     RASHID | Unrecorded Date
I started messing around with a cyber lady-friend of mine about two yrs ago. I met her over one of the chatrooms and we clicked. Maybe after few months of really getting to know each other, We decided to move a step forward. (phone)
Being the man I am, I called her up first and it just went from there. There isn't a day we didn't talk for the last year and a half. Almost every night we chat over the internet and call each other up and say g'night to each other. I KNOW I'M INLOVE WITH HER AND SHE TELLS ME THE SAME. WE EXCHANGED PICTURES AND THIS IS NOT SOMEONE THAT WOULD FAKE A 2 YR RELATIONSHIP.
SO HERE IS MY PROBLEM
MY NET LADY AND I, WE CONSTANTLY FIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING, IT STARTED THE DAY WE MET OVER THE CHAT. WHEN WE MET, I WAS SORT OF MESSING AROUND WITH THIS OTHER GIRL AND THATS HOW HER AND I HIT IT OFF. SHE THINKS THAT I'M ALL AROUND PLAYER. NET WISE AND SHE SAYS THAT IF THIS IS HOW I ACT OVER THE NET, THEN IN REAL LIFE MUST BE THE SAME.
HER AND I FIGHT ALMOST 90% of THE TIME WE CHAT, NOT PHONE..JUST AROUND THE CHATROOM. WE LATER MAKE UP BUT THIS TIME IT HAS GOTTEN FAR ENOUGH, I HAVEN'T SPOKER TO HER IN ABOUT A WEEK AND SO DAYS AND I REALLY MISS HER, I DON'T WANT TO CALL HER OR EMAIL HER BECAUSE THIS TIME SHE DID ME WRONG.
THE REASON HER AND I HAVEN'T MET YET IS BECAUSE WHEN SHE BROKE IT OFF WITH HER BOYFRIEND OF 9 YRS WAS BECAUSE HE MOVED TO ANOTHER CITY AND SHE DIDN'T WANT TO GO ON WITH LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP EVEN THOUGH SHE SAID SHE TRIED WORKING OUT WITH IT. WHEN I ASKED HER IF I CAN COME VISIT, SHE INSTANT ON HAVING SOMETIME SO SHE CAN SORT THINGS OUT AND SEE IF SHE WANTS TO PUT HER HEART OUT THERE ONCE MORE. FOR SOME REASON, JUST WHEN I THINK WE MADE IT AND EVERYTHING IS WORKING OUT, SOMETHINGS HAPPENS AND WE HAVE TO START ALL OVER AGAIN. SHE IS ALSO SAID THAT THE REASON SHE HAS TO HAVE TIME IS BECAUSE IF WE FIGHTING LIKE WE ARE, HOW ARE THINGS GOING TO CHANGE. I PERSONALLY THING IS BECASE I LOVE HER SO MUCH THAT ALL I NEED IS HER AND THAT BE THE END OF OUR PROBLEMS.
I NEED YOUR HELP ON THIS PLEASE SOMALIYEEY, MUSLIM TO MUSLIM. |
| Shamis | Unrecorded Date
listen Bro
i understand that u and the girl have been taking for a long time. but the question is if u to realy love each other then it will work out insha allah..but does she love u as much as u do? u never know if she is telling the truth.
If u guys fight know and u havent even met yet what do u think when u meet each other. bro LOVE IS BLIND, and i know that when u love someone so much u will do any thing for them but the BIG QUESTIONS does she love u? find that out, she can be saying that she loves u buit only god knows what she is thinking. I am not trying to make out as if she is bad or anything but is my apinion....life is hard so is luv but, go and talk to her, if she aint talking then karoon and call her.
i hope i helped u
take care bro
and i hope u get your answers
peace out |
| TROUBLEGIRL | Unrecorded Date
RASHID....
I think you should be the Mature one in the relationship. Call her or write her a long e-mail. Tell her that she did you wrong and explain to her that U R above the holding-the-grudge- high-school-like attitude. Inform her that you love her and ask her to stop doing the things that hurt your feelings.....Coz if you love someone you don't constantly work at hurting each others feelings but you discuss "issues" and solve them as they arise.
I hope you take my advice .....coz real love only hits you once.......and we should all benefit from its presence.
PEACE
TROUBLE |
| khalil | Unrecorded Date
Rashid:
i hear you !. And i think you are lost brother. Honestly speaking, you are nothing but a pussy and damn week. Did i hear you saying a year and half? . Man ! are you dickless or something ?. You are nothing but insult to your manhood. I swear!. Look you don't need to suffer a year and half. It seems you have been victimized --by swtiching you on and off.
look Rashid, this is what you gonnga do period. Give her a call. tell her that you want to come to visit her day this and that.. And don't take no for answer. I mean what she is suppose to lose?. you can stay Motel while you in her city. For that matter she has nothing to lose. And if she says you can't come to her. then right there you undersand that she was lying all your relationship. And please note that many of those so-called chat girls are married women, divorced ones, ugly who have no chance in the real world. So get prepared for surprises. Good luck man. |
| TROUBLEGIRL | Unrecorded Date
KHALIIL
Child....I can say the same about CHAT-MEN(Ugly,fat,balding,high school drop out, mama's boyzz and eating JAAD all day Losers......So it goes both ways...CAPISHE
U know you have been troubled when you see ------------------>TROUBLEGIRL
PEACE
PS:-The guy needs advice not your appaling opinions aight.U must have an oppressively Custic breath.to chat so much rubbish.GET IT CHECKED bro |
| sagal | Unrecorded Date
KHALIL
U SAD FLIPPER..
man didnt u se me?? and million girls, there are no ugly pple just ugly manners and ..GUESS WHAT!! no i wont head for the punchline!
RAshid, talk to her about ur fears and ask her to see ya and if she doesnt then it means that she was just playing..
i met pple here some were close and some becaome friends, so what u got to lose hon!! except whole 2 yrs of phonecalls dough! |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
Rashiid you stupid. How do you think a relation through the net will work. The men like you deserve to desert, because the inter net misled you and got advantage your weak mind. you think you can full around and get away with it. The pain is real and every body has to get the chance to feel it. |
| khalil | Unrecorded Date
TO: troublegirl;
Dear your attack on me is absolutely uncalled for. I was only talking to Rashid whom i guess has no dick. It really bother me when men don't use their God given weapon. for that reason i was led to believe that the brother is insult to all male community (the proud dick owners). You could say i was overreacting but you know i only give such appalling opinion when i see men tortured and abused by those weak minded community they call females. By the way i know you are troubled sista who needs to carry her anger/frustration on someone else but please why me?. I swear i a m a poor guy who can't handle those anger.Did i press hot button ?hahahh i mean are you one of those ugly girls who try to take advantage from the guys in the net?. Please i mean no harm . i am great believer of "thou shall cause no harm" philosophy.;-).
Yo ! Sagal, i believe you that you can be hot.Why? simple, your attitude says so. you didn't show anger tone. And i swear i am happy for you sista. let's keep our fingers crossed the right guy will knock your door soon .
About ugly ones, i am talking about experience, i at least saw 3 who you can even argue they weren't belong to human race ahahaha. |
| MissX | Unrecorded Date
Dear Rashiid,
If you guys have been in a relationship for about a year and a half..i just want to ask one question...where u guys serious the whole time? if u were, then why is it that either of you havent made the effort to "meet" each other in this so-called "serious" relationship..i think that once you two meet and discuss ur special relationship, you would be more clear about where u stand with her, other wise, she is going to think that u are a player, and there is going to be alot of assumptions, and i also think that if u truly love her, then no matter what, u would still try to work it out..no matter how big the problem is...thats what bein in a relationship is all about..
another thing..it looks like ur gurlfriend has some unresolved issues..the part about sort things out..let me tell u what that means in women-language: I'm not ready yet...if she aint ready ..u should give her time and space but also let her know that u aint gonna be waitin forever...and brother if u love her like u tellin us u love her..then go meet her...and make the relationship more "real"....and much luckz to both of ya!
~Be Peace~ |
| WIERDED-OUT! | Unrecorded Date
Ahhh,Cyber-love....
Rashiid, do you actually think that you can fall in love on line? Are you THAT lonely and desperate? Love requires actual CONTACT (all of the senses are involved...it's not something that comes from a computer screen!) So, go out, leave your PC for a few hours, and meet with REAL people, not VIRTUAL ones... |
| explict | Unrecorded Date
Rashiid,
my brother,i want to ask you do you have other women in your life,girlfriends,weekend pussy's,Botty calls,anything will do just go over and have a good •••• i know that you'll forget her,if that doesn't help try a cold shower,if that doesn't help,then they got you too.
what you would do is like the other brother said,go to her and see her how she is "live".
a friend of mine had the same thing,he had this girl that he talked to over the phone every night.
she lived in the US and he lived in Holland,they agreed to get married,we told him not to do cause he would move to the US if it worked out and 2 summers ago he went there to her house stayed there for a month and he found out that she wasn't the right one for him.
i would say to you find out before it's 2 late,call her and tell her you are visiting her and my brother after 2 years you deserve a lil'pussy,i think.
peace man. |
| LAYLA | Unrecorded Date
HI KHALIIL
U CALLED US WOMEN WEAK MINDED I THINK HONEY IT'S THE OTHER WAY AROUND THE REASON I SAID THAT SOMALI WOMEN AND SOMALI MEN THE MEN'S ARE WEAK MINDED U KNOW THAT AND I KNOW THAT SO BOO
CUT THE BULL AND KEEP IT SHORT I THINK I LIKE U DROP UR EMAIL SO WE CAN CHAT
BY LAYLA |
| M issa | Unrecorded Date
Hi brothers and sisters
i want to add another dimension to this interesting discussion, what i want to say is that people should realize that the whole reason for going online is to communicate with other people from far geographical locations and also to have a good laught, so i think any one looking for a romeo or a juliet should look else were.
what u say to that people.
keep it real all
peace and love
Mo |
| RASHID | Unrecorded Date
What you people don't understand is that both of us have lifes, she has her life going and I have mine. I date, matter of fact I had broken up with my girlfriend few weeks ago. What you don't understand is that, this girl is been there for me, all my relationships, the good and bad. Our feelings doesn't get in the way of our personal life's because we both agreed that we will not get too serious until after we meet.
Like I have mentioned it before, she thinks that I will continue to go on with my usual self, meaning with my the girls in my life and so on even if we decide to have a long distance relationship. Don't get me wrong my fellow somalians, the girl is to die for, we're not ugly, retarded overweight type of people, nor are we geeks, we got students, i'm 22 going 23 and she just turned 20 so it has nothing to do with our personal lives, the problem is us only. I just think that all this dating is meaningless when I found the one, I found what i have been looking for and there is no wanting to waste time with going on dates and so forth.
salaam. |
| WEIRDED-OUT | Unrecorded Date
BUT YOU MET HER ONLINE, RASHIID!!! LET'S NOT SUBSTITUTE THE COMPUTER FOR HUMAN CONTACT. IT'S JUST A MAN-MADE DEVICE, NOT A WAY OF LIFE!!! SO, LIKE I SAID TO YOU IN MY PREVIOUS MESSAGE, FIND REAL PEOPLE TO ROLL WITH! FIND THE GIRL OF YOUR DREAMS IN THE REAL WORLD, NOT IN CYBERSPACE!!
GOOD LUCK |
| explict | Unrecorded Date
Rashiid you are lost.i'm sorry there is no cure for love exept love.
we all want to have a good laugh,and escape from the hard reallty thats why we are online for so long,you know how it is you tell your probs to someone online and you feel better and its cheaper then a shrink..lol.
damn i'm crazy i'm killing valuable time behind this fucked up,slow machine.
so peace and rashiid what you need is a good ••••,get your shitt straight brother.
peace ya'll |
| Ismahan | Unrecorded Date
Rashid:
WAllal, I read all of your messages and i understand how you feel....2 years ago i was in the same situation as you are now...i really hit on this guy and we started to have a good relationship just like you and your gurl ...but more and more we started to fight the same reason you two are fighting now ....he use to talk to other gurls the same way he talked to me ...i felt used...he lied to me about his fellings...the worst thing is I knew the sisters he talked too....they were my friend ...that really hurt me soo i decided it was all just a dream....now i found someone real and honest.
Maybe you did the same thing to your gurl!
if you did ....i understand her.but if you didn't i dont.
Peace
Ismahan |
| THE TEACHER | Unrecorded Date
Khalil if there was or is ever been a wasted human being on earth its u, bro u should be on the world genuess record for being the most disgracing insophisticated, irritating, arrogant human being that is occupying the space of the earth and putting a number to the population of earth for nothing. When i read your comments i was filled with disgust bad just by looking at the monitor. I never thought people like u would exist up to this certain time.
Nothing works by force, coz eventually u obviously get no where. What does a person like u knows anything about suggestions, so bro come and visit only if u have been called, or else shut the hell out. What sort of power has god given to men, to go around sinning, if u have thought that way then its time for u to regulate, come up with a good plan small minded's are OUT. |
| THE STUDENT | Unrecorded Date
Dear TEACHER!
What Is the lesson about today? Is it about "The Love Of Internet"? I take this as a homework and show my dad.
thanxs Teacher.
Teacher one question!
Do you punish people for something they don't do? |
| THE TEACHER | Unrecorded Date
Dear student, its all about self teaching methods. |
| THE STUDENT | Unrecorded Date
Dear Teacher..
Although you didn't answer my question which was
"Do you punish people for things they don't do?
if the answer is yes.
then great i didn't do my homewrok. |
| hebel | Unrecorded Date
And I support the death penalty. |
| THE TEACHER | Unrecorded Date
Dear Student, no punishment involved. Punishment comes naturally when u deny love, then u keep on crawling like the brother Rashid did, the better the early, so do your homework NOW. |
| THE STUDENT | Unrecorded Date
Teacher..ok i'll do it but one question.
What Is Love? I Have no clue on it..I'm exhousted
by being told too much about it and i still don't know.do you want me to ask my paresnts about love?
Teacher can i be excused for a moment? i have to go to the toilet.thanxs. |
| THE TEACHER | Unrecorded Date
Student, that's really a very good idea, asking your parents about love and see what their responses are. I obviously can't tell u any better than what they tell u since they are the ones who brought u to this world. Student u are credited for that. |
| THE STUDENT | Unrecorded Date
TEACHER.
my mom said she didn't know what love was...becuz my father impelled her to get married with him..she even didn't know who he was in the first place..
and my dad told me he didn't beleive dat ove did exist becuz he never had any feelings for my mom...he just went to my granpa(my mom's father) and asked him a permission to marry his daughter.
dat is all.
teacher what is next?
Cali dhere called me lastnight and told me he is not coming to the school today..he had a fever. |
| THE TEACHER | Unrecorded Date
Lol, the teacher is now luaghing bad. Cali Dhere has been excused for his reasons, but he has not been credited for that point of Learning the definition of love.
Student, i'd suggest u go to the topic called, HOW CAN I MOVE ON, on this forums coz it has an exact reference to your main feature definition of LOVE.
The sadness thing in life is to be Victimised by LOVE. I'll have more to say tommorow, now you are dismissed early, thank you and have a lovely day. |
| THE STUDENT | Unrecorded Date
Teacher..Look ismahan is insulting me by calling "Hanqaraarac" tell her to leave me alone by the way she didn't do her homework. |
| khalil | Unrecorded Date
Teacher:
You see, what makes the beauty of the planet mother earth and also makes it more interesting is the diversity in opinion. And as nearly everyboday would agree it just doesn't make any sense that a chicken-brained human being, like you, and a briliant man, like me, can see the things at the one angle. And yet one wonders what the world is coming to when one the chicken head of man--you attacks the mighty of man---of course KHALIIL;-). is the world coming to an End? Only God Knows!.
however, i guess it would be nice if you be kind enough to air your two-cents-worth opinion without hurting yourself by trying to anticiapte "I DARE YOU" race with no gutts at all. i hope that helps. khalil. |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
Am inlove with my net boyfriedn too |
| G>PHONE | Unrecorded Date
HEY HEY HO< WY YA ALL USING THE NET FOR YA LOVERS TO SAY NO>
GET YOUR LIFE IN OTHER< AND DON"T USE SOME FAKE ASS MAIL BRIDE ORDER.
GET BACK TO LIFFFFFEEEEEEE>
TICK TACK GET YOUR SELFFFFFF A WIFFFFFE> WWWOOOO WOOOOO WOOO WOOOOOOOOOO.
TICK TICK DUOOOOOHHHHH.
later G>PHONE |
| macalin | Unrecorded Date
TO G-phone
what the hell are you talking about man
speak english.
You need to get a life , you never have a wife, but that 's allright couse you ain't that .....
JA, hou op met je nep melodie's , IK weet wie je bent ,waar je woont >>>>HOOFDDORP>>>> SOLYVIUS<<<<
ik meen het |
| 2PAC | Unrecorded Date
Ya all funny man am just reading what ya wrote and most of them are funny. Keeep the good work
And ppl who getting love from the net ya remember what happend to that guy from who want's to marry milionere.
Think again ya
And that's all i have to say! Is the mad man saying don't hate each other somaliyeyyyyy |
| T-GIRL | Unrecorded Date
KHALIL....
Proud owner ......yeah RIGHT....Sure Whatever floats your boat cheapo..whatever floats |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
macalin wie ben je! Ben je haar broertje of haar zelf. |
| DMX | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 01:09 am
WOW THIS IS THE WEAKEST WHACKEST THANG EVER HEARD
TELL ME SUM RASHIID,, whenn was last time u got
real Punnani...U sex Staved f00.
Go Get Booty Call or Rape da Nearest Hoe on Blok. |
| DMX | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 01:09 am
WOW THIS IS THE WEAKEST WHACKEST THANG EVER HEARD
TELL ME SUM RASHIID,, whenn was last time u got
real Punnani...U sex Staved f00.
Go Get Booty Call or Rape da Nearest Hoe on Blok. |
| hebel | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 08:58 am
Couldn't U two find a Net counselor?
.
.
This is Internet damn it. |
| DMX | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 11:42 pm
HEBEL I THOUGH U WERE ON DEATHROW MOFFO
HOW DID YA GET OUT..
OR U LET THE NIGGA KEEPER TO BANG YA AZZ..
WEAK BIAAATTTTHHHHHHHHH. |
