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For The Ladies Only....WHY ARE SUCCESFUL SOMALI WOMEN SCARING OFF THEIR MEN? #4

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Mar. 2000 - August 2000): For The Ladies Only....WHY ARE SUCCESFUL SOMALI WOMEN SCARING OFF THEIR MEN? #4
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Xaali

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Salaams folks..............wow, this is the 4th thread of the village, my hat is off to you all.
You are indeed a class act:)

How do you guys feel about the Djibouti confernce?
I haven't been following closely, but I am sort of optimistic that at least it will serve as a springboard for civil society to be more proactive and launch processes that will culminate in a lasting peace. Remember 2 words: patience and persistence.

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Alex

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Xaali Tosa tosa tosa somali weyne tosa madaxiin ha raage toosa.

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Anonymous

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Hey Guys, It took me all day to find this posting.
What Happened to the search 'LAST DAY' ?

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Luula

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HEEY GUYS, IS THIS A JOKE!
IT IS NOT FUNNY!
WHAT HAPPENED TO THE SUBJECT!
IF U R RAG ENOUGH JUST TRY TO GIVE U R POINT OF VIEW.
AND PLS LEAVE THIS HOPELESS NEGOTIATION TO OTHERS PAGES {THERE R ENOUGH U KNOW}!
PEACE TALK TO U SOON.
WASLMU CALYKUM WARXMATULLAAH.

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Sumaya

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Salaama Caleykum

Xaali walaalo before you go to the Djibouti Conference this is a the 4th thread as you said above you Participated, what was the benefit and looses, I don't mean to be rude just simple Query.

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OPSODOS

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Speaking as a sister --- i think this illness goes both ways. Men step aside for whatever reason and women have their reasons too.
I don't think we need to discriminate, that's when the vicious cycle is perpetuated! It makes one wonder why there still are unmarried 30-40-50 year old-ers (men&women)! why....because we believe x,y,& z (aka--were discussion #4),therefore hindering further chances of finding the right mate.

Allah bless

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Caraweelo

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Hi Xaali- Wow! #4 - already- this should be on its on "SWFnet"! (somali women forums)
re: Djibuti- I read Mullah' links in #3 (btw- thanks guy!)-
In a way, I am SICK and TIRED of all the so-called re-constructive talks- it has been a decade since the war! And what has happened- more fighting- more refugees-
But its true that one should not give up hope- our leaders have to keep trying to build our nation. But then again, aren't they just making a "lifestyle" for themselves- the neverending meetings, hotels, flights- if we had a government running the country- a lot of them would loose this lifestyle. And some of them are not even speaking for their "people".......
But on the other hand- who are we to judge what they are doing- we are living out here in the west- with food to eat and shelter over our heads- do we have the right to speak for the somali man/woman who is living in somalia?

So.........the short answer-I truly don't have a formed opinion on the Djibuti talks. But one thing I know for sure- SOMALIA NEEDS A LEADER! these so-called leaders/warlords have not been able to lead us anywhere!

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Caraweelo-
You are right we do need a leader. Leaders are a reflection of their Society. It makes me wonder why in Somalia we never had a decent leader. What does that say about us Somalis? Are we ever capable producing decent person(s)? are we capable of respecting our differences? I think not. So we can talk all we want..But the situation will remain the same.

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Xaali

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Hi Folks,
Careweelo, where is the links by Mullah that you are referring to??

Luula sis, people have changed the subject long time ago, but let us know your take on the orginal question by X.

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Nasir

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Salaams all!

Wooow.....#4..?

Luula:
So you intrested in debating huh....? let me ask you and the rest of the ladies what i`ve been wonderring for a long while about LADIES....
Thoughts,feelings and tend to run rampant when a sister is trying to determine to whom she should give her love. She goes through the varied stages of infatuation,lust,desire,want,idealization and finally desperation. She then decides to enter into a meaningless relationship with a brother who has no idea what he`s about to get into. I mean,think about it sisters,how positive and well thought out was your last relationship..? Did you really been honest and sincere enough...? After those three months of admiration wore off,you come to the realization that you could`nt stand the way he looked at other women,his choice of clothing,the kind of career he pursues...and the list goes on........So Ladies WHAT`S THE OBJECT OF YOUR AFFECTION.......?I`m confused....so brighten me a bit.....

Ladan:

Congratulations! Abaayo i`m so happy for you...

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Luula

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Aslmu calykum.
TO NASIR:
bro first of all don't generalize al women, as u can't speak for all men!
Don't let any bad or negative axperience discourege u from finding true love or u r faith in it, don't let it paralyze u and make u cinical.
Walaahi i do my best to be true to my self and to my GAYAAN always and from the beginning, although in the beginning of every relationship there is always half true presented.
Unfortunetly, i found out that most of my brothers don't like that total honest and they did get mad at me!!!! Ironicly.
Forexample, if i meet some guy, and i like him at first sight, but after couple of conversations he shows his true face, i try to tell him in a deacent and mature way how i feel ----> that i'm not interested any more, is that a crime?! I didn't promise him any thing to begin with.
And if the guy is interested but i don't feel any chemistry between us i tell him immediatly------> he become angry too- what!- it seems that he wants me to lie to him in order not to hurt his feeling, to let him in his fantasie but wanting me in it too!!!!!!!
What do u think of that? Who is playing with whome now?
And do u honestly believe that all the guys r SAINTS and that innocent?
WAKE UP BRO, HAVE U BEEN IN A CLOASTER, SMEL THE FRESH BLOOD BETWEEN THE VENUS AND MARS!
Peace upon us all, caf iyo masaamax.

TO XALI:
Sister i believe there won't be any solution as long as that virus called QABIIL runs in our vains.
U know it is there, nobody can deny it any more, and we beter discus it very soon how we feel about each other, THEN we can look further for solutions and comprimises.
Allah bless us all.
I love my ppl my country a lot, with gods witness.
Waslmu calykum.

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sagal

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hello...i am back..it seems i was lost out in the wilderness, till i got good campuss, to brin me back home..as thi sis the only place i feel right at home..and i see Mrs X came back!!...so i just wanna tell ya u guys i missed u..and will contribute in future ..that is when i finish my exams in 2 weeks time..
now u guys take care

and any news that is of significant would be much apprecaited..for instance wether my ex Nasser got married or...anything really worth mentioning?
and why congratulation Ladan?? had set of twins sis/? lemme know the gory detail macaanto.lol

sagal

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sagal

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hello...i am back..it seems i was lost out in the wilderness, till i got good campuss, to bring me back home..as this is the only place i feel right at home..and i see Mrs X came back!!...so i just wanna tell ya u guys i missed u..and will contribute in future ..that is when i finish my exams in 2 weeks time..
now u guys take care

and any news that is of significant would be much apprecaited..for instance whether my ex Nasser got married or...anything really worth mentioning?
and why congratulation Ladan?? had set of twins sis/? lemme know the gory detail macaanto.lol

sagal

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Alex

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Dear sister sagal please go to Somali Women's forums NOT to Somali Women's Forum Mar 2000

There are two Somali Women's Forum sister.
This has been Alex in search of customers to pick up.
No customers today.

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Alex

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Ps Sagal This is the second time I find you wondering in the streets next time I will charge you.

Ps: When you go back to the Village, you will find Caraweelo who has gone Banana. Take it easy on her Ok, Don't stur her up like you did sometime ago, since she has incontered Anonimous, Caraweelo has not been the same.

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Ladan

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Sagal

Sweety its good to have you back! Welcome back.
I was worried that we have lost of one our long term member. But, I assume you have been quite bussy (would I dare ask you with what).

I am confused, why are some people still using the other page #3? Just wondering.

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Observer

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Ladan, someone started this page, when the gar-ma-qaadato anonymous creature was obessively posting confused and self-contradicting nonsense on #3

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Anonymous

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dhilooyinkii western iska dhiga ahaa ayaa isku yeeranooyo, war ragii ka shaqeyn jirey aawey ee aamusiin jirey, war ragii la raadi..........

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sagal

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i am still lost if this place aint the same place , cos i cant find the damn page!!.....

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Wabs

Friday, July 21, 2000 - 12:33 pm
Villagers, villagers, villagers! Can you hear me!

Mogadishu, we have a problem! It seems that our Mars colony has been distroyed and its inhabitants captured by some alliens!

Is anybody out there!


Wabs

Pathfinder cook!

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