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DON'T EVER TELL HER THAT U LOVE HER

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Mar. 2000 - August 2000): DON'T EVER TELL HER THAT U LOVE HER
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YAXYE

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SALAAMU CALAYKUM

There is thiz girl that we are seeing each other about a year now, one day i told her that i love her. I actully do love her. After i told her that i love her she started distacing her away from me. I was wondering why and i didn't ask her yet. Let me know what ya thing.

II LEEN LOOMA SHEEGTO DUMAR CAASHAAQAGA

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Simba

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When you told her that you love her did she say I LOVE YOU TOO or not?

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YAXYE

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To Simba

She's not the way she was bro sometimes she don't even return my phone calls . She use say she loves me but not lately.


Thanx ya

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Simba

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If I were you YAXYE I would ask her what is goin on. It might be something else other than the fact that you told her that you love her. Most girls like it when you tell them you love her.

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MAD MAC

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I concur with Simba. Saahib just ask her direct. Don't beat around the bush. Ask her why and ask her if it's because you told her you love her - she might need the lead in. Although there's not much to go on here, based on your limited desription it sounds like she enjoyed your friendship and company but does not have romantic feelings for you.

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Anonymous

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Make the first move before you get played.
Get out of it. She wants to pull the strings on you and manipulate you like a "puppet".

..And YES..never tell her you love her

FriendlyAdvisor

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ReaLdeaL

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Do you guys go to the same daycare ?

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Mariah

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Ok yaxye. Did it crossed your mind that you maybe scared her. By moving on too fast with the "L" word....

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Muriidi

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Realdeal,

lolololol, waa iga qoslisay, same daycare, huh? maybe they are Kindergarten drop-outs.

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Fiqi-Fiqi

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To Yaxye.

Lemme tell you something that u might convince your love to her.

Take her to the movie and watch a "Horror" movie and when she gets scary then give her a big hugg and tell her u are always there for her.
she will cry,ihihihihi, and then touch her legs and kiss her lips,and then u have to do what a man is ough to do.
fiqi-fiqi

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T-GIRL

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YAXYE....

There U go man.....U put your foot right in your mouth bro.....Why do people GENERALISE? Ukhhhhhkkkhhhkqqqq

Not all WOMEN R like that man...some of us actually appreciate lovely gestures. CAPISHE
About DUMARKA...Chaaaaa

PEACE
TROUBLE

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Qubqac

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Yaxye""

U manipulate somalian girls and use them as an experimental object.

Don't ever say to them I L"" U, cuz they are simply sensetive to it and tigers some allergy reactions.


Cheers"""""""""

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NoHeart

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Yaxye,
Hey I think you should back of from her. try not to call her for a week. Then see what she does, if she wants you she will call if not move on there is pelenty of fish in the sea. You lost controll of the ball when you said I love try to get it back.

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Yaxye

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To all ya

I'll like to say thanx for ur advise allthoe some
ot ya were playing hatting but aint
mad at chat.

About me and my girl since that day we had
less comminication.

I made decision to move with my life. I also
wish the same for her.

Thanx ya i apporiated

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Yaxye

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To all ya

I'll like to say thanx for ur advise allthoe some
ot ya were playing hatting but aint mad at cha.

About me and my girl since that day we had
less comminication.

I made decision to move with my life. I also
wish the same for her.

Thanx ya i apporiated

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Anonymous

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waryaa wax ma kuu sheegaa , haddii waan ku jeclahay lagugu nacayo awlba laguma jeclyn ee waa lagu maaweelinayay jaalle.har iyo habeenba waan jeclahay xaaskayga, inay intaa igu nacdadan suurto galma , laakiin haddii ay iga xiiso dhacdo, haddii aan expectationkeedii ka hoos maro way inaci doontaa.

friedly advise though, haddii aaad ogtahay inay ogtahay inaad rumey rumey u jeceshahay and she doesn;t respond ha isku dyin inaad qanciso that is when u cadaab urself and make her run away from farther and farther.

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T-GIRL

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Sure tell her U hate her,,,that ought to do it.. She'll fall staright in your arms.....Nutter

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Anonymous

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The problem is that your guys take this I love you thing too much easier then it really is. The happenes to me onces, I was going out with this guy for about 3months when say"I love you" and I knew he didn't meant me. That the problem you males don't really mean what your said..I wonder why? about it genetices...maybe is part of you to lie to the sista. I personal believe that it take at least 9months to know how you really feel about a person...not 3 weeks or 3 months...;therefore, said something you really mean. Have respect for the sis..after your mother...granmother....sister were or are womens.

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Anonymous

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The problem is that your guys take this I love you thing too much easier then it really is. The happenes to me onces, I was going out with this guy for about 3months when say he"I love you" and I knew he didn't meant me. That the problem you males don't really mean what your said..I wonder why? about it genetices...maybe is part of you to lie to the sista. I personal believe that it take at least 9months to know how you really feel about a person...not 3 weeks or 3 months...;therefore, said something you really mean. Have respect for the sis..after your mother...granmother....sister were or are womens.

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Anonymous

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The problem is that your guys take this I love you thing too much easier then it really is. The happenes to me onces, I was going out with this guy for about 3months when say he"I love you" and I knew he didn't meant me. That the problem you males don't really mean what your said..I wonder why? maybe is genetices...maybe is part of you to lie to the sista. I personal believe that it take at least 9months to know how you really feel about a person...not 3 weeks or 3 months...;therefore, said something you really mean. Have respect for the sis..after your mother...granmother....sister were or are womens.

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Anonymous

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The problem is that your guys take this I love you thing too much easier then it really is. The happenes to me onces, I was going out with this guy for about 3months when say he"I love you" and I knew he didn't meant me. That the problem you males don't really mean what your said..I wonder why? maybe is genetices...maybe is part of you to lie to the sista. I personal believe that it take at least 9months to know how you really feel about a person...not 3 weeks or 3 months...;therefore, said something you really mean. Have respect for the sis..after your mother...granmother....sister were or are womens.

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Troubled..mind

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