101

Saturday, October 07, 2000 - 09:01 pm
Thatz why they said Safety in Numbers, why be alone in the house with him anyway? I think ur parents r at fault.

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mohamed-k

Tuesday, October 10, 2000 - 03:37 pm
first of all if this story is true, then l bare my heart for you, for what has happen to you at a young age is just to sad.


but if you are lying then l feel sorry for you because what goes around cames a around. we as somalis communitly we dont tolerate any rape of any form, specially when you are accusing a man of GOD


p.s carawello.. love your ideas hit me up at khadar@hotmail.com

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fartun gacal

Sunday, October 15, 2000 - 09:42 am
to not so samawade and all those disbelievers
How in the world do you do Habbiba is fabricating her story. aren't you a typical.by attacking the victim and telling her God will put her in hell.
I really feal sorry for you. please stay out if you can't be a sympathetic human being. Quran teachers are human and this is not the first story i heard that trusted teachers victimized their innocent students

adult26, and Ubax23.
what is the God's name do you mean " DO NOT CALL THE POLICE AND COUNSELORS". Sometimes, even parents look over their childrens' well beings for sake of face saving(magac dhowr). It seems to me that you two are advocating young girls like habiba to shut up and take the abuse. shame on.


Habiba, I can't tell you how horrible I feel reading your story. Please like all of us recommending you. you have to talk to someone. At least do it for your younger sister's sake. You would not want her to experience that horrible ordeal.take care and may allah be your sid

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