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She Lied,She Cheated,She Betraded Me And She Dumped.

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Mar. 2000 - August 2000): She Lied,She Cheated,She Betraded Me And She Dumped.
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Innocent- Brother

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I only have myself to blame and won't demain myself by apolojizing,I shouldn't to have loved her in the first place if love didn't exist and insist on it's own way.

I and my lover had been getting on well with each other for long time and had away to be comfortable with each other that she made my life something i was so glad to be having for once.Never before had i felt such a happinedd in my entire life becuz i thought she was the only one i have ever cared about so much.

After a while my lover started hanging around with a guy lived in USA whom she used to regard as her "Brother"..she told me he waz her real brother and i did beleive her.she kept up a good correspondence with him,His letters had always ended by begging her to pay a visit,so when she asked me if i could let her go,I told her to jump at the chance and she went.i felt lonely and used to be up all nights planning and thinking about our future that i even got ill and waz taken to the hospital,every time i make a phone call to her i did use to keep telling her that i was fine though i wasn't becuz i didn't want her worried about me so much.

after 3 months she flew in from (Seattle Washington),where her "brother" lived,I was arranged to be out of the Hospital before she came,I didn't want her see cry,holding her folded immaculate handkerchief over her eyes,However, the guy (her brother) came after her and i welcomed him with open arms but the guy could never stand the sight of me and i didn't know what waz going on,he seemed to be having a huge problem with me and i just felt preplexed.the next night i saw her kissing her "brother" and when i asked her what on earth was going on ,she asked me how i could have been so blind not to see her feelings for him.i gues i learned my lesson.that waz my first love & don't know if i'll fall in love with another one as i don't seem to be trusting that one. Experiance is the name everyone gives to their mistakes and in this world,there are only 2 tragedies,One is not getting what one wants and the other one is getting it.

feel like i don't belong anywhere...

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ubax101

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and that service u rite my son.

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MAD MAC

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Innocent Brother
Ubax is full of ••••. The woman did you wrong. My wife did the same thing to me when I was in Somalia. Time will heal it dude. That doesn't help now of course. For a while you're going to feel like crap and there's nothing you can do about it. As Khalil Gibran said "loves ways are hard and steep." Once the pain is gone you can do it again - but don't try before. You can end up developing false feelings for another woman and do to her what your woman did to you. Good luck Abowe. Remember the right one is out there. Inshallah you will find her.

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NoHeart

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you guys are pethetic!!!!

What ever happened to being strong, you guys make me sick. She left you so what there are plenty of fish in the see just go out and get your self another Women probably a White Women she will treat you like the kning that you are.

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Understanding-Brother

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Listen, my concerned-brother.

I understand your pain!. It is life.

Can i take the opportunity to give an advice.
Well, Never, never put your love problems in here.
What is the point? brother.
To get feed-back from somalis who are known to attack anything and everything? Well..see what is to come. Your broken heart will be worsened by a load of insensitive and insulting comments. At least, do yourself a favor..and don't keep checking this page you created...what's to come won't relieve you, but insult u.

As far as i am concerned, i can only say, i am sorry for what happened to you. Be strong and move on. With time, you will recover.

bye brother.

A friend

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MAD MAC

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No Heart
How do I say this tactfully? •••• you. You couldn't carry my rucksack. You want to talk about being hard, try deploying to Desert Storm, Somalia (twice), Haiti, Bosnia (3 times) where people are always trying to kill you. And leave the brother alone. You don't kick a guy when he's down unless you're scum or he's scum. There, that feels much better.

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OPSODOS

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MAD MAC:

I REALLY FEEL SORRY FOR THE PEOPLE YOU ARE PROTECTING AND THE COUNTRY THAT DEPLOYED SUCH A POND SCUM AS YOURSELF.......EVER HEARD OF ANGER MANAGEMENT.

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CiiseRooti

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BE STRONG MAN...WATCH DA HELL OUT COZ WOMEN ARE TRIPPING NAWADAYS.

CiiseRooti

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Adventurer.

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Mad Mac.

The guy touched a nerve when he said get a white woman lol.

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MAD MAC

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Adventurer
He can tap all the white woman he wants. I'm not some redneck who cares about that sort of thing. He touched a nerve when he called me pathetic. He doesn't even know me. That just torqued me off. Of course, OPSODOS is right,I need to chill. The guy just rubbed me the wrong way. OPSODOS, believe me, in person I'm much better at controlling my anger. Just some short outbursts lately probably related to being stuck in Bosnia - which always depresses me. I'll snap out of it in no time. Believe it or not the locals here do like me - and I'm always respectful with them and stuff. Though I can see how you wouldn't believe that.

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adventurer.

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MADDOS.

Gimme a break!.

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Antonio

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Power to people...Power to men..man u just hit the right on time topic ..u r 100% right..women and more particularly somalians are the worst creatue god ever sent ..not like they claim angels....U better trust dogs man
Take care

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ReaLdeaL

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Innocent brother;
You sound like a brother who was smoking in a Gas station,, KAABOOOOOM ! your ass got blown up.

Next time read the warning sign bro,,, be a playa,, dont get played.

And Mad Mac..

cut that war veteran crap,, you watch too many movies.

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MAD MAC

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But dude, I am a war veteran. And I know a bunch of you are too and just won't admit it.

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NoHeart

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hey MAD MAC,

Don't be mad at me cause I say it like I see it.
Or you are mad because the White man used you in the front line so that his kids won't die. Every time you open your mouth you sound more pethetic than before. Do you think being in the White mans army is something to brag about. people like you make me sick you are what we call "a house nigger". Next time reffer to me like you reffer to your White officers "Sir"

NoHeart

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MAD MAC

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No Heart
I am a white officer you dumbass.

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samiira

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oh sorry innocent brother.

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Kusseey

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ok enuff watching too many soup operas guyz..by the way how is Young & Restless goin...Is Ashley Pregnant ...yeah i missed Bold & Beautiful too..Did becky die from Cancer yet......Did Ember Get Ricki back...Is kimberly still Modeling...How bout Da drama between Tyler & Brook...Is Ridge (qabalaaxow) still messin with both woman....Ne'wayz keep me updated

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Cadar

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Subxaanah.
U will in love again bro. Niyada ha iska jebin.
Soomalidana waxey ku maahmaahdaa nin nin kale ayaa abaal kiisa guda. Oo adiga hadey saas ku yeeshay Mid kale ayaa iyadana sidaas iyo si ka daran yeelaaya.
bye
be brave.
there is someone out there waiting for u.

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Layla

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I do go along with Cadar about that idea.
ha is niyad jebin because there is someone out there waiting for u.

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finegirl

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Hi bro wel all i can say is its life and some find there true love with there first and some are still looking like me!! BUt i'm really sorry caus u seemed like a nice guy and as they say nice guys r the ones who always get hurt!!and its true. I know inshalla that u will find someone special who will make u feel all u felt and more( time is a healer) i know u dont want to hear that now but its true take it from me bro.

I dont want to confuse u any more so i say peace

your sister

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DMX

Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 01:37 am
U WEAK NIGGA ,, JUST LIKE REALDEAL BROKE IT
DOWN TO YA... get ya funk azz in game
be tru to da game,,,

Say what!!!!!!!!!


and daaammnnn
u sayin hoe played ya..... were u smoked
out or what ..



i suggest since its too late and u weak in
game,,, go 4 fufu hoez..... Pay Dollah Bills


And 4 ya •••• azz Mad Mac..... don't bring
ya •••• things, lootin ppl back home in
here,,, uuu Mooryan moffo...
We Want ya azz On Deathrow..
Where ya @.

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hebel

Monday, October 09, 2000 - 08:45 am
Geedka Jaceelka sabab aa loo beeray abaa.
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Soo raadi.

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TRUESIS

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 02:18 pm
INNOCENT BROTHER....ifeel u man..........that is one of the reasons i try not to fall for someone or to show my feelgs...if i fallend for them ...caz once they see u fallen for them they know u have no other doors but them....so they play with ur heat......i realy feel sorry for what happend to u.......i my self had experiance...some kinda...love but different them urs..............i had broken heart and sever with a pain for almost 5 mounths ...and still having problem ....i don't know how to get over with .......my point is...don't lose hope...keep ur head up...when the time comes the right one will come ...she is just around the corner......u will once again fall in love and live happily ever after...INSHA ALAAH....WHAT EVER U DO...DON'T LOOSE HOPE AND ALLAH WILL BE THERE TO HELP....KEPP UR HEAD UP OK...TAKE CARE BYEE

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