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     | Unrecorded Date Iam a great guy living in Europe for the last 18 yrs, iam 38 and happly married to a beautifull somali lady. After a long discussion with my wife for the last 2 yrs, about a special problem, which is beyond our ability to solve, she suggested that i should marry. Iam not the type that is enthuiasistic for such a move, but may be this could help me to put my life on track again. discription: age-38 height: 1.81m weight- 80 coplexion-maariin education-master languages-4 clan- one of main somali nomadic clans orientation- balanced in terms of religion and tradition -no smoking,kat,and other maandooriye Advise and help is needed. Yours Abdismad
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| | Unrecorded Date Abdisamad Honestly U R one of the ppl I feel sorry for.....I say that strongly bro. When a woman gives up in certain circumstances....no matter what they are, U R supposed to comfort her. She might have suggested U to get married because she may feel inadequate. She might have said that in rage/anger/.....I don't care whatever the reasons were. U R married and I can't believe I am telling you this....but here it goes..lol -As a Muslim husband U R supposed to comfort your wife....and ensure her that you love her no matter what. In Islam U should stand by her...In sickness and in health....(That is not a Christian thing,it is common sense). Coz Nin anoo xanuunsan iga cararay.....anoo nabad qabo hoosta igama soo galaayo dear. -If the problem is lack of children in the marriage....One problems the SOMALAINS have is they always assume it is the woman who has a problem....The man has super sperm and can impregnnate any one...That is not the case dear...Men and woman have problems....and U should think it rationally before U make a move. Coz imagine if it was U with the problem, I am sure that 99% of the Somali Women would stay with their man...even if he has obvious challenges. -If the woman is Wareegtoy Lug-cad..I am sure she has tol & qaraabo.....I can tell that is not your problem coz you said you were happily married. -Last but not least:-Please don't make it sound like your wife is twisting your arm to bring her a Minyaro....coz U know what- No woman on this earth is able to conceal the resentment /jealousy/ anger of her man with another woman. Just watch Springer man.... Men I can't live with them and I can't kill them...LOL... PEACE Trouble.... Thought of the forums:- Stay true to your partner....coz U never know how much time you got to spend with your loved ones...
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| | Unrecorded Date Hello Abdisamad: Email me at Tusmo_54@yahoo.com and we will discuss from there. Thanks Tusmo.
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| | Unrecorded Date "put her back on track" shows how dumb you are. Liar you never got masters in anything you are too dumb to get masters in ABC.
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| | Unrecorded Date To: Safia There are 4 main nomadic clans, darod,••••••,isak and dir.
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| | Unrecorded Date Asalaamu aleykum Brother can you leave me your email and I'll contact, If you are serious. I might be the right person.
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| | Unrecorded Date Walaal waxaan ahey gabar carmal ah cilmina leh kaa yar wax badan ee sideen kuula soo xirriiraa, xagee ayaad yurub uga nooshahay, afkaaga hooyana maqori kartaa. waxaan sugaaba waa adiga Abdisamad.
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| | Unrecorded Date Hana No offence sis...I have never heard of a Qabiil called CARMAL.....In my life !....Inteee dagaan yahoooy?
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| | Unrecorded Date Troublegirl, dhibka iska dhaaf Carmal waa taqaan, iam sure in aad carmal tahay. lol Youurs Faysal
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| | Unrecorded Date Waryaa cabdisamad ma markii gabdhii oo dhani kula soo hadleen ayaa lagu waayey, waar malaha mala awaal ayey aheyd, mise waad baqatey.
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| | Unrecorded Date Wallahi jaamac , waad i fahamtay. War ninyahow, markaan qorayey qoraalka geesinimo ayaa igu jirtay, hadana waan dhiiran laáhay. Laakin waan soo socdaa , waxna waan soo sidaa, ee yaan la sal fududaan. This is not easy for me. Abdisamad
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| | Unrecorded Date Waar cabdisamad anagii doobabka aheynba guur waynaye, sidee bay ku dhacdey inaad gabdhaha usoo jawaabi weydid. Fadlan anaga fursada nasii oonooga leexo meesha.
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| | Unrecorded Date hey abddisamad while yar at it can I have the first one we cab drivers always buy used things ya no?
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| | Unrecorded Date Abdisamadoow, ninyahoow waxaan ka cabsanaa in shabaqle lagugu rito sidi adigoo spartiibada boodeeysidoo kale ama shaneema Banaadir.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO duliga hana iskusheegay walaal aniga la ii dhahaa <hana maxadkukeentay inaad qorto magac qofkale iyo qabiilkeeda miyeey keenenin taas xumaayo ee waxad ka wadaa soo cadee mahan ciyaarta iyo kafan tani waa cunsurinimo iyo xumeen aad i xumeeneso soo sheeg dantada yaa kalbu anta adaab
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| | Unrecorded Date Waad salaamantihiin dhammaan dadka sharafta leh ee soo booqday boggan, iyo inta xiiseenaysa in aan wada xiriirno ama ay barasho na dhex marto. cinwaanka aad igala soo xiriiri kartaan waa : abdisame@hotmail.com Waxaan ballan qaadayaa in dhammmaan qoraalada seriouska ah aan ka soo jawaabo. Mahadsanidiin Abdisamad Sheikh
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| | Unrecorded Date I can believe your giving your emails to a guy who wants you to be "SECOND" What is up with that. What A jerk!
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| | Unrecorded Date Well i never! When i first read his message i was like the guy doesnt have a chance in a million but then as i went down the list there were actually ladies providing their emails! Imagine that! Ladies be real for once and for all? The guy is already married period. I am sure you will find an unwed one so look around. And Abdisamad, why the second wife? You have one. But whatz even worse is you gave describtions! Hey, beggars can't be choosers, ever heard that line be4? I bet u didn't. Nite folkz.
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| | Unrecorded Date To Suhuur, be liberal and openminded, what is wrong to be diffrent, the guy wants to have another wife, if this wife is to be found, good for him. Remember tolerance is the key to a good life. samia
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| | Unrecorded Date trouble girl; i am wondering why u personalize evey issue!, or is it that don't know the diference between the topic and the person?. i saw you attacking people instead of answering their problems. Here Abdisamad doesn't expect you to analyse why his wife agreed with him to marry another wife. And he told you that it is something that is beyond their ability. He was expecting you to be a candidate, ssecond wife. And the only chice you have is to announce your candidency or shut the hell up. i didn't mean to attack you but just wondering if you are doing it intentionally or accidently. and hey all i meant was to help. and i am not expecting to be flamed lol. khalil.
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| | Unrecorded Date KHALIIL.... What is up with U man...?I don't mean to dis-respect you but what you said was utter bull-shi* ok. I am not gonna repeat what I said....I was giving the guy options/choices for him to stay with his wife and not indulge in other women... And as far as TGRIL being his second wife....He must be dreaming. I like my men to be mature, understanding, caring, loving, rational and so forth. But in this guys case he is non of the above...Coz if he was caring and understanding he wouldn't abandon the TITANIC(his relationship)no matter how wrecked it may be. U don't even deserve to be CAPISH-ED..LOL PEACE TROUBLE
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| | Unrecorded Date To troubleGirl, U are a confused girl sis, to read between the lines of what u are saying, it is transparent that u are in an identity crises, i wonder which shampo ur head is washed with. On the other hand stop to be pompastic with ur words, show respect, and learn how to balance between cultures. No hard fealings sis! Yours Faysal Sweden
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| | Unrecorded Date I WANNA KNOW WHAT CARMAL IS !!!! KII ISOO CAYANA ...BACAAD AAN KUGA QABANAA HEE!!!
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| | Unrecorded Date Kuuseey Gadaalgadaal u akhri CARMAL ee faham, taas waaye macnaheeda muga. LOOOOL. Yareey hadaba kuma cayn ee ogoow.
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| | Unrecorded Date Asalama Caleykum walaal Abdisami, qofba rayi buu qabaa, nin walba oo islam ahna waxaa ilahay u baneyey Afar, taana waa xayaa minalaah, qof bini aadan oo diidi karana ma jirto, hadal yaanan kuugu daalin, yurup baad joogtaa, sharcigeedana waa in ninku aroosaa hal oo qura, haduu gabar kale caashaquna sharciga gaaladu waxay la tahay in aad saaxiibtinimo isku aroosteen, oo hadaa halkan yurub waxaa ka dhacdo in ninku intuu xaaskale arooso ay yurubku yiraahdaan waxaad ku dhashey ilmahaagu saaxiibtinimo, oo hadaad damacdo inaad ciyaalkaagii kaxeysato ay ku diidaan oo ay ku yiraahdaa ilmuhu wuxuu ku dhashey sharcigii wadankan ee ma awoodidi inaan kaxeysato ee hor inoo mood. intey waxaas dhici lahaayeen xaaskaaga aad jeceshahay ee aad awalba dooratey, ku ekow ee xanaaneyso iyadu wa bilaahi tawfiiq osafia@hotmail.com
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| | Unrecorded Date FAYSAL.... Im gonna draw a NO COMMENT line on U bro.... coz looks like U R another JUDGING IDIOT who needs a REALITY CHECK.......U don't know me from XALIMO SACIID JAAMAC......So take your time identifying and familiarising with the people then pass comments....CAPISHE.... PEACE TROUBLE<I need to de-ignorise the place man>
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| | Unrecorded Date Troublegirl, hej sis, Waxa iswaydiin ma xuma, ee wax is waydaarsiga qaarkiis ayaa xun, as i said before, once again no hard feelings, iam just cuorious, gabdhihii talyaaniga joogi jiray maa tahay? an why do u choose the psydoname troublegirl? just asking sis!! Faysal
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| | Unrecorded Date assalamu alaikum warahmah, trouble girl i have to say good job with your first comment there sis...masha'allah...i think many of our men (somali men lack compassion)...ok now men don't bite ma head off...i said many not all...i left ten percent...anyway...there is no doubt in most muslims minds that muslim men are allowed to marry four wives...allah says it...and there should be no disagreement with waht allah says...cuz in every ayyah in the quran there's hikmah (wisdom) behind it, some of us may not be enlightened enuff to understand that hikmah it may take yrs or it may take a life time for us to be lucky to understand the quran with hikmah...for sure there are few taht are previledged...may allah make us those few...anyway what most men leave out is that allah also says in the quran that if you fear that you're not gonna be fair b/w your wives then it's best for you to marry one...now that's where our men fail...it's hard, almost impossible to pls more than one wife due to many reasons wealth being the main factor...common we're all refugees how in the world do you expect to marry two wives in the western countries and support both your wives and your 20 kids (over exaggerating with the kids thing but it happends) and puttin' your wives on welfare...aa aa no way common you've gotta work for your living not beg brotha's...but let's not only blame the brotha's the sisters are just as much to blame common those women that marry, married men...no body forces them to marry them guys...they're not blind folded and forced to marry those doos so let's be fair and give the doos some slack...well for anything i said wrong was due to ma ignorance of the deen and for anything i said right is by the blessings of allah swt...let's not shaitan overcome in our battle against him and his followers may allah swt forgive us of our sins and may allah guide us to the haqq... ma brother abdisamad pls consider your wive's feelings pls think about her and try to understand her...man try to put yourself in her situation and see what you'd like her to do if it was you with the problem and do just what you'd want her to do if she were in your shoes...don't let your hormones override you... think it over!!! wassalamu alaikum warahmah
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| | Unrecorded Date WARTA okey tnx.another question...are u LAMRAC???!!.. i know am not LAMRAC OR CARMAL LOL damn it sounds like caramel.....i don't mind dat qabill hey peepz am caramel lol wow look dat ...its nice to know dat we can twist things to da best way we can!!
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| | Unrecorded Date dhammaantiinba waad salaamantihiin:doodu waxay ku fiican tahay wax faaido leh baa ka soo baxa macanaha CARMAL waxa weeye gabadh hore loo guursaday ama macnaha GAROOB marka CARMAL qabiil ma aha,doodiinana wata waxaan jeclahay in absimad wax ku qaadan inuu guursado mid labaad ama u xaq dhowro xaaskiisa waad mahadsantihiin akhyaarta.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO all wixii carmal aan aqoon inay somali qoraan may ahayn waana isyeeleylaysan waan hubaa inaad taqaanin micnaha carmal 100%= "single mom" nagaha somalidana 30% aa ah single mom sidee u aqoon waydeen haday hooyadiin ahayn single mom walaashin aa ah single mom.... kuwa leh carmal qabiil miyee inay qabiil ogadaan lee rabaan waxkale uma danlaha!!! TO Hani adiga gabadha kale ee Hani waa a dhex aragtay horta akhri waxay qortay magacana waa laguu bixiyaya lakiin qofkii helay matihid!! TO Absamad adiga inay wax kasiyihiin waxaad jirtaa 38 oday ayaad tahay markaas u fiirso waxaad qoraysid Europe aad joogta naag labaad aa radinaysaa horta waad helaysa iyo maelaysa kuma oran karo waligeedba midoo noloshu ku urtay oo meel ay gasho rabto lama waayayo lakiin adi ha cebeen nimanka somalida kawaran 38 aa jirtaa anigoo 22 jirana sidee u fekerayaa maadama adigoo nin wayn ah oo leh waxbaan bartay meeshan kaqarabanaya u fiirso markaad wax qoraysid in aadan dhawicin familada kale ee somalida ah waxaana u bahantahay qof kula taliya inaad aado!!
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| | Unrecorded Date To Daniell or whatever your name is Who gave you the right to question the Somaliness of whoever do not know the meening of CARMAL. Let me educate you plonker, cos I feel you need a bit of general knowledge of Somali lingo. CARMAL is a northern Somalia dialect and it is southern counterpart is GROOB. They are both legitimate Somali words and are in the Somali/Somali Dictionary (if you ever read one). Some know both. Others only know one. So, do not blame others for your lack of your lingo. P.S. If you decide to look for Somali Dictionary I recomend the following book NAXWAHA AFKA SOOMAALIGA (Somali Dictionary) BY. Ahmed Farah Ali (IDAAJAA)
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| | Unrecorded Date AFGOOYE tanak yuu feero armaajo...yuu noow i waas feeri siirayas abaatid ...aay rili did nat noow daat carmal miinis GAROOB. yaah deey weer roong tuu jaag mi bikaas sibily i did naat noow wat da woord meent...AFKAAGA CAANO QABOOB LAGU QABAY ABOOWE AFGOOYE i hope u understand my somali/english lingo..ahaha if u need help i don't mind reversing it for u again!! Daneil & Moh ordoo shaqo yeeshta meeshaan dadka dhan qaldaamiin ma ahan okey intaad carabka laabeesiin oo aad muruq iska galineeysiin maad iska dhahdiin GAroob ..Daneil hooyadeena ma aha walaasheeyna ma ahan Garoob ee umadee islaameed reer kooyga afka ha la soo galin feera buuf yahow....teeda kale ceydha iyo kala sooca maxaa meesha keenay hadaadan su'aasha si sharaf leh kuga jawaabi karin iskaga bax oo geelkaaga dhaqo ...marax yahow ..geel jiraha ah!!! ugu danbeetii Daniel iyo Moh edeb iyo anshax yeesha wasaq yahay la isku keenay ..ciyaal gobal waaxid!!!!
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| | Unrecorded Date SALAAN DHAMAANTIIN KUS.... BACAADKEE BAA SHEEGEESAA... ABDISAMAD WALAALKIIS WAA MAXAY "qudbasiro" masoo maali baa ilaahay hakula fududeeyo waxa aad raadineesid,aniga tiikoobaad baan wali helin marka ma aqaan naagta soomaaliga ah ee yeeleesa,mida kale yurub malaga ogolyahay in aad guursato 2naag? a+
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| | Unrecorded Date colonel Waryaara!! maxaa looyiri somali waa isku af oo waa isku diin???????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| | Unrecorded Date TO Kuseey Nacasnimada maad igalatagtid waxaad ka hadlayso horta waa maxay? Single mom aad tahay maad hadalka yaraysid intaad raga horbodaysid haddii kale game ayaan ku ciyaarsin. Dadkana wax ha udhimin ani idheh waxaad rabtid lakiin umad dhan ha caayin teedakale sidaas aad kutahay qof waxgaranaya.. habar waxaad tahay ay kadhamaatay ee fadhiiso aan ku dhahay
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| | Unrecorded Date TAQWAH Jaza'kala qeyr sista......I just wish men could see it from our point of view.Thanx for the encouragement. I know a guy who said if his wife got pregnant or sick he will get married again... Yacni biniadanimada ayaa ka maqan Nimanka (Qarkood)..Some of them are nice..But who knows... Allah will guide them in due time Inshallah Faysal.... Yes I lived in Italy from ages 0-3yrs...I go there on holidays coz my grandma lives there.... And please don't act like U know me coz U don't CAPISHE..... Kuuseeey I asked my Mom qabiilka la yiraahdo CARMAL intee degaaaan.....She laughed so hard and said....CARMAL is not a qabiil.....but it is a term used for divorced women in Northern Somalia PEACE
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| | Unrecorded Date TROUBLED; You said " I like my MEN" how many do you have or do not have but would like to...curious... Dalamr
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| | Unrecorded Date Anonymous Wouldn't U wanna Know? ...FARAX..disguised as ANONYMOUS.....LOL...Mind yo own Bees-wax.....Comprende PEACE
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| | Unrecorded Date Like any body wants to know. (Like any body is gonna want you................................ Yeah it's Troubled..Mind
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| | Unrecorded Date assalamu alaikum warahmah, trouble girl wa iyyaki ya'akhti and i'm sorry i didn't respond sooner...i was trying to stay away from this forums...but it's kinda hard girl, this thing is addictive anyway take care and may allah bless us all and grant us paradise in the hereafter wassalamu alaikum warahmah
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