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I THINK I AM HAVING A BABY

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Mar. 2000 - August 2000): I THINK I AM HAVING A BABY
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AMAL

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I THINK THAT I AM HAVING A BABAY BECAUSE ME AN MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAD SEX AND THE CONDOM THAT WE USED BUST, I AM SAYING THIS BEACAUSE I NEED HELP CAN YOU HELP ME ...

I AM TELLING YOU THIS BECAUSE I AM A SOMALIEN GRIL THAT MIGHT BE HAVE BABY.

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Anonymous

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You are disgrace to our nation.Why are u telling us this , we dont care. You have thought of the consequence before you were screwed.

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TROUBLEGIRL

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Anonymous.....

Dang that was harsh.

AMAL....U are like my little sister...So I'll advice you with respect.Whatever U have done is between U and the Allah, but as someone in trouble you gotta know that you can still do something about it if it hasn't been 72 hours yet. Go to your doctor and take the Morning after Pill.....Follow the instructions next time you think of having sex....Make sure U R married.... Do not indulge in Xaram girl....and pray to Allah & ask for forgiveness...

PEACE

TROUBLEGIRL

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hebel

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ya should wash that freaking condom and temple dry it before sticking yar thump in yar (U know what)
Now U both over used the freaking thing and yar pooh-bahing about what U should do.
kick yarself in the butt couple of times that may allow U to forget for a while. (Sometimes) not always.
C?

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bisinka

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acuudi bilaah
sex is not alowwed for couble who is not married
itiqa laah

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Just Another Sistah

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AssalamU_Aleikum!
Amal, just calm Yourself down Girl! Like T-Girl said take the 72-hr pill, and if it's more than 72 hrs. just wait for the results. You might not be pregnant at all. Getting pregnant isn't like drinking a cup of tea Ya know? It's less than 23% for a fertile woman to get pregnant. It depends on wheter you'd just had your period, what day on ur Menses cycle you were on & so forth.

Condoms alone ain't enough Girlie! If you get through this safe, just quit having sex with a p/ner that ain't your husband! Good Luck!

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Anon

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Amal don't worry, that is how chicks & dudes get married.....like many Somalis nowadays, the first born is conceived before meher.
If you become pregnant...Don't abort. That is a bigger sin, it is murder.

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Dr. J

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usin Morning after pill is somekind of abortion, same as killing fetus or ur own child...Morning after pill is a strong pill and it may make u sick and it also causes cancer and blood clot.
please don't use that pill(72hrsPill)
there is always alternative

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nobody

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you are disgrace to all the somali women, why did you think about this before you open your •••• legs. your disgrace to all the muslim women around the world. Did you know that if you are muslim you not might to have sex before marrage. I can belive you still ask for help why don't you ask help your boyfriend. think before you do anything, you get yourself in there now get yourself out. you •••• bitch?

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walax

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Amal


that sounds like three in bed... "You & your boyfriend & You again".... no wonder the bloody condom bust halfway through......... count your baby as a miracle baby..... after all it came through sticky condon... right!

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Bisharo

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Dear sister

Go to a Muslim Country and get your 100 lash (that is the punshiment for having sex before marriage) or other wise, you will get your punshiment from God in hereafter. AND IS THOUSAND TIME WORST.

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hebel

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next time buy some underwear or them tied jeans.

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suad and anna

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Amal,

first of all , WHY?.
WHY?
What the hell made you •••• up like that!
do you have a brain in that space inside you head or is it all hot air.
and in stead of sitting on your big fucking backside do something about it and fast!

yours

suad and anna

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m.m.yusuf

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SU,AAD AND ANNA maxaad malaaiig ta isaga dhigaysaan ma idiinkaan sex samayn waa hadaanan idin aqoon iiihh.
dhadhtii sariitii farxadii habeenkii ala maxaan qoslaa why why? wali ma iswaydiiseen markaad raga ishoos dhigaysaan allow yaa ku yaqaan afka dheer ayaad biyaha ku cabtaan.
what about dogy and frogy

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cadey

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macaan idhageyso

By cadeey
Intaad sheydaanka sika naarto bal hareerahaaga fiiri koley wax ku dufsadeyba markbaa lagu duufsadee markale sheydaanka yuuna ku duufsan.
Hadii ilaahey qorey ilmahaas waad dhali,, hadii kalna waa ku cashar qaadadey,
waxey u badan tahey in aadan uurlaheyn marka fadlan marka danbe uun ha isku haleyn candoom ,,cus cbsida aa umada ka cabsaneyso tii ilaahey waa in aa ka hormarisaa

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G. PHONE

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FROM g.PhoNe

Ooh, your having a baby! so what lady!

iT'S NOT SHADY, YOUR HAVING A BABY.

yOU WILL BE BIG, YA WILL BE SMALL, BUT YA DON'T HAVE YOUR FACE TO THE WALL.

lIVE YOUR LIFE, AND BE A WIFE!!

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Anonymous

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Hebel ARE YOU A VIRGIN?

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hebel

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it depends.

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analyzer

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oouhhh...baxarey ku jirtaa,,,baxarey ku jirtaa,,,

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NeefoowKaniini

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,,,,,Hebel r u a Girgin???????!!!!!

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hebel

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is it for U, or yar asking for someone else?

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abdullahi

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Bini aadmka oo dhan wey gafaan, xataa nabiyada.

Illahay u toobad keen, cafisna weydiiso. cunuga illahey ayaa ku siiyey ee korso,
aabihiisna u sheeg in uu kula korsado.

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honey

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to Amal sista, you are having a baby?...SO WHAT?...IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD!!!....you made a big mistake but you can bounce back.You are not the first girl who is having a baby out of
wedluck..I Know its such bad thing in our community and religion to have a kid without being married...But you know what sista?...Everything happens for a reason and every baby is worthy to be born.....So take this as life lesson, and don't let history repeat itself in future....I wish you the best and i hope your boyfriend knows that it takes 2 to tango....So i hope he takes care of his duty as responsible man.....

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DACAR

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,,,,,,,,,,,Walashiisa war aan ku siiyo axsaan ii sameey oo cunuga igu soo wareeji, anaa Shabta ku badsanayo oo ayaan taan xaajada aa igu xun nooh,hada kadibna is ilaali oo isticmaal qalabka kala ilalinta Candhada,,,,,,,,,


DACAR-DACAR-DACAR

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Anonymous

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hebel it is for me
well?

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hebel

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and who might U be?

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Kusseey

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Amal

Next time stay away from Breakable Condoms..make sure they Washable too....n most Definitly Flexible its Important....u know what size of our Brothaz ..so go to da XXXsmall Section...that way it'll stay on...gosh now i sound like Expert on da matter ooh well just call clever n very observant lol

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hebel

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and condoms are one time use ONLY never dishwash condoms and never temple dry them.
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C?
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Phone-booth this is for U.
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kuuseey is got a phone-card.

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G.PhOnE

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what ever!

who cares.

damn, bitch!

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hebel

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yar monkey

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G.PhOnE

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YA JUST STEEPED TO ANOTHER LEVEL!

WAY DOWN

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hebel

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IM trying to save ya ya cheap-phone.

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analyzer

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kusseey,
clever n observant..... yeah right...
i wonder what ever happened to her (amal) i mean was she really serious or what? i couldn't tell... ..

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NOOx

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ALL OF DA SUDDEN T-GIRL IS WADAD AND SHE'S GIVEN AWAY SOME USEFUL ADVICES IM I DREAMIN OR WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

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hebel

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maybe yar blood-sugar is getting low!!

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Romeo

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we don't care you bitch this is your fault
if you having baby sister take care is your fault anywhere but question is how old are you
and can you take the big responsibilty?
does your stupid boyfriend know how to take care his child whatever is .
you should asham of your self instead you asking us help how dare you ? you embarresass as somalia girl maybe you are not somalia girl maybe you white bitch who wandering someone orsomething to pick her up listen you bitch
does your family know that you having baby ?
maybe not if you are somali girl you would not do this l am feeling sorry for you .
if l am your mother l would killed you ? but lucy
you l am not . well bitch sharmuudo

give us favavour don't us askstupid quesion
l know dhilo like you .

now what can l say sorry you have to get out you put your self this problem now you can get out
of yourself bitch . you think before you do this . but you were thinking having sex don't you
don't ask that question l know the answer may you do? good luck
p.s don't killed that child whatever you do .

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unknown

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to amal
who's tha father

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ace tea

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 06:52 pm
to amal

can you pleaseeeee tell me how many people were there you Said me my boyfriend and i had sex
it doesn't make sense o.k and one more think how old are you because the way you write seems like a person who's not maeture enough

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AFRA

Friday, September 29, 2000 - 11:05 am
AMAL, TAKE IT EASY, U DID NOT CLARIFY WHETHER U ARE PREGNANT OR NOT, BUT U THINK U ARE PREGNANT.
THE FIRST THING U NEED TO DO IS THINK WHAT STEPS U HAVE TO DO. DISCUSS THE CHOICES U HAVE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND. IF IT IS TOO LATE TO TTAKE THE MORNING AFTER PILL SEEK A MEDICAL DOCTORS ADVICE.
AMAL TAKE THIS AS LIFE'S LESSON, ABORTION IS NOR RIGHT THERE MANY OTHER OPTIONS AND BE WISE ABOUT IT.
NEXT TIME MAKE SURE YOUR BOYFRIEND GET'S THE RIGHT CONDOM OR ELSE STRAP IT ON FOR HIM.
ALL I CAN SAY IS TAKE IT EASY AND TALK TO SOMEONE IT DOES HELP.

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OSAMA

Monday, October 02, 2000 - 08:57 pm
TO : AMAL

ILAAHAY CADAAB HA KUGU BEDELO! AAMIIN

THIS IS NOT ONLY PROBLEM IN YOUR LIVE BUT IT'S THE BEGGINIG OF UR LIFE TIME. YOU KNOW WHAT! WHY ARE YOU FLATTERING THIS ISSUE? HEY! YOU CAN GET HELP WITHOUT COMING HERE AND SEEK ADVICE. BUT YOU KNOW WHAT I THINK, I THINK YOU DONN'T HAVE NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU BUT YOU ARE MAKING SEDITION TO THIS SOCIETY SO THEY CAN TALK ABOUT THIS ISSUE FREELY.

DEVIL!-

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LA TALIYE

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 10:32 pm
TO:SOMALEASE


ALLA MAXAA LA IL BAXAY OO SI XUN LOO ILBAXAYEEY!!!

WAR XISHOODA OO HA KA TEGINA DHAQANKIINA MID AYDI NAAN U DHALAN(DHAQAN) OO AAD ISKA YEELYEELAYSAN OO AAN LA IDINKA RABIN INTA AAD ISKA DHIGEYSAAN!

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Anonymous

Saturday, October 07, 2000 - 04:01 am
amal you should commit suicide a.s.a.p

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HEBLAAYO

Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 12:51 pm
ahahhahahah...waa ka baqaayey...in la arki doono docilo xunxun...ohh caluusha loo buuxiyey...ninka maxaa darada bixiyabo wuxuu dhahaa....dhilay xun yuusan ku sirin oo uusan kugu dhag dhagin...i don't think am insulting someone when i say that too ...any ways.............first think u should do is ....ask allah for forgiveness...and u most keep ur head that there will be price to pay ...on the judment day.....allahu mana jaynaa........and one other thing ..if u foud out that u are pregnate...after 2 to 4 mounths ...don't ever think about killing this baby..even thought he is gana be ..pasterd...give him..or her brith...and if u can't take the responsbility...give adobtion..aight that is my best advice to ya...aight sis...don't get offence by what i said at the beganing...i am nice sis...i can help if ur boyfriend does what they usualy do ..which is hit and run...u can just give me ur email...and i will help u rais that kid..if u need someone to help aight take care see ya................ NO ABORTION PLEASE THANK U

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hebel

Monday, October 09, 2000 - 08:41 am
So did U decided a name for the baby yet?
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How about named him after me?

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TRUESIS

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 01:56 pm
U SO CALLED HEBEL...NO OFFENCE AIGHT

why u what is so special about u.....to me ur one of the losers who do the same thing........like hit and run.....sham on somali guys .....••••..............i would expect this kinda things an out sider to do to somali women.....but not from my somali brothers.....why to somali sis .....don't u care about any one .....think about it guys she is like ur sis and mom aight...u wouldn't want anyone to do the same thingy to ur sis .....peace

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hebel

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 06:31 pm
TrueSis Look who's talking.
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By making yar own kid looser being a fatherless and all and never gave him a fair chance in life?
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How dare U call me a looser?
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At least he'll be like me when he grows up.

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sakari

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 06:45 pm
to: hebel

idiot!!!

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hebel

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 06:36 pm
Eat me.

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T-GIRL

Saturday, October 14, 2000 - 08:48 am
NOOX........

Why U surprised I am givin advice? U all asuming that I was born with a bazuka in my hand or something. That is an insult bro....I give advice and cuss ppl according to their intelligence level...If ya need some bashing U come to the right Feminist Central..LOL...No offence I am sorta harsh on the guys who reckon they God's Gift to women....but I go slow on my sistah's specially those who need my wisdom and advice

PEACE
TROUBL£

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TRUESIS

Sunday, October 15, 2000 - 12:17 pm
haahhahah funy...who wants him to be like u ...shuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu ..TRUESIS

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BITCH

Wednesday, October 18, 2000 - 03:34 am
KILL U SELF BITCH

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